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can no longer be blamed for the pain inflicted by the wrong conclusions and misconceptions of the 38 IMAGES
to recognize how, where, and why you have inflicted this dependency on yourself. If you understand your 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
hurt them. It makes no difference whether I inflicted the hurt by deed, word, thought, or emotional 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
the direct or indirect hurts my attitude has inflicted upon others. Then, think about the hurts you 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
upon others. Then, think about the hurts you inflicted on other people. Ask God to give you 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
reactions as you recognize the hurts you have inflicted on others: hopelessness about yourself -- the negative 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
when you realize the hurt you have unwittingly inflicted -- unintentional hurt because it was committed out 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
truly sorry for the hurts you have unwittingly inflicted on others, if you can take that justified 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
the mass image with which you, too, are inflicted. In that part of your being you feel 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
happiness is denied me and unhappiness inevitable and inflicted on me against my will, I may just 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
to alleviate the humiliation that the unhappiness is inflicted upon me against my will, making me a 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
thus to ward off greater punishment, to be inflicted upon you by others and not by yourself 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
be avoided at all costs. But the indignity inflicted on the individual by such self-denial results in 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
fraction of your potential. The damage you have inflicted upon yourself with this pseudo-solution, and go on 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
the slight and hurt he or she has inflicted on you becomes nullified, as it were. You 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
let go of your insistence that the hurt inflicted on you was unjust in the extreme, your 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
was never you who was rejected. The hurt inflicted upon you, due to their blindness, irresponsibility, and 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
realized the extent of the damage you have inflicted upon yourself and upon others and have seen 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
is comparatively easy for obvious wrongs one has inflicted, but it is not so easy to make 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
fully aware of the pain you may have inflicted on others, your desire will be strong enough 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
not want to face the pain you have inflicted, you cannot truly want to make good for 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
to become aware of the pain you have inflicted, you do not want to face your lower 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
hurt due to the hurt one has unconsciously inflicted upon others. Ruthless indifference to inflicted hurts is 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
has unconsciously inflicted upon others. Ruthless indifference to inflicted hurts is not as different from deep suffering 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
mean little if the attitudes that have involuntarily inflicted hurts are not changed. And don't forget that 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
make good for the wrong that you have inflicted, you definitely will find ways. Sometimes restitution will 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
parents' unresolved problems. This applies not only to inflicted hurt, but equally to pleasurable overindulgence. It too 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
run. The third stage of numbness is actively inflicted cruelty. This stage arises from fear of others 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
and forget what harm life seems to have inflicted on you -- that you do not want 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING
no matter how much it seems to be inflicted upon the self from the outside. It is 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
believe that your unhappiness and your suffering are inflicted upon you by others or by life is 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
creates your real suffering. No matter what is inflicted upon you from the outside when you are 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
intend to do so. This pain can be inflicted every bit as much by omission as by 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
dishonesty is your guilt for pain you have inflicted, or are still inflicting. I touched upon this 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
pain you have endured, pain that has been inflicted upon you, first, by your parents when you 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
feeling the pain of your guilt for having inflicted pain on others. This is so for partially 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
you learn to feel the hurts you have inflicted and still inflict without feeling annihilated or worthless 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
entail experiencing the pain of guilt for having inflicted pain, especially on one who came in love 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY
is certainly much less than the suffering willfully inflicted on animals by the indifference and cruelty of 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
patterns are connected with pain you have unwittingly inflicted because you have not allowed yourself to know 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
 
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upon yourself with this pseudo-solution, and go on inflicting upon yourself as long as you adhere to 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
without the other. Both are one current of inflicting pain. The so-called sadistic person inflicts pain on 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
wards off fear and guilt. The act of inflicting pain on others simultaneously kills off one's own 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
passively. That is, pleasure is experienced either in inflicting cruelty or in enduring it -- or both 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
because the shame of the desire for either inflicting or enduring cruelty may prohibit all spontaneity and 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
for pain you have inflicted, or are still inflicting. I touched upon this subject before, but the 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
warmth, good feelings, and closeness? Well, you are inflicting the same on others by your vindictive imitation 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
my friends, let yourself feel the pain of inflicting pain: feel it without crumbling, without exaggerating, without 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
deceive yourself that someone or something else is inflicting suffering on you. You know it comes from 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
 
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Psychology has used certain terms to describe this infliction of pain. Spiritually it is absolutely true that 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
any degree of pain. Frustration of pleasure or infliction of pain cause violent anger. The infant knows 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY
more nor less desirable than suffering through direct infliction of pain. It is simply a suffering of 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
 
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human being to some degree. Thus the personality inflicts punishment on itself. This may happen in various 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
you approach them through the misery the deviation inflicts. This misery will cause you to turn around 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
to this cruel, vindictive, vengeful, inadequate god who inflicts so much suffering on us? I could do 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
current of inflicting pain. The so-called sadistic person inflicts pain on others as a protection for the 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
negatively oriented pleasure principle tears you apart. It inflicts pain on you by itself, but it does 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
it, when you also see the harm it inflicts on others, then, and only then, will you 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
character. When frustration is not handled properly, it inflicts pain on the self and on others. The 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
denial of their inner truth, their real feelings, inflicts pain on you just as much as you 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
negativity, only dimly sensing the hurt that it inflicts on others, you are caught in a battle 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
in spite of the obvious pain that this inflicts. It insists on living life on its own 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF
numbness, created out of confusion and chaos, inevitably inflicts pain and suffering just as the lie must 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
higher, for such pain must turn against whoever inflicts it, or against whoever colludes with those who 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
 
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instrument of God's world. In one case the influence is through inspiration, in the other it operates 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
the more the laws of God extend their influence, the fewer henchmen will Lucifer eventually have. QUESTION 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
the help of spiritual protection. Then this protective influence will step somewhat aside and you are left 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
reduced there. For instance, a living person can influence another especially effectively by overcoming his or her 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
by overcoming his or her own faults. Indirect influence is always effective and lasting. Example is always 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
so according to spiritual lawfulness. This is indirect influence, but eventually the result becomes evident to everyone 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
a person can again become receptive to the influence of the spirits of Hell, since through the 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
and the greater your opportunity to help and influence them. However, people's first reaction is to do 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
threads of the greater reality, and so beneficial influence and help cannot reach you. And now, my 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
more they remove themselves from any positive divine influence -- and the greater their anxiety will grow 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
something to do with it, as the mutual influence of the spiritual and the physical is very 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
who are like humans are at work and influence humans in their way. This, however, does not 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
being on the path of perfection, by the influence and light you spread, work for God's kingdom 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
no longer be a hindrance, it will not influence the person, or taint the work. So at 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
But the same element will have a supporting influence and even change into a positive, good quality 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
you call conscience. Thus the higher self can influence you to fight your lower self. The higher 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
self, as well as various other circumstances, also influence the outer manifestation, intensity, degree, and direction that 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
often touches your heart. Be in God. 15. INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
decades. Tonight I wish to speak about the influence between the spiritual and material worlds. Much has 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
material worlds. Much has been said about the influence of the world of spirit on the world 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
of matter, but not as much about the influence the other way around. For both affect each 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
affect each other. First I will discuss the influence of spirit on your earthly sphere. There are 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
not so. Certainly, evil spirits can and do influence you, but only if and when you permit 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
by putting the blame on evil spirits whose influence on them, they like to believe, is merely 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
the world of God can guide, help, and influence you, it can be so only because your 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
for you to permit it to take over, influence you and thus live through you. This gives 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
blind in many respects. They often seek to influence human beings because it helps them in some 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
are not stronger than they are, they will influence you, sometimes not harmfully, but, even though they 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
interfere with your spiritual progress, and sometimes their influence may be harmless, or appear harmless, but is 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
this can happen is again no coincidence: their influence is inevitably called forth by your own inner 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
the different spiritual spheres with their respective creatures influence humans. Human beings are not helpless prey to 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
influences, but determine them. And by rejecting any influence that does not come from the divine world 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
must eventually lose. Humans have another kind of influence on the world of spirit. I will try 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
less and less. As a result, only the influence of the disharmonious forces would have an effect 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
material to the world of darkness, and its influence in turn would be that much greater on 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
them from an early age, due to some influence in their surroundings and certain happenings in their 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
With this power the spirit could affect and influence many other spirits, little by little. But not 20 GOD: THE CREATION
in the creation of this earth sphere. The influence of both worlds exists and will manifest itself 21 THE FALL
their spiritual world. And on earth where the influence of God's world also existed, for the first 21 THE FALL
your own lives in particular. How did the influence of the world of God manifest itself? Could 21 THE FALL
free will, had the right to manifest its influence on earth. The answer is that pure spirits 21 THE FALL
few were incarnated at one time, but the influence of one such being outweighs by far the 21 THE FALL
such being outweighs by far the strength and influence of a hundred creatures of the world of 21 THE FALL
mission with their incarnation on earth, and their influence was much more far reaching than might have 21 THE FALL
might have appeared at first sight. With this influence growing steadily through the ages, the fallen spirits 21 THE FALL
individual could make a free choice. An equal influence had to come from both sides. This meant 21 THE FALL
because their strength always outweighs and outlasts the influence of evil. However, especially during the early times 21 THE FALL
the influences of the Luciferic world, whether the influence comes in the form of direct inspiration or 22 SALVATION
immune to human failings and thus to the influence of the powers of darkness. This would make 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
They cannot do this if there is an influence by a glorious apparition. And this is why 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to make their own choices as to whose influence they are willing to accept by weighing the 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you allow anything that touches you personally to influence your course of action. When your small ego 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
fight each other? And how far can they influence human beings? ANSWER: In all the spheres, and 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
in this direction. You can, however, help to influence another person by your change; he or she 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
she may then decide to change too. Your influence can only be truly productive if you set 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
character produces a lack of harmony, which must influence proper judgment. Only when the character becomes more 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
prepared properly. Some genes will therefore have an influence; some will not. In one instance the genes 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
the genes of the mother have a greater influence, in another those of the father. In one 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
An infinite variety of good and bad currents influence one another. I promised you that I would 36 PRAYER
law, like the law of gravity. Your images influence the universal current entering your personal life sphere 38 IMAGES
factors. It is a question of development, environment, influence, and most of all, of course, personality traits 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
divine spirits. How much an unorganized spirit can influence you is again up to you. The more 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
yourself, and therefore the more independence from the influence of other beings, spirit or human. A person 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
to some degree will easily fall under the influence of other people, although he or she may 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
the fact. The same holds true of the influence spirits can have over such a person. The 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
In other cases, the guardian may prevent such influence. This depends on so many circumstances that they 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
in this area, the less will the environment influence the psyche. Other factors also play a role 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
parent may be doting and permissive. Although this influence is outwardly weaker, it may have a much 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
instills fear in you and has a greater influence on your inner growth than you realize. Or 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
language and use her thought process which I influence through her subtle bodies. Thank you. QUESTION: Tell 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
principles. They manifest in nature; they govern and influence everything that has ever been created and ever 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
Every quality, reaction, attitude, or tendency must invariably influence everything else in the soul, sometimes more directly 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
is hardly ever understood, and the existence and influence of the mass image is rarely connected with 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
aware of it. In order to counterbalance the influence of the mass image of self-importance, you overcompensate 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
according to a great number of factors that influence this magnetic field. Many of their manifestations I 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
have a particular strength with which they can influence general conditions. They are, each in their own 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
or physically even more distorted. ANSWER: No outer influence can ever make you more distorted. This is 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
happens in a more roundabout way. An outer influence may temporarily fortify a wrong concept, just as 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
in truth and honesty, no teaching, method or influence can encourage wrong inner concepts any longer. In 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
will pick out especially those aspects of the influence which encourage turning away from the root of 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
overlooked. If it were true that any outer influence can really harm you, life would be impossible 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
understand how you are not harmed by the influence of others. But if your spirit and your 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
be found in a teaching, or method, or influence that you know can never err, you could 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
and many other groups of people seem to influence your life. If you think this through, you 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
affect you, and over these you have no influence whatsoever. All these conditions are apparently true. They 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
and try to keep in mind how the influence of these general misconceptions and mass images sustain 62 MAN AND WOMAN
provocations compounded to enlarge the respective spheres of influence and to frustrate the adversary. The cold war 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
such a path, it would have a tremendous influence on humankind as a whole, such as you 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
any kind of teacher or person who has influence over others. And yet, harm cannot come to 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
something else. How do the two interplay and influence each other? ANSWER: Both are necessary functions of 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
made them your own. Thus your intellect can influence your emotions through your capacity to think. On 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
the other hand, unchecked and childish emotions can influence your thinking capacity by coloring your views and 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
increasingly less affected by the other person's negative influence on your unconscious. At the same time you 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
knowledge. Such an emphasis would ultimately affect and influence the soul currents. It would help them indirectly 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
would have to be re-educated. The importance and influence of their own problems on their children would 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
at all. You may completely ignore the strong influence it has on the cosmic forces, an infinitely 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
has on the cosmic forces, an infinitely stronger influence of the few than of the many, notwithstanding 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
that you are the victim of other people's influence on you and of factors existing beyond your 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
you are never a helpless prey to the influence of others, nor are others to you. QUESTION 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
this. For, on the one hand, it might influence your subconscious, which should move freely. On the 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
in this connection. In addition, your knowledge might influence the spirits to the extent that they can 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
instituted from the outside, and you have no influence over it. This is an error, even if 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
by an effort of will, you cannot simply influence and control them as you do actions and 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
strong guilt feelings. This is due to the influence of the environment, to mass images, and to 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
before you can convince yourself of its destructive influence, which causes many unnecessary and unfavorable results. Let 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
child's fragmented impression of reality causes distortions which influence the way you relate later to others and 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
sense of this pathwork has an infinitely greater influence on the entire cosmic development than do millions 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
to the vast reservoir of cosmic forces and influence evolution and general spiritual development. The fulfillment and 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
also contagious. In other words, outer behavior will influence outer behavior, while thought influences thought, and unconscious 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
behavior, while thought influences thought, and unconscious feelings influence unconscious feelings. The contagious actions, at least in 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
or a shoemaker, makes no difference. You will influence your surroundings, not so much by what you 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
of -- that hinder the will and subsequently influence the outcome. QUESTION: How do you explain the 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
whether fairy tales or myths have a good influence on a growing person, and also on an 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
story. The adult's feelings have a much stronger influence on the child than the words. Whatever the 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
a cycle in which inside and outside forces influence one another. But the controlling factor always lies 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
grasp its impact. Parents are the most important influence in a child's life. The relationship to them 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
that they harbor similar unconscious attitudes. The destructive influence of this factor often manifests in a disturbance 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
your parents. One distorted attitude exists because of influence exerted upon you by one parent and your 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
your emotional response to it. An entirely different influence by and emotional response to the other parent 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
questions on this subject? QUESTION: Is not the influence of brothers and sisters almost as strong as 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
the general development of the personality is the influence of deeply ingrained prejudices and misconceptions. This world 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
psychic condition with which it is born subsequently influence its attitude toward the pleasure principle. Hence, when 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
becomes impossible to relate to others without the influence of these early feelings. Then layers of destructive 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
of previous lectures, particularly those dealing with the influence of parents and the behavior patterns deriving from 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
the pain by allowing the pleasure principle to influence the painful experience, which might otherwise have been 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
for those limping behind. The general atmosphere and influence will be conducive to faster development. Again, this 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY
one generation to the next have a tragic influence on humanity, particularly in this respect. People either 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
The triad of pride, self-will, and fear also influence one's attitude to death. Dying ultimately means giving 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
is the realization of your far-reaching sphere of influence. When a person finally recognizes the significance of 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
a power over which you have has no influence. Even those of you who have already experienced 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
not happen, while not seeing how you can influence it; (b) the exact cause of your unfulfillment 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
I am afraid, for I feel powerless to influence others to like me. After ascertaining such an 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
you are not helpless, that you can constantly influence and mold your fate, your immediate life, then 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
such a false concept of life exerts its influence on you. Translate your emotional reactions into concise 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
change, what is beyond their direct sphere of influence. It says that lack of acceptance breeds disharmony 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
afraid of being controlled by factors beyond your influence, you will have no need for selfwill. Fear 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
borderline up to which you have obvious direct influence to mold events and results, and beyond which 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
Neither can they see that they have an influence over those areas of their lives in which 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
further growth, or you can allow it to influence you adversely. This applies not only to unhappy 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
and constructive convictions of the conscious mind can influence and gradually eliminate the unconscious stumbling blocks. By 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
are always in its field of vision and influence. The movements of both are completely coordinated. But 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS
for more understanding so that you can indirectly influence these destructive feelings, until one day you suddenly 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION
consciousness, your concept and expectation of life, directly influence life's manifestation. When you are aware of life's 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
the most acute anxiety when not under the influence of these drugs. Completely unable to cope with 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
lower state of development, which also govern and influence your thinking, feeling, willing and acting. Thus you 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
given you. The power given to you will influence stagnant soul substance and can go to work 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
great deal of patience and searching finally to influence it with the free consciousness, allowing the fluid 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
free consciousness, allowing the fluid, flowing energy to influence the stagnant mass. For if free enlightened consciousness 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
a deliberate, conscious choice: to let the latter influence the former. Love comes to every one of 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
thoughts create a corresponding attitude in life, they influence actions, behavior, responses, reactions, emanation and deeds. Such 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES
words, you have a particular strength, a direct influence for the good, and you set an example 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED
every step of their development has a beneficial influence and thus teaches others, whether they realize it 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
you must assume responsibility for it -- the influence of the divine self may take place on 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
in your sexual attitudes and therefore do not influence your capacity for fulfillment, fusion, and bliss? That 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
earth. Little by little, politicians and people of influence will be drawn into this circle -- perhaps 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER
patterns of behavior have a particular power to influence us; we might almost say they are contagious 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
It is known that some people's opinions can influence others enough to make them adopt the same 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
adopt the same opinions. This entire process of influence through exemplary figures leads to imitation, emulation, and 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
a victim of circumstances beyond your sphere of influence. This impression causes a great deal of fear 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
influences you only after much laborious groping. This influence makes you react to something that takes place 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
know it, to deal with it, and to influence it rather than be influenced by it. This 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF
you speak, the word you think, and the influence you have with every word whether thinking it 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION
your attitudes are. They can hurt, they can influence, they can harm -- or they can heal 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION
of high development, whose force and sphere of influence merge with your love, truth, goodwill and giving 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD
ever new expressions. Your Center holds a great influence over many other light centers and could thereby 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION
ongoing development, so does the sphere of your influence and positive power widen and encompass more followers 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
for his personal presence and help, can you influence the involuntary currents and attitudes, and change them 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA
renewed. This new person will gradually overtake and influence, step by step, those who want to obstruct 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS
as well as their manifestations, their effects, their influence in your realm, and their personification as spirit 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
said that the individual's free will determined whose influence would predominate in one's life. While human beings 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
In the last hundred years or so, the influence of the second principle has taken over. With 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
knowledgeable or intelligent. Knowing that angels surround and influence you need not lead to worshipping the angels 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
evil to have its sphere of activity and influence, for only in this way can evil be 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
see the entities surrounding him or feel their influence. The effect may come only some time later 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
entities of different nature and development who then influence you and reinforce the force field within your 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
of evil entities and then gained power and influence over the rest of the world. Those who 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
fact that lower-self aspects have effects, and they influence more of your thinking and acting, your perceptions 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
upon which your state of consciousness has no influence whatever. To submit to this false reality seems 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE
capable of wreaking havoc on your earth. Their influence will dissolve like snow in the sun. This 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS
may appear entirely negative. Through their sphere of influence and activity they affect events, which then conspire 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE
of them are misguided. Many succumb to the influence of destructive forces and evil spirits. This can 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE
be allowed to destroy their environment and to influence events through their concealment. The courage and strength 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE
not be possible for you to see this influence directly and immediately, you will gradually sense it 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE

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