| Resembles...................5 | |
| being does not follow divine law. Spiritual material resembles threads, fine, ray-like threads -- in this case | 1 THE SEA OF LIFE |
| it behind a superimposed layer of something that resembles the real self in all its best aspects | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| still find yourself in a state which outwardly resembles the fight against change, this is due to | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| in a similar way, even if the situation resembles the original only slightly. So, in the last | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| cover that must break down, even though it resembles the glorious perfection of divine reality and its | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| Resent......................57 | |
| are not perfect, you cannot and must not resent others' imperfections, even though they may be different | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| refuse and retire deeper into your corner and resent that you are being pushed in this direction | 31 SHAME |
| case is to like and accept me, I resent you for it. You could not resent if | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| I resent you for it. You could not resent if this power drive did not exist in | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| any sort, it indicates that deep down you resent even more the fact that you cannot change | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| the picture. So, my dear friends, whenever you resent their faults, please ask yourself: Don't I, perhaps | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| have faults that the person you judge and resent does not have. This will help you to | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| crisis, the blindness is what deep down you resent most of all. Avoid such a crisis, my | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| from the parent and begins to hate and resent, feels let down and disappointed, or else hides | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| the self on the other. In addition, you resent that you are not loved just as you | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| you inflict on them makes you resentful. You resent the world for not allowing you to be | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| it does not give you self-confidence if you resent another person and you are helplessly caught in | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| One of the symptoms is that you particularly resent the same thing in others. The remedy, therefore | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| evil means all that. As long as you resent certain happenings in your life, as long as | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| idealized self, which say that one must never resent, despise, dislike, blame, find fault with others, and | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| superiority over others induce love, for other people resent being made to feel inferior and will certainly | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| the more they are bound to rebel and resent. Such resentments may not rise to surface awareness | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| barter does not work. This is what they resent. Not until they recognize the just inner process | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| the vague impression that you must not ever resent anything and that everything must automatically be your | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| from them. Find the area in which you resent not being taken care of, not being given | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| which you then project on the world. You resent this demand and struggle against it. You defy | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| Find in what respect you feel shortchanged. You resent that something in your life is imperfect, yet | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| death, he or she would not need to resent the condition which the other's domination unconsciously imposes | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| Do not apply it to others you may resent -- that temptation is always great -- but | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| one reason, but there is also another. You resent the obligations, responsibilities, and duties that life imposes | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| extent and in what respect you fear and resent the role of your own sex, and therefore | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| even if it is unjustified. What these two resent most in the other is their own hidden | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| level, they seem to have it easier. You resent the effort required of you to fill in | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| this is what you should do, and you resent that it seems to be expected of you | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| ought to do and be -- and you resent it. It is important that you find the | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| trying to overrun them and triumph. You will resent the former and feel guilty about the latter | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| may find this contention unbelievable, for you consciously resent the unpleasure and wish it away. And there | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| The irony then is that these same people resent the world for not giving to them. The | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| know quite what they are not getting. They resent most those who really want to give to | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| acceptance of a person whom you hate and resent for having left you unfulfilled for so long | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| expect your life fulfillment and whom you simultaneously resent for this very fact. You must all recognize | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| very much wish for yourself, and you deeply resent others when they do not grant it to | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| a similar way. Needless to say that they resent this lack of attention -- often unconsciously. Every | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| sensing that there is something wrong. You may resent them and rebel, but this is not a | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| make my commitment to whatever it is I resent and envy other people for? If I do | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| victimized. In turn you feel justified to hate, resent, and take revenge. Another byproduct of your disconnection | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| would not be very meaningful, because you would resent it and make the changes in the expectation | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| will submit to your rule, but also will resent and blame, hate and defy you for it | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| she makes unfair and unrealizable demands, she must resent and blame male authority and play the victim | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| game in one form or another and then resent the woman for exploiting him and overburdening him | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| any relationship. It is bound to make you resent and fear the very authority you wish to | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| woman have nothing to fear, to envy, to resent in the other sex. Therefore they can open | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| and a dichotomy. On the one hand, you resent and envy leadership and battle against it in | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| yourself without fulfilling the basic prerequisites. Then you resent the truer leaders for taking it away from | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| fashion, you have no right to envy and resent leadership in others. Your cases have no justification | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| is convenient for you, but you will also resent them for it. Thus you are torn by | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| us discuss what leadership means. You envy and resent leadership so much because you act as though | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| by those who follow, but who often simultaneously resent those who lead. Nor do they wish to | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| cause and effect -- sooner or later you resent your helper for this failure. No matter how | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| is known to be. How can you reasonably resent the existence of death? How can you be | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| of denying your selfhood, the more you secretly resent them for not living up to your demands | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| necessary discipline. When these goals remain unreachable, you resent and blame authority figures, often accusing them exactly | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| Resented....................6 | |
| you knew it as a child and you resented it. Consciously you may not have been aware | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| particularly disappointed and hurt you, the one more resented or despised and for whom you had little | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| ruled by stronger ones. They may have violently resented their rulers, but could not help obeying, while | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| This includes the illusory fences and the labored, resented, tiring effort. People put themselves in the paradoxical | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| be withheld. Your demand for love will be resented even by those who comply out of their | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| -- and to take the risk of being resented. You may instead decide not to communicate your | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| Resentful...................39 | |
| has to be gratified, or else you become resentful. In order to overcome these feelings, this current | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| You close yourself against it whenever you are resentful, angry, and hurt. Mostly these feelings are so | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| a little while ago you felt angry and resentful. With many of you these feelings occur now | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| the prohibition you inflict on them makes you resentful. You resent the world for not allowing you | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| unhealthily submissive, which is bound to make you resentful. All this struggle contributes strongly to the adverse | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| or advantages for themselves, are bound to become resentful of others. They do not see that such | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| the right act, it will make you feel resentful, rather than at peace with yourself. At the | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| love current that cannot be received, and feeling resentful and withdrawing. You are as yet incapable of | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| more urgent, while you become more guilty and resentful. Whenever this knowledge is not sufficient to enable | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| what is, you become frightened, suspicious, guilty, and resentful; because some image or pseudo-solution is at work | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| be happy. When this fails you become angry, resentful, and often full of self-pity. However, none of | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| self, which thereby becomes weaker. He becomes doubly resentful and feels cheated when this mode of living | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| recognize. The person feels unfairly treated, exploited, victimized, resentful, while still being unable to stop the compulsion | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| or rather your imagined needs. You then become resentful of those who prohibit your gratification. You must | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| those who prohibit your gratification. You must become resentful of life, which seemingly does not let you | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| to eliminate, once and for all, the constricted, resentful, destructive, enraged, rigid place in you from which | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| to discover it within yourself, to discover how resentful you become and how you refuse to budge | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| the other when you are so bound, so resentful, so afraid, so weak, so unable to be | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| you refuse to forgive and wish to be resentful with life -- and therefore with people and | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| you become aware of and can acknowledge this resentful negation in yourself, you will comprehend more deeply | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| of your not giving to it, the more resentful you become, the more you refuse to give | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| the consciousness, You are wrong to be so resentful. The consciousness of the person is usually unable | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| such unfair desires, and you feel cheated and resentful because you have not clearly examined the issue | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| again your will to be hating, unforgiving, punishing, resentful, and hurt. You will become aware of your | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| intent to be negative and destructive, spiteful and resentful; often you will even forgo your own happiness | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| feels unjustly victimized, blames others or life, is resentful, withdraws good feelings in revenge and spite. The | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| of making you less angry at life, less resentful of others, less blaming, less vindictive and spiteful | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| self-esteem they could not feel when remaining demanding, resentful children. This is yet another step toward being | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| yourself in meditation as loving, as opposed to resentful; fulfilled, as opposed to eternally wanting and empty | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| capitalize on that position, always hoping that your resentful, blaming self-pity and helplessness will convince life, others | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| Let us assume you find yourself angry and resentful in a present situation. As I said, generally | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| more embittered and feel more entitled to be resentful and negative. The realization of your own responsibility | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| inconvenient to you. You will feel just as resentful and as unfairly treated and injured as when | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| matter what you do, you must feel disappointed, resentful, cheated, and angry and you will resort again | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| fact as a justification to become more bitter, resentful, punishing, and withholding of the best of your | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| longer struggle against others' negativity in a blind, resentful way, without seeing clearly, only vaguely perceiving as | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| have all experienced in your purification process how resentful and deprived you feel when you refrain from | 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE |
| conceal this feeling from yourself and then become resentful. You are quite efficient in creating cases that | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| should therefore have no impact. Individuals often feel resentful when others react to their unspoken intentions, their | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |