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| emotions claim that the personality must not be rejected; that rejection must not happen to it. In | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| heart. The truth is that you are never rejected because of what you lack, whatever it may | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| insecurities. Even then such a person is not rejected for the true self, but merely for a | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| and those wishes granted, while others must be rejected. There is no definite borderline between the state | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| than one person. The child feels excluded and rejected if the parent also loves others, however. In | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| loved. This frustration causes the child to feel rejected, which, in turn, causes hatred, resentment, hostility, and | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| represents the exact opposite of a hated and rejected authority's, be it a parent or someone else | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| you can find out where you have been rejected, you will not be so severe with yourself | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| fellow-creatures in many other ways. Whenever you feel rejected or slighted, check your innermost reactions where the | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| manifestation with every individual. When a child feels rejected -- and you know that every child does | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| difference -- in most instances it feels more rejected by one of the parents than by the | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| my rejecter, so will I no longer be rejected. Since the rejecter seems cold, aloof, and free | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| it yearns for love and affection but is rejected instead. In its unconscious mind the idea forms | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| is important not because the parent you have rejected suffers from it, but mostly because you suffer | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| illusion wherein you are in terror of being rejected; 4) the effect of all this on your | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Being without the terror of being slighted or rejected, you will become willing to love others, often | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and hoped, yet they are not to be rejected now because they had their own conflicts and | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| search for. There are so many who feel rejected. Those who constantly feel rejected should think, Perhaps | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| many who feel rejected. Those who constantly feel rejected should think, Perhaps I am rejecting others in | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| react, you are hurt because you have been rejected. Yes, my dear ones, that goes on constantly | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| this is protection against the tragedy of being rejected. Finally, it is not surprising if you no | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| process we so often discuss. When you feel rejected and insecure, you often assume an attitude of | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| drawing the wrong conclusion that your love is rejected and that, as a result, you are worth | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| show that the body is not to be rejected or denied. If you accept death you will | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| again. Reincarnation as a hypothesis was doubted and rejected by someone, and the statement was made that | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| their way. Unconsciously, they feel alone. They feel rejected by God, by life, by human authority, and | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| force in the universe, is often misunderstood and rejected because it is seen in its distorted form | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| and become aware of being hurt, of feeling rejected. Your shame and fear of these emotions make | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| as long as you feel that your parents rejected you because of your unworthiness. Due to this | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| frequently in your life that you first felt rejected or slighted, and later through a variety of | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| the significance of these, you no longer felt rejected. You understood that they had nothing to do | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| doubt that it was never you who was rejected. The hurt inflicted upon you, due to their | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| the moment you perceive that you were not rejected because you were unworthy, you no longer have | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| will give you the answer why you have rejected pleasure. You will then find that you reject | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| that being in reality is not only feeling rejected, but also being in pleasure, one would not | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| you have really loved and yet were rebuffed, rejected? Many of you have puzzling questions about this | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| are not sensitive to this. You merely feel rejected and are busy with this insult. Just as | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| struggle exists with woman. When the girl-child feels rejected, she feels passive and helpless. The passivity and | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| simple example: if you are convinced of being rejected, the rejection will finally become a reality, because | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| injustice. He or she may feel excluded or rejected. If A happens to be comparatively liberated from | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| both forms. If you are afraid to be rejected in love and, subsequently, displace that particular energy | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| prevalent attitude expresses, I am afraid of being rejected. I just hope for the best, but I | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| way or another, of being inadequate, of being rejected, of being looked down upon or not taken | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| love, or because I am afraid of being rejected? ANSWER: It is intermingled. The immediate feeling is | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| evil becomes quite clear. Children who feel hurt, rejected, and helplessly exposed to pain and deprivation often | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| instance, in the case of children who feel rejected by their mother, does this marriage mean that | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| can be experienced only in connection with being rejected again, or a little rejected, or being fearful | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| connection with being rejected again, or a little rejected, or being fearful that rejection may occur. QUESTION | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| But they didn't experience pleasure when they were rejected. ANSWER: Of course not. But the child uses | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| of course. No one really wants to be rejected. The trouble is that people consciously wish to | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| can be experienced at all when someone is rejected, except in the form of revenge. That I | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| desire is inconceivable. Hence even healthy desire is rejected; the person in this state withdraws from desiring | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| this more understandable. You feel slighted, discriminated against, rejected. As a rule you admit this only vaguely | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| otherwise? Even when you do admit to feeling rejected, you usually let it go at that and | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| about where you feel you were insulted, slighted, rejected, or discriminated against. Put it down in writing | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| But if I am selfish, I will be rejected, despised, not loved, left alone. And that is | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| passive state must imply helplessness when activity is rejected, feared, and avoided, for then helplessness is a | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| exist in the psyche, pure pleasure must be rejected. Hence the negative pleasure is the only way | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| and to what degree pure pleasure must be rejected. When you ascertain in yourself that you fear | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| over-discipline no longer works, or when it is rejected to begin with, evasion may lead to drug | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| pleasing an authoritarian god. No wonder love is rejected, since the pleasurable feelings it causes in the | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| the reaction you have to feeling frustrated and rejected. If you feel unacceptable to girls, it is | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| longer take for granted that you will be rejected. Therefore you will not be angry and frustrated | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and accept or the right not to be rejected and hated for asserting this freedom. You do | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| controls. If all involuntary forces are feared and rejected, the various ways in which a temporary submerging | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| The childish level may conclude you are being rejected, since the unrealizable demands are not fulfilled. You | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| the difference between an accepted emotion and a rejected one. The accepted feeling is not half as | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| different kinds of pain. The pain that is rejected is bitter and disquieting and hopeless. The pain | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| certainly sense shyness, uncertainty, insecurity, apprehension about being rejected or criticized, as well as feelings of inferiority | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| concepts and perceptions. Thus it is no longer rejected in its essence but assimilated. This is precisely | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| The acceptance of whatever in you has been rejected because you refused to become conscious of it | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| the real spiritual influx. Often real spirituality is rejected by people meaning to reject the false, escapist | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| woman is trustworthy because you felt your mother rejected you. You now know that this equation is | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| been accepted and are no longer feared and rejected, the greater is one's ability to move the | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| a sexual inclination to be hurt, humiliated, or rejected. There are innumerable possibilities and meanings. Each sexual | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| life plan, and what traits are to be rejected. The child can do this only to the | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| the pain of it is fully experienced, not rejected but traveled through, can guilt and fear dissolve | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| each other, even when you seem to be rejected. Love is needed, perhaps not always in an | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| that there is nothing whatever that need be rejected, nothing whatever you cannot accept and forgive. The | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| times, when anything foreign and different was feared, rejected, and conquered by force. In the New Age | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| your lower self without being devastated and totally rejected, by holding your inner balance and knowing of | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| you are attacked or judged or criticized or rejected, as long as you operate with the value | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| A thought can be revised, it can be rejected, it can be debated. The word is already | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| love that part that you have hated and rejected and use its positive forces and unite with | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| sure that no part of you remains disconnected, rejected and denied. For to any part of you | 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION |
| truth, rather than with the attitude of being rejected, hurt and misjudged. When you listen for the | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| giving up of an immediate gratification is totally rejected by those who follow, but who often simultaneously | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| exposing evil, you will be isolated, ridiculed, and rejected. In other words, you foster the delusion that | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| must include the willingness to be temporarily hurt, rejected, or put at a disadvantage. It must include | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| and peoples. Why is this possibility so stubbornly rejected, so as to not even permit consideration of | 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS |
| the profound exchange of dynamic energy levels was rejected and condemned. Marriage was supposed to be a | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |