| Shameful....................30 | |
| the image is about something that is not shameful, objectively speaking. There might not be any justification | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| of courage to go through what seems so shameful and face yourself as you are. This is | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| in having failed and has to hide this shameful fact. Even when the person has grown up | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| she feels that it is undesirable, and therefore shameful, to demonstrate all that for which the child | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| free giving of feelings, love must be something shameful one has to hide. The realization that your | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| to reconsider the first impression that loving is shameful. In the first place, this conclusion is no | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| the best in you, that it is something shameful. You will see what an unnecessary burden it | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| people, to be important. Somehow this seems less shameful. Thus you go through life constantly proving yourself | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| temporarily so painful is the uncovering of something shameful. Only after mustering the courage to bring your | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| anger for the original pain. Anger seems less shameful, setting you above the other person, rather than | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| and face what you had regarded as too shameful to admit, you will feel emotional ease and | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| and you would present the aspect you find shameful in a slightly distorted, untruthful, colored way. Hence | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| while freely expressing what seemed to be so shameful, suddenly you will see that your entire shame | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| PARTICIPANT: I think it would be a very shameful feeling not to be grateful for what was | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| each individual. In itself it is not sinful, shameful, or wrong. As the psyche grows out of | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| phase, because it is natural. It is not shameful. It is in the scheme of universal development | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| your sense of being isolated with a guilty, shameful secret that makes you different from others can | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| destructiveness, blind selfishness, dishonesty, as well as the shameful attachments of the pleasure principle to negative situations | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| in yourself. For many personality types it seems shameful to display one's best, one's most loving and | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| in it. What you are now is not shameful because of your faults; it is much more | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| because of your faults; it is much more shameful, as it seems to you, because of its | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| to be accepted by others is usually less shameful than the means to which the personality resorts | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| of others, or your ways of hiding your shameful submission, often by an apparently opposite attitude of | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| direct result of having to hide the underlying shameful and threatening forcing-current. It is threatening because you | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| and to overcome the resistance to exposing apparently shameful liabilities, has experienced how acknowledging negative traits creates | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| identified with and therefore struggled against seeing, this shameful isolation ceases and the aspects are seen exactly | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| the stagnation, none of them necessarily bad or shameful. When all levels of the two personalities are | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| courage and honesty of transparency, no matter what shameful facets may have to be revealed, create more | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| yourself; your innermost thoughts, dreams, and desires feel shameful. To begin with, these aspects are often far | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| begin with, these aspects are often far from shameful or bad. They become negative because they are | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| Shamefully..................3 | |
| this is explored will the underlying neglected and shamefully covered core of your problem evolve into emotional | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| to say that what one really is feels shamefully naked -- regardless of your good or bad | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| direction. When this direction is negative and therefore shamefully denied, both the person's development and the vitality | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| Shames......................11 | |
| you cannot reach your unconscious and stubbornly hidden shames blocking the way. But if you wait for | 31 SHAME |
| conclusions, you will discover that fighting your imagined shames and resistances with the tools of patience, sound | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| disregard and bypass the inner noise of fears, shames, defenses, and urgent needs and come directly to | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| inwardly calm. Detect your fears, your guards, your shames, your embarrassment, your resistance against feelings. As you | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| First you are not even aware that such shames exist. It takes a considerable amount of time | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| being. The infant is not burdened with guilts, shames and misconceptions. Therefore, the instinctual drives manifest much | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| disclose itself, and you become freer from fears, shames, and prejudices, so you can open yourself up | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| dualistic splits that create your misconceptions, fears, and shames that are so superfluous. Let us now come | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| degree you deny yourself pleasure -- due to shames, fears, misconceptions, negativities, impurities -- to that degree | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| pay it. I want to overcome the false shames, prides, vanities that make me hide behind pretenses | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| These repressions and denials, these guilts and false shames are not merely a result of social mores | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| Shape.......................35 | |
| it again becomes an entity of form and shape -- although of such fine substance that beings | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| male and female parts are integrated, in the shape of a ball -- but please do not | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| politicians or those few who visibly and publicly shape world history are to be made responsible for | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| whose actual faces take on an entirely different shape, even a different bone structure. This is what | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| -- exists concretely and does not alter its shape according to people's attitudes. In other words, you | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| in you, begins to take on a precise shape, so that you can deal with it intelligently | 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW |
| that have caused you disharmony in any manner, shape, or form. Even if at the beginning you | 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW |
| development, are incarnated on this earth; yet human shape or outer appearance does not give an indication | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| expression of this basic attitude, regardless of what shape or manner it takes in the individual personality | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| contains. These forms vary in substance, strength, and shape according to what they represent, how strong the | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| knowledge of a just world in which you shape your own fate. So it is not a | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| will and become a spirit entity, similar in shape and form to the human form which is | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is true that spirit entities in form and shape as you can conceive of them are not | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| it may be manifest or it may take shape as sloth, apathy, stagnation or a sense of | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| you have against life, and how it takes shape in your life. Find where, deep inside you | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| soul the soul form is bumpy, uneven in shape, with the bumps hardened on it like scabs | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| and self-awareness. When this realization begins to take shape, you will come to see that these two | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| to learn the new symbols. Language in any shape or form is a conglomeration of symbols. What | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| you talk to another person, things will take shape and gain a clarity that you missed as | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| be true, since you have started out to shape your behavior according to this belief. As you | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| everyday issues, big or small. It can take shape as a small squabble between mates or as | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| and experience why and how destructiveness, in whatever shape or form it manifests in your life, seems | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| Thus each individual contributes much more to the shape of the world by his or her own | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| autonomous and completely responsible for the life I shape for myself. No one else can determine my | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| conceive of, what you secretly wish and fear, shape and determine creative substance and constitute the motor | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| You can choose consciously in which direction to shape your thoughts once you are aware of their | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| will, which has the power to determine and shape your fate. Each one of you has an | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| and abandoning the ego's tricks. Whether it takes shape as new knowledge, new skills, or a new | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| capable of inventing and creating, it can mold, shape, and form out of the substances within matter | 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| will take on a new form, a new shape. It is very important for you to understand | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| chisel, it is the tool with which you shape and give form to the soul substance that | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| agent of creation, it must take form and shape. When you discover problems in what you create | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| power, the creative power with which you can shape and mould your life. You see, this is | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| of the interruption of my direct messages takes shape in your souls gradually and, even more slowly | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| that you have never known begin to take shape. Then you return to other areas of hiding | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |