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 Rigidities..................3
and very flexible. It knows none of the rigidities and generalizations of the human misinterpretations of divine 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
narrowly limited. Often, people have both kinds of rigidities, alternately and simultaneously, one caused by the other 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
be in reality when either of these two rigidities exists in you? How can you adapt yourself 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
 
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to let go. Whenever you feel a tightening rigidity, even if your opinion is right, you prevent 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
important, my friends, to understand all this. The rigidity, the unyielding nature of the images generates the 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
to come. Several incarnations are necessary before a rigidity can loosen up. Others, born into the same 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
are doing, you find in your images a rigidity, an obstruction. You rightly call this an immaturity 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
may not be good because there is a rigidity and a habit in such prayer and that 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
not stick to rules and regulations -- no rigidity in any direction, but free choice used wisely 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
but because it indicates something. Such an inner rigidity produces ill effects in other areas of life 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
never can be hypnotized, it may indicate a rigidity which ought to be removed for other reasons 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
same error. Thought control can be mastered without rigidity and suppression. On the contrary, properly done it 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
It is sometimes easier to dissolve an outright rigidity because a rigidity can be grasped. A negative 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
easier to dissolve an outright rigidity because a rigidity can be grasped. A negative fluidity is slippery 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
out of this wise provision and admonition. With rigidity, the inner meaning gets lost. People follow through 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
in real spiritual understanding there can be no rigidity. You cannot artificially force the stages, they grow 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
which caused religion to be distorted into dogma. Rigidity satisfies the very irrational, unfounded fear in the 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
favorably that they will grow up with less rigidity, paralysis, images, and problems. Perhaps some of you 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
according to one's character structure; for instance, avarice, rigidity, prejudice. In short, any inner urge that holds 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
make them work. This defensive reaction causes the rigidity. Growth, development, maturity and the healing of distorted 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
the result and the origin of this predicament. Rigidity, fear, insecurity, intolerance -- all these exist in 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
condition produces the moralizing attitude and all the rigidity that is tied up with it. The rules 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
be merely to become aware of an inner rigidity and intolerance with yourself and others. From there 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
about moralizing, you said that everything is a rigidity. ANSWER: There is deep misunderstanding here. You now 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
no easy answer here. But again, fanaticism and rigidity will not be the answer. The answer is 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
Your misconception about divine perfection leads you to rigidity and compulsion on the one hand and to 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
very existence of your perfectionism stunts growth, causes rigidity and inner extremism. You are so conditioned to 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
such a strain, leads to such discouragement and rigidity and pretense, that growth becomes impossible. You already 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
not govern you. Perfectionism makes for pretense and rigidity -- and this excludes growth and development, as 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
dogma. Under whatever guise dogma appears, it shows rigidity and lack of self-responsibility in thinking for oneself 101 THE DEFENSE
engaged in. Let us speak of flexibility versus rigidity. Flexibility is the quality of resilient, elastic, healthy 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
resilient, elastic, healthy soul-substance. When it comes to rigidity, however, there are two different kinds, and it 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
to discern their difference. The first kind of rigidity is based on the following circumstances: When the 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
and experiencing and causes the first type of rigidity. The second type of rigidity is caused by 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
first type of rigidity. The second type of rigidity is caused by a condition of the soul 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
to perceive differently constitutes the second type of rigidity. One can deal only with what one immediately 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
summarize the difference between the two kinds of rigidity: one dulls your capacity of feeling and experiencing 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
one is predominant. When this is so, the rigidity is relatively easy to recognize. When the second 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
light. The recognition of the two kinds of rigidity is also necessary. It will be very helpful 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
You may first find the brittle wall of rigidity. Do not expect to find a healthy flexibility 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
Be prepared to find the other kind of rigidity that may, at first glance, appear to be 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
glance, appear to be the very opposite of rigidity, because it is overly soft in substance. But 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
your emotional life that show how repression creates rigidity. Rigidity is the opposite of life, which is 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
emotional life that show how repression creates rigidity. Rigidity is the opposite of life, which is always 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
rich life. The imbalance this failure creates induces rigidity where flexibility should exist, as well as a 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
the other distorted response to frustration, insistence and rigidity with a do or die attitude, are equally 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
truth about the self. An inner tension and rigidity exist that separate the personality from the real 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
body expresses all this with contraction, tension, stiffness, rigidity -- which are also behind the flaccidity of 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION
acquire more meaning. Conversely, fear of intimacy implies rigidity and the denial of one's own share in 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
one is too self-willed to admit. Selfwill creates rigidity and rigidity is contrary to the flow of 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
too self-willed to admit. Selfwill creates rigidity and rigidity is contrary to the flow of life. Selfwill 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
limited state. Selfwill comprises stubbornness, resistance, spite, defiance, rigidity. All these attitudes connote a stiffening against change 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
where and as I am. This ego-trick makes rigidity appear desirable and makes open, flexible movement appear 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
ideas, and withheld emotional matter -- spite, stubbornness, rigidity, inertia -- stagnant energy exists that must create 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE
defiance and a spite... ANSWER: Defiance, spite, stubbornness, rigidity are all derivatives of the same blockage. Their 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
degree. Such severity, however, also brought a certain rigidity and superficiality to human existence. Obeying rules blindly 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE
world. Freedom and change are inseparable. Enslavement and rigidity are equally inseparable. If you want it to 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE
to nationality, or religious affiliation. Thus a defiant rigidity will no longer prevent people from finding their 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION
 
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a person undergoing psychoanalysis with a doctor who rigidly follows a school of thought that does not 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
Some are broken by countercurrents, whereas others flow rigidly in one direction, consisting of several layers of 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
it in any fanatic, in anyone who adheres rigidly to dogma, in whatever religion. Such a person 47 THE WALL WITHIN
some circumstances is misapplied in others, distorted and rigidly set up as an inflexible rule, that is 53 SELF-LOVE
loved, approved of, and so on, the more rigidly and tensely you construct illusory forms, in the 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
might or should be. In other words, the rigidly built, imagined situations that prohibit reality also prohibit 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
way, no general rules to which one can rigidly adhere. I recapitulate: Since isolation and loneliness come 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
distortion results from adopting a particular attitude and rigidly adhering to it. This happens when the personality 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
does tense reluctance and stubbornness. You shrink more rigidly from your liberation, your life eternal, your bliss 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
endure frustration, the less one experiences the pleasure. Rigidly insistent people lose the pleasure they strive for 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
the rightness of that course by saying the rigidly controlled person has lost contact with life. The 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
is incapable of achieving this balance. It is rigidly one-sided in its insistence to receive, for this 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
that under the surface the ego is too rigidly upheld. The Lever Law This law is related 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
confused and disturbed that you react blindly and rigidly, without quite knowing what governs you. The greatest 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
not appropriate and organic. For example, a person rigidly holds on to a defensive, obsolete attitude, does 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE
to the past, is of any value. They rigidly reject any change, which is of course a 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS
shines on the soul substance that has been rigidly and fixedly holding these images. Later we shall 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY
 
 Ring........................6
stone into a pond of quiet water. A ring appears around it, then come more and more 21 THE FALL
each one of you. May these words again ring an echo in your innermost being. May they 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
against them. Yet an inner alarm seems to ring whenever an actual or imaginary demand is being 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
certain essential notes. At first, some notes may ring false, but eventually, after sufficient practice, the notes 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
a half-truth, whereas any observation will have the ring of truth if one does not avoid something 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
cannot find the truth of it. Does that ring a bell? Yes. It helps me. Perhaps you 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION

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