| Secretive...................3 | |
| the intent to keep secrets. In other words, secretive people will use the right and need for | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| relationship, to intimacy, to real and fulfilling contact. Secretive people are never fulfilled emotionally. They keep a | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| numbness encases you into a half-vague, opinionated, incomplete, secretive holding onto assumptions that closes all doors. This | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| Secretiveness...............8 | |
| pretense with its resulting shame, fear of exposure, secretiveness, tension, strain, guilt, anxiety. It will take some | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| from the life stream. The solitude of inner secretiveness cannot be relieved, no matter how favorable your | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| this state and use it to justify their secretiveness, instead of doing the only valid, meaningful and | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| can be mustered. Often an important reason for secretiveness is the fear of self-exposure. The fear says | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| have to be revealed, create more self-esteem than secretiveness ever could. Eventually the esteem and love from | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| between countries. Such relations are more marked by secretiveness, pretense, and hiding than any other relationship. Openness | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| of self-unfoldment begins with removing the walls of secretiveness. It continues with liberating the best in you | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| beloved friends, when the walls of separation and secretiveness fall from you, you step out into a | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| Secretly....................47 | |
| well. Do not choose to forget these words, secretly thinking that if you manage to evade the | 31 SHAME |
| distrust of its supposed intangibility. The reason-type often secretly looks down on the emotion-type. He or she | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| only they are capable of truly feeling. They secretly look down on people they derogatorily label intellectuals | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| the other sex for its advantages. Hence men secretly envy women for their privileged position of not | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| regardless of what emotions, thoughts, and desires you secretly harbor. If you state and restate the desire | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| your hidden belief. You hold on to it secretly, born out of your dualistic outlook but the | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| untruth. With this untruth you oppose life and secretly wish for death. Only when you find the | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| but if in any way, no matter how secretly, your best is designed to lord it over | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| not only refuse to give your best, but secretly even wish to give your worst to living | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| all women for not gratifying your need. You secretly feel an impulse to be so bad that | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to what one dislikes about the self -- secretly or semi-consciously or, at times, even quite consciously | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| your life. The stronger the you must is secretly thrown at others, the more you inactivate your | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| blames others even if only subtly, indirectly and secretly. Look at your emotions where you make a | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| quite distinct. Perhaps the destructive attitude is to secretly think, No one knows what I really think | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| is not at all impossible that you think secretly at one and the same time that you | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| happiness versus the happiness of the other. You secretly feel that by giving to others you will | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| what you believe and conceive of, what you secretly wish and fear, shape and determine creative substance | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| experience of life? The latter thought may smolder secretly beneath your perception of life's limitations. If you | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| impair your integrity, in which you want to secretly cheat life, in which you want others to | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| pay for your actions or inactions, wanting to secretly, neurotically cheat life -- to the degree you | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| your own terms, and you are in fact secretly unwilling to share, your longings must remain unfulfilled | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| I do not want to cheat life by secretly wanting more than I am willing to give | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| this image is untrue, with the result that secretly the whole personality feels fraudulent and terrified of | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| the more you hide it, the more you secretly believe that this is your real self, your | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| so much more to you than you have secretly believed. In using this key, you do not | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| not taken place, and you find yourself still secretly identified with the aspects of you which you | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| in changing negative to positive intentionality is that secretly the self identifies almost totally with the destructive | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| give permission, as it were, to others to secretly act out their own negative intentions. Or, conversely | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| the miracle occur: you will then no longer secretly identify with those parts of you which you | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| others; the need to look better than you secretly believe you are. When you free yourself of | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| this solution for warding off the disaster you secretly expect. If you are by nature soft and | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| around and accuse you of doing what I secretly do to you. For instance, I shall claim | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| secret even from your conscious mind, you also secretly believe that you are all bad. This manifests | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| the self-hate and feeling its pain, because you secretly believe in the justification of the self-hate, which | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| perfectly well from your pathwork that what you secretly wanted from a superior father authority you have | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| in your own unfoldment and unfulfillment if you secretly believe that you have no value and therefore | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| of joy and abundance for yourself because you secretly -- often without conscious awareness -- feel undeserving | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| is it the powerful part in you that secretly wishes to abuse power? Look at that part | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| create more guilt, more of a feeling of secretly being sinners. Such people will use any kind | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| in the worst light. The reason why you secretly wish this can only be explored when you | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| negative beliefs, you build on deficit. When you secretly believe that you are a totally unlovable and | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| morally desirable. Whenever one soul current is put secretly into the service of another, both become negative | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| suspicious opinions or accusations, instead of nurturing them secretly for yourself or sharing them with a third | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| of autonomy. This is why those who are secretly and often unconsciously most dependent, those who crave | 254 SURRENDER |
| accuse of denying your selfhood, the more you secretly resent them for not living up to your | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| to be outwardly what you were previously only secretly and inwardly, and to communicate this state to | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| of your position. The reason is that you secretly hold a low opinion of yourself. The lower | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
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| split the atom, they can come upon the secrets of the universe. ANSWER: As you understood correctly | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| the splitting of the atoms will reveal the secrets of the universe, this is what is meant | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| that you are not expected to tell your secrets to everyone you meet. Choose the right person | 31 SHAME |
| in your most secret sexual fantasies lie the secrets of your conflicts, as well as the key | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| always visible, available and recognizable. There are no secrets about it. It, in turn, has great energetic | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| to expand, to risk exposure of its hidden secrets, to move toward a new vision of life | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| is totally open and transparent. There are no secrets whatever. The soul process of the pathwork is | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| a secret, for it is finally joyfully revealed. Secrets always hide something negative, otherwise they would not | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| in hiding something negative or destructive. If these secrets were revealed, they could be dealt with, they | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| is used to camouflage the intent to keep secrets. In other words, secretive people will use the | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| The true concept of privacy never implies keeping secrets. In fact, just the opposite is true. What | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| Sometimes an excuse is used to rationalize keeping secrets: If I reveal myself, I will not be | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| to earn if the secret were disclosed. Keeping secrets is therefore always, in the final analysis, a | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| come about if the secret is disclosed. Keeping secrets also avoids the effort and responsibility of finding | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| equitable, honest solution in which others can participate. Secrets are always antithetical to relationship, to intimacy, to | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| valid, meaningful and intelligent thing: spill out all secrets and make themselves as transparent as possible. This | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| clearly designed to gradually but surely eliminate all secrets. First you learn to stop keeping secrets from | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| all secrets. First you learn to stop keeping secrets from yourself. You realize how much material you | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| and the new woman are incapable of harboring secrets. Secrets cannot be carried in the newly emerging | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| the new woman are incapable of harboring secrets. Secrets cannot be carried in the newly emerging consciousness | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| ever-increasing openness and a transparency in which all secrets of self and others are being experienced as | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| of the effort necessary to open up the secrets, to enable the soul to stand clear and | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| result of being hidden. The process of dissolving secrets is the essence of the work you already | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| says, in effect, If I show you my secrets, I demand that you approve of them and | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| unless you are willing to give up all secrets, and you have already begun to do so | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| -- depends on the ability to be without secrets. This includes the outer ones as well as | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| This Pathwork is obviously designed to remove the secrets and to make your self available to others | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| from your courage to reveal outer and/or inner secrets. Look at what you still hide and you | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| you will recognize to what extent mates keep secrets from one another -- not only about past | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| secretless life, you encourage a false self-projection. Your secrets mean exactly this: I want you to see | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| three fundamental reasons for resistance to giving up secrets: (1) The fear that your lower self makes | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| vulnerable when all the hard shells fall off. Secrets are certainly among the hardest layers. The common | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| less protected from hurt and disappointment without the secrets. This fear is an outright illusion, easy to | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |