| judge others, this is a total misconception, which needs drastic revision. I am quite certain that when | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| Each one of you, in your own way, needs to see how this applies to you, how | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| they grow out of your work, your individual needs, your personal problems and characteristics. And also, they | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| must give up your personal integrity, your legitimate needs, your dignity. At another time we shall go | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| conscious. Children have no way of putting their needs into thoughts. They cannot compare what they have | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| As long as the hurt, disappointment, and unfulfilled needs of your early years remain unconscious, you cannot | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| some mismanagement in your inner makeup. Every person needs an occasional rest during which the spirit leaves | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| they reacted out of the same childish blind needs as you did. Now you can see how | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| symptoms of the larger, hidden ones. Therefore, one needs the outer happenings to point to the inner | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| what the other person unconsciously looks for and needs. And when it is not found, he or | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| abstract and not easily put into practice. It needs all your inner senses, your intuitive nature, as | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| it now. Your immediate approach to the problem needs to be always the same. First, understand the | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| from. This is hard work, I admit. It needs patience and perseverance. It needs the absolute will | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| I admit. It needs patience and perseverance. It needs the absolute will to find out. Then you | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| will sometimes be a difficult, laborious task. It needs effort. You have to think. Perhaps you have | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| seeing the discrepancy between them and your actual needs the intensity still remains, consider whether the fulfillment | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| this, you yourself will produce the material that needs to be worked on. Your inner guidance will | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| am now just at the beginning of what needs to be done. Complete healing may take many | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| self-assertion and standing up for one's wishes and needs amounts to forfeiting the only value in life | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| can often be rationalized away by seemingly real needs. Last, but not least, they are always thwarted | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| as to force others to comply with your needs. In other words, you comply in order to | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| an injury to the exalted special position one needs to accomplish this type of private solution. Or | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| dishonest and hypocritical, because such a person, too, needs human warmth and affection, and without these suffers | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| to conquer them. For such a goal one needs to be aggressive and often ruthless. An idealized | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| may also exist in the submissive type who needs love as a solution for all problems. This | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| must be a very personal, particular reason which needs to be found. If the attempt is made | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| destroys or endangers life. Just as the body needs health to live, so the soul needs health | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| body needs health to live, so the soul needs health to live most constructively. In order to | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| live most constructively. In order to live, one needs to be safe from destruction and damage. We | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| there is no awareness of these two basic needs, no understanding that these needs are unfulfilled and | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| these two basic needs, no understanding that these needs are unfulfilled and why. All this has to | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| by self-effacement and masochism, thinking to combine the needs for pleasure and safety. In giving in, you | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| how you too are trying to serve both needs with attempts that do not even work for | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| to get what he wants and thinks he needs, he will call upon his submissiveness. The very | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| is how people will try to gratify their needs for safety, love, and unconditional approval. I venture | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| pseudo-solutions. Fantasy stems from the predominant aims and needs of the psyche. Since most adults live in | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| to ask for a confirmation. ANSWER: This hardly needs to be reconfirmed; however, I have this to | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| as well as unhealthy. An integrated human being needs both companionship and solitude, and both for constructive | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| area exists at all, let alone that it needs growth; neither do you know how such growth | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| in God. 90. MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS Greetings, my dearest friends. God bless all of | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| the other two phenomena -- disproportionate reactions, and needs -- that I shall also discuss. What is | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| not consciously admit to such opinions. This subject needs intensive work. Some of you have begun to | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| And that is the all-important subject of your needs. As you progress in reaching deeper levels of | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| your body has received all the food it needs to remain healthy, but if a craving for | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| the emotional and spiritual levels, real and unreal needs also exist. If a real need is neglected | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| personality, a false need will appear somewhere. Unreal needs always have the form of compulsiveness and craving | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| helpless and dependent on others to have their needs fulfilled. The difference between children and adults is | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| are actually dependent on others for all their needs. They are incapable of supplying their own needs | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| needs. They are incapable of supplying their own needs. The truly mature person can do so. In | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| endowed with the requisite capacities to fulfill all needs on all levels. If the personality does not | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| on other levels, so that physical or spiritual needs may also originate from emotional disturbances. When one | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| disturbances. When one neglects to satisfy one's real needs, illusory or imaginary needs must appear. These should | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| to satisfy one's real needs, illusory or imaginary needs must appear. These should be regarded as symptoms | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| so. To a certain degree every human being needs occasional approval, let us say, in the form | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| always, must be to become aware of your needs. Your path will help you to become aware | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| reconcile yourself to knowing that awareness of your needs, real and unreal, will not immediately fulfill them | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| this direction, you will become aware of your needs. Then you will learn to distinguish between real | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| will learn to distinguish between real and unreal needs by discovering that real needs can be borne | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| real and unreal needs by discovering that real needs can be borne, while false needs have an | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| that real needs can be borne, while false needs have an excessive and compulsive force. Because of | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| two emotional aspects previously discussed and the unfulfilled needs. First, you can surely see that all three | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| emotional deviation, the more you repress your real needs, the awareness of your unfulfillment, and the constructive | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| very important that you become aware of your needs. You cannot do so through the intellect. You | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| so, you will be amazed to discover what needs you have. You will then evaluate what has | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| what has kept you from fulfilling your own needs. The more you gain real insight into this | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| insight into this, the less stringent the false needs become and the more capable you become of | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| more capable you become of fulfilling your real needs. Needless to say, this lessens your dependency on | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| These three issues of moralizing, disproportionate reactions, and needs, remain to be found and experienced emotionally, my | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| again; or resolving that change takes time and needs a great amount of understanding; or not letting | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Be in peace. Be in God! 92. REPRESSED NEEDS -- RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS -- PRIMARY AND SECONDARY | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| in God! 92. REPRESSED NEEDS -- RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS -- PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS Greetings, my dearest | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| God bless this hour. We began to discuss needs, but we touched only the very surface of | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| thoroughly. Understanding and awareness of the significance of needs will be more than mere enlightenment and insight | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| will show you that in connection with repressed needs, and along with your unawareness of them, you | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| wrong conclusions. Basically, there are two kinds of needs: the instinctual needs, and those of the idealized | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| there are two kinds of needs: the instinctual needs, and those of the idealized self- image. Instinctual | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| and those of the idealized self- image. Instinctual needs derive from the two basic instincts of self-preservation | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| two basic instincts of self-preservation and procreation. These needs can be healthy and normal. However, if repressed | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| is not necessarily only the false and imaginary needs that are destructive. A need which in itself | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| it is repressed or non- existent. Among the needs of the idealized self are, for instance, the | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| self-image came into existence. The two kinds of needs often intermingle and fuse, so that you are | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| only do the superimposed, unhealthy, and artificially created needs of the idealized self create guilt feelings, but | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| just as often the healthy, normal, and legitimate needs of every healthy human being cause equally strong | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| of these misconceptions, you have deliberately starved such needs. That cannot make them disappear; instead, by a | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| to still the hunger is misdirected. Real, legitimate needs can be satisfied only with full awareness so | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| forces. Your misconception about the meeting of real needs produces repression and, subsequently, a defense mechanism which | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| do with this? The answer is that repressed needs cause you to act contrary to your own | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| Therefore your attempts produce experiences that starve these needs even more. Since this hurts, you will produce | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| even more. Since you continue to repress your needs, the entire process has to be unrolled and | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| but also because you believe, mistakenly, that certain needs are forbidden and wrong, and thus defend against | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| forbidden and wrong, and thus defend against these needs in yourself. I am not talking only about | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| is already commonly known in this respect: sexual needs. It goes a lot further. Humanity has by | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| further. Humanity has by now learned that sexual needs do not have to be repressed. They are | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| has not as yet realized that many other needs also exist that have been treated in the | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| treated in the same repressive manner as sexual needs. These other needs, reaching into a deeper layer | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| same repressive manner as sexual needs. These other needs, reaching into a deeper layer of human consciousness | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| been done to a degree with the sexual needs. As already stated, if your needs are repressed | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| the sexual needs. As already stated, if your needs are repressed, the urge for gratification becomes much | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| maturity. Repression, on the other hand, creating blind needs and their blind pursuit, makes it impossible to | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| against your best interest. Only awareness of your needs will enable you to tolerate temporary frustration. You | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| the gratification serves the interests of your healthy needs, if not right now, then at a future | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| have the necessary awareness. If awareness of your needs is lacking because an unconscious guilt prevails due | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| to handle. However, paradoxically, awareness of one's real needs and of their legitimacy makes it possible to | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| you sabotage the possibility of fulfilling your real needs. Offhand, all this may be very difficult to | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| As you allow yourself awareness of the raw needs, of their significance, their validity, their desired goal | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| neurosis is built around a nucleus of repressed needs and contains the inability to give up certain | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| part of you did not disapprove of these needs, you would not find it necessary to repress | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| it possible to distinguish between the natural, healthy needs, and the artificially created needs of the superimposed | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| the natural, healthy needs, and the artificially created needs of the superimposed idealized self-image. Only as you | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| to maturely go about fulfilling the healthy, natural needs, will you become capable of giving up the | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| you become capable of giving up the false needs. Do not even attempt to forcefully stamp out | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| even attempt to forcefully stamp out these false needs. It would do no good. All you can | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| is realistic and adequate to fulfill the real needs. This in itself will automatically cause the false | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| This in itself will automatically cause the false needs to disappear. Slowly, their intensity will diminish, and | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| healthy inner, and therefore also outer, activities. False needs, even if gratified occasionally, leave you empty and | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| the one hand, you give in to the needs, and by submitting, appeasing, and complying you become | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| rebel against this very necessity to satisfy your needs. Neither of these two alternatives will bring a | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| for the constructive end of eventually fulfilling your needs. When this entire process has reached surface-awareness, one | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| shifted this self-contempt to the existence of the needs. But you will find out, once all this | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| no reason to feel contempt for one's healthy needs. You will see that the real reason for | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| will no longer be a slave to your needs, because you are now conscious of them. Furthermore | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| drives -- for and against gratification of the needs -- is largely a product of your self- | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| first give up the false, distorted, superimposed, artificial needs, and then you can go about doing what | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| by step, to obtain gratification for your real needs. But self-respect must be established first. Without it | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| to plough along exploring your emotions, bringing repressed needs to the surface, and unrolling the inner process | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| you had clung out of your pressing unconscious needs. Do not let it bother you if at | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| talking about. This condition of repressed and mischaneled needs, with all the consequences that sap your energy | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| think about it. For, the more urgent your needs while you are unaware of them, the blinder | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| caught in the trap of your own repressed needs with the consequent negative condition. If you are | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| illusion of hoping to bring gratification for repressed needs, you are capable of seeing what actually is | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| repressed, and therefore the more urgent your natural needs are, the more blind you will be, and | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| in reality no such intent existed. Unawareness of needs distorts reality. Everything is exaggeratedly good or bad | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| to have them comes from the repression of needs, the clinging to illusion, and the subsequent inability | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| the chance of fulfilling your good and healthy needs. For that, the freedom and strength of developing | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| both ends. By bringing your repressed emotions and needs more and more into awareness, you will uncover | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| free to pursue the real fulfillment of your needs. I realize, my friends, that this is not | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| lead to further repression. Find out why these needs exist. You are bound to discover that a | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| has taken its place. The fact that certain needs are false should not be accepted merely because | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| help but become very much aware of which needs are constructive and healthy, and which are not | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| need for harmony does not interfere with other needs, and you are capable of occasionally relinquishing the | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| for harmony in order to gratify the other needs, everything is fine. Only you can be the | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| 93. THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES Greetings, my dearest friends. God bless | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| our work is to deal with the repressed needs, and, in connection with them, repressed emotions, positive | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| climate, but you also repress many of your needs. This happens because the experience leading to the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| Also, the experience made you believe that these needs cannot be fulfilled, and therefore you believed that | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| you believed that you could tear out your needs simply by not acknowledging them. Your pseudo-solutions are | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| less likely. But you go on repressing your needs, your hurts, and your disappointments. Perhaps you experience | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| an imbalance when the entire life and its needs are considered, but, in itself, it is not | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| image does not work. Therefore the constantly frustrated needs grow and are again and again repressed, because | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| link between the main image and the repressed needs. The repressed need for love is, in itself | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| also represses the entire process of image-formation, the needs, false claims, destructive defense mechanisms, together with all | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| the arrogance of the aggressive success-seeker who denies needs, underneath the submissiveness as much arrogance and superiority | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| do so only because you cannot relinquish your needs, and because you are still unaware of them | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| when you no longer want to fulfill those needs through a pseudo-solution. You do not have to | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| recourse to that if you can face those needs and see how you have forfeited their fulfillment | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| Your submissiveness is the result of your repressed needs and of your denial and shame of them | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |