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quite a long time is to make such realizations. You cannot become completely objective all at once 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
you could not genuinely get or become. Clear realizations applied to specific areas of your inner and 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
not mean that you can get to such realizations without help. Of course not. In order to 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
let it move me into the thoughts and realizations I need to have right now, into actions 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
air you breathe. Your gaze will change. Your realizations and perceptions will change to the degree that 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
I do not mean that many more different realizations must be made, or new and different negative 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
your thinking, take in new ideas, embrace new realizations, and therefore bring to yourself new will- directions 174 SELF-ESTEEM
avenues of expression for your thoughts. These two realizations will make all the difference in the world 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION
and self-development must bring you to more frequent realizations of this state, which is most significantly and 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
ideas, usually when you least expect them; new realizations of feelings, or through a word you hear 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
be venturing out into new ground, into new realizations and states of awareness. There can be no 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
eternal life itself. Only after you achieve higher realizations of consciousness does this focus switch -- perhaps 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF
 
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innermost motives and emotions do they come to realize what has been going on. Then they can 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
a generous giver, my dear ones. You will realize that when you see that what comes to 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
productive. For when you look closer, you will realize that the terrible upset, the exaggerated guilt feelings 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
they may be. Therefore it is important to realize that you can be tempted, and in what 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
you meditate on this, you will have to realize that the experience in the spirit, the spiritual 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
and feminine incarnations go, you can come to realize that both are right. If you meditate about 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
this. If you think about it, you will realize that it cannot be any other way. The 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
touch you then and throw you off. I realize that this is difficult to understand for people 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
anyone of even the most limited intelligence to realize that by giving in to this desire he 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
mask self has been created. They do not realize they are living a lie. They have built 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
to face yourself in this manner when you realize that underneath the layers of your lower self 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
another sphere of quite a different level. I realize, my friends, this is extremely difficult for you 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
uncomfortable. You have much more power than you realize. The willpower that lies enfolded within you is 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
enfolded within you is something you do not realize, my friends. Since willpower is of great importance 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
wait for His answer. Or they do not realize that an answer is actually forthcoming, so they 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
have overcome the initial resistance. So you must realize that first you have to go to battle 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
not face this and do not want to realize the significance of it you cannot win, and 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
can do. Is that somehow clearer? Yes. I realize this is extremely complicated for any of you 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
much broader scale than any of you can realize. I want to stress that there is no 20 GOD: THE CREATION
in front of your eyes. You do not realize that often a truth heard too soon can 20 GOD: THE CREATION
God and in accordance with divine law. I realize that all this is impossible for you to 20 GOD: THE CREATION
this has deeper significance than most of you realize. With that freedom necessarily comes the possibility to 21 THE FALL
in the world of darkness. You must all realize, my friends, that I can give you only 21 THE FALL
accomplishing something -- whatever it may be -- realize that it is only through the grace of 21 THE FALL
Jesus Christ really means. Very few people indeed realize its full significance, least of all the organized 22 SALVATION
more the curtain will lift and you will realize that there is never any cause for sadness 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
time being, it is important for you to realize that you cannot dissolve such a psychological block 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
will not find the truth. But if you realize that, it is much better. It is the 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you are still deviating from the right course. Realize at the same time that you cannot do 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the Father and ask Him to help you. Realize that you cannot accomplish the least thing without 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
and hard to find. But you need to realize that there must be something in you that 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
slow process of self-development and self-recognition. You may realize that you do not have enough faith, but 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
you must do so with open eyes; therefore realize what you ought to expect and what you 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
already, and even more, my friends! If you realize this, you will not be discouraged when you 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
attained some victories over yourself you will fully realize this truth, but it will take a long 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
to really understand it to its core, will realize what a blessing it is! Then what I 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
you approach this path with only half-open eyes. Realize that there is a price, but the price 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
and this may lead to dangerous misunderstandings. I realize that my description will not really give you 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
by saying this: My dear friend, you must realize one thing. When I spoke about the battle 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
faults, its resentments, its sluggish ways. You must realize that this lower self lives in you strongly 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
cannot change anything without doing so freely. I realize that what will manifest is not my whole 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
come to the point when you can quietly realize these two contradictory currents in you: the one 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
in order to be able to change it. Realize that before your imperfections can change, you have 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
of much greater importance than any of you realize as yet. You mistakenly want to skip this 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
there seems to be a chance to actually realize such happiness, you then shrink away from it 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
generally considered to be faults. You do not realize that your fears cause great harm, not only 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
not more beautiful; but then they may also realize, and rightly so, that this is due to 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
won. If you do not as yet clearly realize the connection, if you perhaps sense or feel 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
not merely the fault itself. You have to realize there is a side in you that does 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
is very important, my friends, for you to realize. You may not think fear a fault, but 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
great. If you fulfill a task, you must realize that it no longer concerns you alone. There 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
self-will. That is the answer. So you will realize that there are few human beings indeed who 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
you think about his views, you will undoubtedly realize that he had some wrong ideas about spiritual 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
justice of them but also because you will realize how good and how strengthening these hardships were 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW
valuable than what you have given up. I realize that you do not know how to go 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW
the nature of your soul. You do not realize clearly what is going on in you, and 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
each one of you! Yet, you do not realize it. Why? Because you misdirect your power into 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
to get around it. It is uncomfortable to realize and obey the laws of justice, so by 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
active participation in the process. You have to realize that there must be something in you that 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
When you lie to yourself, you do not realize it, not because you cannot, but because you 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
means you should find your faults and fully realize their existence, their significance, and their effect on 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
to use it for your purification and to realize its particular force. In a previous lecture I 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
what your basic light is, but also to realize that self-will, pride, and fear exist in you 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
a blind and immature state, too blind to realize that what it desires is against spiritual law 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
into clear and concise words so as to realize, Here I have a desire, coming from my 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
are to others. But do not deceive yourself; realize how far away your emotions still are from 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
Whenever you feel lonely and not understood, please realize that, at least to some degree, the condition 31 SHAME
certain stage of development will you come to realize the truth of these words. There is no 32 DECISION-MAKING
must come to the point where you deeply realize their truth. If understanding is still lacking and 32 DECISION-MAKING
and not just as an idealized picture. Furthermore, realize your deeper and hidden reasons for needing a 32 DECISION-MAKING
and to know what the price is; to realize that you cannot fully have what you want 32 DECISION-MAKING
one or more ways in life, you should realize you were not ready to pay a price 32 DECISION-MAKING
a grudge because your needs were unfulfilled; instead, realize clearly what your decision has been in this 32 DECISION-MAKING
to steal happiness -- or any other result. Realize, please, that when I say that emotionally you 32 DECISION-MAKING
from the point of view shown you here. Realize that you must put effort into anything when 32 DECISION-MAKING
do it independently, responsibly and maturely, because you realize yourself that everything has a price. To fight 32 DECISION-MAKING
ANSWER: It is already of tremendous help to realize that a person to whom you are close 32 DECISION-MAKING
You can do it quicker if you fully realize what this life is all about. When life 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
you when you receive selfishly and greedily. I realize that these are old truths you have heard 35 TURNING TO GOD
you do not know it. You do not realize that events that appear to you as disagreeable 35 TURNING TO GOD
your unceasing efforts. You will then learn to realize, deeply, that your outer problems are nothing else 36 PRAYER
sense. All is one in the end. I realize, my friends, that these are merely words just 36 PRAYER
in the universe. If you could even dimly realize how each of these feelings and emotions drain 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
lies. My dear friends, it is important to realize that over the course of a lifetime, usually 38 IMAGES
unconscious is always stronger. The unconscious does not realize that its attitude prohibits the very wish you 38 IMAGES
process. But what they have often failed to realize is that images seldom form in this life 38 IMAGES
You may revolt against unhappiness, yet when you realize that you, not God and the fates, are 38 IMAGES
any given stage of your development. People seldom realize that they must pray to get ahead. Often 38 IMAGES
may consciously know quite well. You may not realize that these same weaknesses exist on a separate 39 IMAGE-FINDING
quite apart from your outer personality. Once you realize that your inner reactions come from a faulty 39 IMAGE-FINDING
it is important for you, my friends, to realize that in the deeper layer of your images 39 IMAGE-FINDING
with all your inappropriate defenses. But if you realize that this feeling of isolation is common to 39 IMAGE-FINDING
that you are emotionally not there yet. Also realize that secluded happiness is impossible. The separating wall 39 IMAGE-FINDING
afraid of; it threatens you. You do not realize that by keeping your separating wall you defeat 39 IMAGE-FINDING
you approach the problem this way, you will realize that in this kind of prayer there is 39 IMAGE-FINDING
are on a downward curve, you do not realize you are a step higher than the last 39 IMAGE-FINDING
a feeling of guilt will get you nowhere. Realize that guilt is really the rejection of the 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
guilt. And if you are, you do not realize what the feeling of guilt really means. In 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
error, the wrong conclusion lies in failing to realize that by building these defenses you not only 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
good and logical. Still, you cannot help but realize how faulty your defense mechanism was when you 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
with a fresh new outlook. You will all realize that pain is also relative. Fear of pain 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
Find out about your fear of being hurt. Realize that this causes all your misery. This excessive 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
of your unconscious. It will help also to realize that there is no one among all those 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
you would not be surprised at such reasoning. Realize that and you will overcome your embarrassment. Consider 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
the only one. However, most people do not realize this and keep their images covered. Therefore you 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
winds on a great stormy ocean. You will realize that there is no injustice, and that will 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
have borne fruit, although you cannot always fully realize the value of your work. But some of 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
and harmony. But when they see beauty, they realize that this is a world, a state of 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you cannot see without anger, you need to realize that this reaction stems from the same origin 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
you to feel unjustly treated. You do not realize that the very event that causes you temporary 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
you prove your goodwill, the more you will realize that you have not lived your life in 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
reason-personality type. The emotion-type person needs first to realize that what he or she has been so 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
utterly. If people had the wisdom, they would realize that and make of marriage the marvelous journey 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
be it only in understanding why you cannot realize the happiness that a part of your soul 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
and loveless, raw and animalistic. If people would realize -- and they are beginning to do so 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
then become mature enough in your soul to realize that the price must be paid. That is 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
it is important for you, my friends, to realize that such mass images exist. This realization will 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
a much more important question than you now realize, my dear friends. Authority is the very first 47 THE WALL WITHIN
It will be easier this way, but please realize that only in rare cases will you find 47 THE WALL WITHIN
concept by thinking this through. Once you fully realize that there are two different kinds of authority 47 THE WALL WITHIN
motive. That is the important thing. You will realize that just because you are on the side 47 THE WALL WITHIN
of more significance and importance than you may realize offhand. I know that it is not only 47 THE WALL WITHIN
instance, are such recognitions. In your daily self-observation, realize that you cannot change an emotional reaction merely 47 THE WALL WITHIN
within you. A basic misunderstanding exists here: you realize that the first category, the most primitive form 47 THE WALL WITHIN
find the wall, we are also supposed to realize that this wall is almost physically present. Is 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
nature can begin to work. But try to realize what it means to be completely conscious. It 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
beings develop from incarnation to incarnation, they finally realize that others consider such feelings bad and wrong 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
and constructive. The hurt you feel when you realize the hurt you have unwittingly inflicted -- unintentional 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
it will give you more strength than you realize. It will foster a healthy and constructive attitude 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
think and react according to the vicious circle; realize that it is hidden. It will be up 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
you freedom and victory. Most of my friends realize that an illogical way of thinking, feeling, and 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
compulsive conscience are irrational, unreal, and impossible to realize, and since you believe, behind your wall of 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
so- called punishment. It is too proud to realize that you simply cannot be perfect yet. It 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
lifting these emotional reactions into consciousness can you realize this. Then you will become aware, point by 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
But you will regard it differently when you realize what I am saying here. Whenever you suffer 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
trying to eliminate your own. You do not realize your error because you see your own case 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
attitude in time. If you truly want to realize this all-important truth, you can protect yourself from 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
the only solution is to turn about and realize that first you must change before you can 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
you must go through the stage where you realize that you cannot be objective in certain areas 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
my opinion is such and such, but I realize it is subjective, and therefore I take it 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
your progress in self-recognition on this path you realize that a certain behavior on your part, being 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
greater influence on your inner growth than you realize. Or it may be another relative or a 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
a subtle way, this is sometimes the case. Realize that the hitherto suppressed wrong concepts and ideas 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
awareness of them in your surface consciousness, but realize that they are false. Formulate the right concept 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
your thinking as quickly as you would like: Realize that your emotions need time to adjust, while 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
you will come to see truth. You will realize that you are not ever a prey to 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
must finally come to the point where they realize that they themselves determine their misery or bliss 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
humanity, which colors one's attitude to life. I realize it is very difficult for you to grasp 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
noble courage for this path of light should realize that every one of your efforts helps us 53 SELF-LOVE
vision and understanding, so that you will fully realize that an advantage to you that at the 53 SELF-LOVE
it will automatically reduce your distorted self-love. I realize this is slippery ground, my friends. Those of 53 SELF-LOVE
so. Again, no rule can be set up. Realize that you are often called upon to make 53 SELF-LOVE
evil, white and black. Decisions can hurt people. Realize that the person who is hurt does not 53 SELF-LOVE
considered just as much as anyone else. I realize that I am a limited human being and 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
stagnation, putrefaction, lifelessness, inertia. It is important to realize that every soul is governed by these three 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
must come to a point when you finally realize that the direction you have taken is wrong 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
yourself in motion. And you may not even realize the necessity for it because in that state 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
It is no contradiction, my friends, although I realize it is extremely difficult for you to understand 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
with only part of your personality. You will realize that no one but you prohibits the fulfillment 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
automatically eliminate a certain degree of self-destructiveness. I realize that those friends who are not active on 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
truly understand what I am saying, you would realize that these impersonal laws are kind and completely 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
impersonally for all alike. If you would but realize the significance of this, the terrible God-image people 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
clearly. Have the further honesty and wisdom to realize that growth occurs slowly. Use and cherish the 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
untruth, that would be fine. But do you realize what truth is at all times? You have 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
problems in an entirely new light. You will realize that many of your difficulties need never exist 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
better. Then a point will come where you realize that your wrong concept is useless and harmful 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
that they are useful or protective. Once you realize that this is not so, you will no 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
are very important. ANSWER: I wonder whether you realize consciously to what degree this is important for 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
outer condition. As long as one does not realize the basic facts of the soul, as you 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
outer happenings that heretofore seemed arbitrary. Once you realize how much you fear giving up Utopia in 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
a creativity you never dreamed possible. Once you realize what I say here, once it is your 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
you rather than to enslave you. You will realize that you have nothing to be afraid of 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
true, not in the sense I mean. I realize, my friends, this seems like an utter contradiction 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
the knowledge of the complete picture will he realize that the momentary destruction is an integral part 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
a greater or lesser extent. The sooner you realize the inevitability of deviation from truth anywhere on 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
properly. You can understand this only if you realize that one life is but a small part 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
it originally comes from the divine source. I realize that this is a hard subject to explain 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
cases only to simplify matters? ANSWER: You must realize that we have many difficulties to overcome. The 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
certainly do not blame any of you. We realize that that is human. Many things will appear 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
I must suppress all desires. You do not realize that as they are driven out they continue 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
free choice can be made only after you realize that the unselfish act is to your advantage 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
larger issues are more important. Little do you realize that, in truth and reality, your inner deviations 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you only if you first permit yourself to realize that these questions and fears exist in you 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
a wrong conclusion, a misconception. Only when you realize fully that it is a misconception will you 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you suffer from it much more than you realize. The betrayal weighs you down with guilt. It 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
its significance, its origin, and so you will realize its very temporary effect. Actually, error, or sin 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
feel the effect of all this. ANSWER: I realize that the answer to this question is not 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
If the infant in you matures, you inevitably realize that you are your own master, that you 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
childhood situation is no longer valid. Once you realize this and apply it to your emotional life 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
have no right to govern yourself. Once you realize your right to self-government, others lose their power 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
standardize, which has more far-reaching effects than you realize. It also affects your own psyche by suppressing 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
say that your mind is wandering, you hardly realize the significance of this statement and the effect 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
levels, is much more important than you now realize. It is a mistake to separate this approach 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
as you learn from it, understand its reason; realize how you have brought it about, no matter 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
up this wrong way of searching, you would realize that the real you can be loved and 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
it soon, will find it very useful to realize what is behind it all. The compulsion to 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
-- and that is good. You will then realize that your fight for approval, to prove something 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
will contribute greatly toward your fulfillment. You will realize that it is not you who are too 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
from receiving what you should. Moreover, you will realize that your fight is completely useless. Nothing that 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
the value of the latter, but does not realize that you make it impossible to receive the 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
the solution of the problem. You will increasingly realize how subjective your emotions are, no matter how 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
your shortcomings and various weaknesses. You do not realize that with these very weaknesses you inadvertently hurt 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
affects others more strongly than you can possibly realize. It is easy to see that the effect 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
a much stronger degree than you can possibly realize now, you are bound gradually to change these 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
elements and attitudes, slowly but surely. You will realize that you can never receive the exclusive, unreasonable 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
alive may be behind the ritual. They would realize this if they were but willing to think 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to the particular ways of the other, and realize that it is unnecessary to mold the person 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
too numerous to discuss at this point. To realize how you create unreality, you must begin by 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
to a large degree, that they do not realize where they are in unreality. But then, people 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
you are much more valuable than you can realize at the moment, provided you do them in 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
of things to do that are more important. Realize the preposterous illusion of that emotion. By observing 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
you, you can reason with it. You will realize that this misconception of love has nothing whatever 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
no longer be afraid to love. When you realize that love does not mean giving up dignity 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
you withdraw altogether. With growing maturity you will realize that you can only reach the final fulfillment 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
a stronghold and security such as you cannot realize even now after all your progress. Again I 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
forcing the subconscious, instead of allowing us to realize what is in it. I am sure it 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
expression of your inner will. While you may realize perfectly well that certain of your emotions cannot 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
shift the responsibility to the rule. When you realize that there is no such thing as a 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
Once you can synchronize these two pains and realize that they are one and the same, the 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
provocation of the other person. Thus you will realize that because you were provoked, you provoke the 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
your own, even if and when you actually realize that you initiated the provocation. As you gain 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
want to call it that. If you then realize that it is you who have caused it 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
else arises from that. You also have to realize that there is a further goal beyond the 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
that you are emotionally not yet there. Also realize that secluded happiness is impossible. The separating wall 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
You feel endangered without it. You do not realize that in desiring to keep your separating wall 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
approach the problem in this way, you will realize that in a prayer of this kind there 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
are on a downward curve, you do not realize that this downward curve is a step higher 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
than the present downward curve, you do not realize that this downward curve is a step higher 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
the less this is possible. People may not realize this fear consciously at all. Consciously they may 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
no life in you? ANSWER: Of course, you realize, my friends, that this saying is entirely symbolic 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
You cannot do so if you do not realize where, why and how you have failed. Compare 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
to particularly concentrate in the next semester. I realize that this comparison is inadequate, but in some 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
only most of the time you do not realize it. You make no use of it and 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
have not found this current, and do not realize what a fundamental aspect this is, may be 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
therefore the life stream. Only then will you realize how this stream provides you with exactly what 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
bending to the will of others. They never realize that they are just as dependent as the 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
and the intensity of your feelings. When you realize this, you may be quite shocked. If after 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
and false recognitions. In the former, you hardly realize what it is you seek and find at 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
and first question would be, why? Once you realize that you want to have such resentments, it 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
this sort you make, the better you can realize the true meaning of self- responsibility and of 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
your own inner law. And in that you realize the glory of God's love and wisdom. The 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
accomplished, frustration accrues because the person does not realize that he or she is not really doing 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
damage you in your blind struggle can you realize how much superfluous energy you put into the 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
blocked and blinded, just because you do not realize this pitfall. Then, if after further disharmonies and 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
finally bring you to the point where you realize, sometimes quite suddenly, that these emotions are false 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you find this hidden reasoning process, you will realize the pretense and its complete futility, and you 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
or later. Then, and then only, will you realize how much I have told you now. But 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to develop ourselves, whether or not we can realize certain ambitions. But he still wants to attain 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you advance in this work, the more you realize how your unresolved problems, conflicts, deviations and images 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
of some obstruction's temporary darkness. We come to realize that we must encounter all kinds of obstacles 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
cooperation on the physical level will make you realize that mental, emotional, and spiritual subsistence is necessarily 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
disharmony, unhappy, and hopeless. You seldom, if ever, realize for a moment that all the outer events 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
dependency and need rather than by true communication. Realize this, my friends, and as you look within 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
so much. Many of you fail even to realize that you do want communication. Rejections have made 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
necessary all the way through, in order to realize when a little truth corresponds with the great 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
unchaneled and primitive instincts if I wanted to realize my pleasure drive. But, on the other hand 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
idealized self-image as a universal pseudo-protection. They never realize that this very countermeasure not only does not 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
dictates of the idealized self are impossible to realize, and yet you never give up the attempt 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
tyranny of the worst order. You do not realize the impossibility of being as perfect as your 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
not. Even if it is, you do not realize the entire significance, the impossibility of what you 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
idealized self. Then, and then only, will you realize the tremendous self-punishment you inflict upon yourself. For 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
you have detected its existence. Some of you realize how much energy it takes. At first all 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
own inner conflicts and pseudo-solutions. They do not realize that any pseudo-solution produces an unhealthy dependence on 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
inability to express themselves adequately. They do not realize that strain, tiredness, and vague anxiety result from 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
gingerly at first, stop this process. You will realize that other resentments are altogether unfounded. No rule 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
through this. Then, and only then, will you realize how worthwhile this process is. You will then 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
emphasis has been more psychological. Although you all realize by now that true spiritual development cannot occur 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
adopted. But in the last analysis you will realize that you must apply spiritual values, which up 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
succeed and is bound to crumble. When you realize that you cannot live up to these goals 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
is proven wrong, whether or not you consciously realize it, you become more frustrated, and an inner 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
that is more harmful than you now can realize. You cripple yourself with this hidden attitude. And 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
and understand certain emotional behavior patterns, you will realize how preposterous they are; how incompatible with your 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
to you a vital protection. You do not realize that not only do you miss out on 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
as much as you are capable of feeling? Realize that it is you who caused this state 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
distinguish between constructive and destructive aims, try to realize the purpose of exposing your emotions, and then 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
the fallacy, you will be destroyed. You never realize that this is the first necessary step to 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
step in your development will be that you realize that your own lack of understanding causes the 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION

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