| receive. If you are the person incapable of loving and receiving, you, who are on this path | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| self-deception, and from this observation your capacity for loving and living grows automatically. Find the unifying forces | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| development. So you try to be good and loving by controlling your thoughts, and by directing your | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| what prevents you from being a good and loving person and what stands between you and a | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| They then asked if God is omniscient and loving, then He also knows the future. If He | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| blessed in God! 107. THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING Greetings, my dearest, dearest friends. God bless you | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| the people who take advantage of such warm, loving feelings? If I do not guard myself and | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| understanding, because they constitute an inner no to loving. As you will see, this inner no is | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| a deep-seated guilt for this deliberate prohibition to loving, and another is a subsequent lack of self-confidence | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| of self-confidence and self-respect. To atone for not loving, one often does much more for others than | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| you now do compulsively as a substitute for loving, lack of self-respect -- create confusion and make | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| to be -- in your actions, while still loving and feeling? Is it not much better and | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| less selfish than doing everything possible, but without loving? It is much easier to assert your rights | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| say no outwardly, because the inner no to loving and feeling has been removed. All this does | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| and liberating results. If there are no warm, loving feelings to begin with, just see what feelings | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| are bound to come out eventually. For these loving feelings are already in you. They do not | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| much more if you were a kind and loving person who does not deny and betray the | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| it takes much more courage to be their loving selves than their self-assertive, strong selves. But let | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| The third aspect of the inner no against loving may at first sound paradoxical. People who have | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| reasons for it, such as their lack of loving which is often disguised by an over-eagerness to | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| for prohibiting their real feelings for affection and loving. This may be so hidden that, offhand, they | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| be in God! 108. FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS Greetings, my dearest friends. God bless | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| The psyche says, Give up your defenses against loving. Do not hold yourself apart! Do not be | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| life. Make up for it, change, become a loving person. The conscious mind does not translate this | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| connects with your deep- rooted guilt for not loving, for disturbing the outgoing cosmic flow. The work | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| begin. Until you find this particular prohibition toward loving as it exists specifically within yourself, your seeking | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| intellectually, but actually -- your selfish withdrawal from loving, regardless of how well you keep it concealed | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| out to uncover your hidden guilt for not loving. I repeat this, because it is constantly forgotten | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| different times, can in one instance be a loving act -- and a liberating experience for all | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| can be a petty and degrading one. The loving deed comes from true concern for another, or | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| discovered that the motives are selfish and not loving. Your motives may be desire for approval and | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| approval and admiration or love, but not for loving. These, of course, are selfish motives. While you | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| disturb the universal forces by prohibiting yourself from loving. As you recognize this, you will let go | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| imagined shame and vulnerability, for the sake of loving. You will be led by concern for others | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| you do not say yes to life in loving and relating, as well as in obligations, you | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| parts of it -- the guilt for not loving and the problem of obligations -- have a | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| much perfectionism is a substitute for withdrawing from loving in one form or another. The greater your | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| or another. The greater your soul's readiness for loving -- or to put it differently, the greater | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| of God? ANSWER: If you wish something purely loving and unselfish, it is the will of God | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| self-facing, or you may overcome the risk of loving and giving of yourself. This lack of a | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| comes to them by their own capacity for loving and relating. They never feel insecure and helpless | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| Beware of this temptation. The warm, positive, generous, loving, unselfish feelings must follow eventually, and the negative | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| less destructive defenses. Therefore you can be more loving. This, in turn, will create good relationships, which | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| degree insecurity permeates the soul, complete capacity for loving is absent. Let us now connect inner security | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| the scale of love- capacity. The basis of loving is healthy self-love. We have discussed this extensively | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| love does not dare go any further than loving inanimate objects. That is their sole outlet. Objects | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| certainly more outgoing than the isolating pursuit of loving mere objects. Next on the scale is love | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| an avowed non-believer is in fact closer to loving God than a professed believer. The former may | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| determination, how can you purify your capacity of loving, if you do not go through and face | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| accept reality, you are surely more capable of loving. And if, through your inner growth, through facing | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| of closing the door to reality and to loving. That they are interdependent is evident for they | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| through this material. Let me leave you with loving, warm blessings for each of you in your | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| to the still existing fear of living and loving. Hence the sharp cleavage between life and death | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| equal measure. And so does the fear of loving, of letting go of yourself in this great | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| may deny the existence of the fears of loving and of self-surrender because you are acutely aware | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| afraid of than simply allowing themselves to love. Loving seems such a risk, so dangerous, so threatening | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| causes all the other ills. The prohibition against loving comes from two basic misunderstandings. The first is | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| with reality that you could be afraid of loving. The second misunderstanding is the underestimation of the | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| and misinterpretation of reality create the barriers to loving and its apparent danger. These two tendencies make | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| so timid and so reticent. Being overcautious about loving increases one's withdrawal and isolation. Many an individual | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| truly discovered that which is genuinely good and loving within you. But you dare not acknowledge the | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| real self, the live center where a spontaneous, loving intelligence and fulfillment without conflict awaits you. To | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| you reach for it in the spirit of loving the truth of encountering yourself as you are | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| and effective way. You will be nearer to loving because reality and loving are much more interconnected | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| will be nearer to loving because reality and loving are much more interconnected than self-righteous trying and | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| are much more interconnected than self-righteous trying and loving are. Now, are there any questions in connection | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| fear. Before coming to the level of not loving, other factors have to be recognized. In the | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| In the final analysis, it amounts to not loving, but it is not an overall condition; it | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| to that degree there must be fear of loving. Behind both fears is confusion, misconception, illusion. It | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| being which knows no conflict. That truth combines loving with receiving one's full share of happiness, instead | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| The psyche says, I stop myself from warm, loving feelings to protect myself. In spite of the | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| again in an either/or situation. You are not loving and you do not let go. You envisage | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| the pull toward the light, toward wholeness, toward loving, inclusion and constructiveness, toward beauty and unfoldment. Your | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| uncover where you are not as decent and loving as you thought. Then use your power further | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| nature; it is impossible to be fearless about loving; and it is impossible to establish a healthy | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| at one point or another that fear of loving underlies most human predicaments and conflicts. This may | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| well will reveal how false the fear of loving is, and how safe, secure, and beneficial it | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| from the real self, so it is with loving. For love is not a quality that resides | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| my friends, that you connect your fear of loving with your negative concept of life on the | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| one hand, and the freedom from fear of loving with a positive, benign concept and expectation of | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| You then proceed to force yourself into a loving state, not only because you have learned that | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| loved anything or anyone; my only way of loving is neurotic. Listening to your lecture, I am | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| the reality is less stimulating, less conducive to loving feelings than the fantasy. Recognize that you feel | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| fear, pride, and selfwill block off this direction, loving is impossible and outgoingness inverts. The tendency to | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| seems shameful to display one's best, one's most loving and generous impulses; it seems much easier and | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| shame primarily about good qualities, about giving and loving. Such people believe they give into society's demands | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| not apply only to their actual goodness and loving generosity, but also to all other real feelings | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| in one form or another, the importance of loving -- that is, of giving love, mercy, understanding | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| forms that to love means to impoverish oneself. Loving acquires the connotation of self-sacrificing deprivation. If one | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| self-sacrificing deprivation. If one does not suffer through loving and for the love of another by shortchanging | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| love is exactly this. No wonder people fear loving; it is represented as a pleasureless, sacrificial, and | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| of mother in the whole world, for not loving you, as it seemed to the little child | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you do not deserve pleasure. The delight of loving, the delight that life is in its very | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| stream of energy is followed. It leads to loving, giving and receiving, uniting, opening up to the | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| ego is healthy only when its attitudes are loving, generous, open, trusting, as well as realistic and | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| more hypocritical. They deluded themselves that they were loving while underneath they often were not. They covered | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| of others consumes the energy you need for loving and wanting love, as well as for looking | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| only as a principle, with actually feeling and loving. This is the general trend or stage in | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| by self-search. When you become capable of truly loving, these principles will be perfectly expressed in you | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| your willful ego-self, and thus become capable of loving. Whatever you do then in this spirit will | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| appear as self-impoverishment -- on the contrary. The loving man will activate a sublime power in him | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| fulfillment as a woman. The surrender of the loving woman heightens the mastery of self-activation in her | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| and hostility, to an open, trustful, truthful, and loving state, the energy centers open up. The opening | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| has nothing to do with a free and loving act of wanting to help. Another example might | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| does a person claim to be good-natured and loving by constantly giving in, when he or she | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| genuine, is a spontaneous expression of a warm, loving personality who wants to connect with others and | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| have to deprive yourself to be a decent, loving human being. Is it not natural that such | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| desire. Be in peace, be what you are, loving yourself as you are, no matter how fallible | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| of how mean you may now be; for loving, regardless of how selfish you now may be | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| personal pathwork, a very specific misconception that makes loving impossible as long as you harbor it. Since | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| impossible as long as you harbor it. Since loving is equated with the terrible danger of being | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| love and pleasure are interchangeable. True pleasure is loving, and without loving pleasure just does not exist | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| are interchangeable. True pleasure is loving, and without loving pleasure just does not exist. This is not | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| love, you must fear bliss, since bliss and loving are the same thing. The misconception that giving | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| harbor forever. It is a temporary block to loving, based on some false premises, which exist on | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| the whip of loading guilt upon each other. Loving, sharing, and profound and satisfying closeness to others | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| your willingness to be totally honest, totally constructive, loving, and open. If you find an unwillingness in | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| and unwilling to risk pain and scared of loving, then detachment is a distortion of the real | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| purified, good. It also prevents most individuals from loving and respecting themselves because they have no real | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| takes place when a positive, open, committed, honest, loving, giving attitude exists. When the good feelings and | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| personality refrains from active deeds. Holding back from loving and giving is also an action. Every so | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| the underlying seething hatred prevents positive deeds of loving and giving; it prevents one from contributing to | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| free levels where you are in truth and loving -- where you give of yourself and yet | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| acceptance of your hate will make you more loving, the acceptance of your weakness will make you | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| to require giving up all hope for a loving partner. Exactly the opposite is true. Only as | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| and open the wells of your giving and loving feelings, will fulfillment become an inevitable reality. Conversely | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| as yet unmanifest, deeper, broader, wiser and more loving divine self, then your divine self will be | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| You may consciously claim that you are a loving person and indeed believe in love. But if | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| have your reasons, or rather misconceptions, for not loving. Hence, unconscious misconceptions can only be unearthed by | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| state. You can experience yourself in meditation as loving, as opposed to resentful; fulfilled, as opposed to | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| else ever could, in what a safe, just, loving universe we all live. Cause and effect relationships | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| into its original state of pure energy and loving, truthful consciousness. Many lifetimes are required to accomplish | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| by expressing openly your hate, you become genuinely loving. From this forever greater blessings must and will | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| evil. Thought is pure and truthful; feelings are loving and blissful; the direction or intentionality of the | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| and defend against either the painful or the loving feelings which are the giving and the receiving | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| not hook others into your guilt for not loving. You will be alone, of course, but you | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| the other person to being open, vulnerable, and loving. The frightened part of the self, which is | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| that it is so, you hold back from loving. You cannot be strong and courageous, you cannot | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| be willing to love. You do not start loving simply because you so choose. You have to | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| innermost nucleus to give you the grace of loving. The grace of God may manifest through you | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| as a pretense, it is much, much less loving and much more deceptive and harmful than when | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| admit your hate. Admitting your hate is more loving than an apparently loving act that denies the | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| your hate is more loving than an apparently loving act that denies the hate. Think of this | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| yourself be deceived by where you are already loving. Ask yourself how fulfilled you feel in it | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| in life? That is your answer to how loving and how truthful you are. And then maybe | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| To the degree you do so, you start loving. You have started on the bottom rung of | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| the transition into a new, more truthful, more loving state will be. Now commit yourself to go | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| are angry and spiteful because there is no loving authority present who will eliminate these undesirable experiences | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| false and limited. Likewise, whether the feelings are loving or hateful, angry or benign, fearful or peaceful | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| you do not want a new and more loving state of being, you will have no motivation | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| fuse and thus you can have no pleasure. Loving, and therefore the ability to give and receive | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| you long to receive, every single aspect of loving, is richly flowing out of you. These aspects | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| doing so under the guise of a so-called loving goodness and taking it in silence is sentimental | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| bad, as an excuse and explanation for not loving. The physical-sexual level may say, I want to | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| reaching. The feminine principle in distortion turns from loving receptivity and nurturing to grasping, grabbing, stealing, holding | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| a simple object, or the unifying of two loving mates. This point of fusion which you may | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| being your best, your greatest, most wise, generous, loving, creative, self-assertive, unfolding, aware, courageous, humble self, with | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| the positive, as well as the negative. Your loving thoughts to the universe, your surrender to the | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| will transform into the most beautiful, wise, strong, loving force. It is in hiding that the worst | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| at least attempts to do so. The free, loving attitude characteristic of an open energy system says | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| would be happy to have your love. But, loving you, I shall give you the freedom to | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| to you, recreating more strongly your capacity for loving, in an ever-increasing cycle. This is why it | 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS |
| at work at all times, in its benign, loving wisdom and power of creation. Understanding these principles | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| can perhaps also have the faith that the loving God in you wants you to be happy | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| know that. 220. REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA Greetings. Loving blessings are pouring forth for every one of | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| and unloving into that which is truthful and loving. As you make truth and love the center | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| right to pursue and that does not exclude loving and being generous, then your resistance will wane | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| simple parts of my life -- sleeping, eating, loving, all kinds of things. I'd like some help | 228 BALANCE |
| flowing feelings unless she herself produces them through loving and through integrity, through opening her heart to | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| and through integrity, through opening her heart to loving and her mind to her own inner truth | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| own inner truth. The new woman knows that loving a man and surrendering to her feelings for | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| creative, contributing member of society, and being a loving mate. In fact, real love is not possible | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| her less of a woman, less feelingful, less loving, less equipped to be a giving mate, has | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| the new universe, complementing and aiding one another, loving one another, respecting one another and creating bliss | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| yet it is the highest, most potently beautiful, loving, and wise force. This shows again that the | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| Appearance values, no matter how strong and apparently loving or creative the effort and goal may be | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| in me that would justify my appreciating and loving myself, that deserves esteem and fulfillment? Such questions | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| clear-cut strong creative movement of the word, will loving and being loved become a oneness, and not | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| the total creative movement in a state of loving comprehension, welcoming what unfolds, going with it, aiding | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| I am always here, close to you and loving everyone of you dearly and deeply, as we | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| those in truth can bring truth; only the loving and loved ones can give love. Let yourself | 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION |
| is also important to realize that without a loving heart sexuality becomes shallow, unfulfilling, empty, and it | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| is impossible without the will moving toward a loving state. If you do not wish to love | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| of consciousness, whether it is already enlightened and loving or still unenlightened, defensive, hating, and fearful. So | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| now come to the very important aspect of loving yourself. Self-love and love for others are intricately | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| where you still live in the pseudo-solution of loving yourself by indulging yourself, by blaming others, by | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| of this discovery but because of it -- loving and honoring yourself the more. The tragedy of | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| of your manifestation; every organ that you neglect loving; every attitude, no matter how distorted. Once you | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| friends, structure and boundaries are part of the loving creation. In one form or another they exist | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| Structure and law can be found in every loving aspect of Creation. Look at the life of | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| yourself and to be free. For freedom and loving are inseparable. You cannot be free without loving | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| loving are inseparable. You cannot be free without loving, and you cannot love without being free. So | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| to distinguish between the two kinds of boundaries: loving, meaningful ones - - whether they are cosmic | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| submission. It will make you stronger, freer, more loving to yourself and others and open to the | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| consciousness align itself with the divine will of loving yourself without indulging yourself, without whitewashing your lower | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| whitewashing your lower self, seeing it straight, and loving your beautiful structure, your incarnation, all that is | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| In many ways you may also be a loving and giving person, but if the part of | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| hand. He is there, always with you, always loving you. But you cannot always sense it, your | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| of being, of reacting, of feeling. For example, loving no longer appears weakening and humiliating. On the | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| with all its creative possibilities, from God, from loving, and from being able to receive and accept | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| nor can you hear His guidance, advice and loving inspiration. Thus you cannot summon up the courage | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| secondary guilt. Instead of admitting the fear of loving an equal, the man had to put down | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| down the woman. Instead of admitting fear of loving an equal and experiencing the pleasure of sexuality | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| appears to be a victim. This living, healthy, loving pain is also the threshold to joy and | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| ask you to risk following a teacher or loving a mate. This never means closing your eyes | 254 SURRENDER |
| yourself and discover your values; your capacity for loving and finding the fulfillment you yearn for; your | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| be close to you in a very personal, loving way. For most believers God is a much | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| experienced the emotional reality of Christ's sweet and loving presence. You may wait for this to happen | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| aware of this fact. You will feel His loving, healing arms in which you can always rest | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |