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avoid having at present will be much less forceful, capable of doing less harm both to you 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
friends. Then you will not need an external, forceful rule to find the right attitude for different 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
quite unsubmissive, quite rebellious, behave in such a forceful way only because deep down they are afraid 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
Being finally attained. But this cannot happen by forceful means and special exercises. It is the product 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
another, in the most natural way possible. No forceful measures will have to be applied either to 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
own feelings or to the other person. Such forceful measures can never really work. An organic natural 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
Thinking you must guard yourself against it by forceful measures avails you nothing. You cannot protect yourself 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
but you remain insecure. It is an unnatural forceful procedure. The other is in harmony with your 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
very life were at stake. It is so forceful that the balancing forces cause the other person 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
and damaging attempts to negate death. These artificial, forceful, and cramped attempts bring you so much nearer 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
do more for genuine self-respect than all the forceful, insincere strivings for an idealized perfection that is 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
way of saying that a false goodness, a forceful, insincere one, produces a moralizing that many people 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
motivation or a destructive impulse inverted into a forceful compulsive superstandard. QUESTION: Why do I feel so 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
old way, you are not ready for a forceful relinquishing and a drastic change. In this case 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
It may lead to repression, suppression, to a forceful, superimposed action that cannot be helpful to genuine 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
feelings can happen in many subtle ways. A forceful overemotionalism, overdramatization, exaggeration, talking yourself into stronger feelings 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
kind of caution, an unrealistic fear, and a forceful will -- the forcing current -- play a 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
from your strong repressed needs, all the more forceful because you are unaware of them, or, at 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
or weaker than they actually are is a forceful tampering that cripples their functioning. Your intuitive, creative 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
a love-power that is so demanding and so forceful. Only too often both distortions exist in you 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
of understanding. Confusion is not eliminated by a forceful act of tearing it out. This only makes 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
yes. But discipline connotes compulsion, suppression, repression, and forceful action -- all shortcuts, all illusions, all measures 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
power currents of the spirit are infinitely more forceful, their energy much stronger than the power and 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
degrees, passive resistance, spite, withdrawal, refusal to cooperate, forceful outer aggression, intimidation, and persuasion through false strength 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
to unfulfilled real needs may momentarily result in forceful expressions of crying and yelling, or of writhing 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
transcendence of evil, you gain back all the forceful vitality that you had to inactivate in order 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
awareness. Let us say that you are outwardly forceful, aggressive, and temperamentally suited to get away with 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
to recognize the hidden aspect. If you are forceful by nature, and have aspects of strength that 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
as it proves itself inefficient: you become more forceful, more possessive, demanding, jealous, and domineering. Thus the 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
have right now, especially if it is a forceful movement that disregards the rhythm of life, in 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE
yet distinct difference between using this model and forceful attempts to be what you have not yet 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
 
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and again, in one particular direction perhaps too forcefully. Your lower self resists that. Maybe I can 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
will not be fulfilled, rather than trying to forcefully prevent yourself from going through this necessary stage 39 IMAGE-FINDING
may find along with it. You can never forcefully tear out the wrong reaction, once you have 53 SELF-LOVE
natural procedure and do not happen arbitrarily or forcefully. They are created in infinite wisdom and farsightedness 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
of Being, often try to attain this state forcefully, long before they can possibly be ready for 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
about it. Knowledge has to grow naturally, never forcefully. Cultivation of the awareness without pressure will eventually 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
Otherwise it wears out. Each time it is forcefully renewed a stronger inner exertion is necessary that 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
their importance. It can never be gained by forcefully superimposing right concepts on childish, illusory fears that 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
the real situation, as against your imagined and forcefully wished one, and in much larger degree. There 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
down, or your shoulders sag; or that you forcefully straighten them in an unrelaxed, artificial way. Observe 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
help give you clarification. But you can never forcefully attempt a certain work process. If your search 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
unreal form is a constant hazard, and you forcefully close your eyes to it. If you do 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
that by willing it more strongly and more forcefully, the parent-partner will now yield, whereas in reality 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
order to remedy the situation, you should not forcefully concentrate during all your waking hours. Many psychological 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
is no longer necessary that it be helped, forcefully, with certain measures, to remember, as it is 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
first set of feelings may not even be forcefully superimposed. It may be quite genuine, but one 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
to find how far you have gone to forcefully perpetuate infancy. Once you analyze and understand certain 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
the false needs. Do not even attempt to forcefully stamp out these false needs. It would do 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
psyche retains it, will produce results. Battling it forcefully will not. QUESTION: Besides the psychological approach, is 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
wish to use it, you hold it back forcefully. But you are inwardly not yet convinced that 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
that similar trends exist in you, and try forcefully to relinquish the need, it will do you 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
your conscious feelings as imperfect, you try to forcefully superimpose inauthentic emotions over them. How can you 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
possible to grow out of them -- not forcefully, by superimposition, not by feeling guilty that childish 101 THE DEFENSE
It is used as a force, superimposing and forcefully cutting out something. Even the word slayer suggests 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
have been concerned with on this path, trying forcefully and deliberately to eliminate it will only make 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF
your capacity to give -- no matter how forcefully and artificially you may practice giving in order 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
to do after such a detection is to forcefully assert that you, and you alone, determine your 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
crushed, neither can they be denied, uprooted, or forcefully supplanted by foreign elements that seem more palatable 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
your will to avoid feared feelings and try forcefully to produce the joy that you cannot have 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
Otherwise you will put a lot of energy forcefully into something that you cannot maintain with a 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
a very new way. Imagine how much more forcefully truth will flow from a very different area 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
 
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that that person becomes the plaything of the forces of darkness. This does not mean that he 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
is sufficient to become the plaything of the forces of darkness. The dark world takes its material 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
when such tests come along, for the dark forces know only too well how to make untruth 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
again in unawareness, become a plaything of the forces of darkness, your boat will be blown hither 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
the tangle of threads, woven by the dark forces; and often one person contributes especially much to 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
fewer errors and misunderstandings about one's own soul forces, and their messages will be translated correctly. The 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
magnificence of creation, and see how the dark forces must ultimately play into God's hands. I will 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
to speak, from the divine and the dark forces. You have to stand your ground alone, and 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
when you have withstood the test, the dark forces will be periodically allowed to get quite close 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
death is to give yourself over to the forces of darkness, consciously or unconsciously, that is, to 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
much bliss they lose this way! The wonderful forces and luminous rays of the spiritual world are 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
is obviously wrong. It not only attracts negative forces, it is also based on self-deception. Such people 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
true humility which will set in motion the forces of transformation from deep within. Then you are 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
this is often not understood. The more these forces work and manifest, the more unhappy will the 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
to you. Technology, however, achieves this with outer forces, while the person on the path of perfection 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
person on the path of perfection utilizes inner forces. That is the entire difference. The latter method 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
is prayer with feeling, it engages the soul forces as compared to the thinking forces. To get 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
the soul forces as compared to the thinking forces. To get to the second and further step 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
God, to liberate the often dormant and hidden forces of the soul, and find the connection to 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
point where you determine yourself when the pure forces will be ready to move freely from within 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
There are several tools to liberate the soul forces: For some it may be helpful to remember 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
you can be led into temptation. The dark forces serve as instruments to draw it out, to 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
to reach out for help, but it never forces its help on anyone. In other words, each 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
Most of you know that there are two forces within the human soul. The higher self or 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
you are lost and in the grip of forces within you that you cannot control. In other 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
not what may be sensational and phenomenal -- forces are set in motion to train this particular 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
to shine through, connection is made with the forces of darkness, according to each person's attitude and 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
varying spiritual development, as well as with the forces and currents generating from our particular sphere. Some 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
or her own life but also weakens the forces of darkness, for the less they have to 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
a result, only the influence of the disharmonious forces would have an effect. Humanity would thus constantly 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
and flow in the universe, so that the forces of good become that much stronger compared to 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
good become that much stronger compared to the forces of evil, for each evil thought is added 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
accomplish almost anything by willpower. The inner psychic forces, once utilized, are much more potent than anyone 18 FREE WILL
particle of life. Magic merely explores the psychic forces. The goal of the magician, even the white 18 FREE WILL
the exploration and the use of certain psychic forces. True, white magic will use these forces for 18 FREE WILL
psychic forces. True, white magic will use these forces for a good purpose. But magic will not 18 FREE WILL
not go further than the control of psychic forces. The mystic will, on the way to his 18 FREE WILL
goal, also encounter some of the same psychic forces and may even use them occasionally, but his 18 FREE WILL
it because they were too impressed by magic forces which, at one point or another on this 18 FREE WILL
the state of ecstasy a person experiences divine forces, divine beings, or even God. That cannot happen 18 FREE WILL
strong degree that it can mate with divine forces; it is thus prepared in quality for the 18 FREE WILL
ecstasy and even before the exploration of psychic forces. QUESTION: I would like to know whether people 18 FREE WILL
a spirit belonging to the order of divine forces has a task to fulfill in connection with 18 FREE WILL
of justice each individual and even the very forces of evil could find the way back to 19 JESUS CHRIST
freely, because you choose so, not because life forces you. You see, my friends, the divine laws 21 THE FALL
and then step into it yourself. If life forces or pushes you into it, against your will 21 THE FALL
can. It will liberate latent powers and healing forces for your body and soul. If you experience 21 THE FALL
must be a war between us, between your forces and the forces of the divine world. The 22 SALVATION
war between us, between your forces and the forces of the divine world. The chances would be 22 SALVATION
be evenly distributed, which means that the divine forces must be numerically in the minority for the 22 SALVATION
the minority for the simple reason that the forces of good are infinitely stronger than the forces 22 SALVATION
forces of good are infinitely stronger than the forces of evil, perhaps twenty to one. If you 22 SALVATION
war took place and even if the divine forces won and took my power away, I would 22 SALVATION
children. He created various powers and strengths and forces and He distributed them in such a way 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
may not represent Lucifer himself, but the evil forces. So there is a part of that. QUESTION 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
distribution, for instance, of the active and passive forces. I will soon give a lecture on this 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
soon give a lecture on this subject. Both forces have to be utilized harmoniously in the human 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
tired or weak, it is because your inner forces exhaust themselves in the wrong channels so that 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
good and evil. Did God create the evil forces and the Luciferic powers too? ANSWER: That is 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS

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