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| its vanity and pride. Then the feeling of unfulfillment, of vague yearning, will disappear, since you are | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| in your intellect that the sadness of your unfulfillment exists, but you will also feel it -- | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| the strong link between the child's longing and unfulfillment and the adult's present difficulties and problems, because | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| absorbed by the child, will cause hurt and unfulfillment. In children of the strict parents, the resentment | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| you learn to look at your problems and unfulfillment from this point of view and follow the | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| unfulfillments now and also the pain of the unfulfillment of your childhood, then compare the two until | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| condition exists, you are bound to have difficulties, unfulfillment and frustration. The difficulties may either be outer | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| and lack of motivation is directly responsible for unfulfillment or lack of success, if you want to | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| seeing the degree of frustration and anxiety an unfulfillment creates in us. ANSWER: Yes, that is right | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| that much of this longing comes from your unfulfillment as a child, now manifesting as exaggerated craving | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| it is you who caused this state of unfulfillment, and it is you who can still change | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| to take frustration with the mature attitude that unfulfillment is not an abyss. Only with this attitude | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| then find why and how you caused this unfulfillment. This is a slow process. If you approach | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| and you know nothing else, emotionally. Second, an unfulfillment points to your imperfection, to your vulnerability as | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| repress your real needs, the awareness of your unfulfillment, and the constructive search derived from it. Therefore | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| and the constructive search derived from it. Therefore unfulfillment increases, regenerates itself, and becomes more stringent. Let | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| am imperfect, I have to experience imperfect situations, unfulfillment and frustration. Therefore, I must become perfect in | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| one main image which causes the most important unfulfillment in your life. Because of it you go | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| either the longing and the pain of the unfulfillment, or the erroneous image-conclusion. The unfulfilled need for | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| have not, consider your main problem, your unhappiness, unfulfillment, and then proceed to find it. It will | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| recognize that this defensive wall brings the very unfulfillment you wanted to avoid through the erroneous image | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| is the strongest cause of self-contempt, guilt, weakness, unfulfillment, and many outer frictions and difficulties which are | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| experiences frustration as much more painful than the unfulfillment of the wish or goal itself. In other | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| are acutely aware of the needs and the unfulfillment, while before you were befogged and hazy, experiencing | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| before you were befogged and hazy, experiencing the unfulfillment in an indirect way. The stringent awareness of | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| in an indirect way. The stringent awareness of unfulfillment may, in fact, have entirely different roots than | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| in fact, have entirely different roots than the unfulfillment of the real needs, for the latter will | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| possibly fulfill them and while you consciously experience unfulfillment, is bound to bring relief, harmony and peace | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| of your real needs not only because facing unfulfillment is painful, but more so because unfulfillment means | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| facing unfulfillment is painful, but more so because unfulfillment means proof of your inferiority. Once you have | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| this is your real self. Your problem of unfulfillment in itself recedes into the background in comparison | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| and longing. But as you look at the unfulfillment and bear it, not in false humility and | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| the agonies you suffered before such awareness. The unfulfillment will not weaken you. On the contrary, through | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| happen overnight. After a certain period of conscious unfulfillment of real needs -- as opposed to previous | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| real needs -- as opposed to previous unconscious unfulfillment of real needs and conscious unfulfillment of false | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| previous unconscious unfulfillment of real needs and conscious unfulfillment of false needs -- while you search and | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| old habits. In this alternation between fulfillment and unfulfillment, you have the opportunity to gain a firm | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| energy you generate by being unaware of your unfulfillment. The repression is harmful for two reasons: first | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| healthy and the unhealthy motivations contributed to the unfulfillment, or the failure. You chose the goal out | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| is bound to bring you pain, hurt, frustration, unfulfillment. You chose a way out of pain and | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| experience is much more the present pain of unfulfillment, caused by your unproductive patterns. Consciously you cannot | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| your needs and of the frustration of their unfulfillment, you will find first the stringent need to | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| similarly. It is not only the pain of unfulfillment that you cringe away from, however. You also | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| that running away from the original pain of unfulfillment increases the unfulfillment, and therefore the pain, operates | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| from the original pain of unfulfillment increases the unfulfillment, and therefore the pain, operates here, too. QUESTION | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| respond to your wishes and frustrate you. Such unfulfillment is not half as painful as the error | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| from the causes that brought about the original unfulfillment. In your ignorance, the need -- or lust | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| evolution. It would be unfair to say that unfulfillment is always due to selfishness. It may be | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| turn inward and seek the reason for your unfulfillment. However, there are many wrong ways of striving | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| to yourself? Thus you live in isolation and unfulfillment. You fear death because you let life pass | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| developing and this must be made conscious. Repeated unfulfillment hurts so much more than it needs to | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| fundamentally absolve yourself from accountability for your personal unfulfillment and trouble and refuse to look for the | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| because you actually experience the other's hurt, bewilderment, unfulfillment, belittling. And this increased awareness comes as a | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| to explore within yourself the reasons for your unfulfillment and the difficulties which cause you to strain | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| You now understand why a certain unhappiness or unfulfillment is a result of inner error and confusion | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| themselves factors which at last unquestionably explain discontent, unfulfillment, tension, frustration, and other hindrances to full living | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| the perpetual starvation you expose yourself to. Any unfulfillment, hurt, rejection or disappointment causes an infinitely deeper | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| aware of this original need and its present unfulfillment is bound to cause it to attach itself | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| true significance, the sooner can fulfillment occur. However, unfulfillment of needs does not hurt half as much | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| suffering than would the relaxed admission of an unfulfillment. Let us now consider the possibility of the | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| you find yourself disturbed because of a persistent unfulfillment, you can be sure that both currents must | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| of the fact that all your unhappiness and unfulfillment is not a remote effect of a remote | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| by these soul movements increase the fear of unfulfillment because you then believe it is the outer | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| influence it; (b) the exact cause of your unfulfillment: how you act as a consequence of your | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| the ultimate bliss that knows neither lack nor unfulfillment or frustration. Without an ego these strivings are | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| will clearly see the exact image of your unfulfillment. You will see why you keep yourself hidden | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| most certainly contained in the reasons for the unfulfillment itself. This also causes you to overlook the | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| themselves. Others may be acutely aware of their unfulfillment -- which can be any type of undesirable | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| viewpoint of their illusions. When you suffer an unfulfillment, you hesitate and often even battle against recognizing | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| as illusory as pretended fulfillment or a denied unfulfillment. Anger, hurt, suffering may all be dramatized and | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| you would not ever have to fear frustration, unfulfillment, or emptiness. Since you fear and block the | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| nature, there is nothing to fear and all unfulfillment ceases. By humility I mean that you know | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| took place, to the sense of deprivation and unfulfillment in you, made you withdraw from your feelings | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| not search within for the reason of the unfulfillment. You do not see your state as a | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| life. All sorrow and unhappiness, all emptiness and unfulfillment, all frustration and suffering are caused by being | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| present where there are unresolved problems, imbalance, distortion, unfulfillment. The struggle between the self and the self | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| afraid of the best in life, there is unfulfillment, which works out with the exactitude of a | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| pain, suffering, and frustration you have to bear. Unfulfillment is not even necessarily a matter of self-punishment | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| hopelessness, and distrust. Moreover, misconception must lead to unfulfillment and therefore frustration and disappointment -- which, in | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| of resist. But what should you accept? Deprivation, unfulfillment, sacrifice? Religion has taught this for centuries, for | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| to maintain. If you ascribe your frustrations, your unfulfillment, or your pains to society you are completely | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| with your unhappiness, with your difficulties and your unfulfillment. Could you truly feel fulfilled, with all your | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| search for the connection between your suffering, your unfulfillment, your unhappiness, and your inner refusal to give | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| the presence of trust. If you fear frustration, unfulfillment, and their consequences, the tension of your soul | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| live in a constant state of frustration and unfulfillment. Physically this creates, of course, all the blocks | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| sensibilities dulled they suffer only indirectly from the unfulfillment. This insensibility is not an advantage. It creates | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| the needs you had as a child whose unfulfillment caused most of your painful, and therefore repressed | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| fact that the most painful element is the unfulfillment of your legitimate needs as a child. As | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| contrary, the denial of the pain of its unfulfillment perpetuates the need and projects it into a | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| accrued from denying the pain of the original unfulfillment. Let yourself go into the child state, and | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| of your reaction that equates catastrophe with the unfulfillment of your demand to be loved and approved | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| misconception, entrapped in your strong reaction to an unfulfillment, to a hurt, a criticism, or a frustration | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| very different from the pain of a real unfulfillment, a hurt or a deprivation. The moment these | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| it had to be. Wherever there is obstruction, unfulfillment, or an unyielding wall in your life, an | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| you suffer from an overt condition, such as unfulfillment with a mate, or lack of the proper | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| unknown inner factors -- are responsible for your unfulfillment. And so the vicious circle continues. Some of | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| between these two aspects: the withholding and the unfulfillment. This will give you an additional impetus and | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| bridge between these attitudes and your emptiness or unfulfillment. Therefore you become more embittered and feel more | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| The realization of your own responsibility for the unfulfillment of your needs should not, and must not | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| it causes you and others pain and frustration, unfulfillment, and perpetual guilt and longing. It is extremely | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| something and yet accept the pain of its unfulfillment? This seems a tall order, my friends. Yet | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| selfwill mean having to settle for unhappiness and unfulfillment? Is the striving for fulfillment that falls under | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| to working out the real reasons for your unfulfillment in the usual way you learn on this | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| progress, my friends, because you consider suffering and unfulfillment of the soul to be the only agents | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| you really desire and long for, you suffer unfulfillment, for the false goals of appearance values can | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| word of faith in your own unfoldment and unfulfillment if you secretly believe that you have no | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| around complaining about this or that unhappiness or unfulfillment, choosing not to connect with those very attitudes | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| very attitudes. They are the creators of your unfulfillment and frustrations. With your unwillingness to expose yourself | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| non-existence and meaninglessness that result directly from the unfulfillment of the longing. So it is essential that | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| altercations with your environment, or any kind of unfulfillment or frustration, there the underlying cause must be | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| not expose your difficulty in being open, your unfulfillment cannot be alleviated no matter how much you | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |