| are still in a low state of development, live in a certain harmony, while much more highly | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| world rather than your own standards. Do not live for appearance's sake in any area of your | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| appearance's sake in any area of your life. Live in truth and reality. Face every issue in | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| not expect an impossibility of yourself. You do live on earth. Of course, you will be insecure | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| and uncertain about yourself. That is a difference. Live life fully with all that it brings, without | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| struggle and crisis, are all glorious and wonderful. Live life fully and you will become strong and | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| joy, no, but a life in which you live fully and derive the joy of experience, of | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| impatient, compulsive, and restless about it. I cannot live in the present, but must somehow always look | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| present, but must somehow always look for and live in the future, when I hope to be | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| do not have to be already perfect to live fully, to increase your awareness, to grow steadily | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| on growth rather than on perfection, you will live in the now. You will dispense with superimposed | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| is prohibited and thus you impoverish yourself. You live on the periphery, which is the shallow living | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| almost impossible to understand if you do not live this pathwork and have not come across areas | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| you wish to do it in order to live a fuller and happier life, and thus give | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| paralyzes your spontaneity, your capacity to feel, to live, and to experience reality. This, in turn, creates | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| your fulfillment can become real. In fantasy you live a life of your own behind your walls | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| more desirable than life. But the more you live in these daydreams, the less it will be | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| they will be capable of and willing to live their lives in the here and now. They | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| to control everything, throw away the blueprints, and live spontaneously. All this should make it quite clear | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| can be gained; it may spur you to live more fully. Also, it can function as a | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| life, you shut off this awareness and you live as though this other part of you had | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| result of their groping, pathetic, human struggle to live which, when viewed from the larger picture of | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| person is unable to assert his right to live, love, and to have pleasure -- masochism is | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| become free to unclog the love channel and live a productive life in which you feel useful | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| The strength, the self-reliance, and the capacity to live fully with all your constructive patterns beginning to | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| out a stronger, happier person, better equipped to live in the true sense of the word. Beware | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| easier, so much more honest and healthy to live with than any result of evasion, be it | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| If you do not wish to love, and live in fear of being hurt, if you do | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| the heart of another person. The courage to live and to love enables you to help others | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| being exposed to the possibility of danger. You live in a constant state of war, with most | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| is impossible to convey. You simply have to live it to know the joy of it. Let | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| the psychological conditions that make it harder to live in sloth because the instinct of self-preservation finally | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| people conform with the society in which they live? ANSWER: If we use the word conforming in | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| relationships are impossible without love. Nor can you live productively without the will functioning properly. Love and | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| they are. Thus you may force yourself to live with something that is by far inferior to | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| you do need the will to grow, to live, to love. And yet on another level you | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| self. Do not try to push yourself to live up to all this. See rather where, when | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| as fully as possible. However, if you do live true to yourself, imperfect as this self may | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| due to my own imperfection? How can I live with such knowledge? Your unconscious knowledge of this | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| not there to begin with. He has to live out his problems, as you are required to | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| out his problems, as you are required to live out yours. Your imperfect parents and environmental conditions | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| in the past. In spiritual spheres where you live without your physical body, you are in a | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| you had no resistance whatsoever, you could not live at all. Yet when you resist too much | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| the degree passes a certain limit, you cannot live either. Life on earth requires a certain equilibrium | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| resistance of matter. To the degree that you live productively and harmoniously, your vibration will be in | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| would become an imbecile. As long as you live in this world, you need the mind. Dissolve | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| only you would let go of trying to live up to ideals that you are inwardly not | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| condemnation. That only happens when you wish to live up to superimposed standards and ideals; you do | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| unhappiness is caused by the compulsive need to live up to what you think exists. If you | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| than their neighbors. If everyone else were to live like them, they would not be unhappy, yet | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| QUESTION: I don't know how a person can live without self-discipline. ANSWER: That is something completely different | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| the now, but without awareness. In order to live in the now in awareness, various stages have | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| doctrines you follow. If you are unwilling to live through, and be in your present confusions, errors | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| conflicts and confusions, if you truly face and live it, instead of running from it, even that | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| do not relate at all, you do not live. Life, or relationship, is relative -- relative to | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| or negatively. But the moment you relate, you live. That is why the person who relates negatively | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| at all, for then that person would not live. Destructive relationships lead to a climax that is | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| from the former. They are both completely withdrawn, live in outer and inner isolation. They can hardly | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| not dare to acknowledge to yourself? Thus you live in isolation and unfulfillment. You fear death because | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| only when you allow yourself to feel, to live through your emotions and thereby determine the specific | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| in a negative way, or you withdraw and live in bitter isolation which, in turn, breeds frustration | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| hard for human beings to accept that they live in a world of causality is not easy | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| and behaviors that are infinitely more difficult to live with than the love you originally wished to | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| you keep this in mind and try to live it, all the outer details will easily fall | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| other. Just perceive and experience, just try to live the experience. Beware of labeling, it does not | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| a wave of hope and security that you live in a benign universe in which you have | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| that only by fully utilizing the dimension you live in can you outgrow it. Experiencing everything that | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| being commensurate with the dimension of time you live in. Once in this state, you follow the | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| said, in essence, that very rarely do people live in the now. They push into the future | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| strain away from the now. Only when you live in the now do you live in reality | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| when you live in the now do you live in reality. You cannot live in reality when | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| now do you live in reality. You cannot live in reality when you strain into the future | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| new segment of time. You react in fantasy, live in fantasy, and not in the reality of | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| more than you can imagine a future and live it. Your own subjective colorings, stemming from your | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| and thus stunt growth -- in order to live your fantasy. You are afraid to allow the | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| the future; you do not trust yourself to live the now when the future comes. This distrust | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| as you are meant to. In order to live in the now, in reality, you have to | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| your own reality becomes dependent on others. You live through others. Now, please, my friends, I do | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| can change; that you do not have to live in such useless dependency, which weakens rather than | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| to resist, to be untruthful toward yourself, to live in destructive patterns, inner fear, and insecurity. These | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| self. By becoming aware of your unreality, you live in greater reality. By becoming aware of your | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| this is not such a bad world to live in, after all. Such thoughts may not be | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| goals of this path of self-realization. When you live unto the day without understanding the relationship between | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| powers you can possibly need in order to live a satisfactory life. I have said this so | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| own idealized self-images but we actually try to live up to the idealized selves of our parents | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| is right and another is wrong, you still live under the yoke of the superimposed conscience which | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| do not see to what degree they still live in inhibition and self- deception. If you discover | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| truth and reality, he or she has to live within conditions that manifest the illusory state. That | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| arrive at this awareness will you begin to live on the firm ground of peace and reality | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| this process and understand its workings. You cannot live in reality before you have pierced your particular | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| persons and situations: your parents. You do not live in reality; you do not respond according to | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| represented by your parents, the more you will live in reality and free yourself of the repetitive | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| my friends. I do not advocate that you live out your childish instincts. All I mean to | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| desperately need in order to find yourself and live the full and satisfying life you are destined | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| full and satisfying life you are destined to live, the easier will it become to make disturbances | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| years. Do you think that this world you live in would have wars, upheavals, crime, starvation, and | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| only help you to understand the world you live in better, but will deepen your self- understanding | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| life must be, the more constructively you will live your life, the greater understanding you will gain | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| and union with others. Conversely, the more you live on the outer fringes of your consciousness -- | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| other apparently contradictory needs and self-expressions, can harmoniously live side by side in healthy interaction only if | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| cope will prove how essential it is to live in truth. Even though you may still shirk | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| personality finds the strength and discipline required to live productively in union, by living self-sufficiently as an | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| find the eternal now. In it you can live fearlessly with rightful confidence in the unknown. You | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| one does not use the inborn faculties to live fully and therefore no longer fear life or | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| unfair and unkind fate, that you do not live in a chaotic world, where the law of | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| because your conviction of not being able to live up to it will make it frightening. Once | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| You will then know what it means to live without shame, without the need to be isolated | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| futility are still absent. If you continue to live with the burden of error, you gradually come | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| the vaster intelligence to help you. If you live in the now, you are in tune with | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| it is God's will for human beings to live in joy. At the same time, on a | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| none of these unhealthy aspects existed, one would live through the pain and grow out of it | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| you realize that you have the resources to live in dignity and self-respect and are not wholly | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| you really feel and think that you cannot live in the now. But sufficient progress has been | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| need to know about yourself in order to live successfully. Finding God cannot be done by discussing | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| which you not only understand, but know and live. For example, you must become capable of living | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| close their eyes in fear and believe they live behind fenced-in walls. Although there is no prison | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| behind. If you do not see that you live with a fence around you, you cannot discover | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| hopeless, and that therefore you must pretend and live in make-believe, you can then start to make | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| can then start to make the change and live in earnest, striving for real goals and dispensing | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| for the person who ceases effort ceases to live. But that kind of effort is always labored | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| alone, where you have no relationship, where you live in conditions in which it seems almost impossible | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| be perfection on all counts. Then I will live. If I am unhappy, I must die. There | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| to avoid death. Such people really do not live at all. Fear of death and dying prohibits | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| are relatively free from this fear and therefore live meaningful and pleasurable lives. Since it is almost | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| at this moment, if you do not fully live in the moment and understand it in relationship | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| circumstances. These approaches are interdependent. In order to live meaningfully and dynamically, an interrelationship between them is | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| in which your personality and your body now live can you then deeply comprehend your real faculties | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| that is hard to conceive until the inner live center has been experienced. The foreign substance covers | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| this very experience of the real self, the live center where a spontaneous, loving intelligence and fulfillment | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| it feels to function out of your vital, live center which is now less obstructed than ever | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| to know, so that I will reawaken and live in the state of fulfillment, selfhood, and beauty | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| have any direct relationship with another person, who live merely in fantasies that are utterly attached to | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| must pretend. Therefore, where you harbor distortions, you live a lie -- a needless lie that you | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| a lie -- a needless lie that you live because of false fear of yourself. Some individuals | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| are no longer alienated from yourselves will you live in that vibrant experience where desire is never | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| a part of you remains in hiding, you live by proxy, as it were. It is always | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| defense you alienate yourself more from the vital live energy and meaningful presence within yourself that alone | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| wonderful part in yourself through which you vibrantly live in absolute self-trust. Here all the limitations of | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| In this way, you activate that most potent live center. It will guide you step by step | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| is that without these assets people cannot adequately live and cope with anything they encounter. Therefore, the | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |