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have also discussed at various times. The either/or attitude, gravely and falsely limits spiritual reality, the cosmic 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
necessary, and therefore should be sought, the either/or attitude has three important subdivisions, contained in all mass 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
one of the most common either/or concepts: the attitude toward life of winning versus losing. According to 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
to examine your winner/loser conflict as your general attitude toward life, as well as in specific areas 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
letting the motion happen automatically, allowing one's unconscious attitude to affect the creative life force, or one 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
compares to planting the seeds. Cultivating the proper attitude and patiently waiting until the seed has taken 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
beyond the confines of the self. Such an attitude enlarges the self and its powers, because it 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
thereby overcoming the dread of it. Such an attitude will open the door further. Because the human 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
means must make a great difference in your attitude to yourself, to life, and to the particular 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
yourself. Your view of the world -- your attitude to life, to happenings and to others -- 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
be a result of your view of, and attitude to yourself. If you understand yourself in relationship 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
self-deception, superimposition. It cannot create a genuine constructive attitude. Your psyche is like a vessel. If it 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
the question you unconsciously pose regarding a certain attitude toward life -- is based on an utterly 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
self-expression and fulfillment stubbornly remains unfulfilled, a denying attitude that does not want it, that holds back 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
back from it, is overlooked. There is an attitude that -- even without saying an outright no 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
self-realization, of creative living. Honest testing means an attitude of I give the possibility every chance. It 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
the healthy and the distorted versions of an attitude. An example would be demonstrating healthy assertion without 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
who are violently persecuted? What should be their attitude? ANSWER: The instinct of self-preservation will most certainly 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
oneself, inevitably spreads to others, just as every attitude toward the self is bound to expand toward 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
others. In this stage, it is a passive attitude of indifference that enables one to watch others 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
exist between one's numbness and one's approach or attitude toward the evil aspects of life. Some may 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
is this: Mere negativity, as in a destructive attitude, has a much less destructive effect than destructiveness 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
force mingles with a negativity or a destructive attitude, this combination creates evil. Real destructiveness is, therefore 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
comes to your choice of action or your attitude toward what you find in the hidden chamber 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
into truthful and constructive ones. I choose my attitude to meet these emotions. If I encounter an 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
you can embrace this possibility, even in an attitude of honest questioning, to that extent this truth 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
my friends have encountered exactly this kind of attitude deep within themselves. If all people were truly 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
in opposite directions. The moment you change your attitude in the way I just described, everything will 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
and with others, is to cultivate an overall attitude deep within compatible with the higher powers in 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
the kernel of your being. Such a compatible attitude means complete constructiveness in all endeavors, in all 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
and desires are, you will find what your attitude really is and how it could be more 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
and not by selfishness or any other destructive attitude. Isolation, and the attitude of me versus the 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
or any other destructive attitude. Isolation, and the attitude of me versus the other, will be replaced 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
later, fall away in exact proportion as this attitude is truly felt and lived. Use this key 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
really mean these words and initiate this new attitude. And life for you will then begin, truly 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
use this simple, beautiful formula as a general attitude toward life. As you first taste and test 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
a negative, destructive, or at least a denying attitude toward life. That is why you have the 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
have the problem, and as long as this attitude prevails, the particular problem must remain. You cannot 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
of the truth and have a positive, constructive attitude toward life in certain areas. Hence they are 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
importance. When you discover the difference in your attitude toward various aspects of life and see the 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
different, or even precisely different -- in an attitude of discontent and tense struggle, in a mood 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
let it go at that, in a vague attitude of perhaps it is not so, but to 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
negative without finality and with an objective, non-indulgent attitude. But on the spiritual plane, which comprises the 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
are self-perpetuating. Take, for example, any healthy, positive attitude. When you are outgoing, constructive, open, inclusive, all 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
reactions, find the appropriate laws, and change your attitude and behavior regarding these laws. You will work 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
false belief is a product of your inner attitude. Therefore, we cannot say that a person's spiritual 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
you believe, what and how you believe, the attitude with which you decide to either believe or 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
destructiveness and turn to a constructive, inclusive, friendly attitude toward life and others. You still do not 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
them has to be expressed. This entirely new attitude and way of life has to be actively 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
of these is like a magnetic field. The attitude a person harbors about a certain area of 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
fundamental ones, applying to all human beings, are: attitude toward work, human relationships in general, material values 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
life, appearance and activity; there is also one's attitude to nature, art, pleasure and leisure, spiritual reality 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
to change it by creating a new positive attitude. No one is more superstitious and fatalistic than 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
utmost from everything and bring the most constructive attitude to what comes to pass. You also must 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
turn will increase your own security. With this attitude, you will not be in illusion or in 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
it. The call of life is universal. The attitude necessary to awaken the inner center follows universal 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
a fact. When this is so, your entire attitude is clear, free, and relaxed. You are deeply 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
you move toward the world with a relaxed attitude of being equally ready to give and receive 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
not permit you to abandon a self-destructive, self-denying attitude? State clearly that you wish to find it 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
not difficult either, if approached with the proper attitude. Once you are aware of your specific faults 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
invested in the fault into a new, constructive attitude that will replace the old, destructive one. This 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
know exists. It is impossible to transform an attitude when you do not know why you hold 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
to transform from a negative to a positive attitude, concept, or characteristic by the exclusive use of 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
With others, this is true as an overall attitude to life. Whatever the case may be, the 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
you do not question yourself, with a relaxed attitude, Now, do I really feel what I think 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
conditions is also responsible for the endemic competitive attitude that afflicts humanity. This is manifest particularly strongly 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT
desire to triumph over others, it marks an attitude of being against others. It implies that self- 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT
attempts to solve such a problem in an attitude of finding either the one or the other 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT
is right and good. You justify this irrational attitude by pointing to the most distorted manifestations of 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
it by committing to search with an open attitude for your deepest nature. Do not mistake the 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
this way he can learn the great, important attitude of inner relaxation. It is by no means 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
stemming from the same underlying problem. The wrong attitude about frustration is harmful for obvious reasons. It 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
When the psyche fails to mature, the same attitude continues, and an apparent contradiction ensues: the less 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
climate must prevail, producing a life-affirming, positive, inclusive attitude. The person who, inwardly or outwardly, rebels against 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
insistence and rigidity with a do or die attitude, are equally erroneous. Only when individuals learn to 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
tense and are unwilling to relax into an attitude of wise, positive reasonableness and humility, without ceasing 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
of the psychic processes, their inner climate and attitude, is totally different. When the natural law is 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
in positive ways equal to its destructiveness. Your attitude determines the direction this power takes. The human 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
No discovery can ever be made with this attitude. The attitude must truly be, Is it possible 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
can ever be made with this attitude. The attitude must truly be, Is it possible? Could it 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
to find it very difficult to adopt this attitude. Therefore, one of the hindrances to making the 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
case, a person will instantly adopt an open attitude whenever the opportunity in life presents itself -- 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
cannot relax, it cannot adopt the flexible, unafraid attitude that is essential to be attuned to the 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
each wrong conclusion, each erroneous opinion, each destructive attitude, each negative emotion stands directly in the way 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
realizable when the psyche is unintense. Every neurotic attitude is a result of -- and results in 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
the life-stream. The reason for cultivating this destructive attitude is in part the dualistic misconception mentioned before 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
change my personality, or give up a destructive attitude I do not wish to shed -- for 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
plunging into despair and denying the defects. This attitude in itself removes the defects infinitely more effectively 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER
discipline, alternating with a proper letting go. Neither attitude can ever be harmful if practiced in an 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
Conversely, to the degree a person cultivates the attitude, I want to look the truth in the 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
tense state of war and defense. This new attitude seems to require a great deal of trust 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS
pulsation happen without interference by a fearful, distrusting attitude. Cooperate with this inner lawfulness by simply wanting 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS
trust. True orgasm is not possible unless this attitude exists. Healthy death only occurs with love and 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS
interrupted and prohibited by an overly watchful, denying attitude of the outer ego. The average human being 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
itself may not be important, but the underlying attitude is. The question may be whether to hold 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
or censorship, or to allow a new spontaneous attitude to come forth from the depth of the 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
can let go and give up the destructive attitude, whatever it may be, no matter how covertly 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
give up a self-centered, selfish, self-pitying, or self-destructive attitude, fear of self automatically decreases. Something new begins 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
the negative condition has ceased to exist. The attitude one adopts to what one dislikes about the 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
in how one feels about oneself. A reasonable attitude to what seems unfaceable means a sense of 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
secret, even from myself, you also express the attitude that the world is horrible, everyone is bad 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
and you grow up, you adopt the same attitude the parents had. You feel you cannot accept 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the basic fear of oneself, and also which attitude is sexualized. All these aspects, and many more 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
single human being in this world harbors an attitude of fear and weakness. Because this corner of 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
your shameful submission, often by an apparently opposite attitude of indifference, hostility, or compulsive and blind rebellion 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
accessible thinking processes and will force. With that attitude you shortchange yourself greatly. Such forgetfulness inevitably has 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF
wholehearted support, its one-pointed effort, its most constructive attitude and undivided attention to the inner path. It 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF
aside in a more passive, listening and learning attitude. The ego can be likened to hands and 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF
but overly blame yourself in a very destructive attitude that does not find a way out, then 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
and blame of others. In this kind of attitude that does not permit the self to lift 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
the causes within. If all goes well, this attitude diminishes as the person progresses. But the beginner 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
self-respect and self-like that come from such an attitude are more important than anything else. Everything depends 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
and ward off on the other. The courageous attitude of going through what is self-produced and inevitable 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
It is the beginning of unification. In this attitude any painful feeling loses its terror because it 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
insignificant that it doesn't seem hopeless if this attitude is lacking. If you are willing to face 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
into another being is precisely the kind of attitude compatible with the universal forces. This melting leads 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
individual makes these experiences possible through the right attitude, readiness and active interests. If this is the 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
tries to force a change before the destructive attitude is quite conscious, nothing real can be accomplished 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
the ego-self -- is attached to a destructive attitude, it is incompatible with the universal forces. Therefore 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
Then they become quite distinct. Perhaps the destructive attitude is to secretly think, No one knows what 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
does not count. This is a very prevalent attitude toward one's undesirable tendencies. One glosses over them 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
such, it reflects one's most significant and telling attitude to life. It tells the story that one 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
The moment you approach yourself with a sincere attitude that says: I want to give my very 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
attention to it. With such a sincerely meant attitude something new is set in motion right at 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
-- it must be because of a destructive attitude, a negativity you are as yet unwilling to 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
in what way you cling to a negative attitude. This is precisely why you fear the involuntary 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
It is frightening to me how this separating attitude makes it impossible for me to appreciate people 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
most devastating one. You need to recognize this attitude in its full significance and desire to change 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
are interdependent. Tonight's lecture specifically examines what mental attitude is needed to unite the two apparently opposite 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
exactly when and how to switch from one attitude to the other, the way to do so 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
so as to recognize when and how each attitude is expressed, when one or the other is 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
know what is within you unless this inner attitude is cultivated. When people are too impatient, their 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
This means a waiting in a receptive, quiet attitude, and once the divine self unfolds through new 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
to what it reveals to you. The receptive attitude is violated by a punitive, anxious, and pressing 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
it all alone, by sheer outer will. This attitude negates not only the universal powers but also 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
On the one hand, you actively formulate your attitude, goal, and intents -- your attitude being that 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
formulate your attitude, goal, and intents -- your attitude being that you want to invest the best 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
approach to yourself. Such balance can change your attitude toward yourself and teach you to accept yourself 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
moment a person is governed by such an attitude, they become involved in errors leading to further 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS
that to affirm an undesirable condition, a destructive attitude, is as undesirable as negating a positive, constructive 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS
undesirable as negating a positive, constructive condition or attitude? To an individual geared only to affirm, any 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS
to adopt the affirmative principle as an overall attitude for all contingencies and to negate the negating 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS
what way you inadvertently deviate from such an attitude. The more you come to express this honest 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS

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