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| not true, it loses its security. It is frightened. The child does not like what it finds | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| Whenever he sees fire afterward, he will be frightened, particularly if he has been burned not only | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| immature state in which you love like a frightened child who cannot see the truth. In the | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| people behave negatively, you will no longer feel frightened or personally involved. It will no longer cause | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| raised consciousness that we will no longer be frightened of bad people. But how can I not | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| bad people. But how can I not be frightened of murders, hold-ups, and all such doings? This | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| such thing as a fixed rule, you are frightened, because you have to determine each time anew | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| values. Because you cannot see them, you are frightened to let go of the false ones fearing | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| convince others of your invulnerable strength, the more frightened they will be of you, and fright has | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| solve your problems, by leaving you still insecure, frightened, and restless, you are at a loss. You | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| misunderstood, not accepted for your own sake, insecure, frightened. Only by adhering to certain rules do you | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| explained here. On the one hand, I am frightened, and on the other I feel an inner | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| When you are on the defensive, you are frightened; you feel threatened and endangered. There certainly are | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| poisonous substance is released the moment you are frightened, and every time you are on the defensive | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| time you are on the defensive, you are frightened. Therefore, it is important that unrealistic fears should | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| sin, this will not prevent them from being frightened. They will be even more frightened. But if | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| from being frightened. They will be even more frightened. But if they slowly unroll the processes of | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| is incapable of receiving your love and is frightened by it, yet your frustrated wish to love | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| to receive your love because you are too frightened to come out of your shell, so you | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| simultaneously. On the one hand, you may be frightened if you encounter a strong demand. Yet, when | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| phenomenon. Since they are so unsure, they are frightened to find out that they have only imagined | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| are absolutely unwilling to accept. You are so frightened by the possible implications, and so eager to | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| an entirely different nature. In short, something that frightened you once will cause you to be frightened | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| frightened you once will cause you to be frightened again by an outer event that is really | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| instead of merely observing what is, you become frightened, suspicious, guilty, and resentful; because some image or | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| man so often thwarts his manhood. He is frightened of independence because he thereby seems to renounce | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| bring immeasurable relief and peace. You may be frightened of love and substitute your need for it | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| it with yourself. As long as you are frightened, you lack the necessary calm observation to perceive | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| most, you can no longer be insecure and frightened and hanging on to the misconception that you | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| negative emotions causes deep shame. Whether you are frightened or hurt, your sense of being isolated with | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| its own higher consciousness. This negative voice is frightened even of the marvelous truth that you carry | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| pathwork. I am no longer so afraid and frightened, but still something is bothering me. Deep inside | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| experiencing this result, you must be frantic and frightened. You do your best not to admit that | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| the same time you will no longer be frightened by the greatest positive power dwelling within you | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| your personal assets because you are almost too frightened to find them. Finding them and being aware | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| feel similar to the way I feel -- frightened and lost? And when they are angry, maybe | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| expresses the positive direction toward union. B is frightened of it and therefore withdraws and rejects A | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| way, you will not need to be so frightened. The fact that every relationship is a mutual | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| you learn about this other possibility, you are frightened of it. You cannot believe in it and | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| analysis, means annihilation. That is what you are frightened of and why you are so intense in | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| be humble, to relinquish the egocentricity of the frightened child, to allow others to be free no | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| it always leaves you empty, dissatisfied, and increasingly frightened, as all false solutions do. The farther you | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| to act, regardless of how doubtful, resistant or frightened you may be. This is the central point | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| your real feelings. You are just as much frightened of awakening your feelings as you are of | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| have to ascertain how and why you are frightened of the real love feelings that may come | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| from your practical daily life. People who are frightened of these alienating processes remove them by creating | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| is now, is exposed, the personality is less frightened of annihilation or danger, but more ashamed. The | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| may be put on, and by not being frightened of this. For people are terrified of the | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| what is in you, for you are still frightened of facing the reaction you have to feeling | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| ashamed about. Then you will no longer be frightened of the other person, because you are no | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the other person, because you are no longer frightened of your own destructiveness. You thus enter into | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| can manifest only when you cease to be frightened by the involuntary processes, when you can let | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the majority of human beings -- become tremendously frightened and insecure. They must feel inadequate, and their | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| on this path: To the extent you are frightened of letting go of ego control because you | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| is deprived of pleasure because it is too frightened to surrender to the creative process. It is | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| close to in the past. I am extremely frightened and ambivalent about this person and feel that | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| person unlovable. Mostly it is because you are frightened of the experience. When you give up the | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| can then investigate why humans are so deeply frightened of precisely that which represents and gives life | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| feel insecure and shaky within yourself, anxious and frightened -- when you underestimate your values -- it | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| relaxed about both -- not overeager and not frightened -- then manifestations can appear. If you are | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| violence and destruction will he or she become frightened of his or her own active principle and | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| unfearful, trusting. You are not easily threatened or frightened. You maintain a positive attitude, even if there | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| or other people -- but you are equally frightened of your own unconscious processes. The greater the | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| the process of reeducation begin. The denying, panicky, frightened, self-rejecting, and perfection-demanding attitude you usually have makes | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| with lack of fulfillment, which makes you inordinately frightened of it. So the vicious circle continues. The | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| But if the self is too vain and frightened to see itself as it is at the | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| your reaction to pain. As you react, are frightened of and angry about painful experiences and feelings | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| accept it, explore it, and no longer be frightened by it. This capacity to observe, articulate, evaluate | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| without rhyme or reason. You will consequently become frightened, defensive, distrustful, grabbing, anxious, and ruthless. Instead of | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| the clue to the undesirable effect. Are you frightened? Are you insecure? Do you feel inadequate? Do | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| self-doubt which, in turn, makes you weak and frightened, as well as wrongly assertive and equally inappropriately | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| it remains your enemy, and you must remain frightened of your own feelings. By that dynamic you | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| person to being open, vulnerable, and loving. The frightened part of the self, which is geared to | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| even do love, as long as you are frightened of feeling your feelings. To the degree that | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| being. You will cease feeling alienated from and frightened by it. But you need to begin first | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| begin first to stop being alienated from and frightened by whatever exists in you. For the more | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| you can summon feelings, the more you are frightened of them and therefore at their mercy. This | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| distortions and misconceptions of truth. If you are frightened of pain, together with its derivatives, such as | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| need a scapegoat, and you are still too frightened to look fully at yourself. You are still | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| of yourself deadened and numbed and you are frightened of reviving it, this is what is going | 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS |
| discovered that there is a choice. You are frightened of the momentum of the explosion and the | 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS |
| lacking, until balance is reestablished. If you are frightened by intimate contact, you will seek seclusion, which | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| an inner and outer overactivity, because they are frightened that they may be empty, that there may | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| impossible for you. Where you are hopeless and frightened there must be an idea of finiteness that | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| scale you need the group because you are frightened, you are dependent, and you are not yet | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| yourself. You have also discovered that you become frightened and uncomfortable in the group and want to | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| if you use a group because you feel frightened alone, you will simultaneously fear and hate that | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| you feel much less secure and much more frightened than when you have reached deeper circles on | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| established, you contract in these moments in a frightened reaction, finding yourself unable to endure the state | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |