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 Incidents...................43
proofs anymore, you will receive them abundantly. These incidents will just be an additional confirmation for you 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
and examine your own reactions to the various incidents that have taken place during the day. This 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
a clear pattern emerging. At first, these disharmonious incidents will appear entirely unconnected and isolated; they will 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
even in your daily lives, even in small incidents. So, spiritual worlds did exist for a very 20 GOD: THE CREATION
the child can hear and remember them. Such incidents may happen and are allowed to happen occasionally 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
happiness. All this does not only apply to incidents of the kind you have quoted, but to 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
out. Listen to your feelings in connection with incidents that have always brought out this trend in 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
but, due to their existence in your soul, incidents have occurred in your life that brought them 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
the day in response to often seemingly unimportant incidents. If you try to formulate concisely an unpleasant 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
all daily review notes through and recollect the incidents, with your reactions. See whether you can at 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW
hidden. In cases where there have been actual incidents, consider the details with discretion and tact. When 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
some cases it would be beneficial if such incidents were brought to the inner circle. The time 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
of an image is the repetition of certain incidents in one's life. An image always forms some 38 IMAGES
one lifetime to another. That is why certain incidents do not form an image in people who 38 IMAGES
to adjust to the world. Happy or unhappy incidents in your life, favorable or unfavorable happenings, will 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
the emotions you register in the most casual incidents of your life? What is the emotion you 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
interpretation of your reactions and feelings in certain incidents, on certain occasions. Now we come to the 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
negative situations, so that you can collect unhappy incidents, injustices, injuries, wrongs, and hurts. Once you recognize 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
you analyze your emotions in such, or similar incidents, you will discover without a doubt that the 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
sleep, although you will rarely remember them as incidents. As I have said, the knowledge will simply 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
direction and examining your emotional reactions to certain incidents, you will become aware of the abyss of 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
a victim. You could link up all unfavorable incidents with your own wrong attitudes, no matter how 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
to do so in the most apparent everyday incidents. It takes training to condition yourself to follow 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
-- which is how your emotions register such incidents at present. As you thus grow and mature 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
have an unreal idea of the importance that incidents or the reactions of others have for you 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
have said so often, is to take daily incidents and work with them. That is not difficult 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
instrument of assimilation. As you assimilate life, the incidents which could truly become an experience by proper 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
response. Visualize the soul forces, and then remember incidents in which you were involved on either end 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
come changes in your reactions to life, to incidents, to yourself and others. This changed reaction will 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
how you fear exposure of certain reactions and incidents and how you avoid them. Examining these ingrained 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
may have an overly strong reaction to little incidents, such as a person being unfriendly or unpleasant 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
In depressions one may be calm. In happy incidents, one becomes overstimulated, and, in a way, disharmonious 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
is joy without harmony. It applies to happy incidents, not causing sadness, but rather the opposite, while 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to negative but also to positive or favorable incidents. This dramatizing is based on the childish view 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
When you review how you reacted to certain incidents, you will be able to ask yourself whether 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
is absolutely no one left who knew them, incidents will occur to you that you had never 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
from your perception. All of a sudden these incidents will take on a new meaning, enabling you 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
to have the healthy elasticity to quickly assimilate incidents according to their real significance. Needless to say 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
fear death, whether you consciously experience it in incidents when your life is, or seems, endangered, or 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
you adversely. This applies not only to unhappy incidents, but equally to favorable events. They often retard 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
character in understanding and forgiving. Many such little incidents loosen up the block of withholding that causes 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
for you. The interpretation you give to those incidents is exaggerated and distorted a hundredfold. You need 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
others are the clues. Examine them. In the incidents in your life, and your reactions to them 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED
 
 Incisive....................3
you. Thus, step two is of the most incisive importance. It means knowing your power, your selfhood 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
The unmanifest levels are much more real and incisive than the manifest level. Hence, your negative intentionality 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT
ego, have to be recognized with a very incisive, sharp self-honesty for what they are. Denial, rationalization 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
 
 Inclination.................22
changeover. The same is valid for the human inclination to worship God as a person as against 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
in pursuing your spiritual development and through your inclination to take the line of least resistance. You 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
who were much darker spirits, the very strong inclination existed -- comparatively speaking -- to strive upward 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
same category -- who have a very strong inclination toward the good, but the discrepancy between good 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
it is a mistake to advocate one's own inclination for all. So some human beings may combine 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
also understand what the underlying motive for men's inclination to be unfaithful is. Women tend much more 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
is that under existing conditions, a comparatively small inclination will not be considered a sickness. It will 53 SELF-LOVE
process of maturing. Outer influences may encourage the inclination unnecessarily, while the personality may otherwise grow out 53 SELF-LOVE
of clarification to a person who has an inclination to bondage. The growing child strives for love 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to do so, does not matter. The mere inclination is sufficient for you to feel this as 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
single important action or constant pattern, habit or inclination in us that has exclusively healthy motives? ANSWER 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
some imbalance. There may be a strong unconscious inclination to lose power over the self because the 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
the denial of death. However, due to an inclination to arrive at the result through shortcuts in 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
value system of a society. Due to people's inclination to laziness, they blindly follow what is established 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
situation. In fact, a human being's natural, original inclination before any distortion has taken place is to 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
greater your inner negative intention and the less inclination you have to deal with it. This correlation 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
to sustain the resistance against the soul's natural inclination to follow its destiny. This unconscious effort then 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
manifests -- not necessarily in action, but in inclination -- reveals one's whole character with all one's 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
paralyzed. If this denial is removed, the sexual inclination may show up character tendencies such as finding 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
repressed, they may show up in a sexual inclination to be hurt, humiliated, or rejected. There are 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
you are already aware of your stake and inclination to distort rather than be impartial to the 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE
this longing impossible by blocking your soul's natural inclination toward surrender. All truly good things can come 254 SURRENDER
 
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their personalities, on their personal tastes, talents, and inclinations. There may be one spirit who is intensely 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
created up to the present, its special talents, inclinations, characteristics, and the personality trends that brought it 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
not always according to your creative abilities and inclinations, and therefore not according to your liking or 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
not consider the obstacles, nor respect other people's inclinations; if it does not take into account the 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
mind. The unconscious motivations, attitudes, driving forces, and inclinations are from the soul and the deeper regions 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
his or her feelings and emotions, attitudes and inclinations. In other words, it determines the quality of 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
the pathwork is finding the true values, constructive inclinations, thoughts and feelings that you hold down artificially 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
create their lives in accordance with their personal inclinations. Happiness or unhappiness is the result of the 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
as long as the ego's aims, attitudes and inclinations are diametrically opposed to the laws of the 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
ruthless selfishness somewhere underground as far as emotional inclinations are concerned. These underground tendencies may erupt at 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS
but under the guise of following your spiritual inclinations refuse to face whatever is in you, this 204 WHAT IS THE PATH?
the rest of the person as if such inclinations were purely a matter of taste, or inborn 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
and loudly it speaks through a person's sexual inclinations, whether allowed to manifest or denied and repressed 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
questions may be pointers to the spirit's special inclinations and directions. Answer them again and again as 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
life. It is the individual characteristics and personal inclinations of each entity that determine which of these 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL

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