| Resentments.................40 | |
| want it and do not wallow in your resentments, as you so often do, then all this | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| become ready to give up its faults, its resentments, its sluggish ways. You must realize that this | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| negative side due to your own hurts and resentments. In its own fashion, this kind of love | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| reality. You will not have hidden hostility and resentments. The other person will feel your openness, and | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| it that sometimes we want to nurse our resentments for certain people and that's why we seek | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| very constructive question. When you want to have resentments, the most obvious and first question would be | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| you realize that you want to have such resentments, it will not be so difficult to find | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| they are bound to rebel and resent. Such resentments may not rise to surface awareness, but their | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| change. Submissive people also feel guilty about these resentments because they do not correspond to the dictates | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| beneath it. You will not only find the resentments and guilt, but deeply hidden, you will also | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| awareness usually will be a welling up of resentments that you were never conscious of and that | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| anxiety. But you will find that not all resentments are unjustified. Some are, because you have caused | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| learn to discriminate. You will discover that some resentments are understandable and healthy, provided you would do | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| stop this process. You will realize that other resentments are altogether unfounded. No rule can be made | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| One has to do with the possibility that resentments and indignation would be leveled to a state | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| not wish to face -- be they hurts, resentments, envies, or wrongs committed by you or someone | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| relationship fluctuate between domination, rebellion, submission, appeasement and resentments. Both want something from each other that neither | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| uncertain, either consciously or unconsciously. In addition, his resentments -- the result of suppressing his natural aggressiveness | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| as the superior sex. But these envies and resentments are superficial in comparison with the deeper fear | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| and desire for dependency. The loser fears the resentments and the selfish impulses because the striving for | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| the world leaves them unfulfilled. Their complaints and resentments may take as many forms as there are | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| made a choice. You would rather indulge in resentments and self-pity, in making cases against others, in | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| to be constantly injured -- your self-pity, self-victimization, resentments, blame of others whom you make responsible for | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| negative attitude toward life, in which you hug resentments and use dishonest games of suffering as weapons | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| responsibility wipes out self-pity, resignation, passive endurance, smoldering resentments against the injustices of life, and the masochistic | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| frustration and disappointment -- which, in turn, produce resentments, bitterness, anger. The sense of futility inherent in | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| our self-produced fate. We can dwell in self-pity, resentments, and helplessness and thus increase our weakness, paralysis | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| Submitting and appeasing lead to nothing but sharp resentments and further feelings of injustice. You must dispense | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| induces bitterness, a sense of injustice and, therefore, resentments! You blame the world for withholding from you | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| your destructive self. Your freedom may sometimes cause resentments, but in the long run it has a | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| When these demands are not being fulfilled, the resentments -- and often the venom with which cases | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| in life. False, defensive pain contains bitterness, self-pity, resentments -- thus it destroys peace. Real pain is | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| give anything to it except my demands and resentments. I want to stop all that and ride | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| destructive and contradictory attitudes contained in envy, jealousy, resentments, competitiveness, blame, and so on, should not drive | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| and powerlessness: dependency on others, with its inevitable resentments arising from unfulfilled expectations; fear and the consequent | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| feeling, giving, and receiving? Are you plagued with resentments, anxiety, and tension, or with loneliness and a | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| deep corner of your hearts, hate and fear, resentments and distrust of the opposite sex still prevail | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| you are blinded by self-interest and self-righteousness, by resentments and demands, by fear and guilt, by coveting | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| take the risk, and are full of jealousies, resentments, and rebellion toward those who assume the responsibilities | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| and ungivingness, of ego aggrandizement, of jealousy and resentments, when you give up your lack of impartiality | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
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| be jeopardized. At the same time, the subject resents the giver of love, because deep down they | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| inevitably a power drive in a person who resents rejection or possible rejection. The emotion says: If | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| self-government. It is often the case that one resents in the other what one actually resents in | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| one resents in the other what one actually resents in oneself. If you look at what particularly | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| sex. Each sex feels unfairly put upon and resents its own supposed disadvantages, competing with the other | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| with friction to the point of hopelessness. Each resents in the other what he or she fears | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| must be. The guilt expresses clearly that one resents in others what one feels compelled to perpetuate | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| on being loved by a person one deeply resents and wishes to punish increases the guilt, for | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| the price: man wants the superior position but resents the price of taking care of a parasite | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| not standing on her own two feet, but resents the price of losing her autonomy. Both play | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| the distortion. Is it the lazy part that resents the authority without wanting to be one and | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| Reservation.................8 | |
| back door open as an escape route, a reservation; you are ready but at the same time | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| some reservations. And in order to justify this reservation, you now take the findings you have made | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| to face anything that is within yourself, without reservation. As you experience the truth of these words | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| life and fate, nevertheless there is always a reservation in your mind concerning your special problem. And | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| and humility to face oneself completely and without reservation. Before you have reached this highest state of | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| renewed constant intent to face yourself without any reservation; to remove all pretenses between your conscious mind | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| not add up to the final answer. The reservation within yourself must be linked with a character | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| it. Total commitment to it is necessary, without reservation. This commitment is the absolute prerequisite for your | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
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| the decision and committing yourself to it without reservations. I explained how to overcome the difficulties. Since | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| and asks for the will of God, without reservations and without keeping an open back door, will | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| effect because it is half-hearted and full of reservations. I am giving you these words so that | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| now work and discover, but still with some reservations. And in order to justify this reservation, you | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| Who am I to deserve this? Given these reservations, your wish capacity does not function fully. In | 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE |
| only happen when you find and remove unconscious reservations, limitations, doubts, and opposite desires. If you are | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| the partnership and to remove all obstructions and reservations, but to make the thing, whatever it is | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| it is. If you only commit yourself with reservations, watching that you remain safe, bargaining and holding | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| of the real longing; b) the presence of reservations to this real longing; c) their reasons; d | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| yourself only in a limited way and with reservations. Ask yourself, all of you, do you truly | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| as you cannot meet yourself and others without reservations, you cannot possibly fulfill yourself. It means that | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| good in the deepest possible way -- without reservations, in joyful security and self-liking. When you act | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| innermost self, you are absolutely bound to register reservations. The more finely you are attuned to your | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| the more distinctly you will hear your inner reservations. These reservations may take the form of disbelief | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| distinctly you will hear your inner reservations. These reservations may take the form of disbelief: Oh, it | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| and resources, are really a cover for your reservations about becoming involved, exposing yourself to hurts, to | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| where change is desirable. Unless you tackle your reservations about your involvement with life, about your willingness | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| faced and changed, and unless you acknowledge these reservations and profoundly face their significance, you cannot make | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| richer. You have to see fully how these reservations, your basic reluctance, are the reason for your | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| the areas where you hold back and make reservations, and where you deny the holy process of | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| If you constantly withhold your trust and maintain reservations, you do not allow a most important dynamic | 254 SURRENDER |
| surrender to the will of God, without any reservations, in every large and small aspect of your | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |