| a relationship; or of never even fully establishing relationship in its true sense. Human beings can only | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| unmarried and unattached and are seeking a happy relationship, how much promiscuity do you advocate? ANSWER: I | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| responsibility for all consequences, fully committed to the relationship on whatever level it exists, if no false | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| whatever they do wholeheartedly, be it a human relationship, be it reading a book or taking a | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| and, in turn, breed new problems in the relationship between yourself and your helper. This is more | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| that your deep-rooted unresolved problems stand in direct relationship to your shame, your inhibitions and your daily | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| children as well as to any other human relationship or situation. Confusion always signals that knowledge about | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| split must be challenged most dramatically in this relationship. The double relationship from the child to both | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| challenged most dramatically in this relationship. The double relationship from the child to both father and mother | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| the child's psyche is free and healthy, the relationship with a set of parents manifests as an | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| his or her intense relationships. The original traumatic relationship to both parents is repeated throughout a person's | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| is acted out, and his or her parental relationship reexperienced. If both, or more, persons are negatively | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| of life, first lived out in the parental relationship. Some of you have an inkling of what | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| and psychiatrists have understood this phenomenon in their relationship with their patients. But only segments of this | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| way of life is not given up, no relationship is uninfluenced by it -- certainly no relationship | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| relationship is uninfluenced by it -- certainly no relationship of any importance and intensity. You are caught | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| ANSWER: It is only a result of the relationship to the parents. Even if a relationship to | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| the relationship to the parents. Even if a relationship to a sibling is outwardly more problematic and | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| explored, it must be found that the sibling relationship is always directly related to the parental situation | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| of reaching out. It contains the elements of relationship, communication, love, understanding. It reaches out to the | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| and the behavior patterns deriving from the parental relationship, you will gain considerably deeper insight. This insight | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| it is impossible to maintain a fruitful, dynamic relationship. It must always end, and therefore such a | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| greater understanding and a wider vision of the relationship between the individual and the totality of all | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| applies to humankind as a whole. The same relationship exists between the totality of one human being | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| sense of how its pleasure may have a relationship with the pain of another. There is no | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| confused in a situation, negatively involved in a relationship, and cannot come out of a disturbed feeling | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| and the need for mutuality in a love relationship; between the need for solitude and the need | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| aware of the unfulfilled need for a mutual relationship, for a mate. You have to specifically recognize | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| example, if the need for ego-gratification in a relationship is disproportionately stronger than the need to give | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| these needs you will displace them onto a relationship or side-activity. As in the former example, the | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| the needs which lie behind the activity or relationship. It will then become possible to find and | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| infinitely more than a real rejection in your relationship. Discussing such a topic must, of necessity, be | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| the parallels, the similarities of reactions. But a relationship need not be shied away from because it | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| Not only can one grow in such a relationship, particularly when being alert to oneself, but usually | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| person also exist, which may still make the relationship rewarding for both. To the degree one recognizes | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| one recognizes oneself, to that degree will the relationship grow more real and less a repetition of | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| to one's own inner freedom and integration. The relationship between the sexes, which is the most intense | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| to let go of himself in a full relationship. It seems to him that his discipline will | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| way you can face the reality of the relationship in question and your fear will vanish. If | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| The communications you are unaware of determine the relationship. Being in a state of ignorance about this | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| more in the technique that establishes a fearless relationship with others. Are there any questions now? QUESTION | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| in health and in a happy partnership and relationship, but you may feel selfish and greedy if | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| reality of yourself brings you into a harmonious relationship with life. This becomes more and more a | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| you will remain fenced in. This is the relationship between reality and illusion. Illusion appears real, but | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| any given field, it may be a happy relationship, being loved and fulfilled on all levels of | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| you want in a vocation, in a rewarding relationship, in growth and in self-unfoldment. Regardless of how | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| for example, that you wish this kind of relationship instead of that kind of relationship. Declare that | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| kind of relationship instead of that kind of relationship. Declare that you wish a specific kind of | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| limitation one ascribes to life and to one's relationship to life always amounts to an arbitrary either/or | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| and effect? For example, you have a disharmonious relationship, but you do not see how you constantly | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| you have the ability to immediately change the relationship. But when you go on and on in | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| you find yourself alone, where you have no relationship, where you live in conditions in which it | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| it seems almost impossible to create a new relationship. This condition, then, is an effect not so | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| and frustration. When two people involved in a relationship have adopted opposing choices, the relationship must be | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| in a relationship have adopted opposing choices, the relationship must be fraught with friction to the point | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| being, the creation of art or science, a relationship, or the particular manner, style, and atmosphere of | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| an undertaking, to a person, or to a relationship. It makes no difference what it is. If | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| experience it. If you truly understand yourself in relationship to this very moment, momentary unhappiness notwithstanding, you | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| live in the moment and understand it in relationship to you, you cannot be fully happy. When | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| attitude to yourself. If you understand yourself in relationship to life, at this moment, you cannot possibly | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| God! 132. THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF Greetings, my dearest friends | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| real self from the ego. What is their relationship to each other? There are many confusing theories | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| or another at all times, not just in relationship between mates and sweethearts. It is also in | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| I feel that such expression may impair a relationship, I will not do so, but will withhold | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| then that you feel helpless, weak, afraid. The relationship between your body, your feelings, and your personal | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| your spontaneous feelings and your life? The same relationship exists in life as between body and feelings | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| unconscious deliberate numbness. The way to approach the relationship between the outer ego faculties of mind and | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| of life and yourself, as well as your relationship to life and to yourself, the movement begins | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| particularly available to human consciousness in the love relationship between the sexes. When your striving or longing | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| they are the same -- will make a relationship so hazardous that it is often avoided altogether | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| one extreme, who cannot even have any direct relationship with another person, who live merely in fantasies | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| boring. This is concluded because the actual, real-life relationship, in such instances, is never as satisfying as | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| barriers which keep you separated from others. Your relationship to another person can be successful only when | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| are motivated by your innermost being. If the relationship is determined solely by the outer intellect and | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| core of your being must be activated. Then relationship with another can be spontaneous and mutually satisfying | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| such an evolved being could enter into a relationship with an ordinary person who is racked by | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| Any other questions? QUESTION: I started a new relationship and I think I could be very fond | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| There is a compulsiveness in me about this relationship because I feel I can't progress more now | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| allows, and my still-existing problems may impede the relationship and ultimately cut it off. ANSWER: I will | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| that your still existing blocks will impede the relationship and might even jeopardize or destroy it. Now | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| my still-existing problems might contribute to an imperfect relationship which might finally cease. But this is life | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| other person must be equally responsible if the relationship does not work. It is not only your | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| to be so frightened. The fact that every relationship is a mutual proposition, whether or not that | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| is a mutual proposition, whether or not that relationship is good, must be brought home to all | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| be brought home to all who are involved. Relationship cannot be a one-sided thing. When you know | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| blame themselves alone for the failure of a relationship. Since they experience only their own needs and | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| cannot share the brunt of failure when the relationship does not work. Nor can such a person | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| level, your concern for the other in a relationship must grow. This will automatically give you the | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| making both active and passive contributions to the relationship. It must give you freedom and a sense | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| emotions is truly tested it often has no relationship to the issue at stake. It would rather | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| gain insight into the very nature of the relationship. You learn about yourself and the other, you | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| only you are willing to see yourself in relationship to life in a wider truth than you | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| discussion I should particularly like to stress the relationship between the nature of life and human nature | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| of something in the self and in the relationship between the self, life, or others. False feelings | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| blocked energy. Unblocking can occur only when the relationship between the inner and the outer negative conditions | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| depend, in the last analysis, entirely on the relationship between your ego and the universal life principle | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| self as we also call it. If this relationship is balanced, everything falls into place. All these | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| they base certain assumptions about life and their relationship to it on false ideas. These false ideas | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| are not responsive to direct pressure. The same relationship, my friends, exists between the ego and the | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| be overlooking many aspects of yourself, even your relationship to yourself, to others and life; when you | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| experiencing delight, pleasure, happiness. There is a direct relationship between the two. You will invariably see that | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| and union with the opposite sex. For this relationship combines all functions and potentials, it leaves out | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and potentials, it leaves out nothing if the relationship is truly deep and whole, if there is | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| effortless and self-perpetuating. A very secure and pleasurable relationship exists between the water and the body. There | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| of the person swimming, which determines the harmonious relationship, or balance, between the human body and the | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| or another, on helping you to understand the relationship between ego-consciousness and universal intelligence. We shall continue | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| you are put and whose laws have no relationship to your own inner laws. This concept, and | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| it is impossible to establish the kind of relationship between the conscious and unconscious that is necessary | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| latter and then to unify the two. The relationship between the conscious mind and the destructive part | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| unconscious stumbling blocks. By the same token, a relationship between the ego faculties and the wisdom, truth | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| life and with yourself arises from the proper relationship between the active and passive principles. When you | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| it manifests, so that you establish the proper relationship of tension and relaxation in your approach to | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| are -- God. 165. EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| I said here is an important aspect of relationship. Relationship is the very essence of life. No | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| said here is an important aspect of relationship. Relationship is the very essence of life. No one | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| spirit. There are certain very basic aspects of relationship that are important to understand. A threefold principle | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| applies to all elements of any kind of relationship and determines its nature. It is: perceiving, reacting | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| operates in health, truth, harmony and reality, then relationship must be fruitful and joyful. When these three | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| fruitful and joyful. When these three aspects of relationship operate in a distorted, unrealistic, disharmonious way, relationship | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| relationship operate in a distorted, unrealistic, disharmonious way, relationship cannot possibly be fruitful or joyful. As I | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| many times, you cannot possibly have a good relationship with others unless you first have a good | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| with others unless you first have a good relationship with yourself. Therefore these threefold aspects must first | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| more and more possible. With such a unified relationship toward the self, rather than a divided one | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| toward the self, rather than a divided one, relationship to others must become equally positive and fruitful | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| yourself in strife, there is something in your relationship to yourself that is not according to the | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| human problems are always primarily concerned with the relationship between the sexes. No matter what other problems | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| to say that in all these areas the relationship between the two aspects of creation varies as | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| consciousness of the truth of yourself and your relationship to the universe, and therefore of universal law | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| proven true until one begins to perceive the relationship between belief and experience. If you accept that | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| never merely mechanical. They always have a direct relationship to your own attitudes and to your innermost | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| immutable lawfulness as the human personality does. The relationship of every cell- consciousness to the human being | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| being is the same as the human being's relationship to humanity. To the degree that the personality | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| this tension? Ask yourself: What is the direct relationship between the specific body tension and fear? Send | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| most significantly and intensely experienced in a love relationship. But in different ways you will experience this | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| true solutions. 180. THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP Greetings, my dearest, dearest friends. Blessings for every | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| on first approaching the self. Only then can relationship be cultivated in a meaningful and effective way | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| of dissension and unification between human beings in relationship and show how these parallel the individual process | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| doing so I should like to say that relationship represents the greatest challenge for the individual, for | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| for the individual, for it is only in relationship to others that unresolved problems still existing within | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| to claim for too long that problems in relationship are caused only by others and not by | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| that the self withdraws from the challenge of relationship, thereby sacrificing personal fulfillment, pleasure, love, and joy | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| upon by life. One's contentment and fulfillment in relationship is a much neglected yardstick for one's own | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| a much neglected yardstick for one's own development. Relationship with others is a mirror of one's own | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| of human growth. The power and significance of relationship often pose severe problems for those who are | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| highly developed person who is responsible for the relationship. Specifically, that person is responsible for searching the | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| other. All this applies to any kind of relationship: mates, parents and children, friendships, or business contacts | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| yourself from difficulty when establishing and maintaining a relationship. It seems so much easier to shift most | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| by looking at your own problem in the relationship and by a willingness to change that freedom | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| appropriate spiritual duty to assume responsibility for the relationship and look for the core of dissension within | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| interaction, how one problem affects the other. The relationship must then deteriorate, leaving both parties confused and | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| relate, both carry the full responsibility for the relationship. This is indeed a beautiful venture, a deeply | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| significant. This will largely prevent injury to the relationship. Let me emphasize here that when I speak | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| mean is that difficulties of interaction in a relationship are usually not explored in depth by the | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| depends on the spiritually more evolved one. A relationship between individuals in which the destructiveness of the | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| fear that needs to be faced. If a relationship is dissolved on this ground; namely, that it | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| prevent him or her from forming a new relationship with similar underlying currents and interactions. It also | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| underlying interaction and the various effects of a relationship where both people's difficulties are laid bare and | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| it seems impossible to disentangle them. Many a relationship has faltered due to such unconscious interaction. The | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| can you articulate and pinpoint it. In a relationship that is about to blossom, one must be | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| challenging, beautiful, spiritually important and growth-producing kind of relationship is the one between man and woman. The | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| stay together in a more enduring and committed relationship, maintaining and even increasing bliss depends entirely on | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| one another. Are they aware of the direct relationship between enduring pleasure and inner growth? Do they | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| Do they use the inevitable difficulties in the relationship as yardsticks for their own inner difficulties? Do | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| answers to these questions will determine whether the relationship falters, dissolves, stagnates -- or blossoms. When you | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| dead in feelings. Difficulties that arise in a relationship are always signals for something unattended to. They | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| both partners. There is a mechanism in a relationship between a man and a woman that can | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| the finest and most subtle aspects of the relationship and the individual state of the two people | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| will blossom. The perfectly mature and spiritually valid relationship must always be deeply connected with personal growth | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| deeply connected with personal growth. The moment a relationship is experienced as irrelevant to inner growth, left | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| grow to their ultimate, inherent potential can the relationship become more and more dynamic and alive. This | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| has to be done individually and mutually. When relationship is approached in that way, it will be | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| state of the other and therefore to the relationship. Whenever there is friction or deadness, something must | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| or her inner suffering -- either within a relationship or in its absence. This state also brings | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| For reeducation, too, has to proceed through the relationship of the three interactive levels, just as it | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| rest of this lecture? QUESTION: I have a relationship similar to what you described. I cannot cope | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| galaxy, a work of art, or a good relationship between human beings. This applies even to the | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| is powerless to determine the course of the relationship. Usually the relationship is treated as if it | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| determine the course of the relationship. Usually the relationship is treated as if it were a separate | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| preservation of the ego. But failure in the relationship always indicates that the self is not yet | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| of mutuality must first be applied to the relationship between you and your inner self. Only then | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| Only then can it be extended to your relationship with others. But let me say here, my | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| of the principles governing human life and your relationship to the universe. Some of the material I | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| alone, or that you are in a fulfilling relationship and then utterly depend on the other, prevents | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| the opposite. But no matter how small in relationship to the liberated, positive aspects of self, the | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| not want to give to love, to the relationship, to the opposite sex my best, then you | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| case, comprehension of the longer-range cause and effect relationship implies that a further degree of maturity has | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| movement of the path. The cause and effect relationship seems broken to the human consciousness from one | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| order or disorder, and their meaning, connection, and relationship. Inner order exists when human beings are fully | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| confrontation, and the hard work of reintegrating the relationship on both a higher and more profound level | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| a playful way within an intimate and established relationship. Often the deviated sexual expression is quite conscious | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| partner and in the way you conduct the relationship. Harmonious fusion builds up to a point of | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| you pay. Begin to see creation as the relationship between the causes and effects that you have | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| have been neglected would color and affect the relationship, poisoning it as if from underground. When you | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| to this. First let me speak about the relationship between your inner and outer life. A lot | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| create relationships: the bliss of the most intimate relationship with one mate, and the satisfaction of deep | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| Yet even your physicists today know that the relationship of time/space/movement is of an infinite variety, and | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| inner world. Just as time, space, and the relationship of movement to time and space within your | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| established. It is exactly the same in a relationship. Even in the best relationship, if the most | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| same in a relationship. Even in the best relationship, if the most genuine love is forced and | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| you. You may indeed be entangled in a relationship where love does not come forth freely. But | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| for a tight energy accumulation, without jeopardizing the relationship with the all- important figure in your life | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| now point with all its glorious meaning and relationship to the whole. The love of all your | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| can know now, about yourself and about your relationship with the universe. The relationship between you and | 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| and about your relationship with the universe. The relationship between you and the universe becomes increasingly obvious | 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| not want to know me -- me in relationship to the world around me. This statement is | 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| come sporadically. When they come, they convey your relationship to your own process. Do you follow the | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| and eliminated. The same principle holds in the relationship between your own inner imperfections and your already | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| other phases they need to develop through their relationship to their surroundings. This alternation occurs in an | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| for a couple in order for the one-to-one relationship to be truly fulfilling. If you use a | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| do not wish to fend for yourself, the relationship becomes unbearable. By the same token, if you | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| a few enlightened human beings have sensed the relationship between mathematics and the key to the universe | 228 BALANCE |
| as it relates to women and the man-woman relationship. One cannot discuss this topic without noting the | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| cannot discuss this topic without noting the evolving relationship between the sexes. As the planet is maturing | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| also feel exploited by her. In such a relationship fulfillment is impossible. The woman will feel that | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| and then see how this applies to the relationship between the sexes. The new woman is completely | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| an implicit desire is bound to destroy any relationship. It is bound to make you resent and | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| he must gain his true strength. Therefore his relationship to the woman is truly one of equality | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| new-age man, the new-age woman and the new-age relationship. Where this does not yet exist, the mere | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| benefit to the other person and to the relationship -- and to take the risk of being | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| it and transforming the lower self, for your relationship to the world becomes altered. You no longer | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| does. QUESTION: May I ask another question, in relationship to the lecture? Could you give any kind | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| world. You come here together in a specific relationship. No matter how different you may be, you | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| of all that is. If you lack a relationship and are lonely, or if you are sexually | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| is much more difficult to see the same relationship between your thoughts, or your subtle inner attitudes | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| desirable effects. If you are unaware of the relationship between cause and effect in all areas of | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| a new position, a new boss, a new relationship or a new mate. The new authorities in | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| free and respect your dignity, so that the relationship between you will become a mutual giving and | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| you have a role to play in this relationship, and in accepting it you can only heighten | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| there that you need to change your fundamental relationship to your Creator. Where you have fear, insecurity | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| Creation, your part in it and your new relationship to God. It is all and it is | 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS |
| the story of humanity, the story of man's relationship to God, the story of God's presence in | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| a hopeless state in you and in your relationship to God -- restore your faith in Christ | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| the longest time and therefore co-created the unequal relationship between the sexes. Both sexes equally feared -- | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| to each other, through personal purification. The man-woman relationship of the past and the attitude toward marriage | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| Instead of admitting that he feared an equal relationship, the man had to make the woman an | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| other. It must be understood that the committed relationship is not a moralized edict that deprives you | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| prerequisites of fulfillment in an alive and vibrant relationship. When the vibrancy ebbs away, the causes need | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| others can participate. Secrets are always antithetical to relationship, to intimacy, to real and fulfilling contact. Secretive | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| every kind of friendship, and finally to the relationship between countries. Keeping your negative aspects secret makes | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| discussed this before, specifically in connection with the relationship between mates. I need to repeat it here | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| by secretiveness, pretense, and hiding than any other relationship. Openness is not even considered viable among the | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| that mates cannot stay together? Yet the marriage relationship is much better off than the relationships among | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| understand the grave consequences of secrecy for your relationship with yourself, with others, and with God. You | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| with whom you seek to establish a desirable relationship. Try to visualize what life is like when | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| the spirit withdraws to the inner world, the relationship of measurement changes, just as the relationship to | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| the relationship of measurement changes, just as the relationship to time changes. This is why you seem | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| bring outer and inner conditions into a meaningful relationship with one another. You are learning to do | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| is not. Therefore you will have a healthy relationship with your leaders and your followers. Without that | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| arbitrary coincidences. Your life experiences stand in direct relationship to you, to who you are now, to | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| of the pathwork -- both in the helper/worker relationship, and in groups, as well as in your | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| your pretenses, and therefore your defenses, in your relationship with them. You need to show yourself as | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |