| Loveless....................13 | |
| Consequently, sex in fact often is selfish and loveless, raw and animalistic. If people would realize -- | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| depends on whether it is egocentric, separated and loveless because of emotional immaturity or whether it finds | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| pseudo-solutions and the idealized self are selfish and loveless in their very nature, and as such are | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| where one wishes to feel, that one is loveless as yet where one might wish to love | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| pretends the act is good. It is always loveless and defeats growth. When you are anchored not | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| in the soul: suffering, blindness and hopelessness produce loveless feelings, selfishness, and often the most violent and | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| Therefore, the sexuality produces real guilt, as any loveless action must do, as well as false guilt | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| hostility, which compounds the justified guilt feelings. The loveless, hostile sex makes the taboo against it seem | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| can true pleasure ever be realized in a loveless state? Love is not a command that is | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| in love. But if you suffer from a loveless life, it testifies clearly that somewhere inside of | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| that you pay a heavy price for a loveless existence, but you let it go at that | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| such a reality is misused in a separative, loveless, judgmental spirit, the truth becomes a dangerous half- | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| denying others their own Godself -- in short, loveless -- if you did not wish to set | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| Lovelessness................7 | |
| already attained this state. After truthful acknowledgement of lovelessness and the desire to love, the next step | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| For example, a person suffers from loneliness and lovelessness. It may have taken considerable effort to uncover | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| result of pride, selfwill, fear, vanity, greed, separateness, lovelessness, one-upmanship. In this way, you will find it | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| you are the one who wants isolation, loneliness, lovelessness, hate, and spite, instead of blaming some fate | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| your own failings, for your own negative intentions, lovelessness, untruthfulness, spite, and unfair demands. If you are | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| does it reveal your selfishness, your cruelty, your lovelessness, your greed? Deal with this, my friends. The | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| Obviously this distortion is destructive. It implies selfishness, lovelessness, ruthless disregard for others to the point of | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| Loves.......................34 | |
| as a matter of course that one indeed loves some fellow human beings more than others -- | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| within yourself. So it is with God, Who loves His innumerable children, Who always loves more, never | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| God, Who loves His innumerable children, Who always loves more, never less. How can genuine, healthy love | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| none of you should ever feel alone. God loves each one of you dearly. The love of | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| enough if I am a decent person? God loves us all and if I just try to | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| because God is here and everywhere. And He loves each one of you very much. Go in | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| without defending them. He must defend those he loves and evil has to be fought against. In | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| he never sees the faults in those he loves. This is another of the masks people so | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| you. Then think how very much God also loves this particular person, just as much as He | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| this particular person, just as much as He loves you. Even if the other person happens to | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| feels excluded and rejected if the parent also loves others, however. In short, the exclusive love the | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| hatred and hostility toward the very people one loves most. Generally speaking, this is the second conflict | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| that hatred exists for the very person one loves dearly creates an important conflict in the human | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| deserve it. The guilt of hating those it loves most, convinces the child that it is undeserving | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| the wrong conclusion that if a dear one loves someone else, he or she necessarily loves you | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| one loves someone else, he or she necessarily loves you that much less. All this is immature | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| the opposite. In other words, if a boy loves his mother very much, and despises and fears | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| But if you are deeply convinced that someone loves you with all their heart and kindness, manifesting | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| command. You will respect only the person who loves you freely. However, you can have the chance | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| a conclusion about character in a person who loves animals and nature and a person who does | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| very misleading. The assumption that the person who loves animals and nature is a better person than | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| this way, he is twisted and distorted, and loves the rejection rather than the love. The mere | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| love, is it possible that perhaps the husband loves more at first, and then the wife, and | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| growing between two people, without questions like who loves most. It is a deep personal giving, a | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| sick. Now this fear is that those he loves, all his loved ones, are hostile toward each | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| are hostile toward each other. And if he loves one, the other withdraws. He is constantly torn | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| as of a hurt. PARTICIPANT: If a girl loves her father very much she may ask for | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| death for himself, but just for people he loves. In other words, can the fear of death | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| the less he can love. The less he loves, the less real masculinity he has, and consequently | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| you and withholding from you the person who loves you and whom you can love, you are | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| person feel guilty. If that person partially truly loves you, but partially neurotically needs you or wants | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| is comparable to the knowledge that the Lord loves you personally, cares for you, never forgets you | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| ever losing sight of the fact that God loves me and I am God's unique expression. These | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| despair. Christ is here. He hears you, He loves you, He protects you, He is deeply concerned | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| Loving......................321 | |
| not know how to open themselves up to loving in the true sense of the word; they | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| often think that they are very capable of loving -- and that may even be true -- | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| strength, or the happiness and security of a loving relationship; it is different with each one of | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| be indifferent or whom you even dislike. This loving connection will, in ever growing expansion, include more | 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES |
| it, for God's will is always wise and loving and leads to happiness, even though the transition | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| there is a wonderful and direct road to loving, in addition to the indirect one just mentioned | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| are perfect will you be truly capable of loving your fellow creatures. But your lower self wants | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| fear. They will be able to be understanding, loving, and humble enough not to have to prove | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| for yourself. That is what is meant by loving your brother as you love yourself. As long | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| doing it. Consider whether or not you are loving the wrong way. Now I wish to speak | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| that noticing the faults would mean to stop loving the other. This, of course, is nothing less | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| want to become better, more whole, purer, more loving, so as to do more good wherever you | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| far away and intangible: I risk nothing by loving Him. From human beings I experience only disappointment | 35 TURNING TO GOD |
| you. No, my friends, that is not true loving. True love can see reality. If you are | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| saw the truth, you could not go on loving. Pride, and your present inability to truly love | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| rest of your personality and integrate with warm, loving, giving, unselfish feelings. Instead, it has remained childish | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| instead of feeling guilty about your fear of loving, which is born of selfishness and separateness. Combine | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| different, desire to give up your fear of loving. This attitude is healthy and constructive. The hurt | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| should. For in this way you will become loving men and women. Be in peace. Be blessed | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| imperfection, most parents are still fully capable of loving more than one person. The child feels excluded | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| desires its ultimate goal for the purpose of loving better; it knows that the perfection of divine | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| are one with yourself you will be completely loving. Until such time, you should recognize where you | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| a true concept of God -- forgiving, good, loving, indulgent. This causes the personality to unconsciously think | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| the laws of God are infinitely good, wise, loving and safe! God's laws do not make a | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| find that you should not love yourself. Not loving yourself would mean that you do not honor | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| not honor the divine manifestation you represent. Not loving yourself brings self-punishment, masochism, denial of your personality | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| brings self-punishment, masochism, denial of your personality. Not loving yourself prohibits your proper functioning. It prohibits your | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| what way self-hate keeps one from accepting and loving? ANSWER: I did not use the word self-hate | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| entail a risk: the risk of living and loving. To the measure that this risk is avoided | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| allowed me to be happy my way, by loving and approving of me completely and doing what | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| without wishing to invest in the risk of loving on his or her part, such a person | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| hand, your true self yearns to be good, loving and unselfish but, then, it seems to you | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| hidden motives and emotions, other than the obvious, loving ones. If these are not recognized, the prayer | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| deep inner conviction that the universe is good, loving, benign, friendly. There cannot be death, hate cannot | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| or is the universe as benign and as loving as metaphysics, religion and some philosophies teach? This | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the guilt of selfishness and self-centeredness which makes loving an unprofitable, disadvantageous adventure. There is, on the | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| is, on the other hand, the shame of loving. This conflict in itself tears apart the human | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| of it. Thus you feel guilty for not loving and ashamed to love. Consider also that the | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| to hide. The realization that your fear of loving is often based less on your fear of | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| demonstration of your true self with all its loving generosity, as well as prayer -- stand for | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| the superior one, always the winner, while the loving parent is subdued, apparently weaker and under the | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| witnesses the apparent or actual rejection of the loving parent. The child then gains the impression that | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| The child then gains the impression that the loving parent is weak, while the rejecter is strong | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| wrong that the rejecter is strong, while the loving parent is weak. It may be the very | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| guilt. For most of you, the betrayal of loving is your main guilt which you keep locked | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| with all the sympathy and vulnerability of your loving heart. There are many people who may say | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| it as a substitute for the real? The loving, giving, outgoing personality you may be at times | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| Why? As I just explained, the shame of loving and giving causes you to hide your true | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| leads you to reconsider the first impression that loving is shameful. In the first place, this conclusion | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| conclusions, nothing will any longer prevent you from loving and being free. You then remove the part | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| strongly to the adverse result of people not loving you, whereas you could be loved if you | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| in a way that will result in their loving you. In learning how to love, the first | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and discriminate. For those who are unafraid of loving and receiving love in a mature fashion, you | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| being loved without taking the apparent risk of loving. The more you are afraid to love, the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| which is largely responsible for your fear of loving, is the idea, perhaps unconscious, that true love | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| them was unreal. The more your fear of loving produces the urgent desire to be loved, approved | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| inner reality, ready to meet life, unafraid of loving, unafraid of giving up the strong self-will current | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| and particularly. Find out how your fear of loving makes you withdraw and how guilty you feel | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| peace, be in God! 72. THE FEAR OF LOVING Greetings, my dearest friends. I bring you blessings | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| clarify in what way you fall short of loving wherever your conflicts and misconceptions exist. As you | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| and you do not know why you resist loving. Without this particular knowledge, the great eternal truth | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| digging and exploring, come across a fear of loving. Those of you who really work constructively have | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| fully understand why you are so afraid of loving. Yes, you do find some answers, but most | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| selfishness. This is why you are afraid of loving. Since the child in you desires complete surrender | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| expect the same in return. This way of loving bears no danger. In it, you remain free | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| others should love you, you will not fear loving others. In the gradual process of growth and | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| additional factor causing you to refrain from wholly loving. For how can you love as exclusively as | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| As you learn to trust yourself and others, loving will cease to be a danger for you | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| the other person. Therefore, you shy away from loving all the more, although there seems no danger | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| at hand, you need have no fear of loving. The courage to accept that which may be | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| acceptance of reality, loss of your fear of loving, and the cultivation of your intuition as a | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| and emotions will you lose your fear of loving. This sentence alone, out of context, would not | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| will become very clear. When you think of loving, you can think of only one kind, the | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| Our last discussion was about the fear of loving. The subject of love was presented at great | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| in childhood. This will make them incapable of loving maturely. You can see how this condition continues | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| will suffer from the shortcomings of even a loving parent. More often, however, both parents are emotionally | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| really faithful to you? Genuine, mature love is loving without asking. Is it mature to go on | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| without asking. Is it mature to go on loving someone who is in love also with someone | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| hold back your creative forces from giving and loving. You will not substitute the genuine you with | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| how many dear ones may be around you, loving and sharing with you, you experience your life | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| love, nor will you need to guard against loving. This pseudo- protection causes you to withdraw into | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| it right to want to be always decent, loving, understanding, never angry, and to have no faults | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| in order to finally possess a strong and loving protector, they are proud of their capacity to | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| Thereby they hope to force others to feel loving and protecting toward them. There are many, many | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| this case dictates that one must not love. Loving, or at times showing one's true nature, is | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| shame. Conversely, the submissive type is proud of loving everybody and of considering all other human beings | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| be combined, that he or she is both loving and strong. And this would be true if | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| not understand; one should not be kind and loving, etc. Such rules can develop to the point | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| feel inferior and will certainly not respond by loving those who have belittled them, regardless of how | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| loved. Because their self-effacement takes the place of loving others, the barter does not work. This is | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| all know to be right, good, true, and loving. However, since feelings cannot be controlled by an | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| rebellion against what is truly good, wise, and loving in religion will cease because religion will lose | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| From that moment onward, you withdrew from living, loving, and experiencing -- from everything that makes life | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| of numbness and thereby prohibit yourself from truly loving others. Yes, you may need others and this | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| understand why they occasionally feel hate, while also loving. The reason for such occasional hate is always | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| anyway, a little investigation would prove that the loving person does not love him for the traits | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| of judging and despising others, rather than understanding, loving, and helping. Although sickness and sin are the | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| laws of the universe. You are capable of loving and relating, and experiencing joy. You are truly | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| loved, and yet the heart is devoid of loving. For the greater the need, the more it | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| psychological problems, you cannot become fully capable of loving. Let us now approach your love capacity from | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| freedom and independence. You are also kept from loving, from finding your true strength. Oh, you may | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| setting you free, and unclogging the channel to loving. You often resist revising your images of your | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| individual is open to life, to living, to loving. QUESTION: Could you comment on the Lord's Prayer | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| of fire are: the fire of life, living, loving, enthusiasm, healthy activity, spiritual endeavor, courage, conviction one | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| your pseudo-solution is a withdrawal from feeling, from loving, and from living, it is a defense against | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| your demand to possess a strong and ever loving protector, you must be disappointed, perhaps unconsciously so | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| which makes it incapable of relating, communicating, and loving. In the broadest terms, sin is lack of | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| represents the pseudo-solution of withdrawal from living and loving. Where there is apathy, there is rejection of | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| out of a need to cling to a loving authority, but it cannot be true faith unless | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| your main concern has been your lack of loving, because this is often responsible for the failure | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| as insensitive, as egocentric, and as greedy as loving too little. You do not understand this as | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| withdraw either from that particular person, or from loving again. You find yourself in this destructive imbalance | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| receive. If you are the person incapable of loving and receiving, you, who are on this path | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| self-deception, and from this observation your capacity for loving and living grows automatically. Find the unifying forces | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| development. So you try to be good and loving by controlling your thoughts, and by directing your | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |