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order and unity. This creates realistic, benign, constructive feelings, concepts, opinions, and corresponding actions. Change has taken 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
all their opinions, goals, ideas, ideals, and even feelings on what others proclaim -- or what they 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
of others. When one ceases to manipulate one's feelings in order to control and manipulate others, one 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
as well as apparently right and wrong emotions, feelings, reactions, drives, needs, expressions. Fear of being comprises 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
contribute to it with your actions, thoughts and feelings. After you become aware of this, you have 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
well as your unconscious attitudes, concepts, thoughts, and feelings. The truly integrated spirit would not need to 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
The sphere is a result of your thinking, feelings, attitudes, and general state -- the sum total 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
not only with your mind but with your feelings, is essential. Now then, my friends, if this 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
he or she is, and adjusts one's own feelings to what the reality is. Then there is 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
underestimation of the self and the consequent inferiority feelings. This may sound almost paradoxical. Superficially viewed, it 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
other person as real. By dint of your feelings of helpless weakness and inadequacy, others assume the 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
present state away through denial and superimposition of feelings that cannot ever be forced. The next stage 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
to get back to the reality of your feelings. Also, you often substitute fear for another emotion 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
growth in the self and in others. Real feelings cannot be forced, commanded, or superimposed. They are 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
compulsion is the direct result of unacknowledged, unconscious feelings and conditions. The more you know yourself, the 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
awareness. If I choose to verbally express these feelings when there is a good purpose, such as 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
and evasions. Directly reaching the core of one's feelings or reactions, and thereby understanding their true significance 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
When the issue justifies anger, insecurity induces conflicting feelings. Healthy anger makes you stronger, twisted anger, weaker 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
and to find the right expression of your feelings in the now, you must experience the beauty 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
pain and deprivation often find that numbing their feelings is their only protection against suffering. This is 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
Passive indifference, however, born out of numbing the feelings, can go unnoticed because it can so easily 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
brink of a decision: Either I allow my feelings to reach out in empathy with the other 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
order to deflect this strong influx of warm feelings, I have to behave in the exact opposite 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
not only prohibits the influx of spontaneous positive feelings but also wards off fear and guilt. The 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
weak, afraid. The relationship between your body, your feelings, and your personal life circumstances is the same 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
over my body or my own reactions and feelings; and if a frightening power which I do 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
your consciousness and your inner body, your spontaneous feelings and your life? The same relationship exists in 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
relationship exists in life as between body and feelings. You have direct control over certain happenings. Your 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
with the body and the world of your feelings, there is an area where this immediate, direct 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
relationships with your body, your inner world of feelings, and your outer life are all the same 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
that all inner processes -- inner body, inner feelings, and inner life, manifesting in fate and apparently 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
then controls all inner faculties -- including body, feelings, and apparent fate. The outer consciousness must be 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
psyche says, I stop myself from warm, loving feelings to protect myself. In spite of the numbing 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
obstructed it is. When you have numbed your feelings, the inner self is inactivated. It alone is 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
and make you withdraw from and numb all feelings. My dearest friends, this is a tremendously important 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
purely positive conditions and circumstances. Positive or pleasurable feelings will no longer be derived from negative circumstances 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
you repress and suppress the combination of pleasurable feelings and negative events. Instead of repressing it, denying 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
from life; why you withdrew from your own feelings; why you repress and why you stand guard 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
yourself. You will see why you block out feelings, sometimes with a great amount of pain, then 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
believing oneself helpless in the grip of one's feelings, attitudes, and even thoughts or actions. When you 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
Simply state, I shall fully face these destructive feelings, which will not force me into actions, for 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
into actions, for I am master over all feelings. I determine actions. I determine what I want 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
an inner distaste for giving up such destructive feelings, I shall neither deny this inner refusal by 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
in a way that produces hopelessness, fear, frustration, feelings of doubt. I will now deliberately contact and 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
need to have right now, into actions and feelings that are good and productive in this moment 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
which is withdrawal, indifference, non-involvement, non-commitment, numbness of feelings, separateness and refusal to love. When you are 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
outlooks and ideas. It will lead you into feelings of truth and beauty. Its guidance is invaluable 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
and your insistence on holding on to both feelings are the barriers which keep you separated from 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
every aspect of it, including what your real feelings and desires are, you will find what your 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
longing; c) their reasons; d) the consequent thoughts, feelings, emanations, attitudes in inner and outer behavior; and 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
various: separating and withdrawing, toughening yourself, numbing your feelings, denying your real feelings and substituting counterfeit feelings 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
toughening yourself, numbing your feelings, denying your real feelings and substituting counterfeit feelings, and also becoming cruel 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
feelings, denying your real feelings and substituting counterfeit feelings, and also becoming cruel. All these measures serve 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
recognized, observed, and allowed to function. The intense feelings of the live center can then be compared 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
to deny the depth, scope and richness of feelings as they manifest from the live center, the 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
center, with its vulnerability and its strength of feelings, with your adult understanding and ego-faculties. Cruelty can 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
this, or what makes you believe that your feelings are justified and appropriate. You can go to 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
who has not yet integrated these energies and feelings with the ego-faculties. When this integration takes place 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
flexible, alive, vibrant and full of the strong feelings without which pleasure, joy, and happiness cannot exist 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
it out. Instead of shying away from the feelings in this vulnerable spot, you will widen the 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
aware of cruelty and vulnerability in myself. My feelings are so strong when I feel slighted that 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
When you begin to ask yourself whether your feelings are true and commensurate with what actually takes 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
meditation. By themselves, your positive thoughts, attitudes, and feelings create more positive thoughts, attitudes, and feelings. These 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
and feelings create more positive thoughts, attitudes, and feelings. These, in turn, create fulfillment, productiveness, peace, and 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
forms -- the product of attitudes, thoughts and feelings -- create this negative world. There are many 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
precarious pleasure you derive from indulging in destructive feelings and attitudes. This may evolve subtly, insidiously, and 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
rage, and I am blinded by these negative feelings. I cannot see anything positive or understand the 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
may appear preposterous, yet when you test your feelings you will find this to be so. After 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
personality does not dare to invest natural, spontaneous feelings in certain areas -- out of fear, alienation 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
of your thinking you can eventually change undesirable feelings. In a similar way the heartbeat and the 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
his or her life, together with the thoughts, feelings, impressions, concepts, and the actions, reactions and interactions 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
That is, you can examine yourself, your thoughts, feelings, and attitudes in this regard. You can directly 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
you wish either to continue the same thoughts, feelings, and attitudes, or to change them. You can 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
how vaguely, it first appears in your inner feelings -- and this grasp comes from facing personal 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING
such. You may pay lip service to the feelings and rights of others or to the liberation 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
the life stream of love, resulting in increasing feelings of emptiness, helplessness, despair, and isolation. You then 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
and isolation. You then try to counteract these feelings with the laborious effort of trying to love 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
covered the real self with its strong, wonderful feelings, will dissolve. You have already gained some preliminary 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
when looking at their personality, their concepts, their feelings or the lack of them, and at the 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
better yardstick of your real concepts, attitudes, and feelings than how your outer life manifests in any 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
the correspondence between the hitherto unconscious concepts and feelings and the manifest life experience is established, you 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
your life is a direct effect of your feelings and attitudes which, in turn, are the sum 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
fuller. In order to make this possible, your feelings must come alive. In this work, and in 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
lectures, we have often discussed the issue of feelings from various angles. But how exceedingly difficult it 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
where they discourage the full natural flow of feelings, where they deliberately numb them. It is usually 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
this, too, may be covered up by counterfeit feelings. After the first superficial layer is removed -- 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
encounter a sadness about the true lack of feelings. You feel like a cripple who is different 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
others, born with less capacity for rich, warm feelings. But this is never so, and there is 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
believe life is your enemy, and your life-affirming feelings would deeply involve you with this feared enemy 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
feared enemy. In order to avoid this, the feelings must be clipped, stilted, hindered. With some individuals 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
others, finding a harmony between their unhampered, spontaneous feelings and life. With others, this is true as 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
This takes your life from you. Since the feelings naturally affirm life, your feelings become your enemy 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
you. Since the feelings naturally affirm life, your feelings become your enemy also. Consequently, you proceed to 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
the misconception itself: that life, as well as feelings, are hostile forces you need to guard yourself 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
you need to guard yourself against. The natural feelings are always life- affirming, outreaching, joyous and so 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
As life is essentially buoyant, so are the feelings. As life is essentially positive, so are the 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
As life is essentially positive, so are the feelings. As life is essentially rich and involving, so 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
essentially rich and involving, so are the natural feelings when they are not tampered with. There the 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
be against you, you proceed to numb your feelings. As I have said before, you fear life 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
back, where, instead of affirming life and your feelings, and instead of expanding with your feelings into 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
your feelings, and instead of expanding with your feelings into life, you negate life and your feelings 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
feelings into life, you negate life and your feelings and retract from life, from your feelings, and 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
your feelings and retract from life, from your feelings, and consequently lose contact with them. You do 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
ill at ease. Negation of life, negation of feelings, and negation of self are all one and 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
experience requires the most direct, spontaneous freedom of feelings, where the joy and the involvement is most 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
avoid seeing the negation of the self, of feelings and of life, you produce a false self 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
of life, you produce a false self, false feelings, and therefore a false life. This is why 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
This explains the conflicts arising from the false feelings. This is why conflicts seem to be created 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
seem to be created when one trusts the feelings. It is never the real feelings that produce 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
trusts the feelings. It is never the real feelings that produce conflicts. There must always be a 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
relationship between the self, life, or others. False feelings are created because nothing is as frightening as 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
are compelled to go on numbing your real feelings. You are just as much frightened of awakening 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
are just as much frightened of awakening your feelings as you are of their deadness. You then 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
their deadness. You then proceed to create false feelings. These false feelings parallel other illusions -- about 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
then proceed to create false feelings. These false feelings parallel other illusions -- about your spiritual development 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
Being aware of the deliberate intent to numb feelings, and of the poverty-range of the feelings, constitutes 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
numb feelings, and of the poverty-range of the feelings, constitutes a major step in self-realization, because the 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
do not really believe either the fake good feelings or the negative ones they produce to avoid 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
distrust in their own innermost self, in their feelings, by making a general rule that life is 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
world is bad when one believes that one's feelings are unacceptable or dangerous; the illusion that ignores 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
one holds back the spontaneous flow of natural feelings, and the illusion that does not want to 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
admit them. It is rather obvious that false feelings are produced when one talks oneself into a 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
at all. It is less obvious that the feelings are false when the rudiments of the particular 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
emotions is just as frequent as pretending positive feelings. Usually they go hand in hand and can 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
may all be dramatized and clung to. Artificial feelings, both positive and negative, serve to alleviate the 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
can you tell the difference between the real feelings and the false feelings, the genuine wellspring of 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
difference between the real feelings and the false feelings, the genuine wellspring of spontaneous life and the 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
a means of averting a terror? The manufactured feelings are always troublesome and problematic. They do not 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
becomes lifeless and finally ends in fright. False feelings always create problems on the dualistic level. Let 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
conflicts, and all are the result of false feelings. Artificial production of positive and negative feelings are 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
false feelings. Artificial production of positive and negative feelings are both equally damaging, but each breeds different 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
different manifestations on the practical level. False positive feelings breed irreconcilable conflicts. False negative feelings, after a 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
False positive feelings breed irreconcilable conflicts. False negative feelings, after a time, appear as real negative feelings 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
feelings, after a time, appear as real negative feelings. They begin to envelop you and involve you 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
played a game and deliberately constructed the false feelings, let us say fear or anger. These feelings 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
feelings, let us say fear or anger. These feelings seem to keep the psyche alive, as it 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
on this temporary plane of existence real negative feelings do exist, real anger, real fear, real hurt 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
ever be a waste. Only numbing the real feelings and creating false feelings, no matter how subtle 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
Only numbing the real feelings and creating false feelings, no matter how subtle they are, is a 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
how subtle they are, is a waste. False feelings are the result of a chain reaction that 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
yourself actually holding back the natural process, the feelings that want to stream out of you, beautifully 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
created their own lack of fulfillment through false feelings. People who live a false life with false 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
People who live a false life with false feelings often believe themselves further advanced than those who 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
part in you that very much wants the feelings, wants the experience of feeling yourself alive and 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
alive and vibrant with the beauty of such feelings, as only the most dynamic experience on this 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
not find yourself in such a situation. Your feelings would be directed toward a person who is 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
In fact, it would be unthinkable that your feelings could be elicited, could be ignited in a 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
cases, people find that if and when their feelings are unexpectedly returned, their own feelings cool off 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE

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