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 Masculinity.................14
one fulfill one's task to develop one's proper masculinity or femininity when the split we have just 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
for instance a woman who has so much masculinity in her that she is unable to develop 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
woman and thereby fears he will jeopardize his masculinity. Since it is woman's nature to dwell on 62 MAN AND WOMAN
is not manly, he also fights against his masculinity. Moreover, he fights against it out of the 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
these confusions of unconscious ideas, he thwarts his masculinity in its natural and healthy form by trying 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
sex. When a man fights against his own masculinity and is confused about it, a barrier is 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
level off the difference by diminishing one's own masculinity and femininity and assuming the traits of the 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
main barrier a man puts up against his masculinity. He fears self-loss not only because the necessary 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
even go overboard and exaggerate this image of masculinity. This overcompensation would not exist if you were 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
my doubts and need for reassurance concern my masculinity. How does this apply to what you said 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
passivity, and inferiority, while the masculine principle or masculinity is often wrongly associated with brute force and 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS
they are at least indirectly connected with your masculinity or your femininity. The expression and handling of 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS
young man recently discovered his insecurity about his masculinity. He had to overcome considerable resistance to penetrate 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
love. The less he loves, the less real masculinity he has, and consequently the more insecure and 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
 
 Mask........................132
total honesty and to know yourself without your mask. And you need help to meet your resistances 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
to displace their real motives and wear a mask so that their pure currents are polluted by 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK Greetings in the name of the Lord. Blessed 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
and that is what I might term the mask self. The mask self is created in the 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
what I might term the mask self. The mask self is created in the following way: When 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
between feelings and actions. In this way, no mask self can form. However, too often people try 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
sign that in one way or another a mask self has been created. They do not realize 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
you must at all costs tear down the mask self. You can bring yourself to do so 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
my lower self? Where may there be a mask, a falsehood? Many, many people wear a mask 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
mask, a falsehood? Many, many people wear a mask, at least in some respects. This mask self 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
a mask, at least in some respects. This mask self presents to us a very ugly color 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
self in different variations; the colors of the mask self are sickeningly sweet. If you are an 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
with the tones and the odor of the mask self: they are sickly and nauseating. We spirits 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
you will feel a distinct difference between the mask and the higher self. You will feel the 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
You will feel the nauseating manifestations of the mask self, first of all of your own, no 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
of your own, no matter how pleasant the mask may appear to be. If your psychologists, psychoanalysts 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
so often or so strongly. But when the mask has been torn down and the patient is 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
personality is not allowed to evolve, that a mask is put over the personality and the inner 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
in this world, which is of course the mask self. It is encouraged by the world, because 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
and act right, even if it is a mask, than to remain in one's lower self when 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
in to the lower self and creating a mask self. As I have explained it, even if 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
your society, as opposed to believing that the mask self is your true nature and real self 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
about the higher self, lower self, and the mask self. Every human being has the first two 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
also has to some degree the third, the mask self. For those of you here for the 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
the higher self, the lower self, and the mask self; and perhaps in the next lecture I 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
I am that. This is as insincere a mask as the other extreme. Such people want to 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
to show yourself as you are without a mask and without the superiority with which you try 21 THE FALL
the higher self, the lower self, and the mask self. What I have explained is part of 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
What I have explained is part of the mask self, but it is not only a mask 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
mask self, but it is not only a mask. I may call it the exterior self which 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
currents of the lower self to constitute a mask or subterfuge, varies with each person. The possibilities 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
others becomes to you. So you create a mask self. In some subtle way, you become a 31 SHAME
So the person feels compelled to create a mask self in which, of course, they never really 32 DECISION-MAKING
true self, but merely for a badly chosen mask. All masks are bad, even the apparently pleasant 32 DECISION-MAKING
does exist and is often hidden under the mask, I must get to know myself; I must 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
due to their having been hidden by the mask self. On the other hand, these trends may 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
the higher self, the lower self, and the mask self. The same coexistence of truth and falsehood 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
and genuinely so -- not only as a mask. You always tend to think in either/or terms 39 IMAGE-FINDING
chooses, because of fear and immature currents, a mask of intellectuality that is foreign to her or 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
emotional may fear emotion and thus assume a mask that does not correspond to his or her 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
they are an almost conscious hypocrisy, the outer mask must be dissolved in order to look into 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
opposed to your conscious beliefs about yourself. Your mask has not brought you the gratification you thought 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
made you angry. When you unconsciously assumed the mask of goodness you may have bent over backwards 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
out the part you discover behind the first mask of unselfishness, believing that now at last you 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
and anger -- as you are behind your mask. All your negative reactions are essentially one reaction 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
you have already recognized the falseness of the mask layer you have built on wrong conclusions. Then 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
equally erroneous that refusal of decision-making, under the mask of waiting for God's will, lacks selfishness and 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
yourself. In some instances even the superficial outer mask is lacking. And yet, when the unhappy outcome 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
What comes out of any layer of your mask self will affect the similar or corresponding mask 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
mask self will affect the similar or corresponding mask self layer or defense mechanism of the other 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
other person's shyness may be covered under a mask of brashness. However, you will recognize that they 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
hidden. One person will hide it behind a mask of aloofness and pseudo-strength. Another will hide it 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
selves. The lower self, higher self, inner self, mask self, psyche and all. Could you straighten me 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
When I first discussed the higher, lower and mask selves, it was a considerable time ago. It 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to the terms higher self, lower self and mask self. The term inner self will now make 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
idealized self-image. I have occasionally used the term mask self in the past. The mask self and 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
the term mask self in the past. The mask self and the idealized self- image are really 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
there a continuing fusion without building a strong mask personality? ANSWER: Of course, the healthier a human 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
This work demands that you discard the outer mask of appearance and that you muster the courage 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
level, more harm occurs than good, because the mask self, the idealized self, and the tendency to 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
the point where the big lie of the mask and the pretense must be given up. A 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
I said that you must first penetrate the mask self that hides your destructive attitudes. You are 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
a third component which I first called the mask self and later the idealized self. It is 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER
had to overcome considerable resistance to penetrate the mask of false security he had been assuming. He 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
by your conscience, produces an unjustified guilt to mask the real one. The false guilt also may 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
then shifts your sense of identity to your mask. You struggle against exposing the pretense, let alone 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS
used the terms higher self, lower self, and mask self. These are very abbreviated terms which comprise 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS
has worked diligently and conscientiously to shed the mask, to give up defenses, and to overcome the 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS
or to limit your identity to the fraudulent mask or the hateful demon or the petty, selfish 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS
self which is the demonic self; and the mask self which hides the demonic or lower self 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
of the lower self as well as the mask. This fragmentation creates misunderstandings, illusions, and misconceptions. It 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
these three levels of consciousness so that the mask and lower selves dissolve and only the true 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
and expresses itself. Only when the lower and mask selves are entirely conscious and their exact manifestations 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
can only be reversed when awareness of the mask self, the lower self, and finally the higher 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
meditation. The process of becoming aware of your mask self and your lower self and dealing with 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
to focus on the specific devices of the mask self and observe how it masks itself and 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
self is understood, accepted and dissolved, when the mask is dispensed with, then the unification of the 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
off awareness of your lower self and your mask self, you will not be aware of the 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
make yourself feel your lower self and the mask that hides it. If you do not, how 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
degree between these two possibilities, so can the mask self. The mask self is your pretense, your 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
two possibilities, so can the mask self. The mask self is your pretense, your hiding, your facade 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
it real. All these various expressions indicate the mask self. The mask self is a defense against 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
these various expressions indicate the mask self. The mask self is a defense against exposing who you 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
are not exclusively the lower self which the mask is designed to hide. However, by masking any 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
masking any part of yourself, you inevitably also mask your higher self from yourself. The more you 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
in the higher self, but not in the mask self -- the more your higher self is 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
because you have identified so much with your mask, you are oblivious to wearing one. When you 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
wearing one. When you are unaware of your mask, you feel ashamed and uncomfortable but you don't 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
more of the unreality, and more of the mask. As usual, these aspects must first be fully 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
without truly being aware of your lower self, mask self, your defenses, your dishonest devices, and your 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
to identify with your lower self or your mask self, but to observe and identify it, is 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
something and being identified with it. When the mask and lower self, or the negative intentionality and 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
these exercises because they must first shed the mask that hides their shame of their real feelings 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES
overt selfishness. It may be part of your mask, your need to appear good in the eyes 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
new. But giving is so often a false mask, a ploy that only hides the cheating, bargaining 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
each honest admission, each shedding of a partial mask, each breaking through of a defense, each step 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
beings. You may fear your selfishness. But your mask has put a cloak over your selfishness and 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
over your selfishness and your little meannesses. That mask makes you comply with higher standards and appear 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
misuse it and perpetuate the pretenses of the mask self. So you had to learn to be 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
you have learned to let go of the mask of false service and to expose the short-sighted 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
the lower self, which is surrounded by the mask self and the defenses. Individually you have dealt 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
between it and the wishful thinking of the mask self that hides the distortion and the untruth 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
know it by penetrating the concealments of the mask self. In this struggle the temptation to hide 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
those who are still strongly identified with their mask self. They have the most difficult time, and 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
have to recognize that they identify with their mask self and must begin to travel through the 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
how to function without the pretenses of your mask and your defensive games. Again this does not 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS
the other and come to understand about the mask self. Education will prevent the formation of masks 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
lower self and the higher self while the mask begins to dissolve -- you perceive the other 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
you who are penetrating the encrustation of the mask, dissolving it and transforming the lower self, for 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
small everyday manifestations. Instead, you put on a mask of perfectionism to prove to the world and 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE
and truly transcended it -- not on the mask level through the false way of denying your 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION
phase you find it difficult to remove your mask self and look at your lower self without 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
higher self must not be confused with the mask self you have identified with for a long 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
with for a long time. You confuse this mask self with your higher self. To remove the 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
self with your higher self. To remove the mask self is complicated, for if you only focus 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
the same time, if you revert to your mask self, you are right back where you started 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
despair is that you cannot differentiate between the mask self and the real higher self, and that 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
self, and that you believe that if the mask self is taken from you, you are going 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
is that you know deep down that your mask self is not genuine and you project that 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
the aspirations of your lower self and your mask self? Or does the necessity on the path 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
the curve of evolution. The creation of the mask is the first facet of the realization that 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
beyond that and are struggling to eliminate the mask self that is now the generally accepted rule 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
be in this frame of reference -- the mask self and the dualistic good versus bad -- 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
level of your being that lies beyond the mask and the lower self, beyond the psychological and 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING
have helped you to see and accept your mask and your lower self. I have opened up 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS
They may cover up the weakness by a mask of strength, which deceives no one, least of 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY
be seen as questionable and possibly as a mask of something evil. By the same token, what 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
one way. For example, you either project your mask self to the world, while you inwardly despair 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
indefinitely in this way. Thus you build a mask illusion on a lower-self illusion. The mask illusion 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
a mask illusion on a lower-self illusion. The mask illusion is that this way of operating can 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
manifests in putting so much energy in your mask and lower self that you never dare expose 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
see the strength of the secondary guilt. The mask self claimed greed, calculating self-interest, prideful appearance values 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE

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