| immediately fulfill them. You will first have to learn to live with the frustration of an unfulfilled | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| become aware of your needs. Then you will learn to distinguish between real and unreal needs by | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| if you allow yourself to feel. As you learn to do so, you will be amazed to | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| know how to approach this. You have to learn to accept yourself on the basis of your | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| unhealthy motives, just as much as the opposite. Learn first to trust yourself, in spite of the | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| of the superimposed idealized self-image. Only as you learn to maturely go about fulfilling the healthy, natural | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| your inner unwillingness to relinquish. And as you learn to do so, a new strength and self-respect | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| your emotions to come to the surface and learn to cope with them. Understand their deeper meaning | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| one instance, and not in another, you will learn the difference between functioning with, or without the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| a crass nature. On this path you also learn to discriminate between what is really destructive and | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| Again and again you hear that you should learn to accept, to forgive, and to like yourself | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| If you observe your emotions, which you increasingly learn to do on this path, you will detect | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| of false needs -- while you search and learn and gain further hold of the reality of | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| begin your ascent. So what you have to learn first is acceptance of reality. If you were | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| used, and this is the only way to learn. You cannot learn something that is constant and | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| is the only way to learn. You cannot learn something that is constant and alive by learning | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| you? Your dreams are a language, and to learn it takes considerable time. Until you have learned | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| translator. Then little by little you begin to learn it yourself, depending on how much talent you | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| emotions of pressure, impatience, forcing, intolerance, hurry, and learn from them. Why are they here? What is | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| life as a whole. At least, you cannot learn to accept the areas that are affected by | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| give it up to the degree that you learn to love life in reality. Then the daydreams | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| be sure. You may find a way to learn more about them, with an entirely new attitude | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| of the fourth commandment? We usually have to learn for a whole lifetime in order to correct | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| reality is much better. In reality you will learn to cope with the mishaps and difficulties, rather | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| encounter them in a different way. As you learn to do so, you will become aware of | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| facing life as it is. Now, as you learn to do so and have begun to change | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| this feeling goes away again. How can I learn to always feel the need to give? ANSWER | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| would be very misleading to say you can learn it. This is something you cannot learn by | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| can learn it. This is something you cannot learn by a voluntary act. Attempting that would amount | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| encountered very rarely. You do not have to learn how to use your defenses. They are automatic | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| will be automatically reactivated if and when you learn to stop defending when there is no need | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| stake because you have imperfections. If people would learn to deeply probe within to find and eliminate | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| whole life will become different. If you can learn to detect, observe, and understand -- and therefore | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| them, the better you will be able to learn why your emotions are not functioning according to | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| of all the layers of disturbance. As you learn to understand and accept yourself the way you | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| activities, in your human relationships. May you all learn to accept yourselves as you are without a | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| and confused. With this new understanding, you may learn to meet the problem. You will now learn | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| learn to meet the problem. You will now learn not only to question yourself about your capacity | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| will not just blindly rush ahead. You will learn to hear what is behind the words, to | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| could not be mastered. Human beings need to learn, they need their memory, and they need intelligence | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| on the surface, you can observe it and learn to understand it. This is the only way | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| can you come to it by concepts you learn; philosophies and practices you observe; doctrines you follow | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| the pressure of repressions? How else can you learn to understand yourself in the mirror of the | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| other? How else can you, best and fastest, learn to communicate on a deeper level of your | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| as far as the group work is concerned, learn more and more to bring out your feelings | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| more and more to bring out your feelings. Learn to observe your own reactions. Observe your tendency | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| become aware of your own defenses, you will learn not to strive away from it, but rather | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| inferiority feelings. But by recognizing this, they will learn that they are not without worth or value | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| the self. In the meantime, what one can learn, in full awareness, is to swim with the | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| many childish, selfish, and shortsighted attitudes -- and learn to accept them without condemning, condoning, or justifying | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| faculties can be sufficiently developed only if you learn to be truthful with yourself and admit that | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| to make decisions, willingness to make mistakes and learn from them. You must expose yourself, and act | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| is a test from which each individual can learn. When you build something together in this way | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| is true relating. You all have much to learn about this. You are at the beginning of | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| lower self in its entirety, you must first learn to accept and to forgive yourself. For that | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| to fully understand your guilts, you have to learn to pay attention to and register your various | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| But now we go a step further and learn to observe that hurt as such can be | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| so hurt. Only after such discoveries can you learn why you thought you needed the very attitudes | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| utilize each living moment in the manner you learn to do on this path. Then you no | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| truth into its grasp, humanity still does not learn the deeper meaning from it, it will stagnate | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| living. But this cannot happen unless you first learn to understand and evaluate your negativity and thus | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| that flows from within, never from the outside. Learn to depend on this inner strength, which you | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| to overcome the unhealthy struggle against self- awareness. Learn to discover the signs of your resistance to | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| them you will not miss them. You will learn to take seemingly legitimate excuses with a grain | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| you do not achieve the result you wish. Learn to accept that you are only human and | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| a resistance in themselves still have much to learn. They are way behind those who can freely | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| your attention to the things human beings can learn, namely to give to and love other human | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| close involvement he or she surely needs to learn. It may be true that people whose immaturity | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| evaluated, so as to enrich the soul and learn the lessons life has to offer. This period | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| guilt about the former if and when you learn to look at the impulses coming from it | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| your pathwork progresses in the right direction, you learn to admit the shame to yourself, but are | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| in turn, offer the only possible means to learn, recognize, and overcome the illusions. Therefore this earth | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| grow out of these emotions only if you learn to face these feelings, to understand their origin | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| behind and enters childhood proper, it has to learn consideration of others and the curbing of its | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| selfhood, away from seclusion. The child begins to learn responsibility; for the first time it is, to | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| than for an adult. Humankind, too, has to learn to direct the solution of its problems by | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| since humankind is approaching maturity, it too will learn to develop its inner conscience, its inner will | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| and lack of freedom? How can an entity learn an all-encompassing love which knows no barriers? The | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| within yourself, in your daily lives, if you learn to understand and to interpret the language of | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| means practice, perseverance, and patience in order to learn the new symbols. Language in any shape or | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| mind. And it is just as possible to learn its language as to learn any other language | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| as possible to learn its language as to learn any other language. But it also takes as | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| the problem areas of your life, you will learn all you need to know about yourself. This | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| and destructive part of the unconscious. When you learn to do this with calm detachment, you will | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| this with calm detachment, you will not only learn to communicate consciously with the constructive part of | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| and to make yourself understood. Therefore, when you learn to consciously perceive the unconscious of others, thus | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| to do with your own self. You will learn to interpret it in others as you have | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| as you have done with yourself. You will learn to interpret what this gesture, that emphasis, this | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| unconscious. As you lose this fear you will learn to interpret the language of your unconscious. Thus | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| oneself that these ideas are false. One must learn finally that one does not perish even if | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| help of your personal sessions you will all learn, step by step, to come into full possession | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| God. Most of you are now ready to learn the technique of fully living in the now | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| the true God-experience can occur, you all must learn to stand on your own feet, and perhaps | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| is a natural understanding that comes when you learn what you need to know about yourself in | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| thoughts, assumptions, reactions, and actions that you must learn to bring under control by knowing truth. A | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| have arrived at its validity. You, yourself, must learn to determine yourself what you want, what to | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| expect for your investment is fair. You must learn to delve into yourself to summon the necessary | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| the emphasis is entirely different. You have to learn to accept your limitations and their results. If | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| the spiritually and emotionally mature person has to learn to accept the difficulties in life. In order | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| the same process. I said that you must learn the ability to die, that you will do | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| by acceptance, and by that acceptance you will learn that there is nothing to be feared -- | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| living, and only by deeply living can you learn that life is one unending process, and dying | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| a fear of losing control, the individual must learn the ability to relinquish it, to flexibly adjust | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| hear the admonition that it is necessary to learn acceptance, you always interpret it as having to | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| fate of suffering and deprivation. The advice to learn to let go of control implies to you | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| is not yet ready, it still has to learn that there is nothing to fear. It does | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| to stop the destructive repetitive process. When you learn the rhythm of your life, when you no | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| This becomes even more confusing because everything you learn and hear points to liberation and selfhood and | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| you seek. You will continue to grow, to learn and extend yourself, and the useless struggle will | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| interplay. In both instances, to the degree you learn the harmonious interplay, your innermost self becomes your | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| irrationality and ignorance, to grow up, it must learn what is true and what is false. Many | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| consciousness. In your work on this path you learn through your meditations, for instance, to use all | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| a lack of ego. You all have to learn to let go of a desire for pleasure | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| understand it, without guilt or shame, you must learn in the course of growing that all imperfection | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| situations this lecture will be helpful. You will learn to understand how these laws work and how | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| will know what these words mean. As you learn to inwardly assimilate these words, you come closer | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| be commensurately unaware of your values. As you learn in each moment to value, appreciate and enjoy | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| potentials of creativity and intelligence. What you must learn to do now is: 1) observe the existence | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| with their actual reactions to you. Then also learn what is behind their reactions and why they | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| In order to accomplish the integration, you must learn to use your conscious ego for the purpose | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| purpose of activating your inner self. You must learn the fine balance between when and how to | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| much more constructive your life is when you learn from everything you experience. For no one, absolutely | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| But this is life and I intend to learn the utmost from everything and bring the most | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| not the end of the world. If you learn and look at it in this way, you | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| these two planes and of how they can learn to transcend the dualistic plane in their practical | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| are habitually trained by upbringing, and everything they learn from their surroundings agrees that one must fight | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| on the plane of unification. Since everything you learn from your education and environment is geared to | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| this state of consciousness. And even when you learn about this other possibility, you are frightened of | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| into the very nature of the relationship. You learn about yourself and the other, you increase your | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| what is never conflicted or tortured. You will learn to experience it as a living reality. Be | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| can truly proceed to unlock the door, and learn how you make yourself sick needlessly, sometimes out | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| He thinks that in this way he can learn the great, important attitude of inner relaxation. It | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| die attitude, are equally erroneous. Only when individuals learn to let go, to allow the self to | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| alter the fact of its existence. Once you learn to search in the proper direction, you will | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| You will feel exposed without it, only to learn that all you expose yourself to is the | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| must be found and understood. You need to learn to see and accept whatever is real in | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| you notice your shame and your hiding and learn to uncover yourself, you will finally step out | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| are you going to understand this message and learn what you have to learn? How soon will | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| this message and learn what you have to learn? How soon will you decide to go through | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| combination of the metaphysical and physical. You will learn to feel and observe the soul movements better | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| alienate yourself from your true nature. As you learn to go through this process and gradually lose | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| experience in your personal life, you must first learn to apply these laws of creation to the | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| a healthy personality. This can happen once you learn and comprehend that the laws of creation can | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| out these negative emotions in the way you learn to do in the Pathwork where no one | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| stop undermining the spontaneous processes, and you will learn to trust them. This will open a richness | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| and creative wisdom. The ego can only memorize, learn, collect other people's creative knowledge, repeat, and copy | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| follow this development. It must be willing to learn from within and to comprehend the deeper language | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |