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| not a question of desiring them in healthy mutuality; there is in you a one-sided childish demand | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| toward the person able to respond. Then the mutuality will come almost by itself. A lack of | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| will come almost by itself. A lack of mutuality is only present in an unhealthy situation based | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| these teachings, you would fully understand that healthy mutuality is the essence and natural result that automatically | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| to be handled properly. If you respond freely, mutuality must come about. QUESTION: Psychiatry today uses shock | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| to cover up your fear. There is a mutuality here. Accepting death and the unknown is connected | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| have, to get, without a true spirit of mutuality. One may be willing to give, provided one | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| placed subtly on the self, rather than on mutuality. True mutuality is not possible without the capacity | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| on the self, rather than on mutuality. True mutuality is not possible without the capacity to relinquish | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| relinquish one's will is a prerequisite for true mutuality. When the need to receive is a greedy | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| instinct. If it matures properly, it combines with mutuality and leads to love and union. If it | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| in different ways. But in marital, committed love, mutuality is a prerequisite for a mature relationship. This | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| for survival; how you spoil the growth of mutuality and fulfillment. The need for control causes you | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| a harmonious whole with others around them in mutuality of purpose and interest. They are free and | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| need for vocational self-expression and the need for mutuality in a love relationship; between the need for | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| like success in a career, health, a fruitful mutuality, good friends, liberation from an inner problem, or | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| blissful and unproblematic. Their pleasure principle will create mutuality, genuine love, and pleasure supreme. To the degree | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| a beautiful venture, a deeply satisfying state of mutuality. The slightest flaw in a mood will be | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| blessings, my dearest friends, be in peace. 185. MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW Greetings, my friends | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| of you. The topic of tonight's lecture is mutuality. Mutuality is a cosmic principle and law. I | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| you. The topic of tonight's lecture is mutuality. Mutuality is a cosmic principle and law. I will | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| subject into three sections: the first deals with mutuality as a cosmic principle and law; the second | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| of those hindrances which disturb the law of mutuality. Mutuality is a cosmic or spiritual law. No | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| those hindrances which disturb the law of mutuality. Mutuality is a cosmic or spiritual law. No creation | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| spiritual law. No creation can take place unless mutuality exists. Mutuality means that two apparently or superficially | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| No creation can take place unless mutuality exists. Mutuality means that two apparently or superficially different entities | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| when the self merges with something beyond itself. Mutuality is the movement that bridges the gap between | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| between duality and unity. Wherever there is separation, mutuality must come into being in order to eliminate | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| eliminate this separation. Nothing can be created unless mutuality exists, be it a new galaxy, a work | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| must then cooperate with the second aspect of mutuality, namely execution, which implies labor, effort, perseverance and | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| the path of self- realization, this law of mutuality applies to all endeavors, all successful completion, and | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| labor, investment, commitment and self-discipline. This bridge of mutuality is a very important aspect of unity and | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| a very important aspect of unity and creation. Mutuality is not the same as the unified principle | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| between the unified principle and the principle of mutuality is that the latter leads to unification and | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| it. It is not yet unification itself. For mutuality to operate there must be an expansive reciprocal | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| directly on a person's integration and wholeness. Hence, mutuality depends on the entity's ability to say yes | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| of this lecture. How does the principle of mutuality apply to humanity's present state of development? With | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| humanity's present state of development? With respect to mutuality, humanity's development can be determined by three gradations | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| to expand only very little. Since expansion and mutuality are interdependent, mutuality is impossible on this level | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| very little. Since expansion and mutuality are interdependent, mutuality is impossible on this level to the degree | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| this holds true you must have problems with mutuality. People who are the least developed and the | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| deny any kind of expansion and therefore any mutuality. However, this does not mean that their longing | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| manage to squelch the longing for expansion and mutuality perhaps through entire incarnations without becoming aware of | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| doing so when an opportunity arises for actual mutuality. The only way the bliss and pleasure of | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| longing indicates their actual readiness for a real mutuality. After all, they experience it so beautifully in | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| self is not yet ready to put true mutuality into practice. Many people continue to go alternately | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| which either outer or inner obstructions prevent full mutuality. The consequent disappointments may lend even more justification | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| leads to a commitment to be open to mutuality and fulfillment, to interplay and expansion, to cooperation | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| soul then becomes ready to learn, experiment, risk mutuality, love, pleasure, and to function safely in an | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| are the people relatively capable of sustaining actual mutuality -- not in fantasy, not in longing only | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| relationships on this earth do not indicate real mutuality. In fact, very, very few do. Most relationships | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| other motives, or else the original motivation of mutuality was given up when it could not be | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| three stages humanity goes through with respect to mutuality. Of course, these stages cannot be differentiated in | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| of this lecture. What are the obstacles prohibiting mutuality between two human beings? Usually this is explained | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| have. Yet this does not really say enough. Mutuality can exist only to the degree that the | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| the unconscious, bent on destructiveness, hate and negation, mutuality cannot take place. I emphasize here that mutuality | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| mutuality cannot take place. I emphasize here that mutuality is not absent because the evil aspects are | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| are undeserving of the bliss that comes from mutuality. The evil is too frightening to be acknowledged | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| applied, relationships must falter or become stale, and mutuality in the true sense cannot unfold. Therefore it | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| has previously been denied. If there is no mutuality between you and all the aspects of yourself | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| yourself are unrealistic, it is absolutely unthinkable that mutuality between you and others can ever exist. Mutuality | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| mutuality between you and others can ever exist. Mutuality between you and yourself is absent when you | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| into greater self-acceptance. Simultaneously, your ability to have mutuality will grow in proportion to your self-acceptance. Hence | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| of other people you have to deal with. Mutuality will then become possible. By the same token | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| this causes a rift in you that makes mutuality and bliss impossible. All of you can use | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| their present state of development. All this excludes mutuality. The movement of opening up and taking in | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| convert them into expansions. So, the principle of mutuality must first be applied to the relationship between | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| topic? QUESTION: Can you discuss the aspects of mutuality on the physical, mental, and spiritual levels from | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| human beings open up toward one another in mutuality, able to accept an open flow without contracting | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| separate, who contract, and cannot open up to mutuality; two such people remain enclosed, each like an | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| open only when there is no chance of mutuality, or when a Yes-current must be met with | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| Yes-current must be met with a No-current because mutuality still seems too frightening, one energy flow streams | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| fear that wants to run away from true mutuality and bliss. Since the fear is there, hate | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| to explain why the person is always missing mutuality only increase frustration, and therefore anger and hate | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| degree of opening and flow, although without real mutuality. Withdrawal and contraction also include anger and hate | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| and hate, disappointment and blaming. When self-acceptance makes mutuality possible and energy is exchanged, the universal movements | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| with yourself and the universe. 186. VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL Greetings | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| become mutual. It can work only as a mutuality. The last lecture has given you some understanding | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| you some understanding of what the laws of mutuality are. Let me explain now how they can | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| front of this instrument. Your part of the mutuality consists in acknowledging as exactly as you can | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| it were. By fulfilling your part of the mutuality, you commit yourself, you open something in you | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| yourself. This is the gift of a new mutuality that can take place and that can be | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| degree to which this enterprise remains mutual. The mutuality will express itself first between your own giving | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| abundance of joy, of exchange, of sharing, of mutuality on every level. You do have the birthright | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| feel poor in regard to ever finding true mutuality. Another person may feel very secure in that | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| and need only, but also from love and mutuality. Group consciousness means finding the oneness between the | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| the other. Thus they can recognize a negative mutuality that needs to be worked on together. They | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| giving to the universe. The result is a mutuality of the highest order, that also creates the | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| could take place that would become a true mutuality. You would of course both retain your individual | 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION |
| functions, but least of all sharing, love, or mutuality on all levels of the personality. In fact | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| the power of eros, through the power of mutuality in soul development and commitment to each other | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| love and affection, attraction and respect. The negative mutuality between many individual men and women created the | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| point. The energy released, the creativity liberated, the mutuality of ecstasy are all deeply spiritual experiences that | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |