| Unfulfillments..............13 | |
| and frustrations. You often create similar conflicts and unfulfillments, while ignoring their full significance. The fact is | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| desires are responsible for your outer miseries and unfulfillments. The latter are a logical result, an inevitable | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| of the difficulties, the sorrows, the longings, the unfulfillments of your life. And this you can find | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| allow yourself to feel the pain of certain unfulfillments now and also the pain of the unfulfillment | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| the emotional arena, it is logical that their unfulfillments are primarily emotional. But such emotional underdevelopment may | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| you always win, that you never suffer frustrations, unfulfillments, that things always go according to ideal plans | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| to accept imperfection. You repress your lack: your unfulfillments, your frustrations. You are not fully aware of | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| allow yourself the luxury of facing your desires, unfulfillments, longings, your complaints against life or fate or | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| of comprehension of all your outer problems, hurts, unfulfillments, frustrations as a result of your inner misconceptions | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| have been gained, your permanent personality problems and unfulfillments often require only the final application of these | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| advantageous, as well as your hardships, suffering, disappointments, unfulfillments, so-called bad luck, the repetition of unfavorable patterns | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| those whose tendency is to escape from their unfulfillments, to deny them, to gloss over them and | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| solution than those who deny and ignore their unfulfillments and are oblivious to having created their own | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| Ungenerous..................11 | |
| is this one corner where you are most ungenerous. So both are true. For another example, let | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| give myself over to the universe. This is ungenerous and untrusting. This attitude is incompatible with the | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| This means risking. Not wanting to risk is ungenerous. And anything ungenerous is incompatible with the nature | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| Not wanting to risk is ungenerous. And anything ungenerous is incompatible with the nature of the power | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| negative conviction exists, suspicion is natural. Suspicion creates ungenerous impulses and attitudes. It is in itself ungenerous | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| ungenerous impulses and attitudes. It is in itself ungenerous to suspect someone of negative motives when this | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| a particular entity or life itself. The suspicious, ungenerous attitude creates further negative, limiting aspects, for example | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| be a negative outlook on life, distrust, and ungenerous attitudes toward life and others. All the roles | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| do not wish to give, that you are ungenerous and, at least in that respect, unloving and | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| is no different: ungiving, stingy, withholding, hoarding, tight, ungenerous, leaving you poor. You expect from it exactly | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| sense yourself to be: just as rejecting, unloving, ungenerous, over-cautions. The suspicion which you project from your | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| Ungenuine...................11 | |
| or flattery, it would be an enforced and ungenuine reaction. Nothing ungenuine and manipulative could ever be | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| would be an enforced and ungenuine reaction. Nothing ungenuine and manipulative could ever be truly beneficial. It | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| would only affect an unhealthy, superimposed, and equally ungenuine layer of the man in question. QUESTION: But | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| in the opposite extreme outwardly. But since any ungenuine solution has a negative effect, so must this | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| have an opposite outer reaction of extreme and ungenuine independence. Be on the lookout for this, my | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| death in the wrong way, just as the ungenuine religious person does. The latter says, I want | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| desire to gradually work toward growth, and the ungenuine pretense imposed upon you by the dictates of | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| aspects and differences between the genuine and the ungenuine self. And you will also discover what your | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| it is without foundation and not genuine. The ungenuine faith may, on the surface, appear very much | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| real, healthy, free sacrifice with its unhealthy, compulsive, ungenuine counterpart. If sacrifice occurs out of a free | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| it always opposes the good to the bad. Ungenuine love is always connected with self-pity, resentment, hostility | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| Ungiving....................14 | |
| as they are of the small, selfish and ungiving part of their nature. Let us consider what | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| this, the image will form that women are ungiving, rejecting, and do not give love. Therefore the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| of your destructive insistence on remaining separate and ungiving, you will indeed come to see that this | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| contrary. So you will not need to be ungiving, nor will you need to feel guilty for | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| the self together in a tight package of ungiving. All feelings will stream forth generously and fearlessly | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| of the disparity between your demands, your own ungiving intentions and the punishment you mete out when | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| of longing is misinterpreted by the negative, greedy, ungiving and demanding personality, confusion sets in. The longing | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| be destructive in wanting to be malicious or ungiving. It is destructive by persisting in its limited | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| and, at least in that respect, unloving and ungiving. In many ways you may also be a | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| than is warranted, because you make that stingy ungiving part of you your whole reality. Therefore you | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| must assume that the universe is no different: ungiving, stingy, withholding, hoarding, tight, ungenerous, leaving you poor | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| which you project from your own unmoving, withholding, ungiving attitude makes you fear life and see life | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| trust. Notice that when you are in an ungiving state of mind, you cannot receive anything, even | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| connected with the belief in an empty, poor, ungiving universe. Let me now be more explicit. Take | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| Ungivingness................8 | |
| others for not responding with love to your ungivingness is to render them guilty; to build the | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| what is given is a crass form of ungivingness. Taking is already a giving, if it comes | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| reaching inward that is motivated by fear, distrust, ungivingness, and false ideas about what is safe and | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| contraction. There is no fear or distrust, no ungivingness, there are no false safety measures. It contains | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| indeed have outgrown your jealousies, your competitiveness, your ungivingness, your selfishness, your lack of concern, your unlovingness | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| resenting others for the results of your own ungivingness. You are now well in the position of | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| in theory, while you continue to practice pettiness, ungivingness and selfishness in your everyday life, and even | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| insistence to never experience frustration, of unlovingness and ungivingness, of ego aggrandizement, of jealousy and resentments, when | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| Unguarded...................3 | |
| self-acceptance before you can trust yourself to be unguarded. As I have often said, your innermost self | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| so that you cannot ever relax and be unguarded about yourself. Since you are part of the | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| you cannot have unless you live in an unguarded state, your will must again and again be | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| Unhampered..................16 | |
| circumstances your real being could express and manifest, unhampered by the disturbing layers that usually cover your | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| struggle before you let your real self act, unhampered by your outer levels which are so unreliable | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| your emotional life cannot function naturally and organically, unhampered by superimposed commands? The real self always dares | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| have a very strong wish that is absolutely unhampered by selfish motives, by ambiguous, confused, contradictory emotions | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| correct evaluation and realistic perception, and free-flowing movement unhampered by fears, inhibitions, and paralysis. In short, the | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| free in others, finding a harmony between their unhampered, spontaneous feelings and life. With others, this is | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| affirming, outreaching, joyous and so is life's essence, unhampered by false ideas. Anyone observing a child can | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| to have one's selfhood intact and one's freedom unhampered. This is the typical conflict of false love | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| No emotion that is spontaneously and honestly experienced, unhampered by the fearful, distrustful or cunning ego, can | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| and forced you to reject pleasure that is unhampered by pain. QUESTION: Would you define pleasure as | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| manifests in each human being if it is unhampered. The destructive forces of hate, hostility, resentment, anger | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| specific chain reaction -- both in its natural, unhampered, and therefore positive manifestation, and in its distortion | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| situation that requires improvement. How then can an unhampered giving of love be reinstituted and increased? It | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| totally intact, your group living and intimacy totally unhampered. In the course of your movement on this | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| your receptivity, so that you can develop an unhampered perception of reality -- your own and others' | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| power of the word of Christ, can manifest unhampered on all personality levels. This is what we | 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION |