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| to reach perfection, and open the door through wanting it. Only then will you perceive this help | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| separate place, elevates itself above the other by wanting something better for itself than for the other | 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES |
| much at a false extreme as its opposite: wanting to see oneself as already perfect. A person | 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS |
| know themselves and their motives, either by not wanting to or through self-deception, build on untruth. When | 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS |
| with a humble and patiently detached attitude, without wanting to know everything at once. The right attitude | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| knows what the will of God is, not wanting anything else. QUESTION: But this is a long | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| their surroundings and in their own selves by wanting to follow their own very incomplete laws. QUESTION | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| meditate and become still and ask this question, wanting only truth and God's will, suddenly a new | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| separation, of egoism, of injustice, of discrimination, of wanting more for oneself than for one's neighbor, in | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| and motives by not showing them, and not wanting to look at them. After a while the | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| means you have given up making an impression, wanting love from others because you appear so wonderful | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| is a very important difference between thinking and wanting in the brain or in the spiritual core | 18 FREE WILL |
| first as you really are, without vanity, without wanting to be better or more than you are | 21 THE FALL |
| to love are such. Overcoming your weaknesses, or wanting to be honest with yourself, which causes pain | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| may be surprised how this newly- discovered inner wanting deviates from your conscious desires. But do not | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| for the middle path. Accepting does not mean wanting to stay in a state of imperfection. It | 31 SHAME |
| of ambition and then seem to be left wanting in one or more ways in life, you | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| there is strong love or sympathy present. Not wanting to see the faults in this case indicates | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| your refusal to be unhappy. By defiance, self-pity, wanting to flee life or escape your trouble in | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| nothing selfish in that. If you believe that wanting the happiness that inevitably results from purification, after | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| you will encounter within yourself the trend of wanting to be more than you are, and that | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| Since I am not true to myself by wanting to appear better and greater, I am not | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| connection, and the difference, between fearing disapproval and wanting approval, as against fearing public opinion? ANSWER: There | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| but in what way is it different from wanting approval? ANSWER: It is not different. I would | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| before, and are willing to let go of wanting to be more perfect than you presently are | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| feel different than you do -- instead of wanting to immediately become more than you are now | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| or emotional health means knowing what you want, wanting what you can have, and being willing to | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| accept wrong in a sick and masochistic way, wanting to be tortured or wronged just to satisfy | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| Then the person turns away from God altogether, wanting no part of the monster discovered hovering in | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| a better light or position than one's fellow, wanting an advantage that is unfair to the other | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| it goes further than that. This desire includes wanting complete freedom without responsibility. You may not be | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| always a dishonesty. Because it is untruth, unreality, wanting to get something for nothing, not paying the | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| unconscious concept: since desires aim for happiness and wanting happiness is selfish, I must suppress all desires | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| little selfish. It is not so much for wanting approval or love, but perhaps that I want | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| desire coming from the higher self and truly wanting to love is stopped because you are ashamed | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| outer situation appears, you acutely feel the dependent, wanting, needing parent as inferior, while the one who | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| but it is also true that despite your wanting the right goal and having pure motives, your | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| All suffering comes from ignorance, from lack of wanting to face the truth. Therefore, those who honestly | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| developed. You will then feel the difference between wanting something freely and needing it so much that | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| of relaxed passivity, while at the same time wanting to grow and learn from the experience, you | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| of withdrawal from emotional involvement, a feeling of wanting to be left alone with the rationalization that | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| observed. In spite of so much that is wanting, humanity as a whole has come a long | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| right place, and the right people, of not wanting to use such expression as would yield you | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| feel guilty about existing negative trends while still wanting to have it your way. You will feel | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to ask oneself what was the motive for wanting such a state of elation. Of course, the | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| see what is right there requires discipline and wanting to see it. QUESTION: Isn't prayer a kind | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| be approached lightly and irresponsibly. Childish willfulness, always wanting to get something for nothing, should not be | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| against it. You defy the world, while still wanting to find your way. If your way should | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| not yield constructive results. The motives may be wanting to obey and appease others and come from | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| self-will, and fear. There is the pride of wanting and needing to be perfect. And since a | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| You will find that, partly, your motivations in wanting something that in itself was perfectly all right | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| false. If it comes from fear, guilt, or wanting to appease so as to be protected, then | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| seems impossible for you now. Begin by simply wanting to understand. The rest will take care of | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| may be correct to a degree, while not wanting to see the full truth about their own | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| is not a question of the other not wanting to receive anything from you, but perhaps not | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| to receive anything from you, but perhaps not wanting it at this time, in this way. Perhaps | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| I am pointing to the proper combination of wanting and willing, while letting free: the self- will | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| that this is not possible. It amounts to wanting to be something that you are not. Your | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| of being punished for it; the pride of wanting to be above it. Being not frantic to | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| of peace is always due to somewhere not wanting to face yourself. Remember this, and as you | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| will rebel. Then it will be out of wanting affection without being a slave, yet the person | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| reaction indicates an excessive demand on your part: wanting the advantages of close relationships without giving in | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| will no longer be detrimental to you. Not wanting to see the negative does not eliminate its | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| searches for God and searches for spiritual development, wanting to become a better person. It is unhappiness | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| guilt. This impairment encourages the false assumption that wanting to receive is wrong, thereby increasing the denial | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| be due to the childish desire of not wanting to pay the necessary price connected with the | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| only productive way, namely with the intent of wanting to see and understand the truth about the | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| issuing forth the strong, clear, unbroken consciousness of wanting and deserving the desired experience. The misconception that | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| of its existence is no guarantee that your wanting it is a yes-current. Apart from the opposite | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| out of greed and fear, of too much wanting, and greed and fear are products of the | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| instead of fully using these tools, instead of wanting to change the attitudes that cause your unhappiness | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| I now say Yes to really and truly wanting to find out my particular No's. Take one | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| With all my heart I say Yes to wanting to understand the No. First you will feel | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| As long as you withdraw in fear, not wanting to take the risk of letting go of | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| question the issue in a spirit of really wanting to see whether or not it is constructive | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| an unconscious countercurrent must exist. Truly and relaxedly wanting the desirable result can only happen when you | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| fear your inadequacy to obtain or maintain it. Wanting a goal does not exclude the fact that | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| self and the creative powers is the wholehearted wanting of happiness, that is not always as simple | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| it is wanted, what soul movements accompany this wanting, has first to be determined. In order to | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| free from any countercurrents. Apart from this relaxed wanting, without urgency, compulsion, tension and fear, it is | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| suit. Shrinking away from a feared alternative and wanting the positive alternative because of that, makes the | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| to be aware of the fine differentiation between wanting happiness for the sake of happiness, or wanting | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| wanting happiness for the sake of happiness, or wanting it in order to avoid unhappiness. I have | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| long as there is something in you not wanting to accept this possibility, and as long as | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| -- hence effort, tension, fear -- or not wanting to change, out of fear of losing out | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| long as you ignore the connection between your wanting the result you now suffer from and experiencing | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| you must be eternally in the whirlpool of wanting and fearing the same thing. And this truly | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| This is the real key. The struggle of wanting and fearing closeness with others, as well as | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| fearing closeness with others, as well as of wanting and fearing intimate contact with one's innermost self | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| one's inner being is activated. Another barrier against wanting to add to life with the total strength | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| the terrible struggle they suffer in their isolation, wanting to reach others and yet, the minute they | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| dispense with the pseudo-necessity of pursuing negative aims. Wanting to defeat life, others and yourself, out of | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| up the resistance to using the key of wanting to give keenly of the best you are | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| of pain. If the personality were conscious of wanting non-health as well as health, the struggle would | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| is wanted, for as we have seen, this wanting merely creates the new direction, contrary to the | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| You then come into the position of not wanting to part from the precarious pleasure you derive | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| easily. Where and why do you believe that wanting the negative is safer for you than wanting | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| wanting the negative is safer for you than wanting the positive? You hinder yourself from wanting the | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| than wanting the positive? You hinder yourself from wanting the positive. If you cannot stop this process | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| has is always directly related to somehow not wanting to accept a truth about oneself. We must | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| creates negative chain reactions results from your not wanting to be in truth. For one reason or | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| the wrong actually is. This simple act of wanting the truth requires several conditions, the most important | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| at an outer goal. It cannot come by wanting to be different, by striving to attain a | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| I do not love, and I refrain from wanting to love because I am afraid of it | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| could, but I am not yet capable of wanting to contact my real self. They then proceed | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| for example, and content themselves with that, not wanting to see the rest of their illusions, which | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| the psyche tried to find a compromise between wanting to be alive, wanting to feel the sweetness | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| find a compromise between wanting to be alive, wanting to feel the sweetness and fullness of life | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| in a distorted fashion. It produces guilt for wanting what others have and at the same time | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| accord to both and through the sincerity of wanting to give as much as you wish to | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| a specific illusion, of overcoming a barrier to wanting to be constructive rather than destructive, and not | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| be, and letting yourself feel, as well as wanting to be discerning about your discoveries. All this | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| attitude. Cooperate with this inner lawfulness by simply wanting to see the truth in yourself. I recapitulate | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| guilt feelings, conflicts and confusions -- such as wanting closeness and fearing it, therefore becoming more deprived | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a parent substitute, making him or her responsible, wanting to be taken care of and refusing the | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| can be given up only when you stop wanting from others what you must supply for yourself | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| as if it needed to be feared. Not wanting to look at it logically results in lack | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| these causes, this must be the process: really wanting to see where you say no to what | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| is only pride that keeps you from fully wanting to find the cause within. And it is | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| the tremendously painful division within you -- of wanting the thing you fear and fearing the thing | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| ego-self clings to separating attitudes -- perhaps not wanting to expand and love others, or perhaps wanting | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| wanting to expand and love others, or perhaps wanting to be vindictive, and punishing others with one's | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| all. This must connect of course with not wanting to let go of the ego. What I | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| what I want. If you feel yourself not wanting it, do not gloss over this all-important, crucial | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| not want the good. What blocks me from wanting it? In whatever area it may be, say | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| consumes the energy you need for loving and wanting love, as well as for looking at the | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| only by your presence in the spirit of wanting to receive guidance and truth, but primarily by | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| giving of love, on the generous spirit of wanting to give of oneself. It is a subtle | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| nor will you need to feel guilty for wanting your own fulfillment and joy. With that understanding | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| answers always come if you are sincere in wanting to know and thus properly receptive. Then, and | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| awareness as laziness, inertia, apathy, even as not wanting to do things or move your body, mind | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| physical dying. Dying is a direct result of wanting to be unfeeling, hence dead, hence nonmoving. When | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| cause. Dying is a result of not quite wanting to live, of rejecting aspects of living, such | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| the willingness to lose. This means risking. Not wanting to risk is ungenerous. And anything ungenerous is | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| greater power. Not trusting the universe, not ever wanting to risk, is a pettiness in the spirit | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| you do not wish to experience. This excessive wanting and not wanting creates not only a cramp | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| wish to experience. This excessive wanting and not wanting creates not only a cramp, but contains also | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| do with a free and loving act of wanting to help. Another example might be a woman | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| life. Not knowing this principle -- or not wanting to know it -- will produce bitterness and | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| and seeing results and connections, is what makes wanting to give up negativity possible. It is not | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| you insist on being an irresponsible child -- wanting to make others pay for your actions or | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| make others pay for your actions or inactions, wanting to secretly, neurotically cheat life -- to the | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| were a danger. Meditate and commit yourself to wanting to be aware of it. Then the next | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| your holding on to the negativity, your not wanting to give up negative and destructive patterns of | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| The self is bound in the struggle of wanting and fearing the same thing. Unawareness of this | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| specific negativity, you cannot change it simply by wanting to. Instead you must use your will to | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| and its effects, facing the results and really wanting to change. All this is volitional. Then suddenly | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| and pretenses that stand in the way. The wanting must be affirmed in calm trust and firm | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| spontaneous unification occurs. You will let it happen, wanting it in a relaxed and determined way. This | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| minds of everyone involved that, again, it requires wanting to see a reality beyond the apparent one | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| that his hopelessness is a direct result of wanting his own destruction. His hatred grows to the | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| comprehend further the deeply embedded misconceptions responsible for wanting to retain this game. But now there is | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| aspect of the growth process, largely comes from wanting to absolve yourself from blame or extract yourself | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| for yourself. What then prevents you from indeed wanting positive experiences, fulfillment, pleasure? Offhand you will say | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| do not want to cheat life by secretly wanting more than I am willing to give. I | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| life substance. When you disconnect yourself from your wanting to be negative and to experience life in | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| and elimination of all negativity. Commit yourself to wanting it and request inner help. Say this to | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| prerequisite here: it means ingathering yourself; calmly, quietly wanting to know the truth of this particular circumstance | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| On the conscious level the ego's function is wanting to see the full truth of both the | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| of both the lowest and highest in you, wanting with all of its strength to change and | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| the consciousness of the negative inner child by wanting this and committing itself to it. This is | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| should not be approached in a spirit of wanting to get it over with, as if only | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| partly an expression of avoiding the frustration of wanting something that cannot be done and must prove | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| that takes action by facing the self; by wanting truth and change; by the willingness to expose | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| old, distorted, cheating way of life, while still wanting to reach for the new, liberated, free way | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| itself. Part of the resistance is based on wanting to deny the split, which is the inner | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| will is expressed, as your ego-personality commits to wanting help, you will become calm, open and receptive | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| are ready and willing to commit themselves to wanting to overcome their present stagnation, to wanting additional | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| to wanting to overcome their present stagnation, to wanting additional help. Four people came forth, one at | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| human personality is often on the brink of wanting to make this step. But this brink feels | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| depend on the other, prevents you from even wanting to assume self-responsibility. Doing so seems to require | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| opposed to resentful; fulfilled, as opposed to eternally wanting and empty; joyful and content, as opposed to | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| If you unconsciously want to cheat life by wanting more than you are willing to give, you | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| Or, if I want a positive result without wanting to make the necessary change in my own | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| and your companions is based precisely on not wanting to see the existence of such senseless destruction | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| comes about by the ego committing itself to wanting the change, and trusting in the processes of | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| whatever degree you take a step toward merely wanting it, the clouds become thinner. To whatever degree | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| spite, cheating life by not paying the price, wanting more than one is willing to give, and | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| up your dishonesty and negative intentionality, and by wanting to give honestly the best that is in | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| this topic. One of the important obstacles to wanting to establish the channel with your real being | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| establish the channel with your real being and wanting to give up dishonesty is your guilt for | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| the primary guilt -- the guilt of not wanting to love, but at least you have assumed | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| does. But there is an enormous difference between wanting this recognition in a healthy way and depending | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| specifically. We will discuss the energy movement of wanting, wishing, desiring -- its meaning, its significance in | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| us now deal with the soul movements of wanting, wishing or desiring. Everything that exists in human | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| cutting edges which are pointed and hurtful. Both wanting and not wanting can be harmonious and soft | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| are pointed and hurtful. Both wanting and not wanting can be harmonious and soft or disharmonious and | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| the self makes the self capable of even wanting to be in truth, of having the courage | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| that it is, you do not risk even wanting to see it. Seeing truthfully may elicit anger | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| is your thinking, your not knowing, your not wanting to feel, to know, and to consider this | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| thought in that direction, by a commitment to wanting it, to experiencing it, to realizing and bringing | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| of your wishful thinking, of your stake in wanting a certain answer and not another, of your | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| foundation. To the degree you are aware of wanting one answer and not another, you will avoid | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| the personal stake of the ego and of wanting a certain thing in one way and not | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| negative feelings, negative intentions, about holding back, not wanting to give but wanting to get everything you | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| about holding back, not wanting to give but wanting to get everything you can -- and consequently | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| still deeper level of negative intentionality, of not wanting to change them, has not been uncovered, at | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| kind of fear has much to do with wanting to rise above and shine in the eyes | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| hold onto misconceptions that will prevent you from wanting to go beyond yourself. Perhaps you believe that | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| as I determine. This often appears as not wanting to give up something precious that is, in | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| I have already mentioned the apparent conflict of wanting to be loved, respected and appreciated and your | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| applies to all other kinds of relationships: to wanting a specific job, wanting friends, wanting people who | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| kinds of relationships: to wanting a specific job, wanting friends, wanting people who will buy what you | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| relationships: to wanting a specific job, wanting friends, wanting people who will buy what you have to | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| and inflict harm on others and yourself, sincerely wanting to change through self-confrontation, is entirely different from | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| For you constantly fluctuate in a battle between wanting to move and follow the longing, or resisting | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| For whenever you have a stake in not wanting to know the truth, you shut out the | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| beauty and love without humor. QUESTION: Competitiveness? Self-centeredness, wanting to be the center of attention? ANSWER: Self-centeredness | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| yourself strangely unable, as it were, to really wanting to give it up. And this is a | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| many negative aspects. It contains wishful thinking, not wanting to accept and deal with any unpleasant aspects | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| a lower self. It may be destructive in wanting to be malicious or ungiving. It is destructive | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| be expressed like this: Here I see myself wanting to be destructive. I see the pain it | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| will not make superficial decisions with your head, wanting the immediate fulfillment of your desire. The new | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| view that has a stake in not even wanting to widen one's perception and consider other possibilities | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| is not willing to understand the necessity of wanting it -- even if this means occasionally overcoming | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| operation on which the old attitude of taking, wanting, demanding and not giving is transformed into an | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| it may seem preferable to talk yourself into wanting what you ought to want, whatever you think | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| for you, or whether you are wrong in wanting it. You flounder in uncertainty. When you have | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| point of view -- for being perfect and wanting perfection, is love. It is the recognition that | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| You are untruthful in the sense of not wanting to see what you really feel and think | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| of the lower self. It is truly cheating, wanting to skip the laborious work of becoming, and | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| to skip the laborious work of becoming, and wanting to attain the desirable result without paying the | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| The guilt is then an inner guilt for wanting to grab a pleasure in a selfish way | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| is a part in me that persists in wanting to doubt and not only to mistrust but | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| the lazy part that resents the authority without wanting to be one and pay the price for | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| after much resistance, finally dedicate your being to wanting to see the truth, you sometimes go indeed | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| controlled circumstances. It is the result of not wanting to expose the deficits, so that true abundance | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| committed to it more than to anything else. Wanting to preserve your secret, on the other hand | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| fulfillments by relinquishing your passivity, your irresponsibility in wanting an ideal authority to do it all for | 254 SURRENDER |