| because of their fear of contact. But if fear of contact exists at all, it is primarily | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| of contact exists at all, it is primarily fear of contact with the self, and only secondarily | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| of contact with the self, and only secondarily fear of contact with others. Consequently, this aloneness will | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| for privacy. People who are alone because of fear of contact will remain alone without taking the | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| to keep secret. Those who keep a secret fear that they are not in truth, or they | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| Often an important reason for secretiveness is the fear of self-exposure. The fear says, If I show | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| for secretiveness is the fear of self-exposure. The fear says, If I show myself as I really | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| fulfill your need for contact and live without fear and anxiety, without shame and hiding, without pretenses | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| you are loved and accepted. You must always fear and distrust, as long as you fail to | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| for resistance to giving up secrets: (1) The fear that your lower self makes you all bad | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| makes you all bad and, together with this fear, your unwillingness to risk the possibility that this | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| the process gradually, by small steps. (3) The fear of being too vulnerable when all the hard | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| to speak more about the third factor, the fear of vulnerability. This vulnerability goes beyond the obvious | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| of vulnerability. This vulnerability goes beyond the obvious fear of being less protected from hurt and disappointment | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| from hurt and disappointment without the secrets. This fear is an outright illusion, easy to discover once | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| and too undesirable to give them up. You fear and avoid your own pain about causing pain | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| general. Humanity's greatest imprisonment, from which stems all fear and pain and suffering, is the duality in | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| joy, excitement, meaning, that there is nothing to fear, that there is no more pain. This state | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| you cannot even perceive the pain and the fear. You do not know anything else. This is | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| in the limited world of duality, you always fear the undesirable and strain away from it toward | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| pleasure and away from pain. Even the often-encountered fear and denial of pleasure is essentially nothing but | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| pleasure is essentially nothing but another version of fear and denial of pain. How then is one | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| of a duality exists, you must live in fear, in inner tension, and you cannot realize your | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| you cannot see the forest for the trees. Fear and desire are only the most common denominators | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| host of other feelings and attitudes. In your fear of death and of pain, and in your | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| very irrational and unreasonable. An ordinary person may fear that it is a symptom of insanity to | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| life can also come from identical reasons of fear. So you need to go through your inner | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| So you need to go through your inner fear and your previously unconscious anger, bitterness or rage | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| with all its painful strains and anxieties. Denied fear creates more fear. Denied longing and desire create | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| painful strains and anxieties. Denied fear creates more fear. Denied longing and desire create anxiety, not peace | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| in the hands of the alchemist. Both the fear and the desire will become a driving force | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| in which you want life not because you fear death, but because you know that there is | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| difference between hanging on to life because you fear annihilation of all you are and have become | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| fact that every so often you believe you fear one end of the spectrum and strive for | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| your illusion about yourself, you find that you fear the apparently desired end at least on one | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| bit as much as that which you consciously fear. So you realize the unity of fear. Life | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| consciously fear. So you realize the unity of fear. Life is feared as much as death, pleasure | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| grow, when you comprehend the nature of the fear at both ends of the spectrum. As you | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| the meaning of creation always stems from bitterness, fear and anger. These attitudes can only produce more | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| see here. They think of that level where fear and desire annihilate unity and trap the mind | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| the tips of your fingers. All that you fear and strain away from is nothing but illusion | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| you want and not at all what you fear. This is but a vague outline for your | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| or of hell would therefore manifest only pain, fear and suffering and no beauty at all, while | 254 SURRENDER |
| spheres of good would not have any pain, fear and suffering. Imagine a world in which the | 254 SURRENDER |
| to do with lack of trust, with suspicion, fear, and with the misunderstanding that if you surrender | 254 SURRENDER |
| will, in your ability to choose faith over fear, courage over cowardice. For what requires more courage | 254 SURRENDER |
| the greater the problems will be, the more fear, pain, and conflict must exist in your life | 254 SURRENDER |
| and there is no more puzzlement, no more fear, no more pain -- only peace and joy | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| and will eliminate the existential anger, rage and fear about life and death that we discussed in | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| vigor. When you hear these words, you may fear such an occurrence. You may think it preferable | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| dying and being reborn. For many human beings fear of death makes dying traumatic. The threat of | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| is no way of describing what exists when fear, doubt, distrust -- and therefore suffering, death and | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| reaction of further negative emotions, such as doubt, fear and discouragement. I am talking about this topic | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| kind of utopia, also creates a sense of fear in those who somehow, in their inner being | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| unfinished state, while partially striving for real autonomy, fear surrender in all forms. What they really fear | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| fear surrender in all forms. What they really fear and distrust is their own desire for the | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| filled with life. By approaching the void without fear, you also remove an obstruction to life. Focusing | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| living, dying, suffering and longing, eliminates much illusion, fear and enmity. It contributes to the ever-growing unity | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| attitude as a defense? Knowing this removes your fear, your false pride, your anger. It may enable | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| how communication brings souls together, eliminating walls of fear that create hate between humans. Therefore communication is | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| bridges with others? How can you lose your fear of people unless you truly expose the misconception | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| human beings will be established. This is how fear and hate--hence war on all levels--will increasingly disappear | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| in having a case against someone or your fear of finding out that you are wrong and | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| finding out what the truth is. Do not fear the truth. It will be so liberating! It | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| about this melding. On the one hand, you fear giving up what you call your individuality. You | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| God, you will always be confused, live in fear, distrust your judgment, become either too distrustful in | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| spoke in a lecture about one basic existential fear that all human beings share, whether they are | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| aware of it or not. This is the fear of annihilation of consciousness -- which you fear | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| fear of annihilation of consciousness -- which you fear will take place after the body separates from | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| To no longer exist is the most insidious fear that you must meet and deal with. Only | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |