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| first layer underneath the fear consists of strong hostilities, which are particularly taboo. If they are allowed | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| all its distortions, negative emotions, pains, hurts, and hostilities, takes on many forms even while you are | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| Hostility...................132 | |
| will not be gripped by anger, anxiety, or hostility. You will live more and more constantly in | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| not want to acknowledge, a fear that creates hostility in certain aspects of your life, which again | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| but variety on your earth means friction and hostility. In spirit there is infinite variety in everything | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| image you will find inferiority feelings, guilt feelings, hostility, hate, aggression, ignorance, resentment, childish selfishness, fear, and | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| the right channels until they finally dissolve. If hostility and aggression are suppressed, if fears are suppressed | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| feel rejected, which, in turn, causes hatred, resentment, hostility, and aggression. This is the second part of | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| love that cannot be gratified causes hatred and hostility toward the very people one loves most. Generally | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| What happens to a child whose hatred and hostility breaks out in the open? Would such a | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| of the child. The mere fact that the hostility may at times break out in the open | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| material level, and on the psychological level as hostility, overactivity, quarreling, destructiveness, cruelty, impatience, thoughtlessness. The principle | 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES |
| it often serves to encourage her aggression and hostility; in man, his weakness and dependence. When healthy | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| a woman, provided she does not use aggression, hostility, and rebellion as the supposedly male qualities she | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| the woman may suppress and hide her aggression, hostility, and resentment for the man behind the facade | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| illusion, disappointing you, and in turn creating unconscious hostility in you. Hostility is bound to affect the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| and in turn creating unconscious hostility in you. Hostility is bound to affect the other person, so | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| the slowly growing child in you keeps producing hostility and aggressiveness, even if ever so subtly, when | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| your prefabricated situation will create disappointment, and therefore hostility. As I have said, the hostility cannot help | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| and therefore hostility. As I have said, the hostility cannot help affecting the other, even if you | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| is in reality. You will not have hidden hostility and resentments. The other person will feel your | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| next step is letting go of a certain hostility once you have become aware of it in | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| give up something you want freely and without hostility, but also because then you will be able | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| fear, your self-punishment, your frustration, your anger, your hostility, your withdrawal from giving out love and affection | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| the other? Is that why one feels the hostility emanating from the other person? ANSWER: Yes. That | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| allowing it to fester underneath and create unconscious hostility. This entire reaction inhibits your intuitive faculties, at | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| nearing perfection and maturity. In this way, your hostility will vanish and your provocations will too. Relapses | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| be assimilated on deeper levels of your being. Hostility exists in you because you are unaware that | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| so you suppress the real hurt. But the hostility has to be hidden, too, because it makes | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| Provocation is a result of unconscious and suppressed hostility, and the hostility results from unconscious and suppressed | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| result of unconscious and suppressed hostility, and the hostility results from unconscious and suppressed hurt. Go your | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| different. While the seeker for power glories in hostility and in an aggressive fighting spirit, the withdrawn | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| theirs. This creates additional guilt in you. The hostility flows in two directions, toward others and yourself | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| in the last lecture. These tendencies include aggressiveness, hostility, power drive, a need to triumph over others | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| power may predominate without any apparent aggressiveness or hostility. The possibilities are manifold. Integration and self-finding can | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| order to be safe, with all the accompanying hostility, ruthlessness, pride, superiority, pretense at invulnerability, the underlying | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| battle to find this level of rebellion, bitterness, hostility, and aggression. This battle is caused by resistance | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| In one case you hide the rebellion and hostility; in the other, you hide the helplessness and | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| not only definite individual negative emotions, such as hostility, resentment, aggressiveness, and envy, but also certain psychological | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| benign circle, negative emotions such as self-pity, helplessness, hostility, guilt, and resentment are bound to decrease until | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| evil. That such a situation creates tension, anxiety, hostility, and discontent is only natural. To a degree | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| from the same greed as childish rebellion and hostility. It is always the same: When a truth | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| accepting your human limitations will the aggressiveness and hostility vanish; because underneath you will discover and become | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| activity of correcting life in fantasy removes aggression, hostility and destructive impulses. Another benefit is daydreams act | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| primary reaction -- and you substitute anger and hostility for it. You begin to allow your defense | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| nothing that creates more disharmony, more untruth, more hostility, and more friction, in personal as well as | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| really feel. Whether you call it resentment or hostility, anger or hate, makes no difference; they are | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| and the impatience, and the imperfect feelings of hostility will be less harmful than the compulsion to | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| both cases the result is resentment, defiance, and hostility. None of it may be conscious in you | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| impatience, nervousness, anxiety, tension, frustration, boredom, apathy, and hostility -- all these emotions and many others -- | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| any other emotion or attitude -- fear, doubt, hostility, or whatever -- the principle is the same | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| from flowing. These other emotions may be manifold: hostility, humiliation, pride and shame, hurt, arrogance, self-importance, self-pity | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| is the same as his unhealthy aggression and hostility -- the result of an accumulation of hurts | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| The real, healthy male aggressiveness is confused with hostility for which he feels guilty. So he feels | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| such rules and they acted out their pent-up hostility by following the existing value system. In recent | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| This does not mean that the parents' pent-up hostility does not communicate itself to the child. They | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| indulgence and permissiveness to compensate for their latent hostility. Conforming to the new rules may outwardly appear | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| degree it is diluted by guilt for the hostility which is not recognized, as well as by | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| what one once had causes hurt, anger and hostility. The insistence on having the protection, and the | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| part blindly wild, manifesting, for example, in uncontrollable hostility, and in part paralyzing the best faculties of | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| When a person is ashamed of hate and hostility, of envy and vindictiveness, these trends fester in | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| frequently on a layer below hate and resentment. Hostility and other negative emotions may have been difficult | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| one feels insecure and helpless. Often aggression and hostility are taken up by the pleasure drive and | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| a conflict between two unsatisfactory alternatives: weakness versus hostility. They cannot find their way out until they | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| progress in self- awareness. Tension, frustration, discontent, inexplicable hostility, overreaction -- where one sees that the intensity | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| service of the no-current: fear, guilt, anger, frustration, hostility, etc. These feelings continue to smolder, but they | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| I no longer wish to embrace isolation and hostility. When you meditate in such a way, enlisting | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| of difference. Let us take the example of hostility. First, in the stage of blind automatism, it | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| other factors, one will either impulsively express such hostility and lash out at others, often without even | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| so. Or one will suppress and repress the hostility and turn it against oneself. In neither alternative | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| neither alternative is there any awareness of the hostility, because the person does not wish to admit | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| to explain away. The moment they face the hostility fully, by becoming aware of it, they stop | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| does not yet mean that they understand the hostility they now know they have, though they might | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| how they react because of it. Understanding the hostility means understanding why it exists, what first brought | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| it and what conditions exist now, whenever the hostility flares up. What are the apparent and real | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| in reality? On what false assumptions is the hostility based? Understanding what one has previously become aware | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| healthy assertion without deviating into unhealthy aggressiveness or hostility. Nor will you be confused between the alternatives | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| will know when to assert your rights without hostility against unjustified demands, where compliance would be destructive | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| a host of negative emotions such as fear, hostility, separateness, self-pity, ambivalence, and vindictiveness. These emotions make | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| have to face your real emotion. QUESTION: My hostility? ANSWER: Yes. It is hostility, it is hurt | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| emotion. QUESTION: My hostility? ANSWER: Yes. It is hostility, it is hurt, and it is at times | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| Ungenuine love is always connected with self-pity, resentment, hostility, and conflict. There is in it always the | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| way or another attached to suffering, humiliation, or hostility. This is then called masochism or sadism. Do | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| known to you. Suppose you find hate or hostility in yourself, and you fear its effect on | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| that I want to discuss is not mere hostility. Hostility has become too vague a term, almost | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| I want to discuss is not mere hostility. Hostility has become too vague a term, almost meaningless | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| person, I immediately bring out the negative, the hostility and rage, and I am blinded by these | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| iota less aggressive than the submissive solution, whose hostility always smolders underground. In whatever way you try | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| of an emotion, the acknowledgement of a momentary hostility; I mean an overall, pervasive, essential, lingering destructiveness | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| force. Feelings turn from love to fear and hostility, from trust to distrust, and so on. Finally | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| the desire to hurt expresses itself in quarrelsomeness, hostility, aggression. On the sexual level, such an individual | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| not to give but to take, to harbor hostility and self-pity -- exists. Your discovery of this | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| it is unhampered. The destructive forces of hate, hostility, resentment, anger, and cruelty that the individual fears | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| often by an apparently opposite attitude of indifference, hostility, or compulsive and blind rebellion and over-aggressiveness. Few | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| situation, in which I am caught in a hostility cycle with my boss. At least on my | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| unselfishness becomes, the more the ensuing rage and hostility will build up hidden destructive selfishness. In your | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| threatened feelings. Thus the expression becomes one of hostility and rejection. To recapitulate briefly: Wrong perception of | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| way when his unconscious is still steeped in hostility, rage, and anger, because the activating principle then | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| both cleanse their activating powers of violence and hostility. Both need to learn to ascribe the cause | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| On the one hand they find false aggression, hostility, violence, overactivity, impatience, refusal to wait for the | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| attitude changes from ignorance, fear, alienation, distrust, and hostility, to an open, trustful, truthful, and loving state | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| sexuality becomes therefore more and more permeated with hostility and rage. When people are subtly infused with | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| and hopelessness that result from such conflicts increase hostility, which compounds the justified guilt feelings. The loveless | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| is a result of error. Every state of hostility is a result of error and creates other | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| avoid a great deal of fear and possible hostility. When you turn off your life centers because | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| new gentleness and softness that does not need hostility or other defenses. Then you will know how | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| may indeed unload a great deal of unjustified hostility on you, it is an illusion to fear | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| is largely a result of his own defensive hostility and rage. He seemed unable to move from | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| other party, which in turn creates fear and hostility for feeling let down when the other does | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| others, which is always a hidden form of hostility that whitewashes the self. One derives pleasure from | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| will you no longer confuse self- assertion with hostility, or flexible compromise with unhealthy submission. These are | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| serving as outlets for negative feelings, for repressed hostility, because the hostility is then dealt with in | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| for negative feelings, for repressed hostility, because the hostility is then dealt with in a much more | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| may not even sense the actual presence of hostility in others. Their subtlety and indirectness confuses you | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| have made a substantial inroad toward transforming the hostility and freeing the energy that has either been | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| the same energy that may now manifest as hostility, envy, hatred, rage, bitterness, self-pity, or blame -- | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| negation of life. Denial of anger turns into hostility, cruelty, spite, self-hate, guilt, confusion between blame of | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| the evil traits themselves, including spite, cruelty, envy, hostility, and selfishness. How can pride, selfwill or fear | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| off the pain of other people's cruelty and hostility, the unjustified demands they make on the world | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| deny it, it will turn into cruelty and hostility, which in turn, as you well know, need | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| as you destructively wish for it, motivated by hostility and the wish to escape. You can truly | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| comprises a wide range of feelings including faults, hostility, reality- distortions, envy, hate, fear, pride, and anger | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| faulty attitudes; for instance, why your anger, your hostility, your jealousy, your envy, and your unfair, one- | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| and the conclusions inherent within spite, distrust, jealousy, hostility, and so on, because these conclusions are only | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| of self-assertion, on the one hand, and covert hostility on the other? I could name many more | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| and others, but not with the kind of hostility and negation you now practice still too often | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| the negative manifestation of the lower development -- hostility toward the other, warfare -- can be used | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| At this point a tremendous rage, anger and hostility is created in others by your very freedom | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| victimized. It can also manifest in resentment, blame, hostility, and overt hatred, with many shades in-between. Love | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| come from truth and love, rather than from hostility and a desire to thwart you? Aside from | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| assume the risks of exposure, criticism, slander and hostility that those in the limelight must be strong | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| same. Jews considered both inferior and hostile. The hostility existed, but instead of asking themselves how they | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| untruth separates. Untruth and separation create evil, dissension, hostility, outer and inner warfare, mutually exclusive dualities. If | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| you and you protect yourself against this alleged hostility with destructive defenses -- that you may or | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |