| Unfulfillable...............3 | |
| manner, you will not only find wrong and unfulfillable desires in you but conflicting desires as well | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| that knows very well that these wishes are unfulfillable. This knowledge creates fear, since the self-will is | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| comprehending that, in this form, the wishes are unfulfillable. At the same time, on an equally deep | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| Unfulfilled.................103 | |
| everybody wants this, whether knowingly or not. All unfulfilled longing is basically nothing else but the wish | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| be inwardly unhappy, plagued by problems, and feel unfulfilled even when successful and doing some good. Unfortunately | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| in your life: perhaps a desire that is unfulfilled, or some problem big or small. Take your | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| not bear a grudge because your needs were unfulfilled; instead, realize clearly what your decision has been | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| best a compromise leaving you with a gnawing, unfulfilled longing. At this point the relationship turns static | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| may certainly fulfill something together, but a great unfulfilled need will always lurk in their souls. Since | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| from the superficial and selfish motives of your unfulfilled desire for partnership, there must also be an | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| from the superficial and selfish motives of your unfulfilled desire for partnership, there must also be an | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| an imperfect kind of love, leaving the child unfulfilled. Now, if the self-will- current goes into certain | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| only partly conscious of the inner sadness, the unfulfilled longing, and of your struggle within to cover | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| shell in which you find yourself lonely and unfulfilled. The nagging, gnawing voice of your higher conscience | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| possible. As long as the hurt, disappointment, and unfulfilled needs of your early years remain unconscious, you | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| basic needs, no understanding that these needs are unfulfilled and why. All this has to become conscious | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| can do so. In a mature person, an unfulfilled emotional need does not necessarily mean this need | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| should be regarded as symptoms of a real unfulfilled need. Offhand, you may say that an inordinate | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| you can feel the emptiness caused by an unfulfilled need and can pinpoint it, you can set | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| learn to live with the frustration of an unfulfilled need. You will see that that is possible | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| the two emotional aspects previously discussed and the unfulfilled needs. First, you can surely see that all | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| is impossible to withstand the frustration of an unfulfilled need if you regard the frustration as a | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| of the unfulfillment, or the erroneous image-conclusion. The unfulfilled need for love, warmth, companionship, union, is contained | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| recognize the image with both the fulfilled and unfulfilled claims, you will know that the needs must | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| unaware of the underlying claim which leaves you unfulfilled. Find the unpronounced claim and desire, the repressed | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| of your needs are fulfilled and which remain unfulfilled. You will gain a clearer picture about the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| long as you do not, your needs remain unfulfilled. The only difference between now and before is | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| a period of emptiness, of awareness of your unfulfilled need and longing. But as you look at | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| its significance, you will realize that your present unfulfilled needs cause the pain. Your frustration will be | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| change of inner direction. In other words, an unfulfilled need that remains unrecognized in its primary, original | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| to do with need. A need that is unfulfilled and frustrated for a long period, that is | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| their real needs and why these needs remain unfulfilled. As they understand the reasons, thus bringing fulfillment | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| relationships, and yet I am unhappy, lonely, and unfulfilled. If this is the case with you, my | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| self is never revealed, and therefore you are unfulfilled. Thus you also prevent others from relating and | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| meaningful relationships -- and you therefore must be unfulfilled. The average person has some capacity and willingness | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| vague hopes for the future and the unpleasant, unfulfilled state of the present are your reasons for | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| in certain areas of life. But you are unfulfilled and lonely in other areas. This is too | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| involvement that leaves other important functions in life unfulfilled, one may be sure that such a shift | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| what extent they are fulfilled, to what extent unfulfilled. Think about the variety of universal needs, and | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| guilty and ashamed. Ascertain which needs must remain unfulfilled due to your personal images, main problems, unresolved | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| not suffice to be generally aware of the unfulfilled need for a mutual relationship, for a mate | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| are supposed to furnish you with all the unfulfilled needs of the missing mate, you must become | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| about the fact that your demands often remain unfulfilled. Also face your apprehension of other people's demands | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| cope with life when life is painful and unfulfilled. In this unfinished, ignorant, and blind state of | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| you can discover the no-current behind a strong unfulfilled wish, you may often be puzzled because the | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| you wanted with all your being what remained unfulfilled, that you certainly did not want an undesirable | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| to be accomplished. When you examine the still unfulfilled areas of your life, finding the underlying no-current | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| differ from your feelings and expectations in the unfulfilled areas. Making such a comparison will yield much | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| granted, you will clearly understand why you are unfulfilled in certain areas, why you have difficulties, and | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| see, this is precisely the reason you feel unfulfilled in the important areas of your life. But | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| and to the particular desire that has remained unfulfilled because you have overlooked the shift in motivation | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| aim which is legitimate and realistic, yet remains unfulfilled, what blocks it is the struggle against the | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| an aim for self-expression and fulfillment stubbornly remains unfulfilled, a denying attitude that does not want it | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| itself annihilated when its wishes for omnipotence remain unfulfilled; therefore, its wish is negative. It will clutch | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| distortion that the overall life is disturbed, disharmonious, unfulfilled, and unhappy. The more this is the case | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| what happens: you fear it when it remains unfulfilled because the frustration hurts the soul. And you | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| situation that is not desirable, that leaves you unfulfilled in any way, your usually vague discontent causes | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| that exists permanently within you. When you are unfulfilled and unhappy, you have moved your consciousness away | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| that says, I am fulfilled when one feels unfulfilled; the illusion that pretends the world is bad | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| The choice of love objects who leave you unfulfilled and frustrated, or even produce pain, expresses the | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| and quite correctly so, that a human being's unfulfilled needs to receive create damaging conditions in the | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| such people complain that the world leaves them unfulfilled. Their complaints and resentments may take as many | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| of pleasure and therefore the repeated presence of unfulfilled yearning. The shock prevents growth in this one | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| wrong source. Such waiting keeps your need perpetually unfulfilled. The more unfulfilled it is, the more urgent | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| waiting keeps your need perpetually unfulfilled. The more unfulfilled it is, the more urgent the need becomes | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| you hate and resent for having left you unfulfilled for so long. This one-sided insistence on being | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| that everyone, to the degree they feel unhappy, unfulfilled, and empty, fears happiness, fulfillment, and pleasure, no | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| laws and inner life processes? What does your unfulfilled longing mean in these terms? What do your | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| tackled when you first admit to yourself the unfulfilled longings, your discontent, your hurts and fears, your | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| direction from this desire, if the desire remains unfulfilled. You do not search within for the reason | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| life in whatever area they are still unhappy, unfulfilled and in conflict. This lack of awareness makes | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| is open. When you finally see that an unfulfilled longing or painful conflict of long standing is | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| secretly unwilling to share, your longings must remain unfulfilled. People would be well advised to consider their | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| People would be well advised to consider their unfulfilled longings from this point of view, rather than | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| the throes of their own inner conflicts. The unfulfilled longing becomes unbearably painful when isolation is chosen | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| perseverance and determination. Remember that wherever you are unfulfilled, wherever there are problems, wherever there is conflict | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| the vagueness what you long for, what is unfulfilled in your life. Most people do not state | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| life itself and instituting a state of constantly unfulfilled longing. This is why it says in Scripture | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| the growing person denies the pain of an unfulfilled real need, this need does not disappear. On | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| will fill the emptiness created by the child's unfulfilled need. The more the pain of the unfulfilled | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| unfulfilled need. The more the pain of the unfulfilled legitimate need remains unfelt, or only half experienced | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| to that degree you must remain lonely and unfulfilled in your real needs now -- thereby perpetuating | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| to the real pain. Soft pain due to unfulfilled real needs may momentarily result in forceful expressions | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| your life, your suffering, your frustration, and your unfulfilled longings. All levels must be dealt with by | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| on others, with its inevitable resentments arising from unfulfilled expectations; fear and the consequent defenses that cut | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| yourselves: in what respect are you unhappy and unfulfilled? And then proceed, with the aid of your | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| undeserving of joy your needs must remain eternally unfulfilled. If you feel undeserving and unfulfilled you go | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| remain eternally unfulfilled. If you feel undeserving and unfulfilled you go on punishing the world for this | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| you feel sorry for yourself because of your unfulfilled life, and if you in any way blame | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| fact responsible for the state that creates your unfulfilled longing. The longing is realistic when you start | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| then surprised when their yearning for oneness remains unfulfilled, and they blame others, circumstances, and life for | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| bind that you are caught in between your unfulfilled needs and your spiteful withholding? By more blame | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| to imply resignation to emptiness, suffering, pain, and unfulfilled longing. To avoid this they then hold on | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| letting go seems to connote resignation into an unfulfilled state. Feel the inner movement in you when | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| finding what really obstructs the fulfillment of the unfulfilled need, and ultimately remove it by changing an | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| and abundance. These are gauges. Where there is unfulfilled longing, there is something you do not focus | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| task; many leave physical existence with the task unfulfilled and must return in a new embodiment to | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| finally consciously, longs for. When this longing is unfulfilled, the separation between the created being and the | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| doubt, suffering; for that part the longing is unfulfilled. When you are not even conscious of the | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| because you were unhappy and vaguely or specifically unfulfilled. You may even have been consciously seeking the | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| be a state of doubt, fear, pain and unfulfilled longing, if there would not also exist, on | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| When you still feel weak, confused, self-rejecting, or unfulfilled in any area, when you are divided within | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| will be fulfilled accordingly. If you find yourself unfulfilled in your vocation, if you do not enjoy | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| or if you are sexually troubled, blocked, and unfulfilled, somewhere within you, you are holding out on | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| it is not. You may deny your deeper unfulfilled longing because some of the hitherto unfulfilled longing | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| deeper unfulfilled longing because some of the hitherto unfulfilled longing has been assuaged. But you have so | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |