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in the sense that your great sin of falling, of not remaining faithful to God, and of 22 SALVATION
The puzzle will be complete, with every piece falling in its place. So there is no test 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
the love experience. It is what you call falling in love, or romance. Through eros the personality 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
never make a mistake. Making a mistake means falling into the abyss. Here again you can test 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
a laborious thought process, but because everything is falling into place as if by itself as a 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
the path, it seems that one is forever falling back. How is this possible, after a certain 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
like the alphabet. ANSWER: It is not really falling back, my friends. It merely means that you 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
had such an experience. And yet you keep falling into the same trap. You know very well 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
you use spiritual values to castigate yourself for falling short of a false perfection; when you understand 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
of them. You can then see them without falling into the error of picturing yourself as all 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
rather the role that you play in it, falling short of your ideals, which require that you 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
attitude that makes you moralize with yourself for falling short of perfection. Discover where and how you 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
out, you may feel as though you were falling into an abyss. You will feel yourself defenseless 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
more convinced of the danger of letting go. Falling back into the other extreme of holding on 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
the emotional reaction to and the apprehension of falling and crushing when the ego is given up 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER
makes you so perfectionistic that you must fear falling off the self-erected pedestal. Many fears will dissolve 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
ignorant, irrational child in you express itself, without falling into the trap of believing its truth is 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING
How can you accept and like yourself without falling into the danger of self-indulgence and self-justification for 174 SELF-ESTEEM
nevertheless maintain your self-respect? How can you avoid falling into the danger of destructive guilt, self-rejection, and 174 SELF-ESTEEM
to evaluate such impulses and desires realistically, without falling into the trap of projection, self-justification, self-righteous exoneration 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
dealing here with personality types -- one person falling into the former, another into the latter category 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
into what appears to be a bottomless abyss. Falling into it threatens to annihilate the entity. I 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS
not know that you can experience pain without falling apart, you cannot possibly be in an open 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY
prefer the status quo in which you avoid falling into those other states of consciousness of your 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
 
 False.......................858
and the search, the person will look for false goals and false fulfillment. However, those who reach 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
the person will look for false goals and false fulfillment. However, those who reach the stage of 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
wrong channel. Moreover, you always cling to the false belief that death and pain are the worst 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
life, much of the energy will go into false channels and thus be used up without sufficient 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
and the oversensitivity is a sign of a false sense of self-importance. This entire inner process centers 4 WORLD WEARINESS
channeled through the sick lower self into a false direction. It is not even that individuals who 4 WORLD WEARINESS
love creates a natural dignity very different from false dignity, which is based on pride and vanity 4 WORLD WEARINESS
of the personality wants what is evil and false -- yet this evil or falsehood does not 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
wallow in their faults, immerse themselves in a false guilt which I have already mentioned several times 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
and it is just as much at a false extreme as its opposite: wanting to see oneself 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
able to avoid the lie and identify the false emotional currents underlying your correct outward actions. You 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
without being upset by it. Slowly, slowly, old, false currents will transform themselves and be in line 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
of human understanding. You have altogether too many false opinions -- not only you who are here 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
to Creation, whether you have more or fewer false ideas is not the issue, since you have 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
usual vague ideas about the kingdom of God, false thought forms that you erect in your imagination 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
truth cannot penetrate. When the thought forms are false, God's kingdom cannot come to you. GIVE US 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
about your own guilt. Humans tend to produce false, unhealthy, exaggerated guilt feelings which are not justified 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
into the daylight. This is the difference between false guilt and real repentance. The experience of all 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
their real guilt lose automatically not only all false guilt complexes which pull them down, but feel 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
and opinions. Even when people are free of false reactions concerning society in general, but react in 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
It is what you might call phony or false; it is unreal. I will return to the 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
drugs? ANSWER: Not in that way; that is false ecstasy. You have certain little and insignificant ecstasies 18 FREE WILL
innermost motives will be bare, no pretexts and false justifications will exist. He will be judged in 18 FREE WILL
new habit of seeing yourself clearly, without any false motives and excuses and blindness, for a while 21 THE FALL
is not entirely correct, it will give a false idea. Co-creation would mean that God actually went 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
is absolutely true is that the sincere, though false motive is not evaluated in the same way 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
also play a role in that, such as false interpretation of what was seen. QUESTION: So the 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
much too great not to let errors and false interpretations slip in -- not to speak of 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
right and good instinct or a wrong and false one guides you is by the happiness, relief 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
rebuilding only after you have torn down the false edifice. If you have the courage to stumble 31 SHAME
strength to risk losing the love given on false premises. So the person feels compelled to create 32 DECISION-MAKING
shortcomings within you. This would give you a false reassurance and might make you overlook where exactly 32 DECISION-MAKING
master the subtleties involved and to discover the false posing for the true. Before we turn to 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
encloses you in darkness, loneliness, fear, guilt, and false shame. Only in this way can you evolve 39 IMAGE-FINDING
head high, instead of being governed by your false impressions and shame. It takes only a moment 39 IMAGE-FINDING
life work if I did not have this false, protective measure -- this image? The answer will 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
and unhappiness, will make you stronger than any false security ever could. Whether you have looked for 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
ever could. Whether you have looked for this false security in your relationships with others, in ideas 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
good and true sense, but actually against the false note in the equally unaware law-upholder. This is 47 THE WALL WITHIN
gain real control over them, rather than the false control of suppressing them. In emotional maturity you 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
true goodness that was so unrewarding but rather false and compulsive goodness. Drawing the wrong conclusion, you 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
your former unselfishness was ineffective because it was false, not because unselfishness as such is ineffective. This 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
not understand that this concept of God is false and that God is not what is experienced 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
often a reaction to and compensation for the false concept. The personality may grapple between these two 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
never winning the battle because both concepts are false. In every child's life both kinds of authority 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
may not even be aware that it is false. Even in your intellectual perception you are partly 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
free yourself from the enslaving chains of the false belief. So the second step is to set 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
should never be superimposed on the still-lingering emotional false concept. This would only cause suppression. On the 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
your surface consciousness, but realize that they are false. Formulate the right concept. Then these two should 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
you include the word justice, this idea is false. For God is. His laws are made once 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
a fallacy. Such fallacies very often turn into false piety. What in your view is obvious devotion 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
upon you, nor do you indulge in a false piety by suffering the consequences of your wrong 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
in despair and depression, as long as a false God-image exists in you, you keep blaming God 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
Hence a vicious circle, always built on a false premise, is activated within you. Again, I say 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
point in self-recognition, you become aware of the false concepts you harbor unconsciously. Each time such a 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
concepts you harbor unconsciously. Each time such a false concept is observed and therefore becomes more and 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
within yourself -- and you will be free. False concepts are always held on to in the 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
real self and the illusory side, where the false God-image rules, do not coincide, they are not 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
prison of self-inflicted suffering due to errors and false concepts. This is very important for all of 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
misunderstanding and must therefore be equally unhealthy and false. They must also lead back to the old 62 MAN AND WOMAN
the recognition that the solution proved to be false and the conscious wish for health remained on 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
as the doubts are hidden out of a false sense of shame and guilt, as if to 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
can really disappear: Is it true? Is it false? Is it the subconscious of the medium? Is 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
In both cases you have to remove the false layer and look where the real self is 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
phantom world you have created out of the false impressions of your childhood. You have no idea 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
spirits with many and long-standing images, wrong conclusions, false concepts, compulsions, and so on, which are all 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
love you yearn for by resorting to the false remedy of substitutions. This shame is so great 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
in unreality because your concept of time-quality is false when your childish emotions are involved without your 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
not substitute the genuine you with a slightly false one. It takes a great deal of work 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
the confines of your restricting, separating barriers of false beliefs and misconceptions. Then you find union with 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
cannot happen with all the deviations and basic false premises. In an artificial manipulation you prevent your 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
this is one way of distinguishing real and false recognitions. In the former, you hardly realize what 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
no longer distinguish between the real and the false you. Only this work will finally bring you 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
realize, sometimes quite suddenly, that these emotions are false. You have them because of a wrong conclusion 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
only of their constructive purpose, while ignoring the false motivations beneath. After some exploration in the right 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
self, which is entirely covered up by the false layer of a pseudo-self. Another factor that contributes 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
pretense. In fact, these two are often interacting. False motivations cause impatience. The strong, often unconscious, desire 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
need merely festers underground, covered by layers of false detachment, which is nothing but fear and withdrawal 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
of not getting what you want. Since such false protection automatically precludes the fulfillment of your desire 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
much more difficult. When you have found the false means you have tried to use, you will 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
who aggressively antagonizes people, shows an unhealthy, uncaring, false independence that comes from and also leads to 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
core lies in the psychological problems, in the false safeguards people have built for themselves, and in 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
deliberately choose suffering and reject happiness in the false belief that pleasure and joy are contrary to 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
tomb as a story of promise are entirely false, and not a factual account. ANSWER: No, not 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
significant countermeasure to which people resort in the false belief that it will circumvent unhappiness, unpleasure, and 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
guilty secret, and you started to build a false self. This, you thought, was your protection and 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
life, happiness, security, self-confidence. The awareness of this false front began to vanish, but you were and 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
You strain harder and harder to become this false self, this idealized self. You were, and unconsciously 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
you started building an unreal self on a false foundation and leave your real self out. In 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
idealized self, and this robs you of the false self-confidence you falsely tried to establish with the 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
discrepancy and struggle between the real and the false self. Only upon solving this most vital and 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
not living up to the standards of your false self. Do not let it get away with 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
once and for all to seek them by false means. Are there any questions? QUESTION: So the 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
from life as such. Underneath the withdrawal, or false serenity, that soul is still torn in half 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
aware of it. Such a strong facade of false serenity has been built that, as long as 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
conflict finally emerge, and it will show how false this serenity was. It will be borne out 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
it become possible to let go of the false value of your idealized self. It is a 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
mutual process: by allowing yourself to see the false values, however painful this may be, your real 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
emerge so that you no longer need the false ones. Since the idealized self alienates you from 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
values. Throughout your life you concentrate unconsciously on false values: either on values you lack but think 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS

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