| Unrealizable................15 | |
| you can start to outgrow the unrealistic and unrealizable concept of happiness and build the proper, mature | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| continues whipping and whipping you, holding up the unrealizable goal, so that each failure causes additional despair | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| what you want and that your aim is unrealizable because certain factors in it cancel each other | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| solution. Both solutions are equally rigid, unrealistic and unrealizable. Each is a constant source of pain and | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| as serene. Hence such dictates are unrealistic and unrealizable. They, too, include pride and hypocrisy: pride, because | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| can no longer cling to the comfortable, but unrealizable hope that you can have what you want | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| your self-respect and self-liking on standards that were unrealizable, impossible, and unfeasible, you were insecure. You can | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| to become. But this ideal is unrealistic and unrealizable because it is outside of yourself. The ideal | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| in an immature being may be damaging and unrealizable, their essence always remains intact and realizable, provided | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| between the childish aspect that desires unreasonable and unrealizable love and attention, and the legitimate adult need | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| may conclude you are being rejected, since the unrealizable demands are not fulfilled. You may not be | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| fear cannot let go of itself. Pleasure is unrealizable when the personality is bound to the ego | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| your best energies into neurotic solutions based on unrealizable hopes or on sheer illusion. But there exists | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| The longing is then put into channels of unrealizable fantasies of magic. You believe fulfillment is supposed | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| else. To the degree she makes unfair and unrealizable demands, she must resent and blame male authority | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| Unrealized..................5 | |
| no in some fashion if the result remains unrealized. The second factor is to clearly express in | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| as a potential, and therefore as a still unrealized fact. This knowing makes it possible for the | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| total person, including his or her as yet unrealized potential. Such a vision of the unmanifest in | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| you have to battle against the as yet unrealized and undeveloped aspects in yourself. Use every opportunity | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| you is fully aware of this as yet unrealized potential. And you can tap this knowledge. With | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |
| Unreasonable................52 | |
| higher entities than themselves. This is even more unreasonable! Although it is quite true that a communication | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| and exclude the possibility of the other is unreasonable. There are many ways, indeed, to test with | 22 SALVATION |
| They are, for the most part, impossible and unreasonable wishes. In your own particular case, due to | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| you. Furthermore, this attitude becomes more and more unreasonable and unjust, for you demand and expect respect | 31 SHAME |
| yourself. When you have made such and other unreasonable emotions conscious, it will be easy to direct | 31 SHAME |
| but realizes intellectually that resistance to bathing is unreasonable. He will force himself to bathe in spite | 38 IMAGES |
| that he cannot explain. The mystery of such unreasonable reactions and the anxiety connected with them will | 38 IMAGES |
| if your unconscious immature nature were not so unreasonable that it wished for effortless change, you would | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| victory because you will then see what an unreasonable and childish streak lives within you. For that | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| your world. Closing your eyes to reality is unreasonable. Of course, when you look for evil outside | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| in yourself that persists in being childish and unreasonable. As far as the proper concept of God | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| you have found mostly one particular aspect: your unreasonable fear of God, the monster created by your | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| denied what you wish. It seems unfair and unreasonable. So you can easily see the connection. But | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| may know perfectly well that your desire is unreasonable in its force and subjective importance, yet you | 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| life. It constitutes the main result of the unreasonable desire for freedom without self-responsibility. It is the | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| realize that you can never receive the exclusive, unreasonable, one-sided love that the child in you requests | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| it comes to fully facing yourself is entirely unreasonable and damaging to you. Unreality, or illusion, is | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| compliment makes your spirit surge to heights of unreasonable joy or gratification, beyond all proportion to its | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| at it more fully later to eliminate your unreasonable fear of it. For the present, I will | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| see where and how you deviate out of unreasonable fear based on misconceptions. We shall then compare | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| unlimited amount of love. The child is as unreasonable, as void of understanding, as demanding and one-sided | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| leave something precious behind. Try to find that unreasonable, irrational fear and resistance. It is right there | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| your work progresses, you sometimes see it is unreasonable of you to feel that way, yet you | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| squander yourself into life, not in an unhealthy, unreasonable way, but healthily as nature squanders herself. Then | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| may help for a while. It may assuage unreasonable fear. But in the long run, it cripples | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| You focus your concentration on something unreal and unreasonable, something foreign to the real self whose nature | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| very fear is a product of your bitter, unreasonable rebellion. And on such a foundation growth is | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| after the initial fear of it has proven unreasonable; if only you continue and do not let | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| point when you will be capable of expressing unreasonable, childish, imperfect emotions without explanations. Then, and then | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| fact that some demands are really unjustified and unreasonable, and they can only be recognized as such | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| you can understand what misconceptions are behind these unreasonable attitudes. Then they will gradually dissolve, to the | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| you believe that. Subsequently you will recognize how unreasonable such a belief is. It then becomes easy | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| exist. When you find these, and transform the unreasonable greed of your childish expectations, you will become | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| and shame, hurt, arrogance, self-importance, self-pity, insistence on unreasonable demands, and many more. You struggle against these | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| by the cruelest ruler and far beyond the unreasonable standards which may be exerted by society. Your | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| Only then will you convince yourself how useless, unreasonable, unfounded was the illusion that reality is to | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| heretofore hidden primitive feelings, when you overcome your unreasonable fear and shame to do so, you will | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| often equally desperately they flee from union in unreasonable fear. This fear, without which the tragic conflict | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| yet utterly unaware of the strength of their unreasonable demands and commands that, like the rest of | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| irrational and have the courage to allow your unreasonable inner child to manifest on the surface. To | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| the daring step to own up to your unreasonable feelings and requests, your unfair demands, and your | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| difficult to admit that you are driven by unreasonable fears, superstitions, generalizations, obsolete situations that have no | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| nature. Therefore to distrust this innermost self is unreasonable, for nature can be wholly trusted. If nature | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| that. You allow yourself to be ruled by unreasonable defenses against the truth in you. Watch your | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| get confused between the childish aspect that desires unreasonable and unrealizable love and attention, and the legitimate | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| if you insist on living up to its unreasonable demands, then your perception of yourself must be | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| the result of your own action is an unreasonable inner act. It implies a refusal to assume | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| in his own prison. His reason for this unreasonable hate is especially irrational. One of the things | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| vicious circle. You submit to another's equally insatiable, unreasonable demands and join in a power struggle for | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| simply wish to be a greedy, demanding, and unreasonable child. On the other hand, you are equally | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| image, although you know that it is unfair, unreasonable, unintelligent, and that it causes you and others | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| but the former anger feels very irrational and unreasonable. An ordinary person may fear that it is | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| Unreasonableness............11 | |
| cut concise thoughts. Then, when you see the unreasonableness of the immature side of your soul, you | 31 SHAME |
| and to be loved in spite of its unreasonableness and selfishness. This is why you are afraid | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| work and you are perfectly aware of its unreasonableness without being able to help it, then, as | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| are, and, further, you have to see their unreasonableness, their impossibility. When you have a feeling of | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| of security in yourself. Apart from the frequent unreasonableness of unconscious excessive demands on your part, it | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| well as your capacity to objectively evaluate the unreasonableness of your demands, will open the flow of | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| is the same as heedless and headless greed, unreasonableness, and lack of realism. This is not so | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| you are able to convince yourself of the unreasonableness of maintaining the non- commitment. You are not | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| itself. Once the unconscious surfaces with all its unreasonableness, it can be quite naturally given a new | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| he puts his best into the pathwork. The unreasonableness and utter destructiveness of this attitude became evident | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| aware of these feelings and accept their apparent unreasonableness and childishness, you will then be able to | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |