| in if you don't feel He is a help? I just don't quite follow this. ANSWER: You | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| ANSWER: You will feel that God is a help when you come to true religion after abandoning | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| a completely different sense. Now you need God's help because you make yourself helpless. Then you will | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| make yourself helpless. Then you will feel God's help because you will perceive the perfection of the | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| the driving force of your life. You can help yourself if you really want to, if you | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| religious attitude arises when you ask God to help you overcome a hardship in your life and | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| of neglect, partly unworthy of His grace and help and partly unjustly treated. So you wallow in | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| them in light of this discussion. This will help to dissolve the God-image because your attitude will | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| It may be more than the goodwill to help. In some way your sense of competence may | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| for the work that is before you. Yes, help is given to you, but do try to | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| of emotional experience. If and when you cannot help but feel, you are busy hiding such feelings | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| it, and go on from there, this will help you a great deal. Of course, this is | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| to forbid yourself to feel what you cannot help feeling at any given time and then dislike | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| become aware of your needs. Your path will help you to become aware of that by bringing | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| patterns may be quite risky, because you cannot help these patterns as long as you do not | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| blessed, each one of you. May these answers help again to bring you a step forward into | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| small grain take root in yourselves. May it help you to absorb all the material you have | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| who are not doing this work with the help of another person may indeed feel at a | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| originally, and thus produce primary reactions. This will help you to face reality and relinquish illusion, so | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| some of my words will be of great help. Once you encounter the inner condition I have | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| examine all these factors within yourself, you cannot help but become very much aware of which needs | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| that prayer and turning to God, asking for help, is of great assistance to us? ANSWER: The | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| the spiritual one. Of course, prayer is of help and is recommended. But I have to give | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| have to do more than merely pray for help. You have to observe your attitude in prayer | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| your role in it. If you pray for help, but with the full intent and realization that | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| that will bring a little more light and help in your work, a little further incentive, hope | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| frustrations, can take on new meaning, you cannot help but go through renewed confusion, as it were | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| the nucleus can be affected. In order to help you a little from the outside toward the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| my emotions very well, but I still need help in this respect. I think one part of | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| reveal your inner life to you. It will help you to relinquish false needs and replace them | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| strong enough not to paralyze your capacity to help, if need be -- even with a momentarily | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| and because of that I was able to help her. If I had pitied her, it would | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| pitied her, it would have been impossible to help. But in spite of that, and in spite | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| is to free you of ready-made rules and help you to become true individuals. In tonight's lecture | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| from various angles, through various approaches. I can help you, but you have to do the work | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| because you really are that way and cannot help it. It is because your real self does | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| spirit, in soul, in body. May these words help you to continue your self-realization actively, to bring | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| a higher capacity of perception will understand and help and not feel superior. Sin and sickness are | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| deal of real inner will, as well as help from others who are qualified to help -- | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| as help from others who are qualified to help -- but also because you like to hear | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| are angry has problems himself, but that doesn't help. How do you handle that? ANSWER: The first | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| However, if you say to yourself, I cannot help feeling this way because I grope in the | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| you know from previous experience, this will not help very much if you do not discover it | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| two aspects of life. For this, a certain help is necessary, some sort of organized method, for | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| shortsighted immediate goal but to bring others meaning, help and happiness as well. If such a thought | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| in daydreams. Observing and evaluating your daydreams can help you categorize them. It is very likely that | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| you derive benefit from these words, may they help you to a new approach to your problems | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| reality in this respect. Your this would not help my problem is one form of resistance and | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| even if you now believe it will not help you in this or that particular problem, approach | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| if I do not understand why it will help me, I just want to see the truth | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| view of the entire process. Such understanding will help toward the further resolution of conflicts and enable | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| saying: I am so weak. You have to help me. I am so helpless. You are responsible | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| I do not know any better. I cannot help it. You must always indulge me and allow | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| hurt upon yourself. The hurt you inflict cannot help but bring consequences, and thus the pseudo-solutions, intended | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| and some partial answers, but this lecture will help you to arrive at a more profound understanding | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| it, my friends. If you do, it must help you. Is that clear, my friends? Are there | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| When you are self-alienated and perfectionistic, you cannot help but hurt others. When the pretense of your | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| to live and to love enables you to help others to weaken their own defenses and destructive | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| these words be a further key and a help for your continued growth and liberation. May they | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| for your continued growth and liberation. May they help you to become yourself, to be in full | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| mental faculties will automatically concentrate -- with the help of the poisonous stimulant -- on the issue | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| that is extended to you again this evening help you particularly in this respect for your further | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| in this respect for your further work and help you to free yourselves of the most damaging | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| respective needs in such a way as to help each other find fulfillment. An unconscious need must | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| lie beneath the split of your will to help it grow together into one stream. If you | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| not know already. However, I will try to help. In the first place, all of you have | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| are able to feel differently. This must then help him. Oh, you can tell him many things | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| But what you tell him will not really help unless you face what is, without moralizing about | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| and your fear. Until such time, you can help him by quietly pursuing this work of self-awareness | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| on others and that this understanding will also help the child. Understanding without moralizing. QUESTION: Is there | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| the further self-awareness of each individual. Nothing can help eliminate suffering and confusion so much as your | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| way, not only for helping yourself, but to help better conditions all over. Nothing else will eliminate | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| Yet it needs encouragement and preparation. It needs help to direct attention to his resistances. QUESTION: Will | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| accustomed to the old prayer of begging for help, asking God to do for him what he | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| can do, or that can be done to help him? ANSWER: My dearest, this question is so | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| that you would do what you could to help alleviate such suffering. If you are so intended | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| about these words, they will be of greater help, and therefore more consoling than if I were | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| If you meditate on this subject, it will help you greatly and will increase your understanding about | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| of the more severely disturbed people can receive help more easily than those whose disturbance is less | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| that you are human and that you need help in exposing your vulnerabilities, you cannot be helped | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| the group work is most important. This will help you greatly toward self-awareness in understanding your relationships | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| of you, and with the promise of active help that can come to you to the degree | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| that is going into you and enveloping you help each and every one, wherever you stand. And | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| yourself. In order to tap the well, outside help is necessary, but it is valuable only if | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| of self-confrontation, is there an additional way to help you tap the well? Yes, there is. You | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| meaning of the barrier to the calm, will help you greatly, and this practice most definitely must | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| guilt. This proves, once again, how you cannot help but wind up in the very situation you | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| for some of my friends these words will help to dissolve some very crippling misunderstandings about life | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| If you work with these aspects, you cannot help but register further results. These lectures are directed | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| ANSWER: I will be glad to give additional help on this question, if I can, although this | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| feeling should be in theory, it would not help you at all. All you would then do | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| of pity, which inhibits your strength and the help you can give, you can be quite sure | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| will transform into compassion, and to give constructive help to suffering people will be possible, whether through | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| work on images and misconceptions will not really help you. We have often talked about the harm | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| be comfortable with yourself. Theoretical knowledge will not help, except to inspire you to set out to | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| together, with as many participants as possible. To help in that direction, I will remind you of | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| The idea of these discussion groups is to help you put into practice, to assimilate, a theoretical | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| yet a living experience. Then the others may help with clarification, perhaps by way of examples. Personal | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| the group work. The important thing is to help you toward an emotional assimilation. Others who have | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| confusions, these discussions will prove of immeasurable value. Help will then be given as much to those | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| from this course. But I am here to help. The guidance is here. Knowing this, you can | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| had a discussion about blessings. We need your help to understand. What are blessings? ANSWER: The easiest | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| the experience. Beware of labeling, it does not help. Be happy to widen your scope of experience | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| certain actions to them, or how can we help them to understand that we have understood, that | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| Then make your decision freely. This thought may help greatly in overcoming any resistance. I said this | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| personal, colored, and subjective notions. May these words help you again toward a deeper and broader understanding | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| a deeper and broader understanding. My love, my help, go to all of you. The blessings and | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| out that which does not belong, the spiritual help along the way will always be yours. Be | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| and thereby you contribute. Some of you also help through outer actions, each in your own way | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| outer actions, each in your own way. Such help and contribution is of great value, and the | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| not make you impatient or tense, but rather help you to understand that you are hedging the | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| discovery was made. If this happens, it will help humanity to produce greater inner freedom, faster growth | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| strength and the reality that I try to help you find. Be blessed. Be in God! 113 | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| thought advanced here, which might sooner or later help bring you to this path of liberation. A | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| and expect of them -- be it financial help, approval, love, or acceptance -- whenever anxiety indicates | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| yourself to living a parasitic life, you cannot help using those on whom you depend. In this | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| will give you more strength than depending on help from an outside source. Blessings and divine help | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| help from an outside source. Blessings and divine help are possible only through the strength that already | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| self-confidence and self-respect will, indeed, be strengthened. Outside help might be momentarily pleasant, but it will not | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| can be repaired from the outside, and expects help to readjust the disharmonious flow of the self | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| possible self- honesty? Which of my activities can help me most in this? Do I deceive myself | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| Such pursuits are, in themselves, constructive and can help others. They go under the heading of escape | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| from such sources. However, they will not truly help, unless you use such answers as a guiding | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| to move consciously into the right direction will help you to muster the strength to overcome the | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| are then often driven into acts you cannot help committing if only because you have too long | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| strength flowing forth to you so as to help you from this side to open the channels | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| life as a whole. May tonight's lecture again help you advance a step forward on your path | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| the freedom of self-revelation from those whom they help. It is so important to remember not to | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| These are partly good examples. Such participation will help you to assimilate my words better. Let me | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| But even those who are may need considerable help to reach such deep levels of self- awareness | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| lecture may offer an opportunity for such additional help. To clarify confusions and difficulties, bring examples of | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| is supposed to react, and this may indeed help. Only when one has recognized one's own duality | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| his own. Unnecessary pain is thus avoided and help is given in the most subtle way. The | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| determines the laws of reincarnation. I want to help you understand this phenomenon on a deeper and | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| it more clearly. May the blessing here extended help you in this direction. No endeavor and no | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| at certain basic conditions in childhood, which will help you in looking at your own childhood. As | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| apply to them your present knowledge with the help of this lecture. This will give you greater | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| have violently resented their rulers, but could not help obeying, while simultaneously even needing the stronger ones | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| a whole. Contemplation of this will not only help you to understand the world you live in | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| you do not really understand, the answer may help to open the way. Even if there is | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| If you enter into this stream, it cannot help but be benign, bringing happiness, fulfillment, and meaningfulness | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| love? Why must death be encountered without the help of instinctual drives, and why must human beings | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| When you avoid parts of yourself, you cannot help but project outwardly onto others and into the | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| you. Blessed be this hour. May this lecture help you again discover more of yourself, to widen | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| in spite of considerable progress. I wish to help you to become more aware of this, to | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| because it accords with truthful insight, which cannot help but breed love and unity. The no- current | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| the translation of deeper layers. For this, more help is needed than the observation of half-conscious material | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| exact form. A certain type of meditation can help. Become very quiet and relaxed and begin by | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| blocked, not understanding, projecting anger on those who help, dramatizing and exaggerating actual difficulties until the pathwork | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |