| Unacceptability.............5 | |
| may also have to face the feeling of unacceptability more than I already have. Is that true | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| other words, you will connect the feeling of unacceptability with the newly-faced sadistic impulses. That connection is | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| are truly affected by the causal connection of unacceptability and sadistic impulses, then you will be on | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| own that I am miserable. The feeling of unacceptability cannot cease as long as its cause remains | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| defensive maneuvers that reinforce your belief in your unacceptability, because all defenses are negative, destructive, and create | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| Unacceptable................42 | |
| temperament. What one person may consider wrong and unacceptable, another may not. This moral structure actually takes | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| because they arbitrarily divide it into acceptable and unacceptable categories, and see its primitive manifestation as unchangeable | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| feeling that the original emotion or need is unacceptable. It is very important to become aware of | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| believe it is. Only too often, you consider unacceptable the best you have to give while the | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| bad when one believes that one's feelings are unacceptable or dangerous; the illusion that ignores a particular | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| repeating problem, which is the feeling of being unacceptable -- by girls, especially. I worked on this | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to feeling frustrated and rejected. If you feel unacceptable to girls, it is only because you do | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| makes you feel so guilty, so bad and unacceptable that you cannot imagine that anyone can love | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and accept and intelligently deal with the hitherto unacceptable, proportionately increases his or her self- respect and | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the surface is a vague feeling of being unacceptable, without quite understanding why. Unconsciously, you feel you | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| perhaps only vaguely conscious -- fear that these unacceptable impulses, desires and emotions are your true nature | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| your true heritage. As long as the apparently unacceptable is not met and transcended in the sense | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is that one fears the self to be unacceptable as it is and therefore hides it, even | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| spirit side, makes an attempt to reveal your unacceptable truth, the other side battles it. In that | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| because they feel they are so bad, so unacceptable, so destructive, so negative, find themselves in the | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| hand, nor are you so hopelessly bad and unacceptable as you meanwhile believe you really are underneath | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| danger, pleasure with humiliation and shame, self-assertion with unacceptable aggression. These are typical examples of false unifications | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| it is viewed as if it were totally unacceptable, when you fail to realize that evil is | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| seems too painful and difficult to accept previously unacceptable aspects of themselves. Yet life cannot be truly | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| lack of them. No matter how evil and unacceptable any specific traits in you may be, no | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| inflict upon yourself by the negation of the unacceptable part causes you to do precisely what I | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| you use subterfuges destined to cover up the unacceptable. Yet these subterfuges are more unacceptable than whatever | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| up the unacceptable. Yet these subterfuges are more unacceptable than whatever you originally negated. Thus you compound | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| these apparently two selves: the acceptable and the unacceptable. But in reality there are not two entities | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| appear so frightening or so deep or so unacceptable. You will endure it without the terrible cramp | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| You could not afford to even acknowledge these unacceptable aspects, because you identified with them. But the | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| them. But the moment you acknowledge the hitherto unacceptable, you yourself cease to be the unacceptable; instead | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| hitherto unacceptable, you yourself cease to be the unacceptable; instead, you become identified with that part of | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| beings vaguely believe that the underlying truth is unacceptable and therefore that they themselves are unacceptable. Thus | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| is unacceptable and therefore that they themselves are unacceptable. Thus a double illusion must be removed: the | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| as a child is due to your being unacceptable and unlovable, all create the tendency to deny | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| experiencing and expressing feelings once deemed to be unacceptable and unbearable, and learning to sustain and to | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| experience is universal, necessary, and not at all unacceptable. It will also make you more aware of | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| your own false ideas that always create two unacceptable alternatives. When the path opens up from within | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| you can pay when you stop projecting the unacceptable on others or using the ugliness of others | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| in you that is in itself rejectable and unacceptable. There is only distortion. No matter how negative | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| to be totally repressed. It was as socially unacceptable as the man's hidden wishes. Only recently has | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| of the realization that the lower self is unacceptable and does not pay. Although it is self-serving | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| life, deserving happiness. Being wrong means being bad, unacceptable, having no power to create safety and not | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| attitudes, having made a mistake, is unforgivable and unacceptable. Your terror is very simply that. Your belief | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| believe that you are a totally unlovable and unacceptable human being, you build on deficit. When your | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| vicious circle here. When you feel unworthy, unlovable, unacceptable, it is impossible to believe that Christ can | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| Unacknowledged..............3 | |
| understand. A compulsion is the direct result of unacknowledged, unconscious feelings and conditions. The more you know | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| in order to connect your fears with your unacknowledged cruelty. Discover how the cruelty is a result | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| negativities. In that way you spread good. Your unacknowledged, projected destructiveness immediately affects its counterpart in others | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| Unaffected..................10 | |
| The personality who has reached this state remains unaffected by negative events and is therefore truly independent | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| he goes to in Europe, while he is unaffected by them? Or would you say that in | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| such an inner division, they would surely be unaffected by your struggle. Their harmony with the universal | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| It is inconceivable that an individual could be unaffected by or indifferent to a deeply ingrained idea | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| to be destructive can leave your actions totally unaffected. I just said that it is unthinkable for | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| avoiding does not matter, that you will be unaffected by it, that what you don't do has | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| how they react. You remain essentially whole, essentially unaffected. I do not mean unaffected in the sense | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| essentially whole, essentially unaffected. I do not mean unaffected in the sense of being remote and without | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| about. It is your higher self which is unaffected, the divine part of you that does not | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| great that the perpetrator is deluded into being unaffected by the further effects of his or her | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| Unafraid....................20 | |
| would have a faultless person, he would be unafraid. You all know that the opposite of fear | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| have reached intellectual maturity. Emotional maturity means being unafraid to pay the price of living. And the | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| others but yourself. Emotional maturity also means being unafraid of your own emotions: if you have negative | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| see, observe, and discriminate. For those who are unafraid of loving and receiving love in a mature | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| who approaches inner reality, ready to meet life, unafraid of loving, unafraid of giving up the strong | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| reality, ready to meet life, unafraid of loving, unafraid of giving up the strong self-will current, will | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| who are deeply involved with others; who are unafraid of involvement; who have no protective covering against | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| from it, you cannot be clear and comfortable, unafraid and relaxed about yourself. You cannot be good | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| many areas where they do love and are unafraid to do so. But where problems exist in | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| it cannot relax, it cannot adopt the flexible, unafraid attitude that is essential to be attuned to | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| mannerisms that give you the illusion of being unafraid of entrusting yourself to this power that moves | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| this process. In this respect, they must be unafraid of their inner self. In other respects they | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| remain alive only when the self is totally unafraid of itself. Giving up guardedness seems like annihilation | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| be strong and self-responsible. Then she will be unafraid of total surrender, of letting go, of allowing | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| have deliberately set in motion, you will be unafraid to surrender to a power greater than your | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| apparent that where they are happy, free, and unafraid, there is fulfillment, and where they are afraid | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| your fear of it and pretend to be unafraid. By freely admitting your fear, you are more | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| matter what they are, you automatically become secure, unafraid, and therefore relaxed. Being relaxed in mind, will | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| and receptive means to be undefended, inwardly relaxed, unafraid of whatever may come, whether from inside of | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| positively or negatively with others. Visualize yourself as unafraid of the worst in you, knowing that the | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |