| more about yourself, seems to say, I cannot help it. I have to feel guilty for something | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| have to feel guilty for something I cannot help. Therefore, a guilt feeling inevitably contains an element | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| the flavor of Poor me. I could not help it. I should be helped. People are unfair | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| now to each one of you. May it help you, wherever you are on your path, whatever | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| -- born into these conditions. They come to help spread love and truth. They do not only | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| because we are weak and in need of help. And the wrong help can make us mentally | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and in need of help. And the wrong help can make us mentally or physically even more | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| parts of the very same teaching, which may help them to turn into the right direction, will | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| illness, you will find the physician who can help you, or you will choose to accept part | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| currents and conflicting reactions in you that will help you understand the incident. This alone will give | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| never return. This is the basic grace. The help of the spirits who did not fall, or | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| have evolved, is further grace. Without this constant help, the return would be so much harder and | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| open the doors, to show the way, to help accelerate development for all, by an act of | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| who do so in love and brotherhood, to help. By the same token, each one of you | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the marriage venture meaningful and satisfying. So much help and counseling is being offered in your time | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| your time on this subject. Most of the help and advice is rather superficial because the basic | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| subject. Let us hope that my words will help you to actively participate in such a mutual | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| human race if it did not have the help of eros and the sex drive. The maintenance | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| almost a hindrance to union, could you perhaps help us as to how we should go about | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| understood. Only in this way can she also help man to unfold his real strength. If she | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| fact, only then can you really bring happiness, help, or any other constructive contribution to your fellow-creatures | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| foresee. QUESTION: Then it is correct to seek help through whatever means possible? ANSWER: Absolutely. You should | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| ANSWER: Absolutely. You should seek all the physical help possible -- and the mental, spiritual and psychological | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| possible -- and the mental, spiritual and psychological help as well. All work hand in hand. One | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| situation on a larger scale. This contemplation should help in a double way. One: it would contribute | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| prayer may open for you a way to help such a person, a way of help you | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to help such a person, a way of help you had not seen before. Thus, your sincere | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| unhealthy, because the actual contact would not really help the evolution of the soul. It would help | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| help the evolution of the soul. It would help much more if you set about tackling your | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| constructive? Does it make me free? Does it help me to develop myself? Does it further my | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is the only proper approach to all the help that is being offered to you. Once you | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the first place, one can talk to and help a departed dear one without actual mutual contact | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Therefore, there is no harm in trying to help in particular, special instances. But this does not | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| without impatience, without inner haste. May these words help you to search in the knowledge and the | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you can but retain this thought, it will help you in difficult times. Know that the shadow | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you genuine love and affection or friendship or help in some way, and for one reason or | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| blessings, with love and strength, with all the help we can give each one of you who | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| happens to pain or shock you, you cannot help being in some sort of disharmony. This is | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| free of all your conflicts before you can help others. If this were necessary, help would not | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| you can help others. If this were necessary, help would not exist on this earth sphere. But | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| exist on this earth sphere. But the maximum help exists in conjunction with a maximum inner freedom | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| such inner health. The subject may seek the help to become free. In some cases hypnosis helps | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| be a so-called good subject, but still need help in many other ways. As I said, being | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| unfree is very important and the hypnotist can help, even when coming across a problem in the | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| the subject that he also has. Then the help the hypnotist gives will also help his or | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| Then the help the hypnotist gives will also help his or her own problem. And through self-help | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| begin with. If this awareness does not exist, help cannot be given, at least in this particular | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| have overcome all your conflicts before you can help others, but you have to understand their essence | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| remains with you at all times. It will help to remove remaining ignorance and blindness. Knowledge you | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| attention to the thought process, as an additional help yielding other benefits for the unfoldment of the | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| and with you so that this strength may help you to unfold the best, the most creative | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| to be let out. Let this divine strength help you to remove the obstacles in you so | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| and change it, you will notice that the help God gives you in finding yourself always exceeds | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| give up the compulsive fight. But with the help of these words you will search in the | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| because you are as you are, and cannot help it. This will encourage and strengthen you, rather | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| very existence of this forcing current you cannot help being subjective. You respond favorable to those who | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| generally speaking, but, of course, in order to help him, a personal analysis of his unconscious reactions | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| No generality, no matter how true, can ever help a person individually. Since he himself does not | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you yourself criticize your lack of courage to help mature the child in you. To the degree | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| hostility. As I have said, the hostility cannot help affecting the other, even if you are both | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| discussed a while back can be a valuable help in addition to analyzing your emotions in order | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| accord with reality. This practice is a great help, provided it is not done instead of the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| can bring you to the goal without the help of such exercises, the latter will be a | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| instruction in its direction, or ask God for help. How much does your subconscious cooperate? It does | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| I have described here, and my words will help give you clarification. But you can never forcefully | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| strength and the blessings given unto you now help you to approach reality. Be in peace, be | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| isolated and fearful. However, this knowledge cannot really help you until you discover where deep inside yourself | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| sure that this means love, how can it help but resist total surrender of itself? The child | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| way. When you pray, you should ask for help to be able to face yourself, or for | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| fear! In coming across such wonder, one cannot help being in awe. It surpasses all understanding. That | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| divine blessings extended to every one of you help you assimilate the words I speak tonight, so | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| words may cause in you, will be of help and open a door toward knowing yourself better | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| in addition, the five-minute exercise will be of help. One of the psychological factors responsible for the | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| encounter new difficulties within themselves. These words may help you to overcome them and give you a | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| your life. This recognition will do much to help you further. The deep-rooted emotional reactions brought to | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| kind of partner, who is free enough to help you toward liberation. But neither of you can | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| you find and solve your inhibitions, you may help your present partner toward this liberation in this | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| not good enough, as though you could not help it, you were just born that way. No | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| affect and influence the soul currents. It would help them indirectly toward integration. The more direct way | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| could be, the mere awareness of them will help. I do not even mention the need for | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| of his calling, is the inner desire to help. This must be the dominant, clear-cut, unselfish motive | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| clarified and nursed constantly; the inner wish to help unselfishly should be expressed in prayer and intention | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| Holy. Receive our strength and our love to help you further on the path, to help you | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| to help you further on the path, to help you overcome your obstacles, and to struggle successfully | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| outlook on your passing sorrows, and it will help you to make constructive use of any negative | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| and use your own inner findings with the help of this overview, you will come to the | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| tried to convey to you tonight, it may help you to open a little window from which | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| to feel or think something, but you can help it along by trying to feel and perceive | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| automatically attracts negative currents. I am looking for help during this time, because, as you said, it | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| fear for a while, there is just no help for the time being, other than the work | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| ANSWER: That is right. Thinking about it may help create new perspectives. It may help gain new | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| it may help create new perspectives. It may help gain new understanding from a different angle so | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| If they are spiritual messages -- messages to help and advise spirits who may be more receptive | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| is our main concern now. Another indication of help in finding your images is to think where | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| then you can take a memory along to help bring out what your soul has been impressed | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| aware of its unreasonableness without being able to help it, then, as I said before, you must | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| not yet have the opportunity to get private help for their individual work, who still have to | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| much to prepare themselves for receiving more intensified help. It would be constructive for all of you | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| give those present the opportunity to receive personal help in some of their problems. We feel that | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| shall answer your questions which, we hope, may help you personally and make this a constructive evening | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| this true, and can you give me any help for our further work? ANSWER: It is perfectly | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| growth. For the moment, the finding should simply help you to understand why, at least for a | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| why, at least for a while, you cannot help feeling and reacting in a certain way. Further | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| work is not done systematically, and with the help and cooperation of another person, one can accomplish | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| amazingly well, my friend. But without the systematic help of an objective person, this work will remain | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is bound to happen when one doesn't have help. If there is a will for intensified search | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is a will for intensified search with the help of someone else, a way will be found | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| QUESTION: I would like to have a little help. In working, I discovered a negative emotion toward | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you to feel that way, yet you cannot help it. At other times, you feel the superimposed | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| don't just wait and pray. They offer their help by working through the various layers from the | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| desire for love and communication, you could not help but repulse it. Such observations will broaden your | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| by yourself. At other times, you will need help. But in case you really want to know | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| shy away from the possibility of receiving such help and you will be guided to it. As | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| matter how true its teachings, will not really help, just as the wrong kind of acceptance does | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| as the wrong kind of acceptance does not help. This kind of religiousness will not help because | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| not help. This kind of religiousness will not help because it is accepted out of weakness, which | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| the superimposed faith has no real power to help them. They accept God, and everything that belief | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| occasional conscious fear of anything that connotes death help you, but also all the other aspects of | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| in a much healthier way. Simultaneously you also help to change the overly harsh collective reality principle | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| childish craving need to be loved. With the help of this awareness you free yourself to some | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| do obtain what you want eventually. You cannot help but become aware also of the illusion of | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| difficult to put into words. Perhaps it will help you to understand by visualizing a soul movement | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| the life experience with all its components will help you to rise above the dualities. QUESTION: You | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| us continue within the series of lectures to help you gain further insight into yourself and therefore | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| new angle. Your private and personal work will help you in this direction, but it is almost | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| are at all willing to accept the necessary help. QUESTION: To what extent should humans take it | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| one day. May you all find truth and help and further enlightenment through the words I gave | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| of selling their souls to receive approval, sympathy, help, and love. Unconsciously such people believe that self-assertion | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| beings who do. Neither are love, friendship, or help acknowledged as important. The pride in this image | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| of the self, you need other people to help you cope with these demands. Unconsciously, you put | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| apply to a person, it will not really help. The person has to find the cause of | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| you truly search within yourself, such effects will help you to bring out your own distortions, so | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| more strength, and let our blessings and love help and invigorate you. Be blessed, my dear ones | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| irrational, and often entirely untrue. Yet, you cannot help feeling threatened, endangered. Deep within, you panic as | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| according to the dictates of these solutions will help you master life. In general, the distortion of | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| to be experienced. Life and this path will help you if you so decide. Help will come | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| path will help you if you so decide. Help will come also through outer events that will | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| you the strength to be successful. It will help you to keep on going at the most | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| the work, to yourself, to the people who help you, to the whole idea as such? Many | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| you have clung to. Then, you could not help it. But now you will take full responsibility | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| linked to pseudo-solutions. And this, in turn, will help you to free yourself of them. QUESTION: In | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| the next season I shall give you specific help in this endeavor. You all should know that | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you can acquire about them will not really help your spiritual development. But each apparently insignificant insight | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| unhealthy attitudes, you must feel cheated. You cannot help but feel injustice in the world. False religion | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| order to avoid effort and responsibility, you cannot help feeling self-hate and self-contempt, and you become weaker | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| efforts. When religion is a substitute, it may help for a while. It may assuage unreasonable fear | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |