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| your environment; this is so, even if you refuse to acknowledge the true origin of the conflicts | 1 THE SEA OF LIFE |
| external circumstances. Of course, a medium should not refuse help to someone who is poor and cannot | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| task for which I came? Why did I refuse to believe that this life was not the | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| you, or at least a part of you, refuse to accept this fact. Some spheres serve to | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| for often the guidance is there but you refuse to see it! You refuse to see the | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| there but you refuse to see it! You refuse to see the signs, the many pointed signs | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| at yourself for being what you are and refuse to make the inner effort to become what | 31 SHAME |
| for you. You are always free, therefore, to refuse and retire deeper into your corner and resent | 31 SHAME |
| or you can shirk from the issue and refuse to recognize the call, for it is a | 31 SHAME |
| as they are right now, the more you refuse to accept yourself. Think of that too, my | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| from one extreme to the other. Either you refuse to see the person who is close and | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| more self- willed, in a hidden way, to refuse to make decisions; it may even be dishonest | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| responsible for anything bad that happens. Then you refuse to see the connection between such a happening | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| attitude toward life as a whole you still refuse self-responsibility, yet you desire utter freedom. If you | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| surface. In this particular respect many of you refuse to let go of judging on the surface | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| use the forcing current. In doing so, you refuse to see the truth. And when their reluctance | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| other hand, and at the same time, you refuse to become aware when you are hurt. This | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| protection causes you to withdraw into isolation; you refuse to communicate. When you make no attempt to | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| desire to remain a clinging, protected child, to refuse the apparent hardship of adulthood, self-responsibility, and independence | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| you hide and excuse your childish tendencies to refuse to grow up. Your conscious right opinions are | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| your soul delivers to you constantly. And you refuse to read these messages. Not only because they | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| conflicts. But you become angry at this. You refuse the right of the other to set a | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| is immature, it does not matter. Do not refuse to grant the other the right you wish | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| another, provided you love. Therefore to disagree or refuse to comply will no longer be threatening. You | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| to the extreme of your unwillingness when you refuse to shoulder your moral obligations toward yourself. You | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| accountability for your personal unfulfillment and trouble and refuse to look for the inner connection, then such | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| person as an act of will. The immature refuse to stand on their own feet. They desire | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| and hold on too tightly to yourself. You refuse to let go, to take any chances. And | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| of rattling the illusory prison bars, while they refuse to step outside and move freely toward further | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| important questions of living and growing. You must refuse to accept a view unless you, yourself, have | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| attain the selfhood you simultaneously deny when you refuse self-choice and self-responsibility. Only it does so by | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| yourself be. You must distrust yourself if you refuse to become a strong enough ego that adequately | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| ego where it cannot serve you, and you refuse to use it where it must serve you | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| is always your choice. As long as you refuse to look at what is and to give | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| it cannot happen -- not only because others refuse such an unfair deal, but because you close | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| you do not deserve to receive when you refuse to give, more than atonement for this guilt | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| than atonement for this guilt that makes you refuse to receive. It is a simple mathematical equation | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| assume the male role, if you would not refuse it. There is this fear that you may | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| deny it, do not want it, and spitefully refuse it. When you become aware of that, you | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| cannot see beneath the surface. Since these people refuse to conceive of spiritual realities, they cannot perceive | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| you still block it out because you ferociously refuse to allow your intuition to tell you where | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| times, you feel the deep unrest, but you refuse to understand it. Only those who consciously and | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| you want this transformation? Why do you still refuse to transform these defects? The moment you are | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| your deep innermost self as to why you refuse to do so. What is the fear and | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| you will see to what degree you still refuse this honesty, this integrity and, also, the desire | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| Find that in you where you not only refuse to give your best, but secretly even wish | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| to the fear of the experience makes you refuse the experience. Since the experience is a result | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| or experience, the entity hopes to avoid and refuse it -- thereby avoiding and refusing itself. This | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| feelings. These are the experiences people so often refuse, deny, flee from -- when they are nothing | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| fear their inner selves in this respect will refuse the ready- made values handed down to them | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| face that moment I spoke of when you refuse both what is given to you and what | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| discover how resentful you become and how you refuse to budge from the negative position because you | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| one of the important vicious circles you stubbornly refuse to change into a benign one. The creative | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| individuals find themselves -- you do not necessarily refuse to respond because you find the other person | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| destructive? Where am I negative? Where do I refuse to accept the universal law, so that I | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| of life is love. As long as you refuse to forgive and wish to be resentful with | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| the more resentful you become, the more you refuse to give of yourself, the more drawn into | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| fear this limit and yet how stubbornly they refuse to look for another way. And then you | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| people fear being gullible because deep down they refuse to be independent. Craving approval more than having | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| message of the personality is, in effect: I refuse to suffer any disappointment. I must have what | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| this. Only then will you be able to refuse a burden that is being placed on you | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| want to be aware of how I deliberately refuse to see my part wherever I am stuck | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| manifest goodness seems unreal, even fake, because they refuse to tackle the destructive elements in themselves. But | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| creative channels. In the first case, they childishly refuse to be bothered by the difficulties, the trials | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| work. It will not take, your substance will refuse the impression until you remove this violation of | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| seem to do the right thing, but you refuse to really go further, to go all the | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| under the guise of following your spiritual inclinations refuse to face whatever is in you, this is | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| deprivation. What an error! Actually, the more you refuse voluntary self-discipline, the more you unavoidably deprive yourself | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| order to avoid taking responsibility for them. You refuse to relate outer events to your own inner | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| shall claim that you dominate me because you refuse to comply with my goal to force you | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| quality of your living and dying. Those who refuse to look in the right direction will feel | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| example, ask yourself questions like: Why do I refuse to surrender to God and give up my | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| is not wholesome for the soul. When people refuse to become truly independent and self-responsible, they do | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| sweeps the earth, unbearable only to those who refuse it. They are the ones who perceive only | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| has become structured into the personality. Because you refuse to face your deep lack of faith in | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| often lacking in you, my dearest friends. You refuse to see your personal stake and desires in | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| that misery and darkness. To the degree you refuse purification, you lack the courage to change into | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| trapped and are unhappy, but which you nevertheless refuse to leave behind. The greedy thought is: If | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| accusations, ill will, blindness or stubbornness; if you refuse to give him or her the benefit of | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| Christ, you are not in truth when you refuse to pose this question in a sincere and | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| is never questioned, by rigidified ideas that people refuse to let go of, by personal laziness and | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| as long as the majority of human beings refuse to grow up and persist in remaining in | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| live in a constant climate of anxiety, they refuse to create order, because they do not believe | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| upon your freedom when limits are set. You refuse to see that these limits are the limits | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| the courage to do it willingly. Those who refuse to open up willingly must not be allowed | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |