| Insincere...................6 | |
| this and I am that. This is as insincere a mask as the other extreme. Such people | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| be a hindrance and lead to a forced, insincere reaction and self-deception. Allow yourself to have all | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| right thing. This would produce only a forced, insincere response on your part. Instead, you should first | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| more for genuine self-respect than all the forceful, insincere strivings for an idealized perfection that is not | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| of saying that a false goodness, a forceful, insincere one, produces a moralizing that many people rebel | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| may be overcompensated by false sentimentality, dramatization, and insincere exaggerated sympathy. But these are only substitutes for | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| Insist......................41 | |
| impossible, whereas emotionally sick and immature souls would insist on having the advantages of both the opposing | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| are better off than if you were to insist simultaneously on two impossibilities, desiring only the advantages | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| uncover what is in you if you still insist on attributing so much importance to your pain | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| and unimportant. A spirit of God will always insist that every person should establish an independent connection | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| purposes seem to you also worthy reasons, never insist on the contact, but leave it to God | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| your own course of action, or do you insist on having the solution handed to you? Such | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| what you happen to be now. If you insist on trying, the result will illustrate how the | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| You struggle against the dependency that you simultaneously insist upon as a result of your infantile self-centeredness | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| slave to it, but its master. You stubbornly insist that you are at the mercy of the | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| do not yet know why and how you insist on the negative desires and why you harbor | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| fear anything, nor do you cling and tightly insist that your good should be given to you | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| your own innermost self. This is why people insist on dividing body and spirit and why the | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| your efforts. The emphasis must shift. If you insist that you must win on the wrong level | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| incapable of, shedding your idealized self-image, if you insist on living up to its unreasonable demands, then | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| this self-perception. You still battle what is and insist on being the way you are not. Thus | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| itself is perfectly valid, but the way you insist on its fulfillment is unrealistic and leads to | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| different possibilities of experience if you do not insist on a limited form right now. If you | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| terribly unhappy about the result, but you nevertheless insist on hanging on to your negative will. You | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| as a by-product. But to the degree you insist on being an irresponsible child -- wanting to | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| the line of least resistance, which is to insist on viewing the issue only according to one's | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| now; it must be my way, and I insist that it is. This attitude makes admission of | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| accept the truth that avoidance is futile. They insist on their illusion. It is therefore of utmost | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| have a covert concept that it will, and insist that it will, simply because you are disinclined | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| Conversely, to the degree you cling to and insist on the other's fulfilling you, to that degree | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| must give me what I need, what I insist upon. If you do not, I will perish | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| these feelings, reactions and attitudes, yet you still insist on holding on to them. Why? Often it | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| does nothing but bring undesirable results, and yet insist on maintaining it. Why does this apparently senseless | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| you unless they are extremely blind, undeveloped, or insist on not seeing it. They may have a | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| compared to what you give, how differently you insist on being treated from how you treat others | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| creative block. It hinders the very fulfillment you insist upon most. The tightness, the saying no to | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| to make this clear. For instance, if you insist on not having any pain, you will be | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| do not directly concern you? Or do you insist on being right merely for its own sake | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| you when you no longer need it and insist upon it. It is the little ego that | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| truly be free is if you do not insist on other things and other people in the | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| in a state of evil and suffering who insist that turning around is very complicated or impossible | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| life. This can no longer continue. Those who insist on this way lock themselves out from a | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| movement will feel victimized by it and will insist that everything is hopeless. But those in the | 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE |
| this, you will perhaps gladly learn not to insist any longer on the distorted perfection, immortality and | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| spiritual measurements, these months are lifetimes, yet you insist on holding on to your old habits and | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| of greedily holding on to what was. You insist on not giving up anything of the old | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| be trusted. Only too often you want to insist that the part in you that is most | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| Insisted....................3 | |
| than you were willing to give. They also insisted that you be loved exclusively. And you still | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| see other ways and possibilities but the one insisted on. Therefore it cramps up within itself. A | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| quiet down and let things happen; where you insisted on taking the controls, you must now relinquish | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| Insistence..................57 | |
| cost, but exactly because you give up the insistence on your dignity can you win what you | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| rightful price. There is a strong desire and insistence on having both ways, the easy way. Ultimately | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| always have. Once you have found this unconscious insistence on remaining a helpless child, you will soon | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| have discussed before. False religion and your unconscious insistence on remaining an infant combine to produce this | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| begin to understand this. If you do, your insistence on remaining deadened and dulled will finally give | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| self due to your unreality, your pretense, your insistence on remaining at the periphery and seeking a | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| only one. Now you will increasingly understand my insistence on the necessity of letting your emotions come | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| parent's humanity and therefore let go of your insistence that the hurt inflicted on you was unjust | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| faculties that develop through your growth. Your previous insistence on psychic phenomena was also a form of | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| that supposedly protect one from hurts; and, third, insistence on remaining a child because then others are | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| humiliation, pride and shame, hurt, arrogance, self-importance, self-pity, insistence on unreasonable demands, and many more. You struggle | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| own resources has to do with your childish insistence on having to have your way, and your | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| knowledge of this fear and of your childish insistence. The emotional maturity we seek is the ability | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| forms. You may through a conscious or unconscious insistence expect that others bend to your will so | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| the equally strong wish to grow up. The insistence on remaining a cared-for child necessitates your holding | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| once had causes hurt, anger and hostility. The insistence on having the protection, and the real as | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| a resistance to fully grown selfhood and an insistence on artificial infancy. This carefully nurtured parasitical state | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| problems remain untouched. Important also is the negative insistence on concentrating on issues that the pathwork does | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| disposal. These inner deviations, ignorances and misconceptions, the insistence on a childish way of life create the | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| the simple common denominator. Your destructiveness and your insistence on holding on to both feelings are the | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| this: testing it, going into it, relinquishing the insistence that it needs to be feared and therefore | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| moralizing and self-accusation always hides a deep inner insistence not to change. Hence, moralizing is a tortured | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| you do not, find out why not. The insistence upon holding onto something that violates your integrity | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| means true that the only alternatives are intense insistence, rigid demands, or renunciation of happiness and fulfillment | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| unimportant. But the other distorted response to frustration, insistence and rigidity with a do or die attitude | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| this balance. It is rigidly one-sided in its insistence to receive, for this is its need. The | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| left you unfulfilled for so long. This one-sided insistence on being loved by a person one deeply | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| to be fair, to let others free, your insistence to win and have your way, and your | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| the irrationality of your negation, of your destructive insistence on remaining separate and ungiving, you will indeed | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| you changed. You became conscious of a tense insistence in one direction. As long as the situation | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| not happen did you give up your tense insistence. Something in you relaxed -- you let go | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| were desperate, could you give up your stubborn insistence, old beliefs, and destructive patterns and find the | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| have the power to let go of stubborn insistence and rigid upholding of unconscious attitudes whose nature | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| even healthy, as I implied before. But the insistence that I must have this now or I | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| find that resistance to growth is fear. Your insistence on remaining as you are sacrifices happiness, pleasure | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| may not be expressed openly -- then rigid insistence on one's own way, arrogance in demanding special | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| expression of a super-tense will that your infantile insistence on having what you want right away generates | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| impossible. Selfwill is too bent upon its own insistence that it is unwilling to accept present reality | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| they are not responsible for your misery. Your insistence that they are is a profound manifestation of | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| a psychological refutation of self-responsibility and to the insistence on blaming life or others for your misery | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| hard pain. For the hard pain coming from insistence on the false needs contains the vengeance. The | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| be looked for. You must find your own insistence that says, It must be this way, not | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| by preconceived, unchallenged, and even unarticulated convictions, by insistence and tight selfwill, and by the negation and | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| negation and repression of feelings and thoughts. Hardened insistence must not be confused with the determination and | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| not that. The cause is your persistence and insistence on staying hooked on needs that are by | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| see and perceive. It would require a deliberate insistence to blind oneself not to be aware of | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| is in childhood. It is now your inner insistence on forcing your bad parents to become good | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| We have discussed various false reasons for one's insistence on remaining in a state of falsehood and | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| there must be no hard knots. Selfwill, anxiety, insistence, forcing currents and distrust create an energetic climate | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| implies first of all letting go of the insistence of your wish. The wish must be let | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| a different emotional and spiritual climate. Often your insistence to have the wish fulfilled in the one | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| gain the result without paying the price. The insistence to be in heaven without being ready for | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| to give up the outer battle, the outer insistence, and to go into an inner order and | 228 BALANCE |
| of omnipotence of the outer personality is an insistence on magical solutions that are supposed to eliminate | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| already within you. Only as you abandon your insistence of possessing them right away will you even | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| yourself of the impediments of selfishness, of the insistence to never experience frustration, of unlovingness and ungivingness | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| question your quick conclusions, and so your stiff insistence on them will bar the way to clarity | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |