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How many people accept something said by a respected authority and yet reject the very same words 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
order to avoid friction, to be liked and respected, to never differ from other people, or avoid 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
a wise decision, but it has to be respected. Another reason is that it would not add 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
wish, that you can never be loved and respected, that life and the world is hostile to 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
unless you think you cannot be loved and respected if something to be criticized is found in 101 THE DEFENSE
the apparent conflict of wanting to be loved, respected and appreciated and your pushing for it. I 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
is in itself beautiful, meaningful, and to be respected. It is the same with the evolutionary process 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS
feelings for the woman he loved, honored, and respected. Sometimes the unconscious fear of the power current 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
consciousness. But only when the rhythm pattern is respected, accepted, adhered to and utilized in the most 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION
 
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love others, often by quietly withdrawing and simply respecting them as human beings, even though they do 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you let the other be free, liking and respecting him or her as a human being, without 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
hope to become a truly self-accepting and self- respecting human being without giving up what truly impairs 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
It also prevents most individuals from loving and respecting themselves because they have no real perception of 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
complementing and aiding one another, loving one another, respecting one another and creating bliss and a new 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE
 
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yourself as a man or as a woman, respectively. Ultimately, you cannot fulfill yourself without overcoming the 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
would they be connected with overactivity and passivity, respectively? ANSWER: Yes. The functions of the ego further 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
are also going through them on deeper, and respectively higher levels of consciousness-organization, until total oneness with 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS
 
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it is as if their higher selves would respond and encourage them to sense that something is 4 WORLD WEARINESS
your emotions and cannot be directly forced to respond to your wishes. The world of emotion can 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
he receives food. After some time he will respond instantly, knowing that food is now coming. When 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
reach that part of her partner, he will respond provided he has the maturity. He must respond 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
respond provided he has the maturity. He must respond. Whether this response comes occasionally through a conversation 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
believe that you cannot find God when you respond to your sex urges. This is all wrong 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
-- and, as you know, emotions do not respond to compulsion -- but also an impure motive 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
just need a little outer push, he will respond. But he cannot respond where his problems lie 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
outer push, he will respond. But he cannot respond where his problems lie in uncleared areas. There 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
side had won out. The outer result must respond to the impulse which is unconscious. The more 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
temptation, the outer occurrence will, as I said, respond to the negative side, even though you have 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
a level of pride, the other person will respond automatically in kind. If you are spontaneous and 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
hidden emotions, you will understand why other people respond negatively to something that you were convinced did 62 MAN AND WOMAN
forcing current you cannot help being subjective. You respond favorable to those who agree with you, who 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
or her own reason, the other person cannot respond to your desire, you would be better off 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
life resenting other people because they do not respond to your outer actions. You yourself are unaware 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
even in your thoughts, the subconscious does not respond to such discipline. Truce, as you see it 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
she is most vulnerable. Therefore, the other may respond with unfaithfulness, because she is looking for that 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
that his or her unconscious soul forces must respond according to the law that reestablishes balance. To 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
affection and love toward the person able to respond. Then the mutuality will come almost by itself 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
so as to be handled properly. If you respond freely, mutuality must come about. QUESTION: Psychiatry today 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
vital and profound question will your live center respond and function to its full capacity, will your 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
made to feel inferior and will certainly not respond by loving those who have belittled them, regardless 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
strength is bound to reject others, who will respond with resentment in turn. These are only a 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
He has associated with many submissive people who respond favorably to him. This solution, then, seems to 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
power-driven, maybe a relatively healthy person will not respond to him with submissiveness. A third possibility is 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
free in a real situation. Therefore, you cannot respond to the situation in an appropriate way. Such 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
primary reactions. By observing the fact that you respond only conditionally and not originally, you will finally 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
of inadequacy when life and others do not respond to your wishes and frustrate you. Such unfulfillment 101 THE DEFENSE
old images, the faulty perceptions, which make you respond and react in an automatic way, as though 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
you come into harmony by truthful self- examination respond according to law, while self-deception and lack of 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
father and mother within yourself and continue to respond to them, you experience your basic split, your 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
perceive the repetitiveness of your reactions, how you respond in later situations, to other people, in a 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
and the necessity of choice. You had to respond to them the way you did, not only 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
different kind of split. As you had to respond to your parents according to your split, so 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
have no application at all. You react and respond to illusion and not to the reality of 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
do not live in reality; you do not respond according to reality but send your responses forth 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
health and liberation of others who do not respond to one's unreality. It is certainly better to 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
the old drama of your duality, you will respond spontaneously to the situation, which will no longer 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
cares and concerns. It is forever ready to respond if you choose to request its service. It 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE
human consciousness is automatism. In this phase people respond according to automatic reflexes -- emotional reactions based 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
in the lectures on images shows how people respond blindly and automatically. The more you are liberated 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
consciousness is blurred. There they are unfree and respond unconsciously, never knowing why they act, react, think 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
one finds an approach to which she can respond. It makes no difference what the angle is 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
mind sets the universal forces in motion; they respond according to the direction set by consciousness. Once 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
As understanding grows, the pleasure principle will gradually respond to positive events. The combination between the pleasure 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
their spontaneous reaction, more and more individuals will respond to positive events, situations, conditions. You all know 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
be accepted and loved, but unconsciously, they cannot respond to a completely accepting and favorable situation. In 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
states of mind. It is always ready to respond, but it must be specifically contacted. It will 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
invaluable. If you call upon it, it must respond, for this is the law. This is no 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
and in you at all times. It cannot respond unless your outer mind, which is separated from 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
meet each moment as it comes and to respond to it adequately. For such a flexible response 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
the same time, in their problem areas people respond to life in a totally opposite way -- 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
you close yourself against it. Your psyche cannot respond to the truth and to the spiritual law 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
with and through you and make you automatically respond in an adequate way. When people want to 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
wants to convey to you. How do you respond to it? Do you respond with your total 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
How do you respond to it? Do you respond with your total being? Or do you respond 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
respond with your total being? Or do you respond half-heartedly? Or do you resist responding at all 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
important question, clearly questioning themselves without delusions, will respond to life with their total being. Let us 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
of false relaxation that does not breathe, move, respond. Quite the contrary. It expands and contracts like 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
open state that enables you to comprehend and respond in an infinitely more adequate way than being 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS
real self. This is why feelings can never respond to any must, issued either by other people 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF
exists in human life. Whenever you notice and respond only to the outer manifestations of life, you 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
themselves -- you do not necessarily refuse to respond because you find the other person unlovable. Mostly 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
is coerced, it cannot unfold itself. It cannot respond, it cannot reveal itself. If the outer mind 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
every life experience freshly. You are conditioned to respond to it in a certain way. For example 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
following your habit-bound, conditioned reflexes, in which you respond to what you believe is good in one 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
further elaboration. Since you blame others, they must respond in kind. Since you are unwilling to be 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING
commands that make other areas of your body respond. You decide to move your hand, to get 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION
suit; then your actions and reactions begin to respond to new spontaneous impulses. And these, in turn 174 SELF-ESTEEM
It is not the state of truth. To respond in that way to the negativity of others 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
on illusion. There is a better way to respond. Even though the other person may indeed unload 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
concise, articulate awareness, for otherwise you will unconsciously respond in equally destructive, falsely self-defensive ways. Then neither 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
when you encounter pleasure and joy. Does it respond with involuntary contraction, notwithstanding your conscious desires and 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES
can activate the divine process and let it respond. The spiritual self is being impressed and called 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
you know that these processes are bound to respond and what you desire is in keeping with 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
power and consciousness within you is bound to respond. In the fourth and most advanced stage you 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
these gatherings, due to your development, you first respond to the pure influx of spiritual power with 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT
It is thus quite logical that you first respond to this force with crying. Later, a new 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT
these two possibilities in others, and you will respond appropriately to these two entirely different experiences. As 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY
non-giving. You choose to ignore that others cannot respond the way you would like them to when 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
It is not very likely that you would respond to this act of love by being self-righteous 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
you make room for these verities and openly respond to them, the sooner you will experience the 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES
give it care. Your appreciation makes the machine respond, even with its extremely limited, small inner nucleus 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
nucleus of consciousness that is just geared to respond and react, to be impressed and molded. Its 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
hate them, are annoyed with them, and they respond accordingly. The separation of consciousness that you experience 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
afraid and unsure as you are. They may respond to a kind word as you might respond 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
respond to a kind word as you might respond to a kind word. In doing so you 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
manifest by themselves. They need outer provocation. You respond with them to the initiating negativity of others 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA
in reserve only. If the child does not respond to the freedom of learning, if he or 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
courage because the loved one may not always respond according to your desires and selfwill. To give 236 THE SUPERSTITION OF PESSIMISM
thought processes, in the feelings with which I respond to my experiences. You will find in your 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE
some tangible or intangible way. You may then respond to your dependency and fear either by submitting 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
than the conscious part. The conscious part can respond directly to your will direction, but the involuntary 254 SURRENDER
that part of yourself that does not directly respond to your positive intentionality and your goodwill. Be 254 SURRENDER
lag behind, as it were. It cannot immediately respond and often stubbornly holds on despite your conscious 254 SURRENDER
to change involuntary aspects that do not directly respond to your outer will? The outer will and 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION
The outer will and the outer aspects that respond to it need to be aggressively activated by 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION
responses, reactions and even beliefs that do not respond, no matter how sincerely your outer self wants 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION

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