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| light. God's spirits try continually to extend their helping hand to bring you over those hurdles where | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| souls will be helped to do so. The helping hand will be there. The healing of the | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| Go in peace. 7. ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS Greetings in the name of God. I | 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS |
| world, which works with you and around you, helping and guiding you. It will become just as | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| explain this now, but no error is possible. Helping interference by God's world happens occasionally without the | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| those outside of it. The former are perhaps helping, working, cooperating in the great Plan of Salvation | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| guardians and do lower spirits have higher spirits helping them? ANSWER: The lower spirits also have their | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| community. This organization in the spirit world is helping and guiding you, deciding many factors in connection | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| whom I am sending out or who are helping with other tasks in connection with the building | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| God. And the latter will not lend a helping hand if there is not a very good | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| lesser light and development for the purpose of helping them. When they manifest, they appear to these | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| infinitely healthier to think of other people by helping them, by giving up some selfishness, and by | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| use all their efforts in self-sacrifice for others, helping them to the best of their ability and | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| escape the issue by their strong emphasis on helping others. Again, the help given to others need | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| soul the reality of the temple you are helping to build, each one of you. We are | 35 TURNING TO GOD |
| degree avoid the formation of an image by helping to draw it to the surface while the | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| you, for it applies to anyone desirous of helping in such a way. The development of psychic | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| where one interferes with the other, instead of helping it along and thereby creating one harmonious whole | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| indirect way they work toward that end by helping in the great plan. QUESTION: Aside from this | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| and enable you to make the best of helping another being and yourself on the way to | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| is like; only then can you do your helping with conviction. As long as a certain relief | 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE |
| only one help and no other. It is helping you to find in yourself that which obstructs | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| mass images are gathered along the way, all helping to fortify this chain reaction. Now, the fear | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| or some other spirit who is capable of helping, then the motive and approach is all right | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| if it is approached with the attitude of helping the spirits. The main point is to cultivate | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the self, of healing the sick currents, of helping the infant in them to mature. That would | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| soul from gaining harmful and hindering knowledge, or helping the soul to regain some favorable knowledge. It | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| strictly avoided by curtailing their outer freedom, while helping them to gain their inner freedom through treatment | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| possible way. May all outer friction be a helping element to thus recognize inner friction. With these | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| supposed to function harmoniously with one another, each helping the other, rather than one subduing the other | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| In compassion, you are strong and capable of helping, of doing something for the other person. In | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| and despising others, rather than understanding, loving, and helping. Although sickness and sin are the same, the | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| now, is the only way, not only for helping yourself, but to help better conditions all over | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| yourself -- perhaps through wise teachings, through a helping hand. But the most reliable and realistic answers | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| the answers to your questions be again a helping hand, a stepping stone, a directive to gain | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| my friends. May all of you who are helping with inner and outer assistance feel the reality | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| question: The technical discoveries are one way of helping humanity to acquire a broader awareness. But if | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| also as an issue in those they are helping. They should remember that to the degree they | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| powerful than any of you realize. But these helping forces can and must do no more than | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| words can ever, by themselves, be responsible for helping you make the transition. But they help you | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| as it sounds, can become very important in helping you honestly question yourself: Do you truly wish | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| have concentrated, in one form or another, on helping you to understand the relationship between ego-consciousness and | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| anything. I say this for the purpose of helping you grow out of it, so that your | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| most truthful, self-revealing way, sharing their inner problems, helping each other, rather than placing mutual guilt on | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| own giving of yourself in truthfulness and the helping power coming through me and the hands of | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| These powers can be utilized for healing, for helping, and for increasing fulfillment and consciousness in the | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| working on their transformation and by whoever is helping them, for everyone has a different rhythm. During | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| though the personality needed this outer grace, this helping hand. For the dishonest placing of guilt on | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| You will experience the deep satisfaction of giving, helping, fulfilling a task, and of being devoted to | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| giving something of yourself to the cause of helping other souls advance to higher states of inner | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| means looking out for your younger friends and helping them, giving them understanding, instead of hitting back | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| my coming lectures I will increasingly concentrate on helping you comprehend the difference between the old values | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| using those who want to use. Rather than helping them to awaken through really fair and appropriate | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| you are specifically directed at this time toward helping you to give over to Him Who holds | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| these various levels through many teachings and on helping you through guidance, inspiration and advice, to alternate | 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS |
| and then, as a result of this, by helping to do the same for the entity earth | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| trust and mutual partnership; of sharing and of helping each other. It must be understood that the | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
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| respective creatures influence humans. Human beings are not helpless prey to these influences, but determine them. And | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| where all images are formed. The child is helpless; it needs to be taken care of; it | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| invite pain and unhappiness just to avoid the helpless feeling of being exposed to it against his | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| upon me against my will, making me a helpless prey. I will call forth the unhappiness myself | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| unhappiness myself! Then I am not quite so helpless. This way out also takes the form of | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| you would then lose your fear of being helpless. You are helpless because you make yourself that | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| lose your fear of being helpless. You are helpless because you make yourself that way by trying | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| You said in your last lecture, You are helpless because you make yourself that way by trying | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you feel or imagine this person to be helpless or weak or dependent, he or she takes | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| in it. If you regard yourself as lost, helpless, a prey to circumstances beyond your control, you | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| it can be changed: that no one is helpless and has to endure a painful fate because | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| and unjustly treated; you will be a self-pitying helpless little bundle -- and you will even like | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| already existent forces does not make you more helpless. On the contrary, that knowledge, if rightly understood | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| with the truth that you are never a helpless prey to the influence of others, nor are | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| to hide something, it will make you as helpless as the object of your attack. Thus you | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| being exposed to others, while one is a helpless victim. All this contributes greatly to the unconscious | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| yourself for your dependency, which makes you feel helpless before those to whom you feel you must | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| which tend to make them weaker and more helpless than they actually are. Taking on more and | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| for such love and dependency actually makes you helpless. You do not cultivate in yourself the faculty | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| toughness that is no more real than the helpless softness of the submissive person, the power type | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| what you crave, while protecting yourself by acting helpless. If the distorted instinct of self-preservation and its | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| at invulnerability, the underlying core may be the helpless child, looking for love and protection; craving pleasure | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| cause frustration and unhappiness. Here you are, the helpless, unloved child -- whether you actually were unloved | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| in you it seems much better to remain helpless, to force the powerful adult world, or God | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| soul-crippling attitude finally succeeds in really making you helpless, while the god-authority you desire to take over | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| stems from the hidden striving to remain a helpless child in order to make the grown-up world | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| have found this unconscious insistence on remaining a helpless child, you will soon come to see that | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| combat this discovery by making yourself even more helpless, more fearful, and weaker. Once you truly see | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| and self-contempt, and you become weaker and more helpless. Such a relation to authority can take the | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| expressed in these words: I am a weak, helpless sinner. I can do nothing without God, without | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| you need God's help because you make yourself helpless. Then you will feel God's help because you | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| and self-pity. This makes you more dependent and helpless -- and so the vicious circle continues in | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| on false religion. This makes you weak and helpless. But if you have mature, strong emotions, you | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| of compulsiveness and craving. Mismanagement will make people helpless and dependent on others to have their needs | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| or neither alternative may satisfy anyone. You feel helpless, and because you cannot cope with the issue | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| trapping yourself and making yourself weak, dependent, and helpless. Then, your true self cannot manifest. So far | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| determining in what areas of life you feel helpless, trapped in situations outside your control. Wherever such | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| chosen the pseudo-solution of power. Not to be helpless does not mean that you always win, that | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| self- alienating. It leads you to be as helpless as the outright submissive, compliant and weak person | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| than you did before. You will feel less helpless as you become able to mobilize your inherent | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| might find many solutions. You prefer to remain helpless, thrusting your own powers, forces and faculties to | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| for the first time as being no longer helpless. Whenever you find an issue that bothers you | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| bothers you, determine whether or not you feel helpless. if you do, you now know from all | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| may be convinced that no one is a helpless victim, that you all create your own life | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| a child. Your fear is part of the helpless baby that you feel you have to remain | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| to be safe. To give up being a helpless, fearful baby means to you that people will | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| You have to help me. I am so helpless. You are responsible for me. The mistakes I | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| independent ability to choose, instead of being utterly helpless and waiting for fate to bring you happiness | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| attack and threat. He or she is paralyzed, helpless, and actually becomes a prey, behaving like a | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| supposed arbitrariness of life against which he feels helpless. Thus, his suffering will take on an entirely | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| helplessness. For, strangely enough, you do not feel helpless toward an outer event that you cannot change | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| turn results in guilt, fear, uncertainty, anger, resentment, helpless rage, and confused fluctuation between giving in too | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| Not facing these afflicted areas will render you helpless when it comes to dealing with the creations | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| loving and relating. They never feel insecure and helpless because they do not have love. Whenever you | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| fear, where you no longer feel like a helpless straw in the wind. As long as you | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| until nature breaks it down will render you helpless. The feelings will swamp you and you will | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| this applies to you. As a child is helpless, so is an invalid. Both depend on others | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| not give yourself the chance not to be helpless, nor to test whether or not your helplessness | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| also fear knowing that you need not be helpless if you do not wish to be. You | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| to provide it for yourself, you will remain helpless and dependent and insecure. If you can accept | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| you fear is much less frightening than your helpless dependency on having to have what you want | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| the girl-child feels rejected, she feels passive and helpless. The passivity and helplessness, as an aspect of | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| She erroneously feels that being hurt and being helpless against it is femininity and thereby fights against | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| is lacking and you therefore feel weak and helpless. False control is damaging and leads farther away | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| wanted and desired because one feels insecure and helpless. Often aggression and hostility are taken up by | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| does today. Primitive humanity was also much more helpless and dependent than it is today. It had | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| her femininity and in the end becomes more helpless and dependent. The more control she exerts, and | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| artificial and unhealthy control, she becomes even more helpless, while at the same time isolating herself and | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| to do with your problem, that you are helpless to change your predicament. But when you realize | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| to take over, you can never again be helpless and lost. The vibrant life force will flow | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| a long time to be delivered from this helpless, passive position, but as long as you do | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| not see immediate cause and effect. You are helpless because you believe yourself to be, not because | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| you see that you believe yourself to be helpless, that your desire is hopeless, and that therefore | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| fences, no prison walls, that you are not helpless, that you can constantly influence and mold your | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| on circumstances outside your control. Therefore you feel helpless. You feel like a straw in the wind | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| will succeed. You will no longer be a helpless prey. You then take hold of yourself by | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| as real. By dint of your feelings of helpless weakness and inadequacy, others assume the role of | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| and when the person is no longer a helpless child, this, in the smallest measure, is the | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| where flexibility should exist, as well as a helpless loss of self where resilient firmness should prevail | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| avoid pain. Children are, by their very nature, helpless, weak, dependent. Hence, the suffering they may experience | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| significance of this is vastly overlooked. People feel helpless toward their own body. There is a considerable | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| control ends. It is then that you feel helpless, weak, afraid. The relationship between your body, your | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| with the result that you feel even more helpless in the grip of your own personality. Even | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| be at work within me, how much more helpless must I be in the face of life | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| have occasionally noticed that where you were once helpless, you are no longer helpless at all. You | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| you were once helpless, you are no longer helpless at all. You not only discover power, strength | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| any longer to numb oneself, to cope with helpless exposure to pain; for you are no longer | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| exposure to pain; for you are no longer helpless. My dearest friends, the absorption, understanding, the knowing | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| the inner self to create a state of helpless endurance, instead of correcting, healing, improving and preventing | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| its presence and its power must make people helpless victims. It is the inner being that can | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| goes on in the self -- believing oneself helpless in the grip of one's feelings, attitudes, and | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| made this recognition you will no longer feel helpless and controlled by powers you cannot understand. If | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| life, and the less you will feel victimized, helpless, and weak. When an entity is not aware | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| as a victim. It is inevitable to feel helpless when one lacks the awareness that the effect | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| It constitutes the difference between feeling like a helpless straw in the wind, a little forgotten tool | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| had done that, you would not have become helpless and powerless. In reality, your weakness and helplessness | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| you will become stronger, more self-governing and less helpless -- and therefore no one could take advantage | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| of your reach; hence you are not a helpless victim of it. for it is within the | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| expects only to receive. The weaker and more helpless such egocentric people become, the more they tend | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| the universal laws within yourself, you do become helpless; you do become a prey to circumstances beyond | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| the attached negativity. The individual thus becomes a helpless straw between the two pulls, and is driven | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| so that one is disconnected from it and helpless about the result -- which is, of course | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| an innocent victim, that does not make you helpless to construct your life well. The power to | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| your growth stunted. It is true that the helpless child depends on receiving all its needs from | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| accomplished when you realize that you are not helpless about your past, that you contain forces that | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| human beings believe themselves to be bound, paralyzed, helpless and unable to move in spirit, in mind | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| weakness and dependency which makes you feel utterly helpless, unable to assert yourself, and even unable to | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| has grown up and is indeed no longer helpless and dependent. Infants and young children truly are | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| and dependent. Infants and young children truly are helpless and dependent on the parents. But in the | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| the fact that a crying, demanding, angry, and helpless child still exists within you. Your adult believes | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| In this secret corner, you feel not only helpless and dependent, but also deeply ashamed. The shame | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| folly, for only in this separation are you helpless. And only in this separation are you practically | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| are not so much a question of the helpless conditions of childhood, although those may have set | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| rejection of life, you will no longer feel helpless in the fear of death. Something will change | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| that moment on, the individual ceases to be helpless. In truth, human beings have never been helpless | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| helpless. In truth, human beings have never been helpless against any force or power outside themselves; but | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| force or power outside themselves; but they are helpless against their own inner processes until they recognize | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| fearing self-surrender as long as she makes herself helpless for whatever distorted motives. If she is not | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| will feel life is futile. You will feel helpless and incapable of assuaging the pain of nonfulfillment | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| lot more self-respect, integrity, and hope than the helpless resignation to circumstances life is supposed to bring | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| concomitant behavior patterns, you are no longer a helpless tool in the hand of fate. If such | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| you have created your experiences, you will feel helpless in the hands of a power you cannot | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| are your own powers. You are not a helpless pawn in anyone's hands. This is the all-important | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| that you never need to feel inadequate and helpless again, for the source of all life supplies | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| in your entire approach to life: from feeling helpless to seeing life as your own creation in | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| choice slip by, you become truly lost and helpless and can no longer find the connection to | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| by others -- he puts himself into a helpless position and becomes trapped, for at that point | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| a price to pay! Doing this renders you helpless indeed and brings about isolation, or unending pain | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| use this all-important key. You cannot ever feel helpless or victimized when the significant transition has taken | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| point in both instances is that one feels helpless and not responsible for one's own experiences and | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| in a limited, undesirable way, you become truly helpless. The pain of human existence is disunity within | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| powers, the self feels less and less forlorn, helpless, lost, hopeless, or empty. The whole sense of | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| dangerous. Being open does not make you more helpless; it makes you less so. It makes you | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| infantile dependency, in the illusion that you are helpless in the face of the other's wrongdoing, and | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| denial of your vulnerabilities, your shame of feeling helpless, and your feeling of being unlovable create evil | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| upon you from the outside when you are helpless and defenseless, it cannot become a detriment in | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| hope and purpose, rather than that of a helpless victim who is led to slaughter. Your fear | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| They also turn to therapies that encourage the helpless state of sickness and overlook the potent factor | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| accept this. They would rather see themselves as helpless, innocent victims and experience all the suffering and | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| distortion. Paradoxical as it may seem, the more helpless you pretend to be vis-a-vis your life experience | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| powers so as to no longer be irresponsible, helpless children. But these powers must now be exercised | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| your own creative powers, rather than feeling a helpless object in a fixed world. Peace and knowledge | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| stage it is impossible to feel quite so helpless, anxious, afraid, victimized, and hopeless. Even if the | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| it will fall into a resignation to being helpless and unhappy. That is why the resistance to | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| humans find themselves in the illusion of being helpless, they have lost touch with the intentionality that | 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS |
| also believe that as a child you are helpless, that you are dependent, and you do not | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| against. In this pattern you feel like a helpless pawn. But when you discover the power of | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| relieves the inner anxiety that you are a helpless straw in the wind, living in a world | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| in a position in which you find yourself helpless against these common human experiences. As you become | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| often wallow in the notion that you are helpless and beaten by adversity. Even the popular belief | 254 SURRENDER |
| can contribute to the notion that you are helpless. Again it is not contradictory to say that | 254 SURRENDER |