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beings -- and indeed you should. But this love will have its proper value; it will not 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW
if for some reason you lose a human love as long as God has his rightful place 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW
path of purification, for example, or learning to love are such. Overcoming your weaknesses, or wanting to 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
Let us suppose a person sincerely desires to love a fellow-creature and desires to do so because 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
this question: What are the various aspects of love? ANSWER: There are many and I cannot attempt 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
my friends, without truth, there can be no love! This will suffice for the moment. QUESTION: A 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
What is the opposite aspect of vanity? ANSWER: Love and humility. For if you are vain, you 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
friends, God's blessing is given to you. God's love is streaming to you. May the words I 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
and strengthen you. Be in peace, be in love, be in God! 30. SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
Such a basic quality may be courage, another love and kindness, and so on. To have courage 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
does not mean that you do not possess love or the capacity to love. Though the highest 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
do not possess love or the capacity to love. Though the highest angel representatives of each force 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
is meant by loving your brother as you love yourself. As long as you feel differently for 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
unjust, for you demand and expect respect and love from others although you do not respect and 31 SHAME
from others although you do not respect and love yourself. Mind you, this is not because of 31 SHAME
do that, the more you need to demand love and respect from others to make up for 31 SHAME
people around you to actually give you the love and respect you desired in the first place 31 SHAME
your pride and your need for respect and love from others, you begin to withdraw from what 31 SHAME
for it and not other people's lack of love and understanding. No matter how incapable of love 31 SHAME
love and understanding. No matter how incapable of love the people around you may be, you would 31 SHAME
and what I have done, they would not love me. That makes you feel alone, suffering, and 31 SHAME
they who are spiritually developed and capable of love will most certainly not love you less; quite 31 SHAME
and capable of love will most certainly not love you less; quite the contrary. And they who 31 SHAME
they who are immature and therefore incapable of love will not be retracting their love for you 31 SHAME
incapable of love will not be retracting their love for you since they never really gave it 31 SHAME
are in now: craving for affection, respect, and love to assuage their own lack of self-respect, absent 31 SHAME
the courage to be themselves. Their kind of love was an illusion in the first place. So 31 SHAME
am; I do not strive for respect and love that I think is not really due me 31 SHAME
Though you are wrong in that too, for love and respect are due every living creature. In 31 SHAME
you have some faults which you are in love with. This explains why you do not get 31 SHAME
weakness, or imperfection is a direct hindrance to love -- and therefore to God. I will also 31 SHAME
work together for the good for those who love God. Let us examine this statement of the 32 DECISION-MAKING
find its deeper meaning. The words, those who love God do not mean merely that you believe 32 DECISION-MAKING
believe in God or that you profess to love Him or that you recite some prayers. As 32 DECISION-MAKING
recite some prayers. As you know, the true love of God means to work spiritually, to develop 32 DECISION-MAKING
but also your emotions. You must come to love God in your emotions. To achieve that is 32 DECISION-MAKING
on the road of spiritual development can truly love God. How then can we explain that all 32 DECISION-MAKING
this path and thus proves his or her love for God. Yet so many of you do 32 DECISION-MAKING
in other words a person who does not love God above everything, will find that the best 32 DECISION-MAKING
from the outside! You all know that to love your fellow-creatures is one of the most important 32 DECISION-MAKING
important laws of the universe. We have discussed love at great length: how to acquire it, what 32 DECISION-MAKING
its way, how to face your inability to love as you would like to, etc. However, now 32 DECISION-MAKING
of my friends who are already capable of love to some degree. It is only a question 32 DECISION-MAKING
long as you are not completely purified, your love cannot be divine and perfect. Your love will 32 DECISION-MAKING
your love cannot be divine and perfect. Your love will be blurred to the extent you are 32 DECISION-MAKING
are still lacking purification. The deviation from divine love may take place in various ways, according to 32 DECISION-MAKING
that this is really a proof of your love. This is not true. It must be a 32 DECISION-MAKING
idealized image. All human beings are starved for love; most seek it in the wrong way, namely 32 DECISION-MAKING
there is no risk involved. This longing for love forces the subject to struggle to maintain the 32 DECISION-MAKING
that if they fail to do so, the love may be jeopardized. At the same time, the 32 DECISION-MAKING
same time, the subject resents the giver of love, because deep down they feel that this kind 32 DECISION-MAKING
deep down they feel that this kind of love is wrong. The unpurified soul lacks the strength 32 DECISION-MAKING
soul lacks the strength to risk losing the love given on false premises. So the person feels 32 DECISION-MAKING
that this is not a good and healthy love, neither beneficial to you nor to the loved 32 DECISION-MAKING
self, but also by trying to see and love the other as he or she really is 32 DECISION-MAKING
and hidden reasons for needing a more perfect love subject than reality produces. In all probability there 32 DECISION-MAKING
which you cover up with the type of love you are bestowing. In addition, there must be 32 DECISION-MAKING
as they are. You should be able to love a person, accepting his or her imperfections, not 32 DECISION-MAKING
any way. Remember, my friends, when you do love, think about how you are doing it. Consider 32 DECISION-MAKING
first words of tonight's lecture, my friends. To love God means naturally, among many other things, to 32 DECISION-MAKING
cannot understand others, and he who does not love himself cannot love others. Again, the objection may 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
and he who does not love himself cannot love others. Again, the objection may be made that 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
Again, the objection may be made that to love oneself means selfishness. Again, I say that this 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
you have no healthy self-respect and do not love your greater being, which is the divine being 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
divine being you are, you can never truly love others. The right kind of self-respect and self-love 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
accept other people better, understand them better, and love them better. You do not have to be 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
see another person's faults when there is strong love or sympathy present. Not wanting to see the 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
see another's faults and not be afraid to love and respect that person any less because of 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
person, so as to handle life better and love and help others more effectively. In this endeavor 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
the desire to come near to God, the love for the Creator -- mingle with the bad 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
transitory state in your development. Your longing and love of God is awakening before your pride and 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
that He really exists, do it for the love of others that is a basic part of 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
whose faith is still weak has a greater love for other human beings than someone else whose 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
relationship with another human being--perhaps to learn to love and to accept this other person--and that the 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
beings proves to be unsatisfactory. Perhaps not enough love is forthcoming; perhaps fear and caution cloud the 35 TURNING TO GOD
God will not disappoint me. God has enough love. God is far away and intangible: I risk 35 TURNING TO GOD
refuge, He will have to show you that love does not work in such a way. Your 35 TURNING TO GOD
people, the hazards and risks of life and love as you know them, and then ask yourself 35 TURNING TO GOD
to find God is always by learning to love other people. As you know, this is a 35 TURNING TO GOD
are continuing to work on this. Nothing but love of your fellow creatures can open you to 35 TURNING TO GOD
that what they actually long for is to love. It is just that they do not know 35 TURNING TO GOD
and the physical body translates the longing to love into a longing to receive love. In this 35 TURNING TO GOD
longing to love into a longing to receive love. In this layer exists the ego with all 35 TURNING TO GOD
believes that the best thing is to receive love without taking the risk of getting wounded; it 35 TURNING TO GOD
You calculate. You extend yourself only to receive love. And then you are bitter -- because it 35 TURNING TO GOD
to work, you are not gratified by the love bestowed upon you. Think about it. Has it 35 TURNING TO GOD
but since you were incapable or unwilling to love, their love was more of a burden than 35 TURNING TO GOD
you were incapable or unwilling to love, their love was more of a burden than a cause 35 TURNING TO GOD
within you knows that you do not deserve love, and so you feel guilty. The more love 35 TURNING TO GOD
love, and so you feel guilty. The more love is given to you, the unhappier you become 35 TURNING TO GOD
overcome a weakness and begin to give some love, even before you are capable of giving real 35 TURNING TO GOD
even before you are capable of giving real love, your act of unselfish giving will bring you 35 TURNING TO GOD
withhold it, my friends. The experience of God's love depends on how receptive one is. It is 36 PRAYER
from God's grace, God's strength, God's mercy, God's love, and all the other divine attributes. Prayer is 36 PRAYER
rechanneling of wrong currents, and the attainment of love, brotherhood, humility, and the union and development of 36 PRAYER
into the bad habits of their erring souls. Love, well-meaning and unselfish goodwill, can be expressed in 36 PRAYER
So, my friends, do not tell me, I love God and I try to be a good 36 PRAYER
to help you to feel wholeheartedly within yourself love for everyone, at least while you pray. Everyone 36 PRAYER
you pray. Everyone should pray for peace, for love, brotherhood, justice, the spreading of divine law. But 36 PRAYER
can further or hinder divine truth, peace, and love, will make you feel more responsible, and your 36 PRAYER
every human being will give way to humility, love, and the willingness to have God's will done 36 PRAYER
well as happiness. Pray that you do not love your ego so much that you shirk the 36 PRAYER
its opposite extreme. This is easy to determine. Love has turned to hatred and resentment, justice to 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
One of the most misunderstood divine currents is love. Many other things pose as love that really 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
currents is love. Many other things pose as love that really have nothing to do with love 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
love that really have nothing to do with love. The yearning of the ego to break through 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
break through the barrier of loneliness poses as love. So does its possessiveness. I will be more 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
subject when I speak to you about erotic love, its meaning, its perfect ideal, and its deviations 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
of this lesson, of this sign that I love myself too much? Am I afraid of all 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
little goodwill can often establish a bond of love between two people at odds. Try to find 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
image exists. I have sometimes mentioned that people love some of their faults. How and why would 38 IMAGES
of their faults. How and why would they love them? For the simple reason that according to 38 IMAGES
claims God does not send tests. God is love; how could He want us to be unhappy 38 IMAGES
strength if you accept it now willingly. The love of God touches all of you, my dear 38 IMAGES
to live, afraid to feel, and afraid to love. The outer intellectual knowledge you may gain through 39 IMAGE-FINDING
is by facing the fear of life and love. To risk the hurt and bear your fear 39 IMAGE-FINDING
rationalize away your inner fears of life, of love, and of being hurt. Is that clear? COMMENT 39 IMAGE-FINDING
you. God will show you the light of love and help. Courageous and noble is the person 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
leave the dark tunnel behind. Joyful blessings of love envelop and penetrate you. Be in peace, my 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
knows what feels good or bad. It knows love and pleasure when its will is done. It 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
time of the year, the strong forces of love, coming from the King of the Universe, touch 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
the best of you. Try to strengthen your love, understanding, and forgiveness so as to be able 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
increase until you can be touched only by love and brotherly understanding. Then you will not be 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
a necessity. His was the greatest act of love. You all know about the Plan of Salvation 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
is to choose such a fate out of love hardly needs an explanation. True love, true kindness 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
out of love hardly needs an explanation. True love, true kindness, true unselfishness is unthinkable without courage 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you lack courage, you do so because you love yourself too much in a sickly way. There 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
person as to the self. Therefore courage and love, in the last analysis, are inseparable. Think about 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you will always find that you must lack love as well. And now I will discuss objectivity 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
category as blindly idealizing the person in whose love you feel secure. In such cases you do 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
deceiving yourself into believing that your idealization is love and tolerance. You try to convince yourself that 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
your eyes to the faults of those you love because they love you. No, my friends, that 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
the faults of those you love because they love you. No, my friends, that is not true 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
my friends, that is not true loving. True love can see reality. If you are ready to 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
can see reality. If you are ready to love in the most vital and mature way, you 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
trends, half-consciously thinking that this attitude proves your love and tolerance, but it is done really out 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
are so insecure about your own ability to love that you need an idealized version of the 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
an idealized version of the loved person. Your love is not true love if you are compelled 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
the loved person. Your love is not true love if you are compelled to see this person 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
is a weakness and often a bondage. Real love is freedom, dear friends. It can stand the 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
of the other, you are not capable of love. Indeed, you are so aware of your incapacity 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
loving. Pride, and your present inability to truly love, make you go from one extreme to the 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
dear ones. If you learn to see and love other people as they really are, you can 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you, my friends: Think of the people you love most in the world, and then make a 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
reasons already stated: pride, and your inability to love the other as he or she really is 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
You will learn to evaluate the people you love, and your love will mature and grow in 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
to evaluate the people you love, and your love will mature and grow in stature. Thus you 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
out of the immature state in which you love like a frightened child who cannot see the 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
and this emotion forces you to withdraw your love. But that is not the truth at all 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
this particular search with the knowledge that your love, instead of weakening, must grow and mature, you 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
in others, as well as in yourselves. Mature love means to love others in spite of their 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY

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