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| silly, stubborn, and childish notion, you are thus denying God, at least in one aspect of your | 19 JESUS CHRIST |
| Christ had to be a virgin and that denying this is sacrilege. Others go to the opposite | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| not considering yourself with healthy self-respect, you are denying to yourself as much right as to the | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| fault. My failures are due only to the denying of my wishes, which they constantly inflict upon | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| man has weakened himself at the core. By denying in himself that which he erroneously had thought | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| You will then understand that you had been denying yourself the chance of receiving the only true | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| fact that it still exists for you. By denying it, you may encounter the danger of negation | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| The person who cringes away from suffering -- denying, never facing it, and irrationally fearing it beyond | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| exist for two reasons. They exist, first, for denying one's true self, for the indignity of being | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| You then either turn away from God altogether, denying His very existence in the universe, or you | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| is. Your conscious or unconscious rationalizations in still denying the awareness and expression of your emotions, even | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| a child, and that he has gone on denying it himself by way of the image, with | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| perhaps again unconsciously. When you are aggressively arrogant, denying your own need to find love, affection, communication | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| the superstitious God- Image and self-projection of man, denying self-responsibility. This latter state of atheism, erroneous in | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| its existence. When you struggle against your insecurity, denying its existence, it rises up behind the dam | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| repress your insecurity, you actually increase it. By denying its existence, you make it bigger and stronger | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| doubt, you may struggle against the doubt by denying its existence, but you do not remove it | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| on having to have what you want, while denying your own and life's limitations. My dearest friends | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| doing so can it gradually be outgrown. In denying its existence, you overlook its manifestations; how it | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| independence, he fights against his manhood. But in denying his need for love due to the misconception | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| need into something bad. This fact requires hiding, denying, repression. The existing energy does not dissolve into | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| healthy, fulfilled life -- cannot grow into maturity. Denying the need to receive causes the psyche, in | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| compulsive, problematic giving is often the result of denying a need to receive. The latter may have | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| of inner friction, which is the result of denying a rightful need. Outer friction with one's environment | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| further result. There are many possible reasons for denying or ignoring the rightfulness of the original need | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| dealt with. They are merely a result of denying the original need or feeling. Displacement, as discussed | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| until recently that you went way overboard by denying yourself every gratification and fulfillment. You feel extremely | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| within the self which create an undesirable destiny. Denying these limitations by sheer outer will that comes | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| for self-expression and fulfillment stubbornly remains unfulfilled, a denying attitude that does not want it, that holds | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| whatever motivations and reasons. If you persist in denying the fact that you reject your very wish | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| all harm, all destructiveness, all evil results from denying the spontaneous real self, and substituting secondary reactions | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| Confusing the impulse with the deed and therefore denying both, results in extreme disturbance for the self | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| feelings and negative events. Instead of repressing it, denying it, looking away from it, you must face | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| to remain in a negative, undesirable state. By denying the truth that you can choose your attitudes | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| Expose it for what it really is. Stop denying it. For only then will you discover that | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| cultivating a negative, destructive, or at least a denying attitude toward life. That is why you have | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| separating and withdrawing, toughening yourself, numbing your feelings, denying your real feelings and substituting counterfeit feelings, and | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| yourself. You must live it through, not by denying it or struggling away from it, but by | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| of mutual positiveness, until the negative, destructive, and denying side is fully understood and eliminated. The negative | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| is fully understood and eliminated. The negative, the denying and destructive direction would not be as fierce | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| or a lack of concern. My response seems denying because the concept they still have about life | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| way, and a justification of this negation, while denying its existence. The denial manifests in a continuous | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| wastefully and ignorantly think you protect yourself by denying them. You think the life process is not | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| see how they stop the life process by denying the life stream, are nearer to the solution | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| contradict previous convictions and experience. This obstacle of denying a fact that is immediately available -- because | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| to feel and love is your present reality. Denying the present reality makes it impossible to experience | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| objectively observing them, without plunging into despair and denying the defects. This attitude in itself removes the | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| control. Why is humanity bent on destroying, dominating, denying and manipulating creative life -- that is, the | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| willfully interrupted and prohibited by an overly watchful, denying attitude of the outer ego. The average human | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| negative reactions and confusions by covering them up, denying their existence, the less you can cope with | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a sense of proportion, not exaggerating and not denying, not whitewashing the self, nor dramatizing oneself into | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| another person in the way of a child, denying the adult you are, you enslave yourself in | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| wondrous manner, to a degree you cannot imagine. Denying the intense ecstasy of this life force which | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| are in harmony with the laws of life. Denying the truth of your saying no and then | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| saying no and then blaming others -- and denying the blame as well -- is a violation | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| are aware of it or not. Rather than denying the struggle, let your mood, your inner feeling | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| on your real inherent wisdom, while negating and denying the childish misunderstandings in your personality. To admit | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| many people result from a deep-seated fear of denying anything. This is not real goodness -- based | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| self. Learn to calm your mind and stop denying your feelings by agitatedly fitting the hurtful event | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| experience your actual sensations and feelings without either denying or exaggerating them. Thus you awaken your spiritual | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| the surface. This is so much better than denying and going away again from this point of | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| be disharmonious and disturbing. You will go on denying what tries to make itself known to you | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| itself. If you accept its real nature without denying or aggrandizing it, it will soon diminish and | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| can then see yourself cramping up, numbing yourself, denying the experience of abandonment. As you see yourself | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| fear and cramp up against this limit. But denying the result of your own action is an | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| Therefore you fall into the error of justifying, denying, falsifying, and rationalizing -- and often even beautifying | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| while rigid, reluctant movement is painful. Rather than denying the hidden reluctance, focus on it. Relaxed and | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| the willingness. Nothing could be more harmful than denying that the self is unwilling to abandon destructive | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| the destructive side must not be done by denying what exists until you no longer know that | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| then can the process of reeducation begin. The denying, panicky, frightened, self-rejecting, and perfection-demanding attitude you usually | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| really is not. By contrast, the price of denying it is enormous. You may grope in confusion | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| error, confusion, duality. You will see that by denying the evil in you, you do greater harm | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| your manifest spirituality, than you realize. For by denying it, you inactivate an essential part of your | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| long as you try to become good by denying evil, by forcing yourself to be what you | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| act out destructiveness, you do express evil. By denying its existence, you stagnate vital creative energy, which | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| will not create a new negative condition by denying what I have created. In this way, you | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| it again -- which is your way of denying the reality of your present state, your fear | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| moment you do this, you inactivate destructiveness, without denying or hiding it. When you deny your malice | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| that they are is a profound manifestation of denying self- responsibility and of dependency. In effect, you | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| the sake of appearance, for the sake of denying the lower aspects, because the conscious, determining, choosing | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| a defense against feeling as not knowing and denying the knowledge part of the feeling. This shows | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| who denies feeling experience. When you go on denying awareness and refusing to feel the experience of | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| block the experience. You anesthetize yourself. Numbing and denying often seems the only protection against unbearable pain | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| upon you, and you again protect yourself by denying the pain rather than experiencing it to its | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| to you, without manipulating it by exaggerating or denying it, it will run its natural course. This | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| energy into destructive energy. The inner lie of denying experience of the feeling self creates a falsification | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| up the false needs that have accrued from denying the pain of the original unfulfillment. Let yourself | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| energy can be reconverted once you have stopped denying it. My friends, let this sink in: Your | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| hence selfwill, which always blurs and falsifies reality, denying all desirable life experience. Other ego tricks that | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| serve to maintain its present safe position are: denying pleasure, bliss, joy, expansion, and creative movement into | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| words strongly and decisively, without covering up or denying the negative will, but meeting it head on | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| you have already started to recognize that by denying your negativity you incur a double guilt. First | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| Then you are involved in the guilt for denying this negativity, which we may call the secondary | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| from giving up your stake in hiding, projecting, denying, and distorting; it grows from giving up an | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| perversion -- pleasure in giving pain, pleasure in denying the self and the other. Hating, selfish, cruel | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| be envious, jealous, petty, self-serving, spiteful, manipulative, malicious, denying others their own Godself -- in short, loveless | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| understand the hardship and therefore really dissolve it. Denying the hardship only appears temporarily to eliminate it | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| immediately shut the lid tight again. Yet by denying your fear you also deny that you are | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| plague you -- although you may succeed in denying your awareness of them -- as you unfortunately | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| negativities and hopelessness, seeing only what is life- denying, and not seeing where your life already expresses | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| you first assumed as a safety measure. However, denying the positive and believing in the worst to | 236 THE SUPERSTITION OF PESSIMISM |
| the mask level through the false way of denying your frustrated feelings, but truly overcome it. Not | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| explore your anxieties. The anxiety you produce by denying your anxiety is much greater than the original | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| confusions that inevitably arise as a result of denying your soul movement, your inner call to give | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| were totally wrong. They are then justified in denying all their parents stood for. On a very | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| be wrong -- that the personal guilt in denying the truth of Jesus Christ seems too painful | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| strong emotional involvement with, nor a stake in denying this idea; because your doors are much more | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| no stake in holding on to anything, or denying anything, except to finding the truth. This commitment | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| your soul. Instead of fearing the devils or denying their existence so you can overcome your fear | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| your difficulty in achieving this openness, rather than denying or hiding it. If you do not expose | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| figures in your life whom you accuse of denying your selfhood, the more you secretly resent them | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| it unfolds around you, never fleeing it, never denying it, never using spirituality as a means to | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| reaction whose origin is precisely the pain of denying oneness. It has often been mentioned that the | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| you do this. Only through experiencing rather than denying your various pains can you do this. The | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |