| Buying......................3 | |
| what is the general emotional basis for compulsive buying and eating? And how can these two particular | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| to subtly hitch this responsibility onto others by buying them with my false unselfishness, through enslavement, through | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| We were then in very preliminary negotiations about buying the Phoenicia property that was to become our | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| Bypass......................16 | |
| will recognize certain events which he used to bypass but which he now sees as examples of | 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS |
| mentioned, it is possible for us spirits to bypass the blocks that are in the way. Therefore | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| of a burden. Try it also another way: Bypass everything that bothers you in the other people | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| your feelings in exactly this way. Unfortunately, you bypass most of these opportunities for self-knowledge and purification | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| How can you believe that you can simply bypass all the disharmony you yourself have planted in | 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE |
| and has to become conscious first. You cannot bypass this stage. If you try, your unselfish action | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| go to the essence of the thing, they bypass the real issue and are therefore ineffectual. This | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| of others. If you want to disregard and bypass the inner noise of fears, shames, defenses, and | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| these accessible areas. For them my words can bypass mere intellectual understanding and reach the underlying emotional | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| relationships and interactions between human beings must constantly bypass each other. Outflowing currents crisscross, miss one another | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| or not this aim is articulated, if you bypass this confrontation. This approach includes giving voice to | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| of others' negativity. Thus, a free person can bypass evil layers and activate the best in others | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| to play creatively. An artist who wants to bypass the effortfulness of learning the ground rules can | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| therefore of any path you contemplate entering, to bypass feeling your anxiety and your pain, to avoid | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| you may have tried other approaches, hoping to bypass this highly unpleasant task, but real solutions cannot | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| be or could be by magic. Then you bypass the now point that could give you the | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| Bypassed....................4 | |
| who should be chosen and who should be bypassed at least at this time. Particular spirits who | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| This important mark on the path is often bypassed, and then you gradually forget the significance of | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| aspects of your being can be avoided, skipped, bypassed or whisked away by some magic spiritual means | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| laborious change and break in consciousness can be bypassed if the personality is truly devoted to give | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| Byproduct...................48 | |
| possible. They will come simply as a natural byproduct of your inner victory in walking the path | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| think about it. It will come as a byproduct, if and when you follow this path of | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| unimaginable bliss -- though this is a wonderful byproduct, so to speak -- but service to God | 18 FREE WILL |
| so, but generally this happens rather as a byproduct of a certain talent of seership where particular | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| are merely imaginary, my friends. They are the byproduct of this earth sphere in which you live | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| for others, and consider the resulting happiness a byproduct, a means to an end, rather than the | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| as pure as expecting happiness only as a byproduct, it is still a step forward in the | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| there exists a much better state is a byproduct of spiritual development, of a higher state of | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| True satisfaction and safety, which should be the byproduct of real success, is incompatible with the separate | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| for others -- consider this happiness as a byproduct, as a means to an end, and not | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| here, namely that happiness should be only a byproduct, a means to an end, but it is | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| not fleeing it. Accept it as a necessary byproduct of life and your own temporary state of | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| also leads a fuller life. Almost as a byproduct, there is also an increase of creativity. People | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| simply cultivated and learned. It is a natural byproduct of growth and awareness. You become more seeing | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| be paid. Rather, it came as a necessary byproduct of your pseudo-solution, and with this defense mechanism | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| and perhaps even intellectual insight -- as a byproduct, so to speak -- result from it? How | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| and come of themselves. They are an indirect byproduct of self-awareness and arise spontaneously, not determined by | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| is unhealthy. Take self-pity, which is always a byproduct of depression. It is unhealthy because it is | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| and the self -- which is always a byproduct of the genuine article. I do not say | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| of all this will come as a natural byproduct of ceasing the futile struggle to keep your | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| up lie all the emotions which are a byproduct of truth. In a disharmonious soul movement contact | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| you cannot eliminate hopelessness which is always a byproduct of such an inner situation. As long as | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| with these efforts, as if it were a byproduct, an unconnected unfoldment. That is the real thing | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| and productivity and inner peace, which is a byproduct of finding the real self. The only way | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| and waste set in. Since pleasure is a byproduct of the cosmic stream it cannot possibly be | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| for, it cannot come. It comes as a byproduct, as it were, although it is all that | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| is not only possible but is a natural byproduct. You cannot be the real self without being | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| sensation of being carried by life, is a byproduct of the path you are on. The more | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| geared to think of consciousness as exclusively a byproduct of personality, that it can exist only in | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| draw on. The dimming of memory is a byproduct of the life/death cycle in which everyone is | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| your spiritual center does manifest inexorably as a byproduct, the result of the direct act of will | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| pain and discomfort that appear to be a byproduct of this path are only an illusion; as | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| justified to hate, resent, and take revenge. Another byproduct of your disconnection is your growing feeling of | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| But whenever this ability grows organically as a byproduct of knowing your own inner makeup, it is | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| learning or effort. It unfolds organically as a byproduct of your going through the dark spots within | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| However, such fulfillment has to become a natural byproduct of your inner state. Also it should not | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| least expect it. It will come as a byproduct of your search for your truth. Only indirectly | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| meaningful process I described, which is the natural byproduct of purification, fulfillment and connection. They fear dying | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| almost inadvertently at first. It merely seems a byproduct of the purification work. Life can temporarily withdraw | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| longer applicable. However, this polarization was an inevitable byproduct of the rule system -- rules which the | 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE |
| self- purification. Then it comes as a gratuitous byproduct. It seems to happen to you from within | 228 BALANCE |
| little -- almost as if it were a byproduct -- a deep, secure and intuitive inner knowledge | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| of your hate, it may be a necessary byproduct of your struggle to find the way out | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| fulfillment can be, and often is, a direct byproduct of the great, deep, universal longing for the | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| letting these other fulfillments flow as a natural byproduct of your dedication to your task for God | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| recognized in a vague way, perhaps as a byproduct of evil but hardly ever as a powerful | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| grows, the cleansing process must be an inexorable byproduct, my beloved ones. As you cleanse yourselves inwardly | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| one with thought. Communication is a most important byproduct of advanced spiritual states. The ability to communicate | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| By-product..................3 | |
| hardship if not accompanied by pleasure as a by-product. But to the degree you insist on being | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| a larger order manifests itself. Orderliness is a by-product of divine harmony. In this lecture I will | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| new influx. One is communication. Communication is a by-product of highly developed consciousness. To the degree that | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| Cake........................4 | |
| alternatives and none of their drawbacks, having their cake and eating it too. When they have to | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| pay any price; it wants to have its cake and eat it too. If you have difficulties | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| and to accept that you cannot have your cake and eat it too. Unconsciously, most people constantly | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| decisions, the more you want to have your cake and eat it too, the less you are | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |