| do not take away anything from anyone by giving out. On the contrary, more will come to | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| deeper ways, more variations of experiencing love in giving and receiving it, being in tune with this | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| passive state of either falsely waiting or falsely giving up hope. The pushing exhausts the self and | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| taken for granted and glossed over by simply giving the reaction a name and then letting it | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| must lead, either directly through acting out and giving it direct expression, or indirectly, through denial, that | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| Quite the contrary: it means fully acknowledging them, giving honest expression to them, without finding excuses or | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| toward one another in a harmonious interplay of giving and receiving, of mutual cooperation, of positive opening | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| like a little light going on inside yourself, giving you hope and strength, showing you from yet | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| mutuality will express itself first between your own giving of yourself in truthfulness and the helping power | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| place when a positive, open, committed, honest, loving, giving attitude exists. When the good feelings and thoughts | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| each other, opening up for each other and giving to each other, thus receiving. It happened as | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| negative cycle. But not fighting must never mean giving in to resistance and fear. It cannot mean | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| from active deeds. Holding back from loving and giving is also an action. Every so often, the | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| seething hatred prevents positive deeds of loving and giving; it prevents one from contributing to life. So | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| by being closed to truth and love, to giving and receiving. But a number of developed human | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| You struggle against exposing the pretense, let alone giving up the pretense, for the only other alternative | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| as you follow the line of least resistance, giving in to blind involvement, giving up on finding | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| of least resistance, giving in to blind involvement, giving up on finding true self-identity and settling blindly | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| them. At the very beginning when I started giving lectures, I used the terms higher self, lower | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| to having the willingness to accept difficulties, to giving up long- established destructive patterns, the conscious commitment | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| the deprived child, for the adult all this giving, coming from outside the self, could never bring | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| to assume self-responsibility. Doing so seems to require giving up all hope for a loving partner. Exactly | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| within yourself, and open the wells of your giving and loving feelings, will fulfillment become an inevitable | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| make the commitment to truth and honesty, to giving as much as I wish to receive, but | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| and now, in the body. But it means giving up all the ego attitudes; all the tremendous | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| and are prepared to make the sacrifice of giving up old destructive patterns of thinking and reacting | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| negative intentionality, awareness is not the same as giving it up. You who have arrived at this | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| maintained, the personality feels threatened: the child equates giving up the resistance with capitulation, with giving up | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| equates giving up the resistance with capitulation, with giving up his individuality. Many of you are aware | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| it is integrated into the spiritual self. When giving up negative intentionality, you already experience yourself as | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| albeit partial, identification with the lower self exists, giving it up appears as self-annihilation to that part | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| cover up the reality of the lower self. Giving up hate, spite, and negative intention seems like | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| up hate, spite, and negative intention seems like giving up one's very being. Such apparent self-annihilation cannot | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| friends, let this sink in: Your resistance to giving up what you hate most in yourself is | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| to experience yourself as haughty, cold, and contemptuous. Giving up this attitude seems like dying. But dying | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| follow any course of action. It merely means giving a new scope to a very set mind | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| means, above all, a one- pointedness of attention; giving the self in a wholehearted way to whatever | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| saying: Commit yourself wholeheartedly to your truth, to giving your best, to giving up the negative intention | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| to your truth, to giving your best, to giving up the negative intention, the spiteful withholding. Now | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| negative feelings and attitudes are there and resists giving them up, while the other part strives for | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| identifies almost totally with the destructive part. Hence, giving up this part of the personality appears hazardous | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| that you allow yourself to receive, provided this giving does not violate the law of love. When | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| stringent recognition of the ego tricks and against giving in to them. This expansion is always a | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| is in you? By holding back your inner giving, your openness, and your commitment to life you | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| a result. Yet you find yourself stymied in giving up the whole nucleus of the image, or | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| with the negative aspect of your ego self, giving up something that is the primary motivating force | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| spiritual reality, you must find yourself incapable of giving up your negative intentionality. Let us take for | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| painful or the loving feelings which are the giving and the receiving of love, the power in | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| the truth and will blame you for not giving me all and for not letting me get | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| Suppose the other person is inwardly struggling with giving up a similar defense. Their resistance says: You | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| admit your similar unfair demands, your cowardice in giving your feelings, and your negative intentionality, it may | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| be confused and torn! This ability grows from giving up your stake in hiding, projecting, denying, and | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| hiding, projecting, denying, and distorting; it grows from giving up an attitude that not only confuses others | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| struggle against the vacuum. The ferocious struggle against giving up being, existing, aliveness, distorts divine reality and | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| creative process. All this explains your resistance to giving up your negativity, your evil. If the isolated | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| all-consciousness of which it is a part. Thus, giving up the negative attitudes that express the struggle | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| vacuum seems to threaten the individual with extinction. Giving up evil seems like voluntarily going into the | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| How much joy are you capable of feeling, giving, and receiving? Are you plagued with resentments, anxiety | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| communication, sharing, mutual love, mutual pleasure, and the giving as well as the receiving of warmth and | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| from it because you are too afraid of giving up your little vanity. Therefore your longing can | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| expectations -- which come from your resistance to giving up self-delusions -- of what others should do | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| I ask that you all meditate specifically for giving something of yourself to this venture: Your positive | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| your goodwill, your good thoughts, your intention of giving your good feelings to it. If you do | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| to take frustration and pain are essential to giving and receiving and experiencing bliss. On the other | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| from the guilt-free state that follows the truly giving attitude. If you can say yes to wholeheartedly | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| attitude. If you can say yes to wholeheartedly giving, you can also say no. If you truly | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| to be confused with childish, neurotic demands. Not giving feelings makes mutual exchange impossible. Since in reality | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| feelings makes mutual exchange impossible. Since in reality giving and receiving are one, you cannot give to | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| one, you cannot give to others without also giving to yourself. Conversely, by withholding from others, you | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| you are still clinging to the illusion that giving and receiving are two separate acts. The fusion | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| change, and goodness. Add to these patience, and giving the other the benefit of the doubt. Make | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| that requires improvement. How then can an unhampered giving of love be reinstituted and increased? It is | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| is referred to as perversion -- pleasure in giving pain, pleasure in denying the self and the | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| millennia the most bestial drives in sexuality, thus giving rise to the belief that sexuality was in | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| masculine principle expresses the outgoing movement of reaching, giving, acting, initiating, asserting. The feminine principle expresses the | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| principle manifests as hostile aggressions, hitting rather than giving and reaching. The feminine principle in distortion turns | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| to give in trust and to know that giving is receiving. Only as you receive can you | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| demands? Certainly not! Only when you decide that giving to the universe is worth risking will you | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| is always waiting for truth, beauty, love, generosity, giving, trust and the spirit of divine creation which | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| deeper level will manifest. A very beautiful, full giving will come, in which there is not even | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| As you express your withholding, also express your giving, for that exists too. As you express your | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| Nevertheless, you can also directly express love and giving, for that waits in you to be liberated | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| creative way, this never means falsely aping or giving up one's own uniqueness. Quite the contrary: the | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| and go into the apparent abyss of surrender, giving up narrow selfwill. This self-perpetuating divine process brings | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| sense. It will keep you vital and youthful, giving you as it were a foretaste of the | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| balance of everything: the balance of assertion and giving in, for instance. The spontaneous knowing when one | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| related and interdependent. There will be generosity, a giving and receiving in one ongoing stream. There will | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| intimate and fused with another person, or in giving to and receiving from another person. The security | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| loved. You will experience the deep satisfaction of giving, helping, fulfilling a task, and of being devoted | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| and now feel the fulfillment that comes from giving to creation or serving a spiritual cause. You | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| the fact that you are more interested in giving something of yourself to the cause of helping | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| are led naturally to an attitude of selfless giving. It is never a sentimental giving in to | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| of selfless giving. It is never a sentimental giving in to neurotic and unhealthy demands. It is | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| to neurotic and unhealthy demands. It is true giving. And in giving to others, you cannot escape | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| unhealthy demands. It is true giving. And in giving to others, you cannot escape giving to the | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| And in giving to others, you cannot escape giving to the self. For in reality, as you | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| the attitude toward others, and vice versa. Thus giving to a larger cause is the greatest self-enrichment | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| truth to you about this and other matters. Giving to a cause beyond the little ego is | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| your psyche works in absolute perfection. When your giving to life becomes so whole that you are | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| this discovery as you are already devoted to giving of yourself to a cause beyond. You are | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| profits those around you. Each attitude of constructive giving is an immense, beautiful and vital living force | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| in some way be transmitted to others. Your giving can take many forms. You will do it | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| you are a step nearer to truly selfless giving. Why can you not claim your greatness? Because | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| the truth that the universe is benign and giving and that they are not required by divine | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| on. I repeat what I mentioned before: The giving up of the tight selfwill implies first of | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| for the moment, which is quite different from giving it up forever. The who, where, what, when | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| to fall into the pit of resignation and giving up, instead of just letting go. You have | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| rich because there you must also have a giving and honest attitude. But where you feel poor | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| be poor until you establish richness within through giving and honesty. In actuality, richness always exists with | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| that you hold your feelings in check, because giving them out would create unendurable emptiness inside you | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| I shall make you feel guilty for not giving me what I want from you. I shall | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| draw to you someone who is incapable of giving you love. You may have to first let | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| of value. They are surely not new. But giving is so often a false mask, a ploy | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| and follow the longing, or resisting movement and giving up what your heart knows exists. This is | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| to truth, to self- facing, to self-purification, to giving up all defenses and all subterfuges in order | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| and be by themselves. I. CHRISTMAS MESSAGE After giving his blessings, the Guide said: Every one of | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| and overactive with the ego forces. It connotes giving in and surrendering to the flow of being | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| out for your younger friends and helping them, giving them understanding, instead of hitting back when they | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| attitude? That attitude in you says no to giving in to the meaning of life, to beauty | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| in what I give you; for I am giving you a potent tool for your further development | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| to a little selfishness here or there. Consciously giving yourself to a greater cause that sweeps the | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| out of love and a desire for mutual giving and receiving. You share and experience the struggle | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| from your thought patterns. Observe yourself following them, giving them life, giving them animation and energy, and | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| patterns. Observe yourself following them, giving them life, giving them animation and energy, and thereby creating a | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| make yourself part of it. That always means giving up the temptation of staying in the temporary | 228 BALANCE |
| feelingful, less loving, less equipped to be a giving mate, has never had any substance. This new | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| we are gathered together to exchange through my giving to you where the need is greatest and | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| and reincarnation within this life? The process of giving up the old and moving on to the | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| attitude. The wrong belief is that freedom means giving in to the line of least resistance, and | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| old attitude of taking, wanting, demanding and not giving is transformed into an attitude of love, giving | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| giving is transformed into an attitude of love, giving, devotion and sincerity. There is no other key | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| an act of love, to spiritual sincerity, to giving and enriching life. What you give to others | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| give to others, you give to yourself. Not giving to others deprives you even more than it | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| the most hidden levels, the truth of your giving, the sincerity of your investment, the pursuit of | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| system you adopt. When you function in your giving mode in a deeply committed sincere spirit, then | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| only from the deep sincerity of commitment and giving. The lack of giving and commitment eats away | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| sincerity of commitment and giving. The lack of giving and commitment eats away at your psychic guts | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| of true self-esteem that is built on sincere giving and commitment, on the being values we are | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| basis other than the inner truth of real giving for its own sake! Yet another aspect of | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| hidden motives but give for the sake of giving -- which is always giving for God's sake | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |