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am reminded of someone who, as a young girl, wanted very strongly to leave her home. It 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
anything that is alive. I have a little girl and, naturally, I have taught her that it 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
Thank you. QUESTION: About self-alienation: Say a young girl has an image of how she would like 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
damage as of a hurt. PARTICIPANT: If a girl loves her father very much she may ask 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
 
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is the feeling of being unacceptable -- by girls, especially. I worked on this in the past 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
frustrated and rejected. If you feel unacceptable to girls, it is only because you do not accept 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
back, into non- movement toward the world, toward girls, toward your own best feelings. This is where 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
 
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beings. QUESTION: At our lecture on the Bhagavad Gita it was asked why certain spiritual geniuses, like 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
here. Why is it that in the Bhagavad Gita anger is considered the worst sin of all 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
 
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only very few who ask, What can I give? What can I contribute to God's Plan of 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
and demands, but they are not willing to give anything to God's world, to the great struggle 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
for? My answer is that such communication can give you one of the parts necessary for your 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
must ultimately play into God's hands. I will give you this example: Lucifer has his henchmen; in 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
is spiritual death? ANSWER: Spiritual death is to give yourself over to the forces of darkness, consciously 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
walk the road of least resistance and to give in to their weaknesses. Thus they belong to 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
duration in comparison to the gain. This should give you food for thought. I suggest to each 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
nothing that is of spiritual value, or they give over to sick, unpurified emotional currents. These use 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
owe God some attention. And you can also give thanks to Christ for all that he has 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
about my words, which I was permitted to give to you today. They should take you a 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
yearning for love and are even willing to give love, yet only on condition that they are 4 WORLD WEARINESS
The fear within the person says: If I give first, without being sure, my pride might get 4 WORLD WEARINESS
to your own self so seriously, you can give your love freely. Then your love is pristine 4 WORLD WEARINESS
a person may be petty and unwilling to give. It is just that, in ignorance, genuine feelings 4 WORLD WEARINESS
compromise your dignity. You may well have to give up insisting that you must preserve your dignity 4 WORLD WEARINESS
dignity at all cost, but exactly because you give up the insistence on your dignity can you 4 WORLD WEARINESS
can you win what you were ready to give up. This is the immutable spiritual law. You 4 WORLD WEARINESS
clearly in your soul that you have to give up your pride, the importance of your ego 4 WORLD WEARINESS
your ego, but you do not have to give up being true to yourself. This may be 4 WORLD WEARINESS
must be in fear; those who do not give themselves that much importance do not have to 4 WORLD WEARINESS
human beings strive, in their soul's core, to give, to fulfill and even to sacrifice. Yet where 4 WORLD WEARINESS
out. One part of the soul wants to give love -- and therefore also to receive love 4 WORLD WEARINESS
and therefore also to receive love. Whatever you give comes back to you as a wave in 4 WORLD WEARINESS
of the personality wants comfort, convenience, and will give up nothing. From time to time it sees 4 WORLD WEARINESS
they desire directly opposite goals. The cross-currents then give rise to many other conflicts that extend much 4 WORLD WEARINESS
in full knowledge of what you have to give up and what you stand to gain as 4 WORLD WEARINESS
and accept. He or she can thus freely give up the impossible, whereas emotionally sick and immature 4 WORLD WEARINESS
solitary life because you do not want to give love, out of anxiety and over-sensitivity, then you 4 WORLD WEARINESS
I prefer to pay this price rather than give up my negativity. It will be precisely through 4 WORLD WEARINESS
choice and that it would be worthwhile to give up what at first seemed so difficult to 4 WORLD WEARINESS
my dear friends. It is my task to give you hints, to awaken you. May each of 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
individual in this respect? Is anyone willing to give something up for the sake of another? Ask 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
my ego-gratification. Please show me how I can give out to others all that I have received 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
of your endeavors. That is, the I will give up its self-importance for the sake of the 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
on the contrary, the goal will be to give happiness to the other, to others, and your 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
is not; the equation balances out. I will give you an example. Let us suppose that a 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
giving our happiness to others, that is, to give something to another. If, for instance, I can 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
happy with a small gift, but I can give this gift to only one person, to whom 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
to only one person, to whom should I give it? Should I give it to a stranger 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
to whom should I give it? Should I give it to a stranger or to someone I 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
or to a relative? If I can only give it to one person, who should have the 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
mind is a material object which you can give to only one person. In this case, you 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
you follow your love feelings, you would certainly give it to the person you love most. Such 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
by some guilt complex, you might choose to give it to a person to whom you find 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
to whom you find it most difficult to give. Both of these solutions might be wrong in 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
For instance, one person may be required to give a little time. Many people have more time 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
time than they need, so that they can give of it -- not in the way they 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
healthy people they may be able to really give and truly become links in the chain. Such 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
see oneself in truth, to open oneself, to give up faults. If you do not do it 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
be a means to make others happier, to give and love more. If you have such an 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
have such an intention, the spirit world will give you every possible help to overcome the difficulties 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
unconscious level. To make other people joyful, to give them love, warmth, consolation, and deep understanding when 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
much easier, much more convenient. You have to give yourself. For, if you can give yourself in 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
have to give yourself. For, if you can give yourself in the right way, you can give 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
give yourself in the right way, you can give to everyone with whom you come into contact 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
you come into contact. However, before you can give yourself, you must have gained yourself. You cannot 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
yourself, you must have gained yourself. You cannot give what you do not have. Few people truly 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
you cannot possess yourself and therefore cannot really give yourself. A consequence of this state is that 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
the path of light, no longer have to give some specific thing. Such people can give themselves 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
to give some specific thing. Such people can give themselves totally, not only to a loved one 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
life where God has placed them. They can give themselves with their whole soul and with their 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
about the dark ones -- who would gladly give you instructions about what to do or not 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
what to do or not do; this would give them power and flatter their vanity. But an 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
always contain material referring to it. I could give you a course, if you want it. But 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
with the ego one would also have to give up the individual personality. QUESTION: A friend of 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
human beings where Lucifer would fail. Thus they give over to Lucifer indirectly, through matter. These are 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
get into a state in which they unwittingly give over to Lucifer, since their vision is blurred 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
within myself between instinct and intellect? Do I give enough room within me to the activity of 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
will also be strengthened. Now I want to give you some general instructions. There are people who 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
know which relationships to keep and which to give up. The stronger you are, the better grounded 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
them, and so they do not wish to give them up. They persuade themselves that they can 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
kindred spirits and avoid those who do not give them pleasure. They are inclined to apply what 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
idea suits you and you don't want to give up control. The issue is -- and you 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
uncomfortable at first, they will upset him and give him a bad conscience. These feelings in turn 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
It is precisely this split and repression which give rise to the unhealthy soul currents. You may 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
source with each individual, and therefore I cannot give general rules as to what is at its 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
unavoidable relapses and occasional failures, it will then give increased spiritual protection. This, too, is spiritual law 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
But the outer words are also necessary; they give you the impetus to do what is needed 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
to the point of feeling the need to give God something back in gratitude. At first, it 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
you must pay, on what you have to give. The happiness that will come from such victory 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
connection becomes possible. The spirit will help and give directions. Of course, at the very beginning of 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
for the person who has material goods to give them away so as not to be burdened 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
fanatical to say that a person has to give everything away and live in poverty so as 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
discipline, regular work, and the best will to give each day some time to get closer to 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
is within you. You always think, if you give it a thought at all, that God's kingdom 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
wrongdoing or error of another human being can give you disharmonious feelings if there is not something 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
are false, God's kingdom cannot come to you. GIVE US TODAY OUR DAILY BREAD. This, too, is 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
is Lead us not into temptation. These words give rise to misconceptions and can do harm. For 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
Certainly not. But you can be tempted to give in to your faults, whatever they may be 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
measure how much happiness you are able to give. If you are filled with the desire to 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
important things -- to expect the medium to give her time and service for free, unless the 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
long time without being paid. God's world will give help and guidance, so that meanwhile the person 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
Maybe you can understand the concept if I give you an example, however insufficient: Think of opera 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
would need a far-reaching explanation which we cannot give at this point. In time, however, you will 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
for the next incarnation would say, We cannot give you effortless unfolding of the spirit. On the 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
is to know about this subject, I will give a very brief outline. Whenever you wish to 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
will be a humble servant and will always give God the honor. It will not claim to 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
for contact with God's spirits you should not give up, but persevere in humility. Seek what is 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
spiritual development and spiritual values. Yet whatever you give you are returned a hundredfold when spiritual values 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
ideas. Or you may see something that will give you the answer in picture form. Often such 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
higher self -- whatever name you care to give it -- or is it another entity? It 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
own spirit body leave for a time and give room to another spirit. Even this is difficult 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
If you ask yourself that question, you can give yourself the answer. If you have the why 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
from without, the more right answers one can give oneself, from within. QUESTION: You speak of meditation 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
But if Goethe should speak here it might give the medium the opportunity to say, Goethe speaks 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
her insecurity, not yours. And ask God to give you the light of truth and knowledge to 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
of the I and by asking God to give you the full vision of the truth. If 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
be much shorter and less painful and will give peace and satisfaction. This is the truth behind 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
these inevitable times of doubt I wish to give you, my friends, some simple advice, in order 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND

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