| Inappropriate...............11 | |
| have created separateness for yourself with all your inappropriate defenses. But if you realize that this feeling | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| result is that you react in a way inappropriate to the occasion. You are unable to change | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| does not trust or distrust where it is inappropriate to do so. One accepts the other as | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| when they are not balanced, each way produces inappropriate, ineffective, and even destructive results. It is important | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| extremes: either resignation or compulsive, blind, and consequently inappropriate overactivity. This obstructs the attainment of pleasure to | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| and makes you express it where it is inappropriate. All these feelings seem like bottomless pits, but | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| that when you transform the energy of an inappropriate, destructive feeling, you do not wipe it out | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| to you certain facets of reality without eliciting inappropriate reactions that would thus limit your understanding. An | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| not only misplaced, but, because they are an inappropriate reaction, they also increase your frustrations and restrictions | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| one format against the other when this is inappropriate, because of something self-serving and negative that is | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| currents can turn more destructive when channeled into inappropriate and negative directions. Therefore I suggest that your | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| Inborn......................19 | |
| created beings. He is the first direct and inborn creation of God. His substance is the same | 19 JESUS CHRIST |
| something else again. And also, the fact that inborn courage, which is based on willpower, cannot function | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| Christ's mother but also that Christ was the inborn Son of God, merely because they cannot accept | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| is one or the other. Moreover, the child's inborn health or its lack determines whether it is | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| you who make serious efforts to overcome your inborn resistance to facing and changing what is unrealistic | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| contained in the life force. It is your inborn longing to partake of this experience, which becomes | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| not only with one's fundamental problems, main images, inborn conflicts, all waiting for the necessary understanding in | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| to others; why one does not use the inborn faculties to live fully and therefore no longer | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| your eyes and start moving out, using your inborn faculties. Yet, you are afraid to try. You | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| over one's destiny, pleasure supreme -- are deeply inborn, instinctive spiritual aims. The psyche instinctively knows that | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| of love. Just because love is such an inborn need for this person, the afflicted area causes | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| state cease to exist. The knowledge of this inborn intelligence far surpasses the ego intelligence. It is | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| this need is only a distortion of the inborn urge to realize the best in you. When | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| as they are meant to according to their inborn capacities, can completely surrender to the life force | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| finding out your inner wealth and resourcefulness, your inborn strength and richness of feeling. By owning up | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| that your inability to love is not an inborn aspect that you alone harbor forever. It is | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| inclinations were purely a matter of taste, or inborn traits such as being born with blue eyes | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| selfish attitudes, when you are true to your inborn integrity and decency, when you follow the divine | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| agent of this greater power. You have the inborn ability to be a relay station of creative | 254 SURRENDER |
| In-built....................3 | |
| beneath the state of self- awareness have nevertheless in-built patterns of creation, self-creation, which that particular organism | 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| life of a plant: it follows its own in-built plan. Only its now slumbering consciousness could create | 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| evil could destroy the divine. So, as an in-built protective mechanism, negativity closes the perceptive organs: blindness | 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| Incapable...................101 | |
| currents and inner, emotional reactions make them completely incapable of deciding inwardly, and they do not even | 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS |
| not deserved it. It is that they are incapable of doing it. What people do not recognize | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| your desires and wishes, some of which are incapable of being fulfilled, in the new state you | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| otherwise, you would be unlike God and thus incapable of being in union with Him. Free will | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| to feel what you have been so far incapable of feeling. Instead, use your efforts in the | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| freely recognized, even if you are as yet incapable of shedding the impure ones, purification is already | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| more hardship, not only to themselves, thereby becoming incapable of fulfilling their lives, but also to others | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| lack of love and understanding. No matter how incapable of love the people around you may be | 31 SHAME |
| contrary. And they who are immature and therefore incapable of love will not be retracting their love | 31 SHAME |
| decision holds. The majority of human beings are incapable of making clear-cut, mature decisions. That is why | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| best they knew how, but since you were incapable or unwilling to love, their love was more | 35 TURNING TO GOD |
| you hold on so very strongly and are incapable of letting it go for the sake of | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| the trouble with marriage. Since most people are incapable of pure love, they are also incapable of | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| are incapable of pure love, they are also incapable of attaining ideal marriage. Eros seems in many | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| and affection he or she might have been incapable of before. This is why eros is so | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| to a certain degree. Hence the child is incapable of unselfish love. The mature adult grows into | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| opinions not your own or why you are incapable -- I should rather say, unwilling -- to | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| through the recognition, even though you are still incapable of having a pure motive of love. When | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| not yet pure, that you are as yet incapable of having a pure motive of love. Besides | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| you will know that you are as yet incapable of feeling differently. But this self-honesty will give | 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE |
| try to find the instances when you are incapable of feeling according to the right concept of | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| However, they do not try, and so are incapable of thinking any more freely and independently than | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| they missed in childhood. This will make them incapable of loving maturely. You can see how this | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| can now connect cause and effect. You were incapable of doing this before, since cause and effect | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| the soul is healthy. An unhealthy soul is incapable of experiencing pleasure. At the same time, if | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| if the religionists are wrong. Both types are incapable of admitting that they do not know and | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| is projection. Second, they exist because one is incapable of living up to the dictates of one's | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| on others to give you what they are incapable of giving. You are then much more dependent | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| bad, hopeless, and consequently, crushed. Thus you are incapable of taking criticism in a constructive way. Yes | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| The nagging, mostly unconscious suspicion that you are incapable of being what you believe you really should | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| on others for all their needs. They are incapable of supplying their own needs. The truly mature | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| following example: To the extent that you are incapable of giving mature love and affection, you will | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| good or bad, favorable or unfavorable. You are incapable of properly dealing with the situation, of evaluating | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| possibility of not being liked, then you are incapable of objectively and freely observing the situation, of | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| not evaluate that his mother might have been incapable of feeling or demonstrating love. Now he is | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| of feeling or demonstrating love. Now he is incapable of deducing that he himself forfeits love, not | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| no good. Inwardly, something remains locked. You remain incapable of coming out of this confusion, this trap | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| if you have to, that which you are incapable of changing. Maturity enables you to give up | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| person's strength, so that he or she becomes incapable of changing that which he could change, which | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| life in its reality, and you are therefore incapable of coping with life and resolving your own | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| the resiliency of your psyche and made you incapable of properly dealing with it. It caused you | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| geared for defense against unreal dangers is often incapable of coping with real attack and threat. He | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| is immaturity of the soul, which makes it incapable of relating, communicating, and loving. In the broadest | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| admit to yourself that you are as yet incapable of feeling love. You cannot properly face this | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| understand this as yet. If a person is incapable of receiving your love and is frightened by | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| feeling resentful and withdrawing. You are as yet incapable of preserving a feeling of respect and liking | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| and to receive. If you are the person incapable of loving and receiving, you, who are on | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| relationships. But, again: If you are as yet incapable of feeling in such a mature way, do | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| only be a structure for those who are incapable as yet of directing their behavior into constructive | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| put, it is a mineral because it is incapable of relating more. The mineral relates by the | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| of self-respect -- create confusion and make you incapable of coping with close relationships. You are either | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| certainly a great difference! These people are as incapable of fulfilling other people's needs as those belonging | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| by a condition of the soul that is incapable of assimilating the experience and holds on to | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| differently even then. Such over-malleable soul-stuff makes you incapable of adjusting to ever-changing circumstances. You cannot see | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| rarely aware of it. The physical body is incapable of the experience because it is made and | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| to feel what inwardly you are as yet incapable of feeling, your inner mechanisms are still geared | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| of guilt is too strong, the entity is incapable of coming to terms with the experience. The | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| be driven into a different direction and are incapable of fulfilling them. This has nothing to do | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| any effort, for without divine help you are incapable of accomplishing any great goal. What appears like | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| indulge in the wishful thinking of the child incapable of giving up the desire for utopia. Why | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| will extract from you a price you are incapable of paying, or which seems excessive. Happiness must | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| necessary to experience it. But you are often incapable of this insight, so you must familiarize yourself | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| fear constricts the soul, the human being is incapable of entering into and becoming a part of | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| not sufficiently grown, whose ego is weak, is incapable of mastering or coping with life. And the | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| express justified anger, that individual is as yet incapable of feeling healthy anger. When the issue justifies | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| frightening that you are puzzled. You then feel incapable of following through with it. Or, you are | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| I am happy. My whole body becomes almost incapable of relaxation. I get into too much activity | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| not exclusively in charge, for it would be incapable of causing so many external as well as | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| life on the absolute plane. Human consciousness is incapable of conceiving of the possibilities that exist for | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| the blind involvement of the struggle, makes you incapable of relinquishing your separateness. You thus bar yourself | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| striving for its pleasure, is in its blindness incapable of tolerating frustration because it ignores future possibilities | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| only come through personal growth. The child is incapable of achieving this balance. It is rigidly one-sided | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| true when one says a weak ego is incapable of establishing healthy living. These are not opposites | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| problems include many other considerations. The ego is incapable of transcending the dualistic level, of bringing into | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| rudimentary steps of such pathwork. You would be incapable of disciplining your lives. And where you fail | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| example, if you are unwilling, and therefore apparently incapable of, shedding your idealized self-image, if you insist | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| life is futile. You will feel helpless and incapable of assuaging the pain of nonfulfillment. You will | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| the destructive kind of guilt under discussion is incapable of overcoming anything. You will not understand why | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| movement. But if your nature is as yet incapable of allowing the feeling of love, you must | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| he had dropped out of college. He was incapable of forming any relationships. He felt constantly threatened | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| can be overcome. The ego-will alone may be incapable of accomplishing this, but the ego can and | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| the ego. The willing, conscious self alone is incapable of doing it. The difficulty of changing, and | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| are partly unaware of your destructiveness and totally incapable of seeing how it manifests. In other words | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| all the more so since you are puzzlingly incapable of changing the No-current into a Yes-current. This | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| same events over again, but also makes you incapable of meeting new feeling experiences in a free | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| Current psychology often says that a child is incapable of reacting differently to pain than by building | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| hindrance than a help. If you find yourself incapable of visualizing the desired state of mind, feeling | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| infant experiences a painful physical sensation, it is incapable of bringing together cause and effect, because it | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| trace cause and effect relationships realistically. They are incapable of, or rather disinclined to, recognize that their | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| is not quite correct, but human language is incapable of expressing the essential oneness of consciousness and | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| it will explain why you are so often incapable of holding on to good feelings. You see | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| Yet many of my friends find themselves apparently incapable of even attempting to do this. I might | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| of your spiritual reality, you must find yourself incapable of giving up your negative intentionality. Let us | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| cannot feel right. Most human beings are still incapable of experiencing how their distortion and negativity directly | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| happiness and fulfillment. Since your mind is often incapable of even conceiving the richness of the universe | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| impoverishment will draw to you someone who is incapable of giving you love. You may have to | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| distinction could not be made. Humanity was then incapable of distinguishing good from evil, between what was | 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE |
| more than it deprives others. It makes you incapable of receiving what is available for you. When | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| The new man and the new woman are incapable of harboring secrets. Secrets cannot be carried in | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| needs to be explored. Human beings who are incapable of surrendering cannot find their core, or their | 254 SURRENDER |
| operate in a certain direction and is therefore incapable at this juncture of perceiving life in any | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |