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burden; that would be impossible. Yet one can resign oneself to it without rebellion and bitterness. The 4 WORLD WEARINESS
development. This does not mean that you should resign yourself and become hopeless, wallowing in your little 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
fight in an unproductive way against losing, or resign yourself to it. Do you feel you have 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
be the poor, stupid one? Or do you resign yourself to the latter role, priding yourself on 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
illusion, to lack of realism, and who then resign themselves to a half-dead life on the assumption 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
that this state could exist. Do not ever resign yourself to thinking that it is impossible to 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
your fate if you let go, or you resign yourself to this dismal state in order not 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
 
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slowly and unnoticeably first into a state of resignation and then into a state of not caring 18 FREE WILL
you have forced yourself into a state of resignation, you have chosen with the unconscious motive of 39 IMAGE-FINDING
tendencies, hopelessness, and the self-deception of indulging in resignation that is not only unnecessary but sickly. It 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
one's environment. This is not due to sublimation, resignation or repression. It happens because the instincts grow 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
negative motives, such as cowardice, fear, indifference, opportunism, resignation. This would then be a negative lesson. Not 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
inhibited. Not having conscious daydreams may also indicate resignation or stagnation. This may sound paradoxical, because I 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
first place. Accepting your limitations does not mean resignation to a limited state. Rather, it means true 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
and, consequently, of the results, does not mean resignation to tragedy and suffering. It merely means going 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
essentially realizable wishes. Beware of the feeling of resignation that you can never have any of that 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
let go of the immature wishes, but without resignation, in a positive spirit that awaits the good 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
wrong. Needless to say, this does not mean resignation, nor does it mean fearful giving in or 143 UNITY AND DUALITY
himself enlightened without really being so, falsely postulates resignation, martyrdom, and abstinence in order to avoid revealing 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
frustration, distorted responses, such as martyrdom, abstinence, and resignation are adopted in a so-called spiritual guise, and 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
Or, perhaps, you have embraced the opposite extreme: resignation. It is simply the reverse of the same 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
result of a hidden layer of fear and resignation. The latter is dead, the former is vibrantly 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
be confused with masochism, deliberate self-destruction, or hopeless resignation. It requires an unexaggerated honesty to face up 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
power to overcome the temptation to indulge in resignation and self-pity. Therefore I say to you: Realize 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER
misunderstood. Desirelessness must not be confused with indifference, resignation, escape from the conflicts that one's undeveloped desires 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER
the law of personal responsibility wipes out self-pity, resignation, passive endurance, smoldering resentments against the injustices of 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
more self-respect, integrity, and hope than the helpless resignation to circumstances life is supposed to bring about 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
giving up is so easily confused with negativity, resignation, and even masochistic self-denial. Religion's postulate that the 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
makes you fluctuate between two damaging extremes: either resignation or compulsive, blind, and consequently inappropriate overactivity. This 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
is the dichotomy of anxious striving versus hopeless resignation, arising from an unconscious rejection of the desired 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
of self-responsibility leads to false acceptance -- hopelessness, resignation, doom. When the small, momentary frustration or difficulty 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
try where it should. False hope and false resignation are only two sides of the same coin 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS
go of their forcing current seems to imply resignation to emptiness, suffering, pain, and unfulfilled longing. To 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
of it, or it will fall into a resignation to being helpless and unhappy. That is why 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
use some of your resources to cover up resignation, despair, and distrust of life, though you do 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
let God, when letting go seems to connote resignation into an unfulfilled state. Feel the inner movement 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
as not to fall into the pit of resignation and giving up, instead of just letting go 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
the absence of all desire, which manifests as resignation and hopelessness. The refusal to endure any kind 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS
false acceptance is always either an angry, bitter resignation or despair about life and its pains. At 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE
of living? How can you avoid capitulation and resignation under the guise of surrender? How can you 254 SURRENDER
 
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more or do not care, that you become resigned and indifferent. But this is not in the 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
you free and detached, yet never passive and resigned. One will-stream comes out of your higher self 18 FREE WILL
will not be impatient, nor will you be resigned. You will be at one with yourself. In 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
not followed through due to fear. I have resigned myself to this. But if I now approach 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
fulfillment, happiness. In fact, you may be completely resigned to a life of serene detachment, while underneath 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
you show too little will, if you are resigned and withdrawn, become apathetic and are too fearful 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
Where the personality gives up in a hopeless, resigned way, without formulating thoughts that can activate the 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
one hand, and daydreaming on the other. Wistful, resigned daydreaming that grabs fantasy as a substitute for 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
put away such thoughts and adopt a cynical, resigned philosophy of life. But you, my friends, who 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS
you let go in a sense of fearful, resigned, obedient, sacrificial deprivation, you remain in duality. The 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
 
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calm, certainty in yourself, and a strength and resilience you never knew existed. In the old way 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
soil of life, growth, peace, pleasure is the resilience that springs from the pulsation and rhythmic movement 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
fully felt. Feeling pain directly and fully strengthens resilience and the ability to live fruitfully and productively 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
confusions and function on a level of inner resilience, contentment, and security. It is a state of 204 WHAT IS THE PATH?
 
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forces -- reason, love, understanding, insight, strength, resourcefulness, resiliency, flexibility, adaptability, self-assertion, creativity -- that your real 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
the original pain and frustration have afflicted the resiliency of your psyche and made you incapable of 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
yourself as you are, will you have the resiliency to accept the lower self as it actually 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
closed up, or else it might crush you. Resiliency in accepting all the aspects of your lower 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
very attitude is the prerequisite to creating the resiliency needed to face yourself in utter truthfulness. It 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
also provide you with the stamina, flexibility, and resiliency to meet life in all its aspects -- 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
yourself. This lack of a healthy robustness and resiliency is always an artificial and unconsciously deliberate process 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
problems, the soul- stuff is so lacking in resiliency that the impressions form deep dents and remain 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
way of reacting, due to the lack of resiliency in the soul-substance, that you cannot function differently 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
aliveness. You will strengthen it with a new resiliency, which comes from understanding reality and correctly interpreting 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
substance through intensity causes paralysis on all levels. Resiliency must exist on all levels for you to 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
and wealth of healthy strong feelings, and enough resiliency to cope with anything. Instead there is a 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
as pleasurable. Finding out one's strength, resources, abilities, resiliency, and any asset you can name, is pleasure 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION
These are illusory fears. I do want the resiliency that is essentially mine. I do call upon 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION
that is the only way your strength and resiliency can grow, so that nothing can ever faze 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING
entirely satisfying and right for each occasion. A resiliency and creativity of reacting already exists now behind 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
exposes the core of the self, with its resiliency, creativity, and depth of feeling and knowing. When 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT
 
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that when they try to be flexible and resilient in meeting outer circumstances that do not entirely 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
is positive, the corresponding soul-stuff will be so resilient that even a seemingly detrimental occurrence will bounce 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
flexibility versus rigidity. Flexibility is the quality of resilient, elastic, healthy soul-substance. When it comes to rigidity 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
too-malleable soul-stuff that did not grow healthily into resilient elasticity. Over-tender soul-stuff causes both conscious and unconscious 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
The substance is elastic -- a mixture of resilient and healthily resistant softness. This combination produces the 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
all imprints, unable to regain the original printless, resilient surface. In the course of your work many 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
well as a helpless loss of self where resilient firmness should prevail. The imbalance is always caused 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
so that its substance will become strong and resilient without losing its soft aliveness. You find yourself 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
give you that good feeling about yourself, that resilient strength and well-being, in which even difficult steps 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
you let go, you will experience a new, resilient strength coming out of you that suddenly conciliates 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
new will evolve. In this re-creating process healthy, resilient, adequate, and truthful reactions will come easily from 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
change when the feelings lead to new, more resilient reactions. Thus good feelings will replace those which 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF)
this defenseless state the soul substance becomes loose, resilient, and receptive. It will be easily impressed and 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
weakness and submission, but quite the contrary. True resilient strength and fearless self-assertion rest upon the ability 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
faith and trust; pride humility; selfwill a supple, resilient, flexible giving-in, going-with attitude; and a finely attuned 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
soul and the personality have to become strong, resilient, mature, and capable. Bliss, ecstasy, pleasure supreme can 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
activity and self-affirmation renders you sufficiently strong and resilient so you can dare to let go of 254 SURRENDER

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