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| and inner extremism. You are so conditioned to manipulate your emotions that it will take considerable time | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| first let us look at another way you manipulate your emotions: by prohibiting their full force, and | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| the result of looking away from yourself. To manipulate your will according to what you know or | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| want to relate, but both, for various reasons manipulate, or one manipulates, where does the element of | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| you would then do would be to further manipulate your feelings and superimpose attitudes that are not | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| with it. You would then not need to manipulate time by holding it back or pushing it | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| fulfillment. The need for control causes you to manipulate others, yourself, and your vital natural feelings. By | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| its natural and healthy form by trying to manipulate it according to circumstances. Thus it cannot flow | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| of your feelings cramps you and makes you manipulate them in a subtle but distinct way. You | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| it seems expedient, false unhappiness in order to manipulate, or punish others. The false, superimposed tendencies have | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| frustration, fearful withdrawal, tension, the compulsive need to manipulate, the inability to lose. All these are, of | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| the disapproval of others. When one ceases to manipulate one's feelings in order to control and manipulate | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| manipulate one's feelings in order to control and manipulate others, one will be self-centered in the sense | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| you are in control, and then you must manipulate life, the world around you, your own most | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| deny the hurt, even to yourself. You often manipulate it into an elaborate accusation -- sometimes even | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| can let your soul movement be, rather than manipulate it. In that way, you will increase your | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| pliant, but use these assets in order to manipulate others and hide the domination you wish to | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| or indirectly rule, coerce, pressure, command, demand, and manipulate -- and cheat! The open energy system which | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| I can have, unless I push, pressure, cheat, manipulate, and force it to come to me. When | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| that the fear of death is given to manipulate you into further initiative. But I say to | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| and by your assumption that you have to manipulate reality around you to suit your most infantile | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| no matter how much you try to force, manipulate, and cajole. You become the slave of unreality | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
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| Any living organism not left alone, but constantly manipulated, will suffer a very crippling effect. This is | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| how your real feelings, when they are not manipulated by unconscious needs, will create a very different | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| of your genuine feelings, as opposed to the manipulated emotions, will come when you relax by yourself | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| is not there does not have to be manipulated. This is simple logic. The only way to | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| the real self, the intellect can be directed, manipulated, and governed by the will; the real self | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| to add this: Channeled emotions are negative emotions manipulated. Only by letting them free will you be | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| of defensiveness and pseudo-needs. The one that is manipulated, whether or not he or she is aware | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| are movement, too. When feelings are prohibited, or manipulated so that they cannot function according to their | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| cannot, due to blockage. Hence, the feeling is manipulated, artificially exaggerated or dramatized. Again, this may apply | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| person who has a great problem with those manipulated feelings differentiate between the false and the genuine | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| according to reflexes. I also recognize how I manipulated myself in producing false fears. The moment I | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| again be smashed by life, which cannot be manipulated by the fearful, small, controlling mind. When you | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
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| The expediency is, of course, another way of manipulating the other person to feel obligated to love | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| All of you have both these ways of manipulating your emotions. The overdramatization is connected with the | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| secondary reactions are the ones that come from manipulating emotions, while the primary reactions are from the | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| the real self by curbing the will, by manipulating thought, by disciplining emotions. When they achieve a | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| How does that tie in with a person manipulating his reactions to other people? ANSWER: Actually, this | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| you undermine the organic process of emotional growth, manipulating your feelings in a most negative and destructive | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| control; through the apparent risk of floating without manipulating anyone or anything. Of course, this sounds like | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| is humanity bent on destroying, dominating, denying and manipulating creative life -- that is, the involuntary processes | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| amass more, you try to cheat life by manipulating circumstances so that you gain as much, and | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| When you let it happen to you, without manipulating it by exaggerating or denying it, it will | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| is. In experiencing real pain, you stop controlling, manipulating, hiding -- the pain simply is. You approach | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| what is and to deal with it without manipulating facts and feelings to be what they are | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| that every kind of pushing, domineering, forcing, or manipulating amounts to cheating. The translation of such an | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| give out in order to accumulate in a manipulating way what you believe you do not deserve | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
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| different effect on your personality than the artificial manipulation, even if the goal is the same. At | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| deviations and basic false premises. In an artificial manipulation you prevent your soul from growing in harmony | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| important to understand the implications of the artificial manipulation of your feelings, either making them bigger or | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| Be in God! 97. PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS Greetings, my dearest friends. God bless | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| condition yourself to observe your real feelings without manipulation one way or another, a new strength, a | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| needs. It is, in the true sense, a manipulation. As for choosing withdrawal, which is connected with | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| of spontaneity -- and this is due to manipulation. QUESTION: It is a very subtle thing I | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| voluntary act. Attempting that would amount to a manipulation of your feelings, and, in the last analysis | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| be a martyr. All this is an unconscious manipulation in order to get one's own way. Since | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| people? ANSWER: Actually, this question is already answered. Manipulation happens out of defensiveness and pseudo-needs. The one | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| in? Does this not dissolve or alleviate the manipulation? ANSWER: To the degree a person feels the | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| the degree a person feels the need for manipulation -- which is an unconscious protective measure -- | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| two elements are mutually exclusive. The pseudo-need for manipulation, if you examine it, stems from egocentric fear | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| letting go to feeling and to being. Therefore manipulation prohibits love, even though some measure of real | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| experience, without aggrandizing or diminishing it, without any manipulation, do you really master it. Only when you | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| released through the absence of fear and of manipulation even on the subtlest of levels is enormous | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| either by sheer force, clever persuasion, or dishonest manipulation. In that case, you use some of your | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| wants to love you freely without your coercion, manipulation, and domination. That is the true richness you | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| enormous difference between creating a closed system by manipulation of others, of facts, of events, of the | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| superstition or perhaps in a spirit of emotional manipulation. You become so involved in what you have | 236 THE SUPERSTITION OF PESSIMISM |
| followed who took the rulership by power or manipulation and then abused their position and took advantage | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
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| to all sorts of unhealthy reactions, symptoms, endeavors, manipulations of emotions, and even to actions which indirectly | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| between the real feelings underneath and the compulsive manipulations, drives, and impulses which you confuse with your | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| distortions, conflicts and fears, unconscious defensive measures and manipulations. It is not as easy as all that | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| need and have to use because without such manipulations you feel yourself sinking. You feel you have | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
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| an enforced and ungenuine reaction. Nothing ungenuine and manipulative could ever be truly beneficial. It would only | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| attempted under a misunderstanding, it becomes an artificial manipulative act that can lead only to self-deception. It | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| fear because I know that they are only manipulative tricks of the childish mind to avoid accepting | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| a forcing current. The forcing current is a manipulative process that expresses into life and toward everybody | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| hidden self can be deciphered and admitted, the manipulative, artificial hopelessness -- which is always unbearable -- | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| in an undefended way that is free from manipulative interpretations of the pain. Such interpretations only aim | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| Would you be envious, jealous, petty, self-serving, spiteful, manipulative, malicious, denying others their own Godself -- in | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| deal with his or her covert, dominant, and manipulative traits. They are inevitably two sides of the | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| how negative, destructive, mean, malicious, spiteful, dishonest, and manipulative you discover a part of you to be | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |