| can you truly express a wish that is free of hindrances stemming from your misconceptions. You, who | 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE |
| unkindness that it is left to your own free will to seek contact with them or to | 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE |
| illusory. The purpose of this work is to free you of the illusory. For no illusion can | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| your difficulties need never exist if you were free of this particular misconception. This mass image takes | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| the bondage. Then, and then only, can you free yourself of the bondage and compulsion so that | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| Then you can begin the process of emerging free. This can be done only by analyzing, by | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| When you recognize this trend, you will also free yourself from destructive self-accusations. You will simply know | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| truly within yourself -- and you will be free. False concepts are always held on to in | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| is no exception. No human being is completely free of what I have just described. It may | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| simply a strong desire without compulsion, you are free to let go of it, if need be | 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the difference of time, called forth by the free will of the human being, is rather unsubstantial | 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| an impossibility. It is Utopia! You cannot be free and at the same time have no responsibility | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| own food and shelter. A wild animal is free, or freer, but it is responsible to look | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| of weakening you will make you strong and free. You are so conditioned to the habit of | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| self- responsibility, and the continued wish to be free. The world of Utopia as well as the | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| inadequacy, and whether or not you learn to free yourself of the phantom conclusion that you cannot | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| even discuss them with others. Here you are free. Other faults, perhaps less severe and at times | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| towards real freedom and true independence. This will free you of your basic fear of life. It | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| life with a completely new attitude: as a free being without fear. You will know with a | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| you, it contains no guilt. If it is free of self-pity, of the flavor of Poor me | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| your soul are to become really healthy and free, the understanding of this truth is essential for | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| words. Continue on your path and it will free you forevermore. It will liberate you from your | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| in you that love and truth make one free. Love should always be the key word. May | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| unconscious. Thereby, your soul will become healthy and free. This, in turn, will enable you to experience | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| misconception, of responding compulsively rather than out of free choice. If you are true to yourself, you | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you will be unselfish in the healthy and free sense, reserving for yourself the consideration that you | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| regulations -- no rigidity in any direction, but free choice used wisely. One can overwork and yet | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| of this experience. It will thereby make you free and further your growth, independence and happiness. QUESTION | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| would be violating the other person's privacy and free will. That person may not want to be | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| of untruth, so that you will evolve a free and happy being, capable of giving freedom, happiness | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you cannot get what you desire unless you free yourself of the unhealthy and erroneous motives may | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| your will and conviction. It cannot be a free act, independently chosen. Whenever you do something out | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| for yourself as another person. Only as a free, strong, and happy person can you have fulfillment | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| decision is not wholly your own and therefore free. In the meantime, all you can and should | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| will give you the desire and activate the free will to decide for the unselfish act rather | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| mature way without ulterior motives and out of free choice, you will reap a reward of another | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| Only then are you capable of making a free choice that is not driven by compulsion. This | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| advantage, provided your motives are right, your decision free, your reactions mature. This will free you of | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| your decision free, your reactions mature. This will free you of the misconception that selfishness could make | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| the state in which you freely choose. This free choice can be made only after you realize | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| be yours. QUESTION: Although I have made the free choice myself, knowing all these wrong motives, but | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| me? Is it constructive? Does it make me free? Does it help me to develop myself? Does | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| rejected. Since the rejecter seems cold, aloof, and free of emotions, this behavior pattern -- imagined or | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| the child has withheld the love and the free giving of feelings, love must be something shameful | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| point that the goal of purification is to free your true personality. That is the real meaning | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| any longer prevent you from loving and being free. You then remove the part in you that | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| The moment you raise your consciousness, you are free of the illusion; it no longer has any | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| not fear anything, even before you are actually free of the fear. At least, you will see | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| being can be far enough developed to be free of this. But this was not my point | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| stage you can hope to reach is to free yourself of the fear that something might happen | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| the soul. Hence, the ideology in the so-called free world is closer to what is healthy from | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| of self-understanding. You do not have to be free of all your conflicts before you can help | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| that everyone who is a good subject is free of such tight holding-on to the self, has | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| some extent, or if the hypnotist's personality is free to some degree, without compulsions, without fears, without | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| people. QUESTION: If the hypnotist has to be free and the subject has to be free, there | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| be free and the subject has to be free, there seems to be a lot to fulfill | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| The subject may seek the help to become free. In some cases hypnosis helps in this direction | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| an analyst, who also has to be relatively free and emotionally mature. An analyst, as well as | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| make the sick part of human nature strong, free, and healthy; we are interested in the unfoldment | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| are tired of life's problems and hope to free yourself of them in this way. However, are | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| whereas you could be loved if you were free of the entire layer of substitution. If you | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| or compulsive, or intense. This sadness will be free of self-pity and it will not be a | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| you can have the chance of experiencing this free gift only if you don't force it. You | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| don't force it. You can never experience the free gift of love as long as the forcing | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| consciousness. Thus you first have to let people free by permitting them not to love you, if | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| only by this process do you forfeit the free gift of real love -- and not because | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| in Europe, and he would then also be free of hay fever. In such a case, the | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| why it is said that truth makes you free. This is why the resistance of the child | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| to give up your forcing current and become free of a great inner tension, to that degree | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| inner tension, to that degree will you be free to receive something. Perhaps it will be no | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| current and thus your self-created illusions, thereby becoming free to receive real value; or, not receiving it | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| the other person's negative reaction. These insights will free you and further your maturing process. With the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| person will feel your openness, and a spontaneous, free situation can slowly grow. My dearest friends, to | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| you more fit to function where you are free already, but the discipline by itself will not | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| to a point when you not only will free yourself of tensions and fears, of many unnecessary | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| loving bears no danger. In it, you remain free. You do not become enslaved. It is as | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| have dissolved; now you let the other be free, liking and respecting him or her as a | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| for meditation. When you consciously consult your intuition, free from the forcing current and free from wishful | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| your intuition, free from the forcing current and free from wishful thinking, you will sense certain potentials | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| a person becomes the more this form is free of haze and fog. The less developed a | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| love now. May you find the courage to free yourself of this unnecessary burden of fearing love | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| cannot come that way. Only when you are free of this ever continuing repetition, will you no | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| you may nevertheless build a more mature relationship, free of the childish compulsion to recreate and correct | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| moment it turns into a healthy growing pain, free of bitterness, tension, anxiety, and frustration. There are | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| short in his love-capacity. In this partner the free and spontaneous expression of love may be paralyzed | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| unfaithfulness, because she is looking for that very free self- expression, needing it first in the other | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| may need another kind of partner, who is free enough to help you toward liberation. But neither | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| you peace but which will enable you to free within yourself that which had remained completely hidden | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| to be true. This truth will make you free. If you do not choose adulthood by adopting | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| of the lower nature. If you are not free from selfishness -- and a human being rarely | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| useful to remember. That is up to your free will. But when the cycle of incarnations is | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| aim of this work of self-search is to free you from the superimposed layers so that your | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| certainty, at that moment you must have been free of the forcing current. Your real self and | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| lead you to unsatisfactory pseudo-solutions. Only if you free yourself of the idea that you always have | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| in order to be happy, will you be free of the I want current. And only when | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| outwardly calm and well balanced are not necessarily free of this aspect. In fact, it may only | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| all living organisms. If you let this spark free to become a burning flame, instead of burying | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is. Thus you will become real. This will free your intuitive faculties so that they can take | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| function if you first have the courage to free yourself of the artificially produced strength, and investigate | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| long, it is the only way to really free inherent capacities. The very impatience that is a | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| behavior, no matter how camouflaged, never expresses a free choice for healthy independence and interdependence. Now, my | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| in both at various phases of the relationship. Free interaction on the part of both partners is | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| have to worry about this, because if you free yourself of the exaggerated need, your innermost self | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| unhealthy situation based on immature craving instead of free readiness to love and communicate. Since you are | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| dualism in your own soul. Hence you cannot free the life force that lies within unutilized. So | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| loved. With the help of this awareness you free yourself to some extent from the craving. Nevertheless | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| death itself, or a negative occurrence -- you free the life force in you, which will then | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| to its full capacity, will you become spontaneous, free of all compulsions, will you trust in your | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| on the outer fringes that may have been free of the idealized self's dictatorship, but wholly and | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| the idealized self's dictatorship, but wholly and fully free in every part of your being. This will | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| your life -- not faultlessly, not by being free of all failure, not excluding the possibility of | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| gain the true dignity that will set you free. You no longer have to fight against impossible | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| Without this activity, it will be impossible to free yourself of conflicts and problems. The whole weight | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| And this, in turn, will help you to free yourself of them. QUESTION: In a relatively well-integrated | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| there is no human being who is entirely free of inner distortions and soul disturbances, everyone has | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| aware of it. If the personality were entirely free of it, if there were no self-estrangement, there | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| in the third place, the desire exists to free yourself of the yoke of such a person | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| out of these pseudo-solutions and therefore you will free yourself of the guilt, which is only one | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| role. True religion does not obey. It is free. True religion is a willing process: a free | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| free. True religion is a willing process: a free, self-determined action, derived from understanding. It makes people | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| much enslaved by its passions to be let free. Therefore obedience had to be stressed in order | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| of humanity is not advanced enough to be free of destructive impulses, the laws to prevent such | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| is completely incompatible with the idea that a free human being can attain divinity. Once blind obedience | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| religion, genuine spirituality, aims primarily to make you free, to make you strong, to make you responsible | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| for yourself if only you decided to become free and mature. Find in yourself this element that | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| such a state, you cannot come out a free, strong individual. You may again fall back into | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| point of view. For none of you are free of the distortion of spirituality; namely, its use | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| of God. If you are supposed to be free and independent, where does grace come in? You | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| impulses. The truly divine can function only in free souls, and this will happen. The whole trend | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| altogether different to expect yourself to be quite free of negative impulses and emotions and to reject | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| one of you. Your stringent need to be free of any imperfection, of any immoral instinct, makes | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| working on the negative aspect until you can free yourself from it through understanding yourself. Do not | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is intrinsically human, and even necessary. Once you free yourself of resistance and repression, it will be | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| and the less capable of being alive and free in a real situation. Therefore, you cannot respond | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| reactions. The healthier a psyche is, the more free it is of the neurotic condition just discussed | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| to what actually exists. In a primary reaction, free of the illusion of hoping to bring gratification | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| nothing to do with reality. If you are free enough to cope with not being liked, you | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |