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it will be important to look at your faults from this new point of view, namely, that 31 SHAME
point of view, namely, that you have some faults which you are in love with. This explains 31 SHAME
are actually quite proud of some of your faults. Of course, as long as this is true 31 SHAME
you are emotionally attached to some of your faults, pray that God may help you to recognize 31 SHAME
kind of shame about it. Check all your faults and your emotional reactions to them in all 31 SHAME
list, you will see that there are some faults you really do not like and others you 31 SHAME
analyze the fault, how it leads to other faults, and what is connected with it -- and 31 SHAME
as an exercise yourself; apply it to your faults, for your spiritual work is useless if it 31 SHAME
you are unable to do so, bring the faults here. Now are there any questions in connection 31 SHAME
what if that same person masks the true faults and invents artificial guilts to divulge? ANSWER: That 31 SHAME
ambition. As I promised you, I will analyze faults and lead you back to their original good 32 DECISION-MAKING
fault has been added on to you; all faults are but distortions or extreme manifestations of a 32 DECISION-MAKING
work here involves the overcoming of your greatest faults without exception. To understand lack of ambition from 32 DECISION-MAKING
opposite! They ignore so many of their own faults, their sick trends, even those quite noticeable to 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
go into it again. To accept one's own faults properly means neither self-abusing despair and discouragement because 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
you set the example first. When other people's faults bring you disharmony of any sort, it indicates 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
you remain in the face of other people's faults, the more you have accepted yourself as you 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
people as they are and become tolerant of faults you yourself may not have. Often you must 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
You especially condemn in another person the very faults you yourself possess. You are not aware of 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
often does not want to see another person's faults when there is strong love or sympathy present 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
or sympathy present. Not wanting to see the faults in this case indicates the deep fear that 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
case indicates the deep fear that noticing the faults would mean to stop loving the other. This 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
is extremely tolerant because he never sees the faults in those he loves. This is another of 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
and real acceptance means to clearly see another's faults and not be afraid to love and respect 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
Purification does not lie in simply overcoming your faults. That is not so easy and it takes 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
the entity in question. The negative trends and faults that were overcome and the tasks that were 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
so-called soul must be. As you know, the faults that have been planned for the person to 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
parents and other conditions in the incarnation. If faults remain dormant in the depth of your soul 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
you cannot overcome them. Not all problems or faults are prepared for raising to the surface. Some 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
effort to overcome such vanity and pride. All faults bar the way to divine grace; every effort 35 TURNING TO GOD
have to make your way through your various faults, which appear in your soul as unruly shrubbery 36 PRAYER
an inevitable experience on the path. All your faults, errors, ignorances, and their complexities create one big 36 PRAYER
in your soul. This circle consists of individual faults which affect and interact with one another and 36 PRAYER
circle, you have to understand thoroughly the individual faults that constitute your vicious circle. You have to 36 PRAYER
qualities. Then you will cease to experience your faults as unconnected. Until you reach this perspective, you 36 PRAYER
Some of you may think you know your faults already. This will be so only to the 36 PRAYER
the path. You may know some of your faults, but others you have not yet discovered. As 36 PRAYER
you know? How much can you connect your faults with your good qualities? And your faults with 36 PRAYER
your faults with your good qualities? And your faults with each other? Can you really grasp and 36 PRAYER
complexes from the point of view of your faults in relation to their deviation from the divine 36 PRAYER
vicious circle. By now you know that all faults come from pride, self-will, and fear. It is 36 PRAYER
feel how each and every one of your faults derives from one or all of these three 36 PRAYER
from one or all of these three basic faults. Find the common denominator. This is not easy 36 PRAYER
For that you have to go through the faults and their connections step by step, again and 36 PRAYER
to begin. Although you know some of your faults and all of your outer problems, you cannot 36 PRAYER
you will automatically tend to view yourself, your faults, your problems, and your experiences in a different 36 PRAYER
bit discouraging. You have begun to recognize your faults; you are full of good intentions to overcome 38 IMAGES
the first place, your inability to overcome certain faults, no matter how much you want to, indicates 38 IMAGES
sometimes mentioned that people love some of their faults. How and why would they love them? For 38 IMAGES
simple reason that according to the image, certain faults seem necessary as a defense, a protective measure 38 IMAGES
These symptoms include your inability to overcome certain faults and attitudes; your lack of control over certain 38 IMAGES
indeed, be cheap if a mere list of faults and attempts to overcome them were all that 38 IMAGES
being exist about every conceivable attitude, about your faults and weaknesses, as well as about your qualities 39 IMAGE-FINDING
in your life. It also consists of the faults you may consciously know quite well. You may 39 IMAGE-FINDING
ignorance and error. Actually, that is what all faults really are! Think about your idiosyncrasies, your prejudices 39 IMAGE-FINDING
are nothing less than a fault, or several faults that exist on a deeper level, quite apart 39 IMAGE-FINDING
One possibility is that you find the same faults that you have already recognized on a superficial 39 IMAGE-FINDING
You may even have overcome some of these faults to some degree. You will be all the 39 IMAGE-FINDING
understanding. When you come across known reactions or faults in your inner images, beware of the attitude 39 IMAGE-FINDING
deeper layer of your images you may find faults that you do not have outwardly. Outwardly you 39 IMAGE-FINDING
of being fallible, of making mistakes, of having faults? The answer must invariably be, Because I wish 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
The wrong conclusions always contain several of your faults, some of which you may be aware of 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
Your images may contain a whole nucleus of faults. But although you should not look for your 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
But although you should not look for your faults when you search for the images -- for 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
become conscious, you should see which of your faults also play a role in it. One of 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
a particular fear is connected with your personal faults, if you also understand where your ignorance lies 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
individual. Everyone is made up of different currents, faults, and qualities that interplay differently in different relationships 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
anymore. You may find in yourself the same faults and trends that in a former life caused 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
different and modified form. Your objection to the faults you observe in others may even be correct 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
So, my dear friends, whenever you resent their faults, please ask yourself: Don't I, perhaps in a 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
to ask yourself whether you do not have faults that the person you judge and resent does 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you to assess your anger at other people's faults more objectively. And, if by chance the outcome 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
the evaluation turns out to be that your faults are indeed so much less than the other's 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
that ability, all your superior qualities, your lesser faults mean nothing! But if you make serious endeavors 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you. Whenever you are upset about another person's faults, there must be something in you that is 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
good when you close your eyes to the faults of those you love because they love you 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
not try to close your eyes to the faults of the loved one, but will do the 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you as the loved one must not have faults which you do not consider acceptable. Oh, you 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
consider acceptable. Oh, you may admit to some faults in the other, as you admit to some 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
in the other, as you admit to some faults in yourself, knowing that no human being exists 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
When you persist in being blind to the faults of your loved ones, a crisis, a shakeup 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
list of their good qualities and of their faults, just as you are currently doing for yourself 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
appreciate your opinion about this person's qualities and faults, whether or not you see them as I 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
same person. Observe your reactions on hearing of faults you either could not, or would not, conceive 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
he or she does not possess. Considering the faults of their beloveds might be very healthy for 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
When it discovers that an adored parent has faults and is not omnipotent, it either turns away 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
to say offhand that you do see the faults of your loved ones. Yes, you may see 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
ones. Yes, you may see some of their faults, but perhaps only those you can tolerate; the 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
means to love others in spite of their faults, knowing them, seeing them, not closing one's eyes 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
has matured. You may now admit to certain faults which do not violate your personal standards and 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
complex, which is the wrong reaction to one's faults. ANSWER: You are quite right. The connection is 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
motivated by negative tendencies. The same applies to faults. But the natural and positive extension of will 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
to their true feelings, their predominant qualities and faults are different. For instance, there may be a 47 THE WALL WITHIN
and other serious problems, are the result of faults of long standing. When we spirits are asked 47 THE WALL WITHIN
unpleasant to face. You store not only your faults and weaknesses, but also all things that confuse 47 THE WALL WITHIN
reinforce the wall. So you can hide your faults, emotional conflicts, fears, and negative trends behind a 47 THE WALL WITHIN
say an image, a wrong conclusion, or certain faults you have found. You may hide behind that 47 THE WALL WITHIN
now, but not more. The admission of certain faults and inner negativities will pacify those who help 47 THE WALL WITHIN
due to injustice, to malice, and to the faults of others. But there is a limit as 47 THE WALL WITHIN
as a person with certain predominant qualities and faults. You may find in your unconscious a few 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
I am so perfect, if I have no faults and no weakness, if I am the best 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
we expect to be loved with all our faults? ANSWER: The expectancy of love may be a 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
Can we expect to be loved with our faults? Perhaps the best attitude would be that you 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
that you expect to be loved with your faults as much as you love others with their 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
as much as you love others with their faults. That is the way it will be, my 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
that you are intolerant of the other person's faults, in that measure will you yourself be judged 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
the effort you usually make when finding other's faults to recognizing your own, you will see the 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
and the proper attitude toward shortcomings. If your faults depress you so deeply that you are afraid 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
be caught in. Understand that none of your faults are committed out of malice; or because you 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
because you wish evil on other people. All faults, every kind of selfishness, is nothing but a 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
A person may be in love with certain faults, as I have stated. She is pleased about 53 SELF-LOVE
does not agree with you or has certain faults, you may feel all tense and full of 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
at other times of your life. The apparent faults and misdeeds of others will affect your own 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
must uncover many errors, many wrong conclusions, many faults and faulty attitudes. But you will encounter them 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
you may readily admit to a variety of faults without the slightest guilt or fear. In this 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
It is quite possible that you have some faults which are infinitely graver than others, and yet 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
them with others. Here you are free. Other faults, perhaps less severe and at times not even 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
less severe and at times not even really faults, but mere attitudes, such as a certain shame 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
human beings feel about their lower selves, their faults and weaknesses, their misconceptions and deviations. Tonight I 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
is more right than B, A's most hidden faults and weaknesses will have a particular effect on 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
B will focus his entire attention on these faults, while overlooking the good qualities and points where 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
occurs when the personality learns to face errors, faults, and selfishness -- which are for the most 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
and approval applies, therefore, not only to your faults, your selfishness, and your destructiveness, which causes you 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
it is not always pleasant to face your faults, your childish selfishness, and your various misconceptions. The 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
and resistances, as well as for your various faults. Yet to step into this abyss will soon 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
their shortcomings. You may be aware of their faults but, emotionally, you minimize them. On the other 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
in themselves as they are ashamed of their faults -- and often even more so. Just as 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
of this path you learned to recognize your faults, your weaknesses and your shortcomings on the most 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
covered since those early stages of finding your faults. You may remember my telling you at one 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
point, when we discussed human shortcomings, that all faults stem from three basic ones: self-will, pride, and 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
images and complexes with a focus on your faults that are embedded in them. You may rediscover 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
in them. You may rediscover the very same faults you had found at the very beginning of 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
do not always agree with you, or have faults you cannot tolerate. Nor is it reality that 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
certain people and that's why we seek their faults? What do we do about that? ANSWER: This 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
in your life were caused by other people's faults, or an unkind fate. As you proceeded, you 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
loving, understanding, never angry, and to have no faults, but try to attain perfection? Isn't this what 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
on that. Since everyone possesses both virtues and faults, either can be singled out depending on how 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
self-preservation brings in its wake further distortions. Certain faults come into being, according to one's character structure 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
same time, the mere fact that you have faults, that you are confused as to the right 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
I have noticed that when I confess my faults to another it seems to give them relief 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
only ones who have all these weaknesses and faults. They feel themselves ostracized, different, separate -- and 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the strength to face and pronounce similar weaknesses, faults, or limitations. That gives courage and makes it 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
or anywhere near perfect. They may have their faults. They may be wrong at times. They have 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
back to pride, self-will, and fear, the fundamental faults that prohibit love and disturb the soul. In 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
not only that part of human nature where faults and character-defects lie. It also includes something more 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
What you may be ashamed of may be faults, but not always and not necessarily. You may 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
of very legitimate needs as you are of faults, or of assets, for that matter. First you 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
basic hindrances are pride, self-will, and fear. All faults, problems, confusions, distortions, conflicts, and misconceptions derive from 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
so. You have found proof that your actual faults never induce this kind of despair. Despair is 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
involvement and contact with others, or from facing faults and destructive attitudes in yourself, but primarily you 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
into dwelling more and more on that person's faults and blindnesses, and you inadvertently begin to enjoy 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
of life. There is direct interaction between your faults and a negative concept of life. This interaction 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
last lecture I discussed the necessity of transforming faults of character. The first step toward this transformation 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
toward this transformation is always awareness of the faults. This is not easy, but not difficult either 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
attitude. Once you are aware of your specific faults, the next step is to understand the reason 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
are now is not shameful because of your faults; it is much more shameful, as it seems 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER
I said that these are the three basic faults and evils of humanity. Fear is a fault 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
the circumstances or bad luck or other people's faults. Accepting the law of personal responsibility wipes out 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
subtle forms. You may constantly concentrate on the faults of others, because at first glance such concentration 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
too, have a lower self, that you have faults and character defects. You may have even faced 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
Negativity comprises a wide range of feelings including faults, hostility, reality- distortions, envy, hate, fear, pride, and 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
within you. You might be aware of some faults and destructive attitudes, of some neurotic behavior and 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
it concerns awareness of inner problems, confusions, one's faults and negativities, or the awakening of the ever-present 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
stake you have in seeking justification for your faults, for your spite, and your malice. You would 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
dealt with your ability to face negative attitudes, faults, distortions, destructiveness, impurities. Last year was the true 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
of you have fundamental divine qualities and also faults that obstruct them. The faults may vary in 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
qualities and also faults that obstruct them. The faults may vary in intensity and emphasis. You may 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
opposite extreme of whitewashing your actual failings and faults, those areas which you need to face squarely 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
or shame. It simply recognizes your shortcomings, limitations, faults, impurities, and negativities. It admits that there are 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
outer as well as inner -- such as faults, shortcomings, impurities, conflicts, difficulties whose inner dynamics you 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS
entirely different way than when your own unresolved faults and flaws are triggered off by outside circumstances 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA

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