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these chains, you will feel frustrated, unhappy, and discontented with your life. Begin to act now so 18 FREE WILL
does to the extent he or she feels discontented with life. To the extent life begins to 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
joy; when they do not, they will be discontented and anxious. Living with one other person in 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS
 
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the monad. In other words, it can be discontinued. Is that so? ANSWER: Certainly. Anything that is 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
so? ANSWER: Certainly. Anything that is superficial is discontinued. Only what reaches the deeper layers of your 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
will never rebel when an old tradition is discontinued, or when it is replaced by new customs 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS
 
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resistance and vanity, practices self-deception and thrives on discord. But, in the long run, even a weak 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
with whom you just happen to be in discord. It does not have to be always a 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
that leads toward union and fulfillment. It is discord, and spreads disharmony and isolation. Those who are 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
it can be found in this maze of discord. You wonder if you are your best qualities 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS
 
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repentance which would never drag you down or discourage you. When you ask God for forgiveness with 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
outer problems in your life, that should not discourage you. For the outer form of the inner 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
with me privately will have noticed that I discourage such questions. If I were to tell you 35 TURNING TO GOD
You will come to see how often you discourage the best in you, not only due to 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
and still make sense. These words need not discourage you, my friends. It is understandable that you 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
time, you all know that. This should never discourage you. You have to gather the little pieces 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you encounter when doing these exercises should not discourage or deter you. If you persevere, you will 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
they are unreliable in this state. Since you discourage their growth, you live by your mental faculties 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
sin and evil as much in order to discourage contempt and arrogance. Until only very recently insane 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
a priori as something wrong, it will inevitably discourage the healthy striving of the soul, so that 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
center, 2) observe the mechanics by which you discourage its manifestations and toughen the vulnerable spot; 3 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
to find the subtle, hidden area where they discourage the full natural flow of feelings, where they 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
to effect a real opening. This should not discourage you. When you are inwardly ready, you will 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION
human terms. You know, my friends, that I discourage the taking of drugs for many reasons. But 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE
beloved friends, this lecture should by no means discourage you, no matter how far away you may 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
 
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If you realize this, you will not be discouraged when you are busy on this first half 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
and by so doing you will inevitably become discouraged eventually because your endeavors will always wind up 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
are the days when you feel low and discouraged and doubtful. Then it becomes imperative for you 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
be formed. So if you are low and discouraged, do not give in to your mood so 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
into your problems, and you will not be discouraged anymore by an apparent standstill. At the very 36 PRAYER
into a major phase. You must not get discouraged when at first the disorganization is so great 36 PRAYER
done. If you do not let yourself become discouraged by the inevitable initial hurdles, eventually, little by 36 PRAYER
Do not despair when you are sad and discouraged, there is no reason. For life is eternal 47 THE WALL WITHIN
difficulty understanding the other world. You often feel discouraged because to bridge the gap between the sexes 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the same time he has deliberately suppressed and discouraged the unfoldment of his emotional and intuitive nature 62 MAN AND WOMAN
also because it is, or seems to be, discouraged by your environment. The last lecture about the 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
heavier and your soul becomes more and more discouraged. For those of my friends who have not 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
them through each time anew. Do not become discouraged if you still find part of your old 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
hindered if you have neglected emotional growth and discouraged yourself from experiencing the world of feeling. Why 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
you would feel angry at yourself and be discouraged. Or else, you may be in such a 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
path to freedom. Do not let yourself be discouraged when you temporarily find yourself in a seeming 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
this life, you have a tendency to be discouraged or even to feel, What is the use 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
If, at such a time, you are not discouraged and do not give way to the feeling 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
a time of fruition. Some of you feel discouraged. Your question is: Where does this path get 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
Therefore, I say to those friends who feel discouraged and stagnating to ask themselves very truthfully: Is 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
the process of growth may often feel temporarily discouraged, believing they are going around in circles. Inwardly 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
on searching, even though at times you feel discouraged. You will not regret it, provided you do 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
effort, even if at the moment you feel discouraged or hopeless, must be crowned with success if 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
in spite of them. You are not yet discouraged by repeated disappointments. The hopelessness, depression, and sense 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
relapse and your personal inadequacy. Thus you become discouraged, fall into despair and stem against the flow 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING
warring opposites. Hence you will no longer be discouraged, nor will you particularly suffer when you do 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING
those who were responsible for your upbringing: they discouraged the best in you without knowing what they 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
forced either. It can only be encouraged or discouraged, just as feelings can. Feelings and the creative 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF
misunderstand the process. Such people become disappointed and discouraged; they start to use less effort and thus 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
see how the very aspects that may have discouraged you at first were the necessary initial steps 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
manifestations of your unconscious processes. Do not be discouraged and feel lost because you do not yet 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE
you. To those of you here who are discouraged and feel hopeless about yourselves, I can say 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
deal of acting out. This must be vigorously discouraged. There is no necessity for it. Not doing 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
environment or themselves. Children's self-destructive acts must be discouraged by their elders. This is hardly possible or 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
It takes even more courage to not be discouraged. You feel courage in all of your body 236 THE SUPERSTITION OF PESSIMISM
hand you push forward in impatience. You become discouraged and wonder why you do not grow faster 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE
to make so little sense that you become discouraged when you see this reaction in you again 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
your daily meditations. When you are unhappy, fearful, discouraged, in darkness, know at least that you are 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
When difficulties come, it is human to be discouraged. When you are puzzled or in pain, when 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE
 
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own faults properly means neither self-abusing despair and discouragement because you discover yourself to be more imperfect 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
that seem to be a reason for your discouragement. But deep down, this is the real reason 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you have a visible explanation for your deep discouragement. This is easier to bear than the absence 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you were convinced had been resolved, disappointment and discouragement may be a greater stumbling block than the 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the fight against change, this is due to discouragement with yourself, with your apparent relapses, for you 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
will your confusion, and then your depression and discouragement, disappear. Let us review in brief how an 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
perfectionistic is such a strain, leads to such discouragement and rigidity and pretense, that growth becomes impossible 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
and courageously going through the temporary periods of discouragement and resistance, you will come to the point 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
many forms. I repeat, wherever there is stagnation, discouragement, and depression about the validity of your work 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
which then come as a double disappointment and discouragement. The only way change can come about is 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS
you gradually come to the point of utter discouragement. Each time the pseudo-solutions fail to work you 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
to know it without self-pressure, without self-moralizing, without discouragement. All these forcing attitudes are destructive and erroneous 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
further negative emotions, such as doubt, fear and discouragement. I am talking about this topic because I 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS
 
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real self from coming out. Thus it systematically discourages your inner nature from functioning, from guiding you 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
you are familiar. The discrepancy both frightens and discourages you. Your fear is, in fact, one of 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
suffers to the degree that she defeats and discourages the functioning of her femininity. So she, too 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
education as it is currently practiced smothers and discourages the child's innate curiosity. Children have millions of 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION

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