| of science. It should therefore be easier to accept than if it were a phenomenon that had | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| always directly related to somehow not wanting to accept a truth about oneself. We must distinguish here | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| wish to give up self-centeredness and isolation and accept a new way of life in which you | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| relaxed. The most important thing is that you accept your present limitations with all their consequences. This | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| and your friend wrong, your friend will finally accept and love you again and all will be | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| of as you want to be; when you accept yourself in the moment, when you do not | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| not final. This means that you not only accept the limitations of the outer situation, but your | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| in you. It would be relatively easy to accept the other person's shortcomings or failings. Otherwise you | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| angry because you are angry and you cannot accept this emotion in yourself. You may become angry | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| slightly different form in yourself and you cannot accept that. In short, the question must be asked | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| rote repetition of handed-down moral codes. People may accept handed-down laws because they are afraid of the | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| things you still take for granted. You blindly accept as inevitable many laws and precepts that are | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| understood. You need to learn to see and accept whatever is real in yourself, in others, in | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| nurtured about the self. It can determine to accept oneself where and how one is now and | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| the extent pain is denied. One who can accept pain, can endure pleasure. The two experiences you | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| will invariably see that the person who cannot accept pain in a healthy, constructive and realistic way | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| in a healthy, constructive and realistic way cannot accept pleasure either. I shall be glad to answer | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| girls, it is only because you do not accept yourself. This is not only because originally you | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| in whatever respect: Whoever begins to face and accept and intelligently deal with the hitherto unacceptable, proportionately | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| attitude the parents had. You feel you cannot accept what they did not accept. You are under | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| feel you cannot accept what they did not accept. You are under the misconception that only you | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| for, quite naturally, you do not want to accept that this is who you are. When you | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and to project onto others what you cannot accept in yourself. There is no single part of | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| wish to make clear that you should never accept anything as dogma. You are invited and advised | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| right to freely choose whom to love and accept or the right not to be rejected and | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| self. At best, the more enlightened human beings accept its existence as a philosophical precept, but this | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| duality -- they are enriching. You may already accept this in theory, but when the emotional awakening | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| good, infinite in abundance. If the ego-intelligence can accept this as a possibility and work with it | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| ever before. It shows you can take and accept certain aspects of life you had never been | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| you had never been willing to take and accept before. You not only do good work as | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| not yet as willing as your conscious mind. Accept this for the moment, for this is the | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| into it, not by evasion. The courage to accept what is inevitable strengthens the capacity to find | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| is in you. You disclaim it, professing to accept willingly what is, but unable to find it | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| involved here, in the sense of refusing to accept a possible frustration or denial. If you were | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| am I negative? Where do I refuse to accept the universal law, so that I do not | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| level of reality of what actually exists. To accept this reality -- your manifest values and liabilities | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| cannot possibly work. It is necessary to first accept the present limitations and cope with them, for | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| reality and negative beliefs. Only when you realistically accept a limitation as it is now can you | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| struggle to discover the true self and to accept the now are not mutually exclusive -- they | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| and receptive to what is within you, and accept it, will you be capable of experiencing this | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| way into your own unconscious and learn to accept it as it manifests, so that you establish | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| your attitude toward yourself and teach you to accept yourself as you are; and because of this | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| professional help consists of trying to make patients accept their condition, in the belief that their frantic | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| is, at best, a half truth. To blindly accept this division in the depths of one's unconscious | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| people involved in such an interaction? Those who accept the sacrifice must have a growing guilt. Yet | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| You see the truth in yourself and you accept it. Therefore your expression will be a truthful | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| unable to hear and understand that you must accept yourself and experience yourself as you are now | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| before that happens, all strife ends when you accept yourself. By the unpronounced but nevertheless distinct expectation | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| to begin with. But as you learn to accept it you also discover the enormous difference between | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| conflicting; it is enlivening. As you dare to accept your feeling, whatever it may be, and go | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| a bottleneck. The pathwork teaches you how to accept our unwelcome feelings, not how to get out | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| you see the automatic reflexes, you must also accept that here are processes you cannot control by | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| it is understandable to say, Why should I accept such a frustrating life? Only by accepting the | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| which is a painkiller in itself. If you accept its real nature without denying or aggrandizing it | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| right direction. These words may be difficult to accept, and perhaps even more difficult to feel. But | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| the fear that I will not live and accept what comes, in the trust that the universe | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| malice. As you learn to see, understand, and accept these emotions, you can truly outgrow them. Only | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| the courage and honesty to fully see and accept these damaging emotions and desires, only when you | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| is accountable for her mistakes and willing to accept and learn from then can she be strong | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| this inner knowledge did not exist, you could accept frustration and lack with much less difficulty. For | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| discoveries along the path. Once you truly see, accept, and understand its full impact, you see, indeed | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| give. Real, genuine love allows freedom and can accept a no for an answer. False love is | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| are in keeping with the universal laws; you accept your present state; you establish inner conditions compatible | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| here to realize that whenever you do not accept your humanity, your present limitations, you violate a | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| in this lecture. Find what you do not accept in yourself; what you do not like and | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| is therefore one and the same when you accept the truth about yourself and accept happiness. These | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| when you accept the truth about yourself and accept happiness. These two acceptances are interdependent. The third | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| first glance, this principle is sometimes hard to accept. It seems so much easier to accept even | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| to accept. It seems so much easier to accept even defeat if only one can blame the | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| you, you shall be able to perceive and accept the blessing that is streaming into you. Tonight's | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| whose consciousness is not yet sufficiently strong to accept the total power. Each living organism therefore possesses | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| the relationship between belief and experience. If you accept that your inner, invisible belief creates the predicament | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| to take in, ingest and digest, assimilate and accept. A rigid individual, whose inner unconscious problems create | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| their own lack of backbone and consequently cannot accept and deal with much of what life brings | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| creates. This can be done only when you accept instead of resist. But what should you accept | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| accept instead of resist. But what should you accept? Deprivation, unfulfillment, sacrifice? Religion has taught this for | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| of acceptance. It is true that you must accept, for when you say, I must have this | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| fulfillment or self-realization, you might indeed have to accept that a specific manifestation of your desire cannot | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| results of your past attitudes and must temporarily accept them without giving up altogether. If you let | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| of universal truth, the individual particles of consciousness accept truth and abandon misconceptions and error. Every sick | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| against it. You have to learn first to accept it without exaggerating its impact on you, without | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| in which your are fulfilled only when you accept in a realistic and constructive way that frustration | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| this case the dilemma is: How can you accept and like yourself without falling into the danger | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| on the other side, how can you confront, accept, and admit those negative, destructive traits, weaknesses, little | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| and more possible to meet, acknowledge, admit, and accept anything in you, no matter how ugly, and | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| can find peace only when you can truly accept the ugliest in you and never lose sight | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| the same time you do not wish to accept the logical consequences due to the misconception that | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| must be for you to find, determine, acknowledge, accept, and observe your own negative attitudes, destructive feelings | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| can you shoulder mature self-responsibility? How can you accept the difficulties of the temporary reality which surrounds | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| to your inner limitations. Nevertheless, you have to accept your limitations, and that is not easy. How | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| falsities and destructive defenses, the less you can accept pleasure; therefore you cannot believe in it; therefore | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| imaginable, to stand on your own feet, to accept necessary frustrations. The equation of the acceptance of | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| state of unconflicted pleasure that is within you. Accept the pain that you have created through your | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| -- bearing frustration -- implies the willingness to accept our premise, even though you cannot see it | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| that is the truth of being. You will accept your own temporary state not with despair but | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| from others for what they are and either accept or reject them without fear of displeasing. At | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| here and now. It seems especially hard to accept this when dealing with mental illness. However, in | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| and peace emerge to the degree you recognize, accept, and understand the nature of the inner conflict | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| the other, such as capacity to love and accept others, to deal with the mutually arising problems | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| to the degree that you undefensively explore and accept your own problematic reactions and distortions, negativities and | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| and receive the best. I am willing to accept difficulties along the way, for I know that | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| if in your feelings you are unwilling to accept the possibility of happy expansion, then this indicates | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| how to fight against your negativity, how to accept it in the right way. For both fighting | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| from a negativity which you do not first accept as existing in you. And you cannot succeed | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| worse than your negativity itself. Recognize, acknowledge, and accept it. Only then will you find a way | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| exposed in exact detail. It seems hard to accept that there is something in you that is | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| insight, purification, and change. Through your willingness to accept your lower self, the higher self will become | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| this wider world shows you the way to accept and change your destructive inner child. This gradual | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| inner child. This gradual change enables you to accept all your feelings and let the energy flow | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| as it may seem, the more you can accept the mean little creature, the ignorant little infant | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| the destructiveness and yet be detached from it. Accept that it is you, but also know that | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| with only a small part of themselves. They accept, know, and only want to know, a relatively | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| in confusion until you find a way to accept your destructive impulses and desires without condoning them | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| a vital part of yourself and not to accept the intrinsic desirability of all the creative energy | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| its own insistence that it is unwilling to accept present reality. It wishes to be already in | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| flow of life. Selfwill says, I do not accept reality as it is now; it must be | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| it. This is why people who incorporate and accept their negative aspects find to their immense surprise | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| and being parasitic. If, however, you can fully accept the beautiful force striving for full pleasure underneath | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| must move toward each other. The ability to accept, bear, and sustain pleasure can be increased in | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| you went on, you learned to fully admit, accept, and properly understand the universality of this problem | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| because it seems too painful and difficult to accept previously unacceptable aspects of themselves. Yet life cannot | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| and where you stand in your willingness to accept the negative in you, you will grow into | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| possible. By the same token, if you cannot accept the evil in you, thinking, in effect, I | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| I must first be perfect before I can accept, love, trust, esteem myself, you must express an | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| service to this truth. But do you really accept it in your heart of hearts? When you | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| discover your intolerance, your criticalness, your refusal to accept others for what they are, you can automatically | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| with yourself. Now, it is indeed difficult to accept the projected acted-out negativity of others which always | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| taking a chance because you are unable to accept yourself. Hence you cannot believe that your true | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| self can ever be accepted, nor can you accept others for where they are in their present | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| not deserve the bliss, but because you cannot accept the totality of forces and energies as they | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| up toward one another in mutuality, able to accept an open flow without contracting, the energy from | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| it, but see it for what it is. Accept the imperfection fully, neither embellishing it nor exaggerating | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| conceptual acceptance develops, it still seems impossible to accept that an actual inner No exists which contradicts | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| conscious desires. So it is not easy to accept that, through your own inner reasons, you yourself | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| have appeared nonsensical. Even for those who could accept the premises because they sensed the truth of | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| tremendous step. Once you stop battling, once you accept your split, a great deal of frustration is | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| contrary may indicate. The moment you can truly accept this and can proceed from that premise, you | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| you, you can bear them easily, sustain them, accept them, experience them fully. Allow the painful experiences | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| Go with them. Do not fight them -- accept them in the realization that somehow you must | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| now. Observe well what is going on and accept the momentary state, without fighting yourself. For the | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| It cannot, it does not know how to accept them. It fears being overwhelmed by the destructive | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| you are totally egotistical and therefore unwilling to accept any frustration, little or big; you are unwilling | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| of facing yourself you become more able to accept your destructiveness and thus transcend it. As you | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| destructive than the evil part itself. You must accept this part of yourself in order to dissolve | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| others will be determined by how much you accept your own negativities. In that way you spread | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| reality may be, you can deal with it, accept it, explore it, and no longer be frightened | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| important and essential it is to face and accept those aspects, feelings, convictions and attitudes in you | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| resistance to living the feelings you did not accept when they first came to you so painfully | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| one becomes even angrier for being unable to accept the anger, and on and on. Frustration itself | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |