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from the point of view of your selfish ego, as you will see once you go beyond 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
of many varieties, such as fear that one's ego is too much in evidence. One can see 4 WORLD WEARINESS
self-importance. This entire inner process centers around the ego, and that must block the stream of genuine 4 WORLD WEARINESS
currents if only the sick tendencies of the ego would not stand in the way. When you 4 WORLD WEARINESS
examination, without self-deceit. Find the extent of your ego, your oversensitivity, your vanity, your pride, and how 4 WORLD WEARINESS
give up your pride, the importance of your ego, but you do not have to give up 4 WORLD WEARINESS
self, exactly because through giving up the little ego you will no longer attach so much importance 4 WORLD WEARINESS
wants to fulfill itself, wants to surrender the ego, to sacrifice, and will endeavor with all its 4 WORLD WEARINESS
when you have liberated yourselves from your compulsive ego will, from all distortions, you will be ready 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
possible when, in a deeply felt way, the ego is no longer the center of your awareness 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
link in the chain, you still put your ego in the first place even if you are 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
is, the more will the limitations of the ego fall away. It is the ego which erects 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
of the ego fall away. It is the ego which erects the wall of blindness and separation 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
the same for you and the other. The ego, putting itself in its own separate place, elevates 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
better for itself than for the other. The ego will disappear with each step that the being 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
and in the other -- exactly because the ego has been overcome. By the way, not everybody 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
confusing the basic concepts, of believing that the ego is identical with the sense of individuality the 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
reached, and exactly because the separation of the ego has been overcome. Since this separateness is nothing 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
of individuality in the personality. One day the ego must be overcome and the merging accomplished. Then 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
Indian concept refers to the dissolution of the ego, while the Jewish and Christian concept deals only 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
they had certain spiritual experiences. Since transcending the ego, at least to a degree, is a basic 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
individuality, in its pure form, that is without ego, is purely of the spirit. When seeing a 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
in no way decrease, and that only the ego dissolves. And this is an essential difference! It 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
think that your whole personality hinges on the ego. I would explain it in this way: The 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
I would explain it in this way: The ego is a part of the lower self and 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
which makes you heavy and earthbound with its ego and which limits your individual capacity to experience 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
itself. When one clings so tightly to the ego, it is not only because it is so 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
because one has the misconception that with the ego one would also have to give up the 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
may also come from clinging tightly to the ego with its self-pity, vanity, cowardice and pride -- 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
pride -- in short, everything that nurtures the ego, which wants to feel special. This also is 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
it in the light of truth. The elevated ego makes you lonely, it puts you indeed into 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
in no way connected to God's spirit world. Ego, power, vanity, pride, craving for admiration can be 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
The recognition that you dislike putting aside your ego or your vanity, or whatever else it may 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
pain can you become detached enough from your ego until pain will no longer be necessary for 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
if you hold on so tightly to your ego and to your little sensitivity or vanity, you 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
seriously, whose comfort and everything pertaining to the ego is not so terribly important, whose own little 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
desirelessness should set in as far as the ego is concerned. Again, this kind of detachment cannot 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
love, but differently, without the pangs of the ego, without the shadowy side that all good has 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
as you are in the grip of your ego with its fears and anxieties, you cannot live 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
great deal of personal vanity. It is the ego with all its manifestations. All these characteristics are 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
of your soul. To the degree that the ego and the comfort of all that goes with 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
is that material comfort, the desires of the ego, become secondary to considerations pertaining to God and 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
reactions that also put the gratification of the ego in the foreground. This is breaking spiritual law 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
vanity. You have given up some of your ego. And this is why you must receive in 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
in its blindness. If you give up your ego in this way, you bestow the greatest possible 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
be inclined to contradict your self-accusations; thus the ego is bolstered. Furthermore, you think that accusing yourself 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
When you encounter the strong pressing of your ego, you should learn detachment from it. By viewing 18 FREE WILL
viewing again and again the drive of your ego you can gradually learn to let go of 18 FREE WILL
the clean will that does not put your ego in the center of the world can take 18 FREE WILL
or business. They are filled with their own ego and don't develop spiritually. Can you comment on 18 FREE WILL
in times of adversity, crucifixion of the personal ego with its vanity and self-will: all this was 19 JESUS CHRIST
the spiritual essence of each individual after the ego has been crucified. This cannot happen otherwise than 19 JESUS CHRIST
your lower self and the crucifixion of the ego are the all-important things. Where you are able 19 JESUS CHRIST
to hear that, my friends. For self-will and ego and vanity exist in every human being and 21 THE FALL
something like this comes up. Oh, here my ego intrudes again. I have to give up craving 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
self-pity, no self-delusion, utter severance with the little ego, time, effort, patience, perseverance, and courage. What you 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
and the reaction of your lower self, your ego, your hurt, your vanity that become involved when 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
between the real you and your hurt little ego, and you can humor it a little bit 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
at first. Test yourself first where your own ego is involved, your pride perhaps or your self-will 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
you should learn to accept humbly that your ego prevents your seeing the truth. The fighting spirit 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
curbed and only allowed to function if the ego can be neutralized. After a while, with proper 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
attained. If you can clearly feel how your ego is gradually disappearing, and you are not in 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
influence your course of action. When your small ego stands in the center, your judgment is always 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
colored. Until you can clearly distinguish if your ego is still involved and to what extent, you 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
your own personal ego-stake. Not to have this ego in the foreground any more is to have 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
pay the necessary price and therefore merely wants ego gratification. This part wants to fulfill a task 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
sentence: real love must be entirely free of ego, pride, vanity, and self-will. That is the answer 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
help with it. It should not serve your ego in any way, so it should not be 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW
will. Self-will is the will of the little ego. Free will comprises everything: you can use free 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
any misunderstandings: self-will belongs to the little blind ego and is thus the will of the lower 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
motives without any self-pampering or sensitivity for your ego, with utter and shattering self-honesty. That is the 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
you are vain, you want to place your ego in the first row. You want admiration -- 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
will of the little self or the little ego. Self-will strives to get what it wants, regardless 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
ultimately also to the self. Only the little ego is too blind to understand this. Self-will is 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
I have a desire, coming from my little ego and from my self-will, that does not correspond 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
What does pride mean? It means that your ego is more important than the other person's, that 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
yourself so important, for your little pride and ego do not matter half as much as your 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
as you cannot give up what your little ego may desire - - even if it is 32 DECISION-MAKING
to receive love. In this layer exists the ego with all its vanity, pride, fear, and ambition 35 TURNING TO GOD
all its vanity, pride, fear, and ambition. This ego layer believes that the best thing is to 35 TURNING TO GOD
if you are not able to overcome your ego, pride, fear, and the cowardice that allows you 35 TURNING TO GOD
-- that the whole world revolves around their ego, that they are the most important beings, will 36 PRAYER
entire outlook on life. People who feel their ego to be the center of the world tend 36 PRAYER
happiness. Pray that you do not love your ego so much that you shirk the healing agent 36 PRAYER
to do with love. The yearning of the ego to break through the barrier of loneliness poses 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
life apart from complete humility. The individual whose ego currents are so strong that self-will has the 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
able to see where your self-will, pride, and ego claim gratification that your higher self deems wrong 39 IMAGE-FINDING
your illusions which you build up for your ego, for your vanity, for your pride because of 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
humility and love leaving out your pride and ego and proving that what you mean is serious 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
dare to love and forget my own little ego. I admit that I have hurt other people 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
for you to leave out your own little ego and see the other person's point of view 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
God's will is relaxed, patient, unconcerned with one's ego. God's will is flexible, while self-will may want 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
with your vanity, in self-righteousness? Must your little ego triumph? Or will you take whatever comes and 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
is no risk involved, except, perhaps, your little ego and your little vanity. But only by losing 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
much you are involved in your pride and ego and therefore not half as objective as you 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
grow out of the confining walls of your ego, so that expansion can be harmonious and healthy 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
movement -- search for the other, putting the ego behind; inward movement -- searching for the self 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
directly opposed to love. But before the little ego can be removed, it has to be recognized 62 MAN AND WOMAN
evolve which no longer needs what the little ego seemed to need. Then love can truly unfold 62 MAN AND WOMAN
gives out, communicates, and rises above the little ego, which considers itself the center of all things 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
end in yourself. The blind and ignorant human ego is struggling against the unknown new state of 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
truly getting along with others, than putting one's ego out of the picture. Nature symbolizes certain aspects 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the more you will tend to overinflate your ego. The less impaired your real ego is, the 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
overinflate your ego. The less impaired your real ego is, the less you will need to inflate 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
coming from their distortions, connected with the little ego? The healthy part responds to real life, while 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
words, masochism is a giving up. If the ego is too weak to prove the world wrong 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
is born and grows into a child, its ego is still so weak that it cannot sustain 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF
an essential ingredient in life. But the weak ego of the child is in reality dependent. The 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF
a good example from which to mold their ego, which later affords the possibility to stand free 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF
of identification with others because of a weak ego is conformity to public opinion, parroting the views 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF
psychic forces have tended toward deliberate helplessness, the ego has remained weak and therefore now it cannot 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
healthy control, not the erroneous kinds that the ego personality seeks when true awareness is lacking and 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
other needs -- for example, to enhance the ego, to diminish feelings of inadequacy, to feel wanted 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
otherwise have been unbearable for the child's undeveloped ego. If painful experience is eroticized or sexualized, it 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
denial. A generally ignored need is that of ego gratification. The most enlightened people are under the 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
the self. Lack of ability to give the ego its necessary gratification is a result of ignoring 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
of approval, some degree of gratification of my ego, chances are, provided you do not feel guilty 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
may force you to do something your little ego is not inclined to do, or to give 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
is unwilling to surrender. Self-will wants the little ego to be in control, so you can cling 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
over to a force greater than your little ego. Love between the sexes is a humbling experience 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
can lead to a turning point, provided the ego does not lapse in its vigilance, allowing the 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS
is put into unproductive channels because the little ego fears and wants to avoid -- often unconsciously 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
wrong kind of control, that of the little ego, must be entirely relinquished. It must be let 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
fully. Usually a reverse situation exists. The little ego is lazy, unwilling to assume the necessary responsibility 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
Where activity should reign, passivity prevails. Where the ego must let go and allow cosmic intelligence to 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
Be in God! 132. THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF Greetings, my 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
outer self, or the real self from the ego. What is their relationship to each other? There 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF

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