| Hated.......................13 | |
| live somewhere else, perhaps in the country he hated most in his last life. The reason of | 18 FREE WILL |
| other just because they thought differently. Yesterday, they hated each other but did no longer kill because | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| of the growing human being. If the child hated someone it did not love at the same | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| because it represents the exact opposite of a hated and rejected authority's, be it a parent or | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| in connection with the God-image. To obey the hated rules against one's will would be very humiliating | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Does the person you may have feared and hated most when you were a child, perhaps still | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| an equal interest in holding on to a hated image. Why would you want to do that | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| men and women can love when they are hated. The best that can be expected is that | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| or the right not to be rejected and hated for asserting this freedom. You do not even | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| other the right to be wrong without being hated and totally denied. This is a freedom which | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| the eventual comprehension of those previously negated and hated aspects, which means their dissolution and integration. Simultaneously | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| learn to love that part that you have hated and rejected and use its positive forces and | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| which love unites the same two individuals who hated and accused each other before. You then witness | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| Hateful.....................5 | |
| your identity to the fraudulent mask or the hateful demon or the petty, selfish egotist. So, identification | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| part of the self which is destructive, cruel, hateful, spiteful, and soon, this seems the real self | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| are free and honest in admitting destructive and hateful feelings, but you still do not know why | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| limited. Likewise, whether the feelings are loving or hateful, angry or benign, fearful or peaceful, their energy | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| your fear. The fear is guilt for the hateful, malicious, cruel ways of the mind, for feelings | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| Hates.......................12 | |
| and partly by that side in you which hates to recognize unpleasant currents within yourself. You then | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| person, but also of ignorance and laziness. It hates to change and conquer itself; it has a | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| and therefore they sense why the other person hates. However, they will not seek a relationship in | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| identities. In other words, a parent whom one hates and certainly does not want to emulate, can | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| the ultimate in you is the part that hates and nurtures destructive wishes and desires. You begin | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| the innermost attitude responsible for his illness: He hates his parents so much that he punishes them | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| course, an impossibility for which he blames and hates them even more. This same attitude he transfers | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| matter, stagnant energy and consciousness that without change hates and holds, and holds and hates, and fluid | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| without change hates and holds, and holds and hates, and fluid matter, consciousness and energy that knows | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| ironic because the ego clings to what it hates and what hurts it most. It lacks the | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| the part of you that is unpurified and hates itself. The moment you realize this, it makes | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| is what you feel when someone wounds you, hates you, wishes to hurt you. The confusion of | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| Hath........................4 | |
| 38, Jesus says: Ye have heard that it hath been said, an eye for an eye and | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| in Mark 4:25 read: For he that hath, to him shall be given; and he that | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to him shall be given; and he that hath not, from him shall be taken even that | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| him shall be taken even that which he hath. This seems to refer to the principle of | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Hating......................22 | |
| you do not deserve it. The guilt of hating those it loves most, convinces the child that | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| in another way for my great guilt of hating. The imaginary atonement amounts to a kind of | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| ashamed, with your guilty secret of not only hating, but also of being unable to be good | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| then, thereby forcing me into the position of hating and creating this entire circle. The admiration and | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| firm opposition to communism and seemed to make hating communism a prerequisite to Christian unity. I ask | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| different from what it covers. It is a hating attitude to pretend being a victim of the | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| discover again and again your will to be hating, unforgiving, punishing, resentful, and hurt. You will become | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| it in, to calmly receive its expressions without hating yourself, without pushing the infant away. Only with | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| your so-called unconscious guilt leads you into manifest hating actions and attitudes that reject others and life | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| There seems to be no way to avoid hating yourself as long as you have neglected this | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| so, that you go on being spiteful and hating. Now, my friends, let yourself feel the pain | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| react to this I will punish you by hating you and by blaming you even more. Those | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| pleasure in denying the self and the other. Hating, selfish, cruel sex always produces guilt which is | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| in thought and attitude only. When killing and hating are embedded in sexuality, sexuality becomes vicious and | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| Ignorance of these principles and truths leads to hating the incomplete present state, which, in turn, results | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| to following harmoniously the movement of your process. Hating and rejecting your present state means fearing yourself | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| the false sense -- by being negative and hating -- and openness, positiveness and love. To find | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| want to preserve your case and go on hating. You need to release the hatred toward the | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| with another entity. Make peace within yourself, stop hating yourself, learn to love yourself. You received the | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| hate, whether or not you are aware of hating. When you love you remain in a state | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| already enlightened and loving or still unenlightened, defensive, hating, and fearful. So love is in everything. Thus | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| and fear either by submitting, selling out, and hating yourself for it, or by blind rebellion against | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| Hatred......................70 | |
| not have to be always a feeling of hatred; it is enough to be irritated with somebody | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| that it is sinful to hate, but when hatred is still in you, you cannot change this | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| say that we should be aware of the hatred or resentment we feel. But how are we | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| spheres of darkness and disharmony, evil and envy, hatred and prejudice, war and greed would be cast | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| it becomes possible to learn to love where hatred existed before. It is easier this way. Between | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| light to darkness, wisdom to blindness, love to hatred, fear, or egotism, and union became separateness. Then | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| to as Hell. The attitudes of disharmony and hatred created such forms. There is not just one | 21 THE FALL |
| into its opposite and create a fire of hatred and wickedness; thus a very disharmonious kind of | 21 THE FALL |
| creates wars on this earth -- your unrecognized hatred, your unrecognized selfishness, your unrecognized lack of love | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| By meek are meant all who have no hatred, no resentment, no self-will, and no fear. They | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| they have overcome a particular weakness or a hatred against someone sharing their last incarnation and this | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| there are also negative desires. Whenever resentment, fear, hatred, and the like are in your heart, there | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| against war. For as long as there is hatred within the individual soul, and as long as | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| is resentment, it comes from a germ of hatred. Hatred may not manifest itself as such anymore | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| resentment, it comes from a germ of hatred. Hatred may not manifest itself as such anymore, but | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| as long as resentment exists, the root of hatred is still in the soul. It is not | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| still in the soul. It is not necessarily hatred against a particular person, but hatred nonetheless. There | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| not necessarily hatred against a particular person, but hatred nonetheless. There is inevitably a power drive in | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| cultivate these qualities within yourself. As long as hatred, resentment, and intolerance exist in you, you contribute | 36 PRAYER |
| is easy to determine. Love has turned to hatred and resentment, justice to injustice, beauty to ugliness | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| pleasure when its will is done. It knows hatred, resentment, and pain when its will is not | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| the Judaic one? In a way, friction and hatred of the former creed are then generated. What | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| from illusion, or mass images. Certainly, violence and hatred, prejudice and selfishness, all the causes of war | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| be recommended enough that you try to replace hatred, resentment, aggression with love and unselfishness. But before | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| if fears are suppressed and not faced, if hatred is ignored because hate does not correspond to | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| child to feel rejected, which, in turn, causes hatred, resentment, hostility, and aggression. This is the second | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| need for love that cannot be gratified causes hatred and hostility toward the very people one loves | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| conflict could not arise. The very fact that hatred exists for the very person one loves dearly | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| conflict into the subconscious where it festers. The hatred causes guilt because the child is taught early | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| outside myself. These basic conflicts of love and hatred, of guilt and fear of punishment exist in | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| then I can make good for my past hatred and resentment. And since the little voice was | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| it out. That is why the same old hatred still lingers on in you. That is also | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| questions? QUESTION: What happens to a child whose hatred and hostility breaks out in the open? Would | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| meaning of such tantrums hidden. And even if hatred is at times entirely conscious, later it is | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| in our terminology on earth, actually amounts to hatred. ANSWER: In cases that are not so clear | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| to homosexuality. Then it is a fear and hatred of the mother, or female mother-substitutes, rather than | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| as people are governed mostly by vindictiveness, by hatred, and by revenge, and these emotions remain predominant | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| perhaps in the next moment, you may feel hatred or resentment. The fact that you do does | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| of understanding causes the hurt and therefore the hatred. Then the next step will be, as you | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| deadly sins are effects instead of causes. Also, hatred and fear are not mentioned. They too are | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| sacrifices and wastes his life out of sheer hatred and vengefulness. Also, by making mutually exclusive demands | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| direct result of wanting his own destruction. His hatred grows to the extent he feels victimized and | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| and understanding from them do not warrant such hatred either. The moment he sees this, he also | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| now at the point of renouncing this self-defeating hatred, so that he can begin to live. Once | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| hopelessness, and morbid capitulation, which always cover unexpressed hatred. The conscious ego must prevent this stratagem using | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| energy that may now manifest as hostility, envy, hatred, rage, bitterness, self-pity, or blame -- can become | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| them, you remain in the flow. The greatest hatred, the most spiteful vindictiveness, the worst impulses of | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| also an action. Every so often, the denied hatred manifests in an apparently harmless passivity that seems | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| against the self only. But the underlying seething hatred prevents positive deeds of loving and giving; it | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| go further in this regard. The self-punishment for hatred and spite, for cruelty and greed, for selfishness | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| if you face your incommensurate attitude -- your hatred, your demanding love -- and truly give it | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| a guilt? Surely guilt begins in the concealed hatred and brutality that manifests covertly in sexual expressions | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| know your beauty; the more you expose your hatred and all its derivatives, the more you know | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| have this or that dishonesty, pettiness, false pride, hatred, malice, or whatever, but this is not all | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| from blaming and resenting to seeing your own hatred, your own enviousness, your own greed and your | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| you hate yourself, the more you put your hatred onto others, because self-acceptance seems too final a | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| where you now hate and judge. In your hatred you are in darkness. In your denial of | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| are in darkness. In your denial of the hatred you are in a much bleaker darkness, much | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| you find your way back. You admit your hatred, and it is no longer quite so dark | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| -- including shrewdness, as opposed to wisdom -- hatred, and smallness of spirit are likewise beyond your | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| go on hating. You need to release the hatred toward the opposite sex. You have to pray | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| paid before pleasure can begin can guarantee a hatred of learning even in a child who is | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| all why you are met with such virulent hatred. It is as though the other person cannot | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| away when they reach out with tentacles of hatred. This principle is extremely important to understand for | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| it deserves, you will have to conclude that hatred is ignorant, no matter how justified it may | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| intelligence. There are, of course, many forms of hatred that are never acknowledged as such; there are | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| also manifest in resentment, blame, hostility, and overt hatred, with many shades in-between. Love is certainly pure | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| need not endure. Most of you fluctuate between hatred for self and others. It remains for you | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| lowest quality on the whole scale is not hatred, but inertia. Inertia, on the energy level, is | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| more firmly this belief was held, the more hatred and discrimination, separation and enmity grew in the | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |